True Love Signs-How to Tell if it’s True Love or Lust

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Is is true love or simple physical attraction and lust? What are true love signs for Christian singles dating? How do you know you’ve found your “true love” of a life time? Whether your relationship began in person or online thru a site like Eharmony this article may help

Is It True Love?

The following true love prerequisites will help you gauge whether or not this person is “the one”:

True Love: The relationship causes both parties to grow closer to Jesus

True Love: There is implicit trust and no fear of being vulnerable

True Love: The couple has great communication with each other

True Love: Neither party doubts the truthfulness of the other

True Love: True love waits for sexual intimacy. Intense physical
attraction, but neither party defrauds the other (1 Thes. 4:6,7)

True Love: When there are disagreements (if you never had any, someone’s
not being real), the daters have learned how to argue,
but still remain close

True Love: There is no jealousy or controlling behavior.

True Love: Family members and friends confirm and approve of the dating relationship.

Closing True Love Thoughts

Of course, the above is not an exhaustive list of true love signs, but is useful in helping singles assess the potential of a true love match.

Is there such a thing as one true love, or can there be a number of “true loves” in one’e life?

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SoulMate? Discovering Your Christian Soulmate Podcast

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Have you discovered your soulmate? Most Christian singles who visit Christian Dating Service PLUS! are interested in finding that special soulmate or dating match that will lead toward marriage.

Do You Have a Soulmate?

Our featured Christian dating podcast this week comes from The Journey Church was founded by Pastor Nelson Searcy and is a contemporary Christian church located in Manhattan, New York City. In today’s church podcast, Pastor Kerrick Thomas helps us answer the question: Do I have a soulmate?

Each week Christian Dating Service PLUS! broadcasts a different podcast/MP3 with Christian singles messages, music or video. This week the topic is soulmates; however, we will podcast any topic related to the Christian single life.

Since we reach thousands of singles each week, let us help you expand your outreach by sending us your church’s or Christian singles group’s message, music or video. We will convert your tapes or CDs into an MP3 format, and podcast it for free over the web with a link back to your site. For more info about this, please feel free to contact us.

Finally, feel free to share your comments or thoughts about soulmates.

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Dating Match: Are You Dating Your Match?

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Dating match? When most Christian singles use the term, “dating match“, they are referring to a soul mate, that person with whom they feel they can spend the rest of their lives. Many have the following question when it comes to the topic of a dating match:

• How do I go about finding my dating match?

This is an important dating question, which doesn’t come with any easy answers. However, if you are seeking your dating match, the following may help you along in the process.

Dating Match Checklist

Dating Match Tip 1: Get Your Own Stuff Together

This must be your first step toward finding your dating match. You’ve probably heard it before: “Before you can attract the right person (your dating match), you have to be the right person.” It sounds corny and old, but it’s really true. Think about it. If you don’t know who you are as far as what makes you tick, and/or you’re not comfortable with who are, are you in any condition to meet your dating match? Don’t even go there. You already know the answer.

Dating Match Tip 2: Cast Your Vision

This means envisioning your dating match by making a list of attributes of what you’re looking for in a dating match including looks, emotional make-up, spiritutal maturity, age, occupation, location, etc. Include your family and friends as you gather data because they will ensure realistic objectivity.

Dating Match Tip 3: Pursue Your Goal, Taking Risks by Faith

Your goal is to meet your dating match of a lifetime. Although there are many ways single Christians can meet each other, oftentimes this entails putting ourselves in a vulnerable position. If this includes using an online Christian dating service, make sure you do it the right way. As a side note, if you’re confused over the issue of how one can wait on the Lord and pursue your dating match goal simultaneously, read this.

In a forthcoming article, we will share how you will know it when you are dating your match. Are you a Christian single with something to share regarding your dating match?

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