Life as a single Christian can be confusing with all the different single dating and spiritual advice floating around.生活作为一个单一的基督教可能会造成困惑与各种不同的单一的约会和精神的意见左右浮动。 I mean just do a Google search on “single dating tips” or “singles advice”, and you will find millions of results!我的意思只是做了在Google上搜索“单约会贴士”或“单打意见” ，你会发现以百万计的结果！
A Single Dating Message from the Heart一个单一的交友讯息，从心
This week our Christian Pod-cast comes from这个星期我们的基督教荚果铸态来自 McLane Church in Edinburg, Pennsylvania (PA), mclane教会在edinburg ，宾夕法尼亚（ PA ）的， with Pastor Brian Kelly speaking on “How to Live a Successful Single Life”, especially in the area of single dating.与牧师布赖恩凯利在谈到“如何活一个成功的单身生活” ，特别是在该地区的单身约会。
It doesn’t matter what kind of single Christian you are (single-never married,不要紧，什么样的单一基督教你是（单从未结婚， single parent单亲 or divorced), this message will be uplifting and relevant for where you are right now.或已离婚） ，此讯息将向上和有关你身在何处的权利。
Related Articles on Single Dating: 相关文章就单一约会：
Christian Singles Dating基督教单打约会
Christian Singles Dating and Remaining Single基督教单打约会，其余的单
Singles and Loneliness单打和孤独
Anger at Being Single愤怒的单身
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Have you ever dated a control freak?你有过时的控制怪胎？ While we’re on the topic, are you a control freak?同时，我们正在就这一专题，你是控制怪胎？ Yes, even Christian singles can be control freaks.是的，甚至连基督教单打可以控制怪胎。 Control freaks can be both male and female, and at first can come across as quite appealing.控制怪胎既可以是男性和女性，并在第一次可以接触到相当的吸引力。 However, as the dating relationship progresses a control freak will intensify his or her acting out until it becomes overwhelming for the other partner.然而，由于交友关系的进展，一个控制怪胎将加大他或她的代理，直到它成为压倒性为其他合作伙伴。 Control freaks make for horrible控制怪胎，让可怕的 Christian marriage基督教婚姻 partners.合作伙伴。 Unfortunately, it’s very difficult to spot “a freak” early on in the不幸的是，它是非常困难的，以现货“怪胎”早在 courtship or dating process.求爱或约会的过程。 Yet, understanding some of the signs of a control freak can help singles avoid getting burned in the long run.然而，了解一些迹象控制怪胎可以帮助单打避免烧伤，在长远而言。 Who needs the pain, right?谁需要的痛苦，对不对？
Control Freak Signs控制怪胎的迹象
In considering whether or not you are dating a control freak, consider the following questions:在考虑是否或不你约会控制怪胎，考虑下列问题：
- Is he or she是他或她 overly jealous过于嫉妒 and or possessive?和或占有？
- Does your date like to take charge by planning all the details of your dates?请问您的日期想借由负责规划的所有细节您的日期？
- Does he or she always know best about what you need to read, eat, see, wear, or hear?是否他或她始终是最清楚什么您需要阅读，吃饭，看，穿，或听到？
- Is it difficult to express your own beliefs or opinions around your date?是难以表达自己的信仰或意见，围绕您的日期？
- Does he or she always need to dominate a conversation?是否他或她总是需要支配的谈话呢？
- (Specially for Christian single women) Does he insist on you （特别是基督教单身女性） ，他是否坚持对你 submitting提交 to him as your spiritual leader even though you are not married?他作为您的精神领袖，即使你不结婚？
The bottom line is control freaks like to be in charge.底线是控制怪胎一样，必须在负责。 If you answered “yes” to one or more of the above questions, you are probably dealing with the control freak.如果您回答“是”一种或一种以上的上述问题，你很可能是处理与控制怪胎。 You may also want to consider whether or not you in fact are a victim in an您可能还需要考虑是否有或没有你，其实是一个受害者，在一 abusive relationship.受虐待的关系。
Are you a single Christian with something to share about control freaks?你是一个单一的基督教与分享一些关于控制怪胎？
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Compatibility Love Test-Are You Compatible with Your Date?兼容性爱测试-你是否与您的日期？
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys基督教单身女孩谁日期坏人
Return to Christian-Dating-Service-PLUS Home 返回到基督教-约会服务加首页
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Perhaps one of the greatest fears single Christians face is the fear of being alone .也许是一个最大的恐惧单一基督徒面对的是害怕被单独 。 Some of us fear being alone as we contemplate the possibility of growing我们当中有些人害怕被独自在我们的可能性越来越 lonely孤独的 , old and sick. ，旧和病假。 I know of one据我所知，一 single gal单半乳糖 who actually works herself into an究竟是谁的工程自己成为一个 anxiety attack焦虑攻击 as she thinks about the fear of being alone.她认为，对于害怕被单独。 Yet, she paradoxically also has a然而，矛盾的她也有一个 fear of commitment害怕承诺 . 。 Go figure.去的数字。
The idea of simply not finding a lifelong,的想法根本无法找到一个终身， true love relationship真正的爱情关系 is a very real fear.是一个非常真实的恐惧。 Sometimes this fear of being alone can makes us think and do some crazy stuff.有时，这种害怕被单独可以使我们觉得做一些疯狂的东西。 I should know cause I’ve been there, and done that years ago.我要知道的原因我已经在那里，这样做多年前。
Fear of Being Alone Christian Pod-cast害怕被单独基督教荚果铸态
Do you or some other single Christian you know suffer from the fear of being alone?你或其他一些单一的基督教你知道受苦从害怕被单独？ If so, today’s church pod-cast will be an uplifting encouragement to you.如果是的话，今天的教会荚果铸态将是一个向上的鼓励，给你。 Pastor Ron Edmonson of Grace Community Church in Clarksville, Tennessee (TN)牧师罗恩edmonson的宽限期社区教会在clarksville ，田纳西州（田纳西州） , speaks about this fear of being alone, and very relevant for Christian dating singles. ，谈到这害怕被单独，也很有关基督教约会单打。 Enjoy!享受！
Feel free to share your thoughts on the fear of being alone觉得免费分享您的想法，就害怕被单独
Related to Fear of Being Alone : 有关害怕被单独 ：
Contentment Living the Christian Single Life知足的生活基督教单身生活
Fear of Love and Dating Singles恐惧爱和约会单打
Fears That Keep Men and Women Single担心，保持男性和女性的单
Anger at Being Single-Dealing With Anger in Relationships愤怒正在单处理的愤怒关系
How to Pray for Your Dating Match如何祈祷，为您的约会匹配
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Every dating relationship, including Christian dating ones, is a give and take proposition.每一个约会的关系，包括基督教约会 ，是一种给予，并采取命题。 In a way, a Christian dating relationship is sort of like a social contract.在某种程度上，是一个基督教约会的关系是有点像社会契约。 Each Christian dating partner has certain inalienable rights, but also an obligation to treat their Christian dating girlfriend or boyfriend the same way they would like to be treated.每一个基督教约会的伙伴，具有一定的不可剥夺的权利，但也有义务善待基督教约会女朋友或男朋友同样的方式，他们想处理。 that is the “Golden Rule” after all, right?这是“金科玉律”毕竟，对不对？ Christian dating relationships invariably fail when one person violates the rights of the other.基督教约会关系总是失败时，一人违反了人权的其他。
Understanding what your Christian dating rights are may help you avoid entering or staying in a dating relationship with some jerk, while at the same time helping you enjoy your dating experience to the max.了解您的基督徒约会的权利是可以帮助您避免进入或停留在一个约会的关系，与一些挺举，而在同一时间，帮助您享受您的约会经验，以最大。
Christian Dating Rights基督教约会权利
Christian Dating Right 1: 基督教约会的权利1 ：
You have the right to be told the truth by your Christian dating “soul-mate”.您有权利被告知真相，由您的基督徒约会“的灵魂- ” 。 You will find liars online and offline, but you won’t have to put up with this garbage if you know你会发现说谎者在线和离线，但你不会要忍受这个垃圾，如果你知道 the signs of a liar迹象说谎者 . 。 See this Christian dating article if you think you may be看到这个基督教约会的文章，如果您认为自己可能会 dating a married person.约会已婚人士。
Christian Dating Right 2: 基督教约会权2 ：
You have a right not be abused in any way (physically, emotionally or spiritually) by your girlfriend or boyfriend, but to be treated with the utmost respect.你有权利不被滥用以任何方式（身体，情绪或精神上的）您的女朋友或男朋友，但需要治疗，以最大的尊重。 Unfortunately, many Christian daters, especially women, stay in不幸的是，许多基督教daters ，特别是妇女，留在 abusive relationships虐待关系 because they don’t know the difference.因为他们不知道的差异。
Christian Dating Right 3: 基督教约会权3 ：
You have the right to disagree and have own opinions and beliefs as equal Christian dating single.你有权不同意，并有自己的意见和信念作为平等的基督教约会单。 Some couples fail in this area because they either don’t know有些夫妇未能在这方面，因为他们不是不知道 how to disagree and argue constructively如何不同意，并辩称，建设性的 , or one person tries to “lord it over the other.” In line with this thought, and contrary to some Christian guys’ beliefs, a Christian girlfriend is under no obligation to be submissive to her Christian boyfriend. ，或一人尝试“勋爵，它比其他”在符合这个思想，相反，一些基督教家伙'的信念，是一个基督教的女朋友是没有义务要顺从她的基督教男朋友。 Learning to be mutually submissive is key to any relationship, including a Christian marriage.学习，相互顺从的关键是无任何关系，其中包括一名基督教婚姻。
Christian Dating Right 4: 基督教约会的权利4 ：
You have the right to您有权利 break up from your Christian dating relationship.打破从您的基督徒约会的关系。
Christian Dating Right 5: 基督教约会的权利5 ：
You have a right to outside of your friend’s sphere of influence.你有权利以外的您朋友的势力范围。 Co-dependency has no place in合作的依赖并没有发生在 a healthy Christian dating relationship一个健康的基督徒约会的关系 . 。
If you are a single Christian with your own thoughts Christian dating, please feel free to share your thoughts in order to help others.如果你是一个单一的基督教与自己的思想，基督教约会，请随时分享您的想法，以帮助他人。
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Dating Tips for Attracting Mr or Miss Right约会贴士吸引先生或小姐的权利
Christian Dating Truths基督教约会的真理
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Do you need to gain self confidence for您是否需要得到自我的信心 asking someone out on a date?有人要求列于一个日期？ Some have lost that “confident dating” edge because they have just suffered through a failed long term relationship, and wonder if it’s worth the risk of getting一些已失去“信心约会”的优势，因为他们刚刚经历了一个失败的长期关系，不知是否值得一提的风险越来越 heart broken心脏破裂 or hurt again.或伤害。 Instead of approaching dating with a confident and expectant outlook as they wait on God, they而不是接近约会，与一个自信和期待视野，他们就等待上帝，他们 approach relationship possibilities with fear做法关系的可能性与恐惧 and和 anxiety焦虑 . 。
Whatever your reason for a need to gain self confidence, remember you’re not alone.无论你的理由需要获得自信，请记住您并不孤单。 Many singles wonder how they can gain more confidence许多单打，难怪他们如何能够获得更多的信心 meeting Christian singles会议基督教单打 . 。 In truth, confident dating begins internally, within our own hearts, and works out from there.在真理，有信心，约会开始在国内，在我们自己的心，及工务局指出，从有。 If we’re already screwed up, we’re not going to gain self confidence by getting into a dating relationship.如果我们已经拧了，我们无法去获得自我的信心越来越成为一个约会的关系。 This won’t “fix” your lack of self confidence, but rather make matters worse.这将不是“修正”你缺乏自信，而是会使事情弄得更糟。 Believe me on this one.相信我就这一个。
3 Keys in Order to Gain Self Confidence for Christian Dating三键，以获得自我的信心，为基督教约会
Gain Self Confidence for dating with a peaceful and stable life. 获得自信心，为约会，与一个和平与稳定的生活。
In order to determine how well you do here ask yourself the following:以确定如何，以及你在这里做的问问自己以下：
Have you made peace with yourself and God?你提出的和平与自己和上帝吗？ Only Jesus can make our hearts truly at peace and confident with the world around us.只有耶稣可以使我们的心真正的和平与信心，与我们周围的世界。 If you don’t know this truth, I’d like to share如果您不知道这个真理，我想要分享 God’s wonderful plan for your life上帝的奇妙计划，为您的生活
Have you been able to你能 make peace with your past使和平与您的过去 , including all the shame and emotional baggage that goes along with a failed relationship? ，包括所有的耻辱和情绪的行李认为，云随着一个失败的关系？
Do you have stable place to live, and a steady job?你是否有稳定的居住地方，和稳健的工作呢？ Many single guys lack confidence with asking out girls on a date because they don’t have a viable form of employment.很多单亲家伙缺乏信心与要求列女孩上的日期，因为他们没有一个可行的就业形式。 Christian single moms基督教单身妈妈 also struggle in this area, and feel less desirable because of financial debt.也斗争在这方面，觉得少可取的，因为金融债务。
Gain Self Confidence for dating by knowing your dating match. 获得自信心，为约会知道您的约会匹配。
Knowing the kind of person you want to attract is important for a number of reasons.知道什么样的人你想吸引是很重要的几个原因。 First off, if you know what you’re looking for, it makes it easier and quicker to find.首先，如果你知道你要找的，它使更容易和更快地找到。 Our suggestion is to write down all of the qualities you are looking for in a potential mate.我们的建议是写下来，所有的素质，您正在寻找在一个潜在的伴侣。 Then那么 begin praying for him or her开始祈祷，为他或她 . 。
Gain self confidence for dating by having a hopeful plan. 获得自信心，为约会，由一个充满希望的计划。
The Bible says the people perish for lack of vision.圣经说，人亡缺乏远见。 A well prayed over and thought out plan of action brings confidence and hope.良好的祈祷，并经过深思熟虑的行动计划，带来了信心和希望。
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Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date吸引的权利，男人还是女人，以日期
Meet Attractive Christian Singles满足吸引力基督教单打
Christian Relationship Advice for Singles基督教关系的意见，为单打
Fear of Being Alone as Single Christians害怕被单独作为单一基督徒
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Christian dating can be both wonderful and frustrating at the same time. 基督教约会既可以是美好的和令人沮丧的在同一时间内。 There are so many different voices out there expounding their beliefs about Christian dating.有这么多不同的声音，有阐述了他们的信仰基督教约约会。 Some of the voices out there are asking questions like: “一些声音出来，有发问，想： “ Should we choose courtship over Christian dating?我们应选择求爱超过基督教约会？ ” “What are the “ ”究竟是什么 signs of a good Christian dating relationship?”的迹象，一个良好的基督教约会关系“ ？ “If I can’t find a date through friends and church, “如果我不能找到一个日期，通过朋友和教会， how would I go about trying out a Christian dating service?”如何，我会去尝试一个基督教约会服务“ ？
Christian Dating Teaching基督教约会教学
So what are your views about Christian dating?因此，你有什么看法，基督教约会？ If you’re looking for some solid teaching on Christian dating, the following Christian pod-cast from the Journey Church* speaks about the present dating culture.如果您正在寻找一些坚实的教学对基督教约会，以下基督教荚果铸态从旅程教会*谈到目前的交友文化。 You will definitely be uplifted by this message, which hits on the real purpose of dating.你一定会提高，由这个讯息，其中的点击次数的真正目的，约会。 After all, there’sa between毕竟，有之间 meeting attractive Christian singles会议有吸引力的基督教单打 and finding the并寻找 true love of your life真正的爱情你的生活 . 。
Enjoy our church pod-casts!享受我们的教会吊舱-演员！ If you have a Christian dating or singles related message you would like converted and pod-casted on our Christian dating site,如果您有一个基督教约会或单打相关讯息，你想转换和POD浇在我们的基督教交友网站， please just let us know请让我们知道 . 。 Blessings!祝福！
Note : The Journey Church has some awesome Christian singles groups, and serves New York City and the surrounding boroughs including Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island and Long Island. 注 ：征途教会有一些可怕的基督教单打组，并提供新的纽约市及周边行政区，包括曼哈顿，布鲁克林，皇后区，史泰登岛和长岛。
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One of the goals of this Christian Singles Ministry is to connect single Christians with local churches, Christian singles groups or para-church organizations in their local area.的目标之一，这基督教单打部 ，是连接单基督徒与当地教会，基督教单打团体或准教会组织在他们的地方。 Why?为什么？ At Christian Dating Service PLUS !在基督教约会服务加上 ！ we believe fellowship with other Christians through a Christian singles ministry is essential for spiritual growth.我们相信，金与其他基督徒透过基督教单打部是必不可少的属灵成长。
Many single Christians have contacted us looking for a good Christian singles ministry to plug into, because they have had trouble locating one.许多单身基督徒接触过我们在寻找一个良好的基督教单打部插入，因为他们有麻烦定位1 。 We know there are many great Christian singles ministries out there, but maybe aren’t publicized as well as they could be.我们知道有很多伟大的基督教单打部委有，但也许是没有宣传，以及他们可以。 That’s where we can help.这也就是我们可以提供帮助。
Publicizing Your Christian Singles Ministry宣传您基督教单打部
Our fast growing site attracts thousands of single Christians on a daily basis.我们快速增长的网站吸引了成千上万的单一基督徒对每日的基础。 So if you have a church with Christian singles ministries like Christian singles groups, singles mixers, college and career groups or para-church and campus ministries, feel free to因此，如果您有一个教会与基督教单打部委一样，基督教单打团体，单打调音台，学院和职业团体或第教会和校园部委，随时欢迎 post them with us后他们与我们 . 。 How will singles get involved with your single Christian ministry if they don’t know about it?如何将单打介入与您的单一的基督教部，如果他们不知道它呢？ Nowadays, singles are much more likely to search online rather than through the Yellow Pages .如今，单打是更容易线上搜寻，而非透过黄页 。
Additionally, if you have an article or press release about your Christian singles ministry, become an author with us and we’ll publish your stuff and drive folks to your ministry and site.此外，如果您有一篇文章或新闻发布关于您的基督教单打部，成为作者与我们，我们将发布您的东西和驱动器的乡亲到您部和网站。
The bottom line is, we have a heart for底线是，我们有一个心脏 singles, who are the most unchurched demographic in the world,单打金牌，谁是最不去教会的人口在世界上， and want your Christian singles minsitry to grow.并希望您基督教单打minsitry增长。
Christian Dating Service PLUS!基督教约会服务加上！ Will List Christian Singles Group Ministries and Christian Dating Sites将列出基督教单打组部委和基督教的交友网站
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Nevada,New Hampshire,内华达，新罕布什尔， New Jersey新州 , ， New York新纽约 , New Mexico,North Carolina,North Dakota,Ohio,Oklahoma,Oregon, Pennsylvania,Puerto Rico,Rhode Island,South Carolina,South Dakota,Tennessee,Texas,Utah, Vermont,Virginia,Washington,West Virginia,Wisconsin,Wyoming ，新墨西哥，北卡罗来纳，北达科他州，俄亥俄州，俄克拉何马州，俄勒冈州，宾夕法尼亚州，波多黎各，罗得岛，南卡罗来纳州，南达科他州，田纳西，德克萨斯，犹他，佛蒙特，维吉尼亚州，华盛顿，西弗吉尼亚州，威斯康星州，怀俄明州
Christian Singles Groups and Ministries Around the World: 基督教团体和单打各部委世界各地：
Africa非洲
Asia亚洲
Australia-澳大利亚-
New South Wales, Queensland, South Australia, Tasmania, Victoria and Western Australia.新南威尔士州，昆士兰州，南澳大利亚，塔斯马尼亚州，维多利亚州和西澳大利亚州。
Canada加拿大
France法国
Germany德国
Great Britain伟大的英国
Ireland爱尔兰
Italy意大利
Russia俄罗斯
South America南美洲
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