Believe it or not, instead of dating issues the topic of relationship break ups takes up most of the mail we receive at Christian Dating Service Plus!相信它或不是，不是约会的问题，话题的关系，打破起伏占用了大部分的我们收到的邮件在基督教约会服务加上！ I guess the reason for this is that relationship break ups are one of the most painful experiences to endure, right up there with我猜想，原因是这种关系打破的UPS是最痛苦的经历，忍受，直至有同 unrequited love无偿的爱 . 。
The fact is, relationship breakups cause lots of事实上，关系碎裂的原因很多 heartbreak,心碎， even when we know it wasn’ta healthy relationship and we probably should have甚至当我们知道这不是健康的关系，我们大概应该有 dumped i倾倒i ta while back.电讯管理局局长，而回。 Why do relationship breakups cause so much pain?为什么这样做的关系，碎裂的原因这么多的痛苦？ It’s simple.它的特点是简便。 Whenever we invest our time, money and heart into someone it turns into major disappointment if a relationship breakup occurs.每当我们投资我们的时间，金钱和心脏有人到它会变成主要的失望，如果关系破裂的发生。
Relationship Break Ups cause singles to grieve loss in a number of ways:打破关系起伏的原因单打，以悲痛的损失在若干方面：
- A relationship break up means loss of friendship的关系，打破手段损失的友谊
- A relationship break up involves loss of a vision of “things that could have been”的关系，打破涉及损失的远见“的事情，可能已”
- A relationship break up could entail的关系，打破可能导致 loss of self esteem损失自尊
Overall, no one should go through the break up of a serious relationship without help.整体而言，任何人都不应通过打破一项严重的关系没有帮助。
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Do you ever get the “I feel lonely’ blues?你以往任何时候都得到“我感到孤独， '蓝调？ Although surrounded by people I still feel lonely at certain times.虽然周围的人我仍然感到孤独，在某些时候。 The fact is there are many lonely hearts out in the world: Lonely single moms, lonely men, lonely teens.事实是，有许多孤独之心指出，在世界上：寂寞的单身妈妈，寂寞的男人，寂寞的十几岁。
As同样地 singles loneliness and feeling lonely are all part of the territory单打孤独感和寂寞的感觉是所有领土的一部分， . 。 Worse yet, as we approach Christmas,更糟糕的是，当我们接近圣诞节， dealing with the holiday blues as singles处理与假日蓝调作为单打 often means fighting that “I feel lonely” and empty feeling.往往意味着战斗说： “我感到孤独”和空洞的感觉。
How to Deal with Loneliness the I Feel Lonely Thinking如何处理与孤独的我觉得孤独的思考
I have to say that this Christian podcast on loneliness from Pastor我必须指出，这基督教播客的孤独感就从牧师 Roy Worley罗伊worley of Faith Fellowship Church in New Lenox, Illinois (IL) in is a great start toward fighting those I feel lonely blues.信仰的教会团契在新lenox ，伊利诺伊州（金正日）在是一个很好的开始，对战斗力的那些我觉得寂寞的蓝调。
How do you deal with the I feel lonely feelings?你怎么处理与我觉得孤独的感受呢？
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Christian or not, first date etiquette can be tricky when it comes to knowing how to end a first date.基督教或没有，第一次约会礼仪，可棘手的，当谈到知道如何结束的第一次约会。 It’s hard to be dogmatic about first date etiquette for the simple reason that each first date is different from all others.它的努力被教条式的约的第一次约会礼仪为，理由很简单，每个第一次约会是不同于所有其他人。 However the following first date etiquette guidelines on how to end a first date may help.不过，以下的第一次约会礼仪指引，就如何结束的第一个日期可能的帮助。 For first date etiquette rules for first dates in general,对于第一次约会礼仪规则，第一，在一般的日期， please go here请继续在这里 . 。
First Date Etiquette for Ending a First Christian Date第一次约会礼仪结束的第一个基督教日期
- First date etiquette means being honest with your date.第一次约会礼仪，是指诚实与您的日期。 If you enjoyed your time, let them know it.如果您喜欢您的时间，让他们知道。
- Don’t lead them on if it was a不带领他们，如果这是一个 bad date坏的日期 . 。 Allowing them to believe you will see them again is cruel and unfair.让他们相信你会看到他们再次是残忍和不公平的。
- Holding hands in a word of prayer is intimate and appropriate etiquette for ending a good date.控股手中，在Word中的祈祷是亲密的和适当的礼仪结束了良好的日期。
- Saying goodnight with a gentle hug and kiss on the cheek is a sign of affection within the godly bounds of first date etiquette.说晚安与温柔拥抱和亲吻脸颊是一个迹象，感情与正直的范围，第一次约会的基本礼节。
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One of the most important things we teach singles in our parent education classes is learning how to forgive their mates or previous dating partners.其中最重要的事情是我们教导单打在我们的家长教育班，是学习如何原谅他们的伴侣或以前约会的合作伙伴。 Yea, that includes learning how to forgive a jerk,雅，包括学习如何原谅一挺举， abuser施虐者 or user.或用户。 Why?为什么？ Learning how to forgive speeds the healing process学习如何原谅的速度愈合过程 , and prepares for future, ，并准备在未来， healthy boyfriend/girlfriend dating relationships健康男友/女友约会关系 . 。 Conversely, a lack of forgiveness brings bitterness and additional suffering.反过来说，缺乏宽恕带来的痛苦和额外的痛苦。
Learning How to Forgive Podcast学习如何原谅播客
Don Henley of Eagles fame sings about the need for forgiving and forgiveness in his song by the same name.唐亨利的鹰名利唱约需要原谅和宽恕，在他的歌曲相同的名称。 Yet, some Christian singles simply do not want to forgive others for past hurts.但是，一些基督教单打，根本不想原谅别人对过去的伤害。 Instead of而不是 making peace with the past使和平与过去 , they prefer to hold grudges. ，他们宁愿举行的恩怨。 But as our Christian podcast of the week speaker states: “Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person who hurt us gets sick.”但由于我们的基督教播客的周议长国： “持有grudge是像喝毒药，希望其他人伤害了我们此病” 。
What about those folks who want to forgive, but are confused as to what that means or how to actually forgive a past hurt?有什么关于这些乡亲要原谅，但混淆，以什么样的手段或如何，其实原谅过去的伤害呢？ I do believe the following Church podcast on learning how to forgive will minster to you, and answer all questions in this difficult area.我相信下面的教会podcast的学习如何原谅，将大教堂，向你们并回答所有的问题在这困难的领域。
In closing, I would really hate to leave this topic without speaking to those who are desperate for forgiveness and are living with intense在结束之前，我真的不想离开这个话题没有谈到那些绝望的宽恕和生活与激烈 guilt有罪 . 。 If you don’t know God offers you total forgiveness and brand new start in life, please read how如果您不知道上帝为您提供的总宽恕和崭新的人生开端，请参阅如何 you can have forgiveness and peace with Him right now.你可以宽恕与和平与他现在的权利。
Have a forgive me poem or something to share about learning how to forgive?有一个原谅我的诗或一些分享关于学习如何原谅？
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Single Chat? No, by using the term “single chat” we are not talking about the many 单一聊天？没有，使用“单聊天： ”我们现在谈的不是很多 single chat rooms单一的聊天室 out there on the internet.有在互联网上。 What we are referring to is single chat message for single Christians regarding the trials and tribulations of single life.我们所指的是单一的聊天讯息为单身基督徒关于磨难的单身生活。
It’s not easy这并不容易 living alone独居 as a godly Christian single in today’s world.作为一个正直的基督教单在今天的世界。 Many of us feel pressure on all sides.我们很多人感到压力，各方面的。 Others have written us telling of their其他的书面我们告诉他们的 heartbreak伤心 , ， guilt有罪 and和 discouragement气馁 . 。 Well, the following “single chat” church podcast is one of the most compassionate and helpful messages I’ve heard on the issues facing single Christians today.好，下面的“单一聊天”教会的播客是其中一个最值得同情的和有用的讯息，我听说过对面临的问题，单一的基督徒今天。
Single Chat Podcast单播客聊天
This Christian podcast of the week is brought to us from Pastor Matt Keller of the Next Level Church, out of Fort Myers, Florida (FL).这个基督教播客的一周内，是带给我们的由牧师马特凯勒的下一级教堂，出于对迈尔斯堡，佛罗里达州（佛罗里达州） 。 Talk about passion for singles!.谈论的热情单打！ Just download this single chat message and enjoy!只需下载这个单一的聊天信息和享受！
Do you have a Christian singles message or dating related mp3, wav file or CD you would like podcasted here at Christian Dating Service PLUS?你是否有基督教单打邮件或约会相关的MP3 ， WAV文件或CD您想podcasted在这里基督教约会服务加上？ Just let us know!只是让我们知道！
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Looking to find a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend.?展望找到一个基督教的男朋友或女朋友。吗？ Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights?你甚至可以当场良好的渔获量是一个基督教的男友或女友，当他们接触到您的目光呢？ Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs of a worthwhile Christian boyfriend or girlfriend:最近，几个单打坐下来与下列顶端七的迹象，值得基督教的男友或女友：
Top 7 Great Christian Boyfriend/Girlfriend Signs顶端7伟大的基督教男友/女友的迹象
- Jesus is the most important person in their lives . 耶稣是最重要的人在他们的生活 。 Remember, if a Christian girlfriend or boyfriend loves the Lord above all, she or he will also be able to love you with more passion and purity.请记住，如果一个基督徒女朋友或男朋友的爱上帝高于一切，她或他也将能够爱你更多的激情和纯洁性。
- They have a network of loving relationships. Jesus said we can identify people by the fruit of their lives. 他们有一个网络，爱好的关系。耶稣说：我们能辨认人的成果，他们的生命。 If your prospective Christian boyfriend or girlfriend has had dysfunctional or unloving relationships with most of the closest people around him (ie: parents, friend, ex-girlfriends, etc), what makes you think that your dating relationship will fare any better?如果您的准基督教的男友或女友已经失调或unloving的关系，大部分的最接近周围的人，他（即：父母，朋友，前女友等） ，是什么使你认为你约会的关系将票价任何更好吗？ Conversely, if the have great relationships already formed, you pretty much know you are dealing with the caring person capable of反过来说，如果有很大的关系已经形成，你非常知道你所处理的爱心人士能 commitment委托事项 and intimacy.与亲密感。
- They speak the truth in love. Many of us have had the unfortunate experience of dealing with boyfriends or girlfriends who are 他们讲真话，在爱。我们很多人都已经不幸的经验，处理与男友或女友的人 liars说谎者 and和 cheaters.作弊行为。 As we wrote elsewhere, the作为我们写信到其他地方， ideal soul mate理想的灵魂伴侣 will be be able to lovingly express the truth to you, even when it hurts.将能够慈爱表达真相给你，即使当它伤害。
- They don’t hold grudges . 他们没有举行的恩怨 。 1Corinthians 13:5 states love keeps no record of wrong.歌林多前书13时05分国爱不断没有记录错误的。 Fact is, we’re all gonna be needing事实是，我们都在哪里被需要 forgiveness宽恕 now and again in all our relationships.现在再次在我们的所有关系。 If your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend finds it hard to show forgiveness, and keep harping on wrongs done, chances are this is not the如果您的基督教男友或女友发现很难显示宽恕，并保持旧调重弹的是非曲直做，有机会，这是不是 dating match约会匹配 for you.给你。
- They love are faith-filled optimists and love having fun. Did you ever notice how contagious light-hearted people are? 他们的爱是信仰充满乐观和爱的乐趣。你有没有想过这样的通知是如何传染的轻心的人呢？ Life is hard at times, but hanging around a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend who empathizes the positive goes a long way.生活是很难在时代的，但挂在靠近一个基督教的男友或女友empathizes积极去了漫长的道路。
Have a tip on what makes a great Christian boyfriend or girlfriend?有一个秘诀就什么使一个伟大的基督教的男朋友或女朋友？
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