Dating Mistakes Girls Make

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Many Christian single girls make dating mistakes when they go on first dates with guys. Here we will take some time to discuss how to avoid makeing these dating mistakes.

So, you’ve set up your first date with him and you want everything to go perfect so it won’t be your last date as well. As you are on this date, keep the following 6 things in mind or your date could go seriously wrong.

1. Make sure that you don’t bring up any topics that can make him uncomfortable or uneasy. For example do not bring up your exes, or ask about his either. These topics can turn your date into a very uncomfortable situation.

2. Dress nicely. Depending on where you two are going, pick an appropriate outfit. Make sure that you look nice and clean. However, don’t wear anything too revealing because your date might get the wrong idea about you. Even though it isn’t right, guys tend to judge girls based on how they look.

3. Don’t hog the conversation. It’s important to talk, but make sure you listen as well. Try to both learn about each other’s lives and interests.

4. Do not talk about the future of your relationship. If this is your first date, or even early in the relationship, you may freak him out if you start talking about the future of the two of you being together. This is especially true if he has commitment phobia.

5 . If you feel that things are going very well, don’t be afraid to offer desert, coffee or something to keep the date going. If you let the date end prematurely, he may get the idea that you are not interested.

6. Don’t answer your cell phone unless it is very important. If you do, he may get the idea that you are not really interested in him. Also it can mess up the flow of conversation and make for uncomfortable times while he is waiting for you to get off the phone.

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Second Date Tips

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Woohoo! You made it to the second date because you didn’t blow it on the first date. So just what would one constitute a successful second date? The following second date tips come from several folks who have been there.

Your first date is really to see if you would like to keep seeing that person. Your second date is the time when the two of you start to open up and reveal your self to the other person. On the second date, instead of going for coffee or dinner try doing an activity that interests both of you. Ask your date what some of their favorite things to do are. For example: biking, fishing, cooking, seeing a band play, or gong to a movie. Asking your date what they like doing will make them feel good, and they will have a good time as well.

During your second date it is good to bring up topics that the two of you were talking about on the first date. This will show that you were paying attention and that you are interested in what they say. Remember what they said to you on the first date. For example: Did they mention that they had a project to do for work? Ask them how it went and if they finished it on time. If you remember what they said on the first date, and recall it on the second date, your date will start to connect with you in a positive way.

Remember not to dwell on mistakes that you may have made on the first date. If you know that the first impression that you made wasn’t as good as you wanted it to be, just focus on making the second date as good as it can be. For example: if you had a long day at work and were very tired during the first date, don’t fret it. Besides, both of you agreed on a second date, so you are both obviously still interested in each other. If you really feel like you acted in a poor way then apologize for how you acted and then get on with the second date!

During the second date, be sure to communicate with the other person. Tell them if you are having a great time or if you feel a strong connection. Its a good thing to express your emotions aloud because it shows the other person that you are opening up to them and then they will open up to you too. Even if it is very simple like “Hi. It’s so good to see you.” This it will show your date that they are important to you. Also find out how they are feeling. If they don’t open up to you right away, then ask them how they are feeling. Ask something like “What is on your mind?” Staying honest and open can really help the two of you connect.

While you are spending time with your date, do not hesitate to disagree with them. Of course, you are not trying to start an argument with them, however if you don’t disagree, then you are not being yourself. If you aren’t being yourself, then your date isn’t getting to know the real you and this will only lead to problems down the road. Remember to disagree gently.

For example: If you date says “I’ve seen every lord of the rings movie 20 times each” but you hate lord of the rings, reply in a nice way by saying something like “Yea, I’ve never been into Lord of the Rings. What do you like so much about it?” By saying this, you are both stating your opinion and showing interest in theirs. Remember that the more you know about each other, the better, stronger, and longer the relationship will be, and you’ll get beyond that second date.

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Christian Single Gives Dating Advice

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Many people feel that it is difficult to find Christian singles. However it is actually very easy no matter how old you are or how badly you want a relationship. Christian singles can be found everywhere. If you want to meet Christian singles, then look at church, school, or even online. You wont have to look hard at all to meet Christian singles around your area.

Church is obviously a great place to meet Christian singles. Get into a small group and you will be surprised to see how many Christian singles there actually are. When it comes to churches, Christian singles are very plentiful so if you are desperately searching for Christian singles, then go to church. Not only is church a great place to look, but so is school. If you attend a Christian school or university, then you will find many Christian singles who want relationships as well.

Another great place to meet Christian singles is the internet. Many Christian singles post their profiles on the internet and wait for responses from other Cristian singles. This is actually the best way to go if you are looking for a dating relationship because you can decide which people you are interested in before you even meet them or go on a date. You also have access to many singles all around the country. Of course make sure that the site that you are using is a good site.

The most important thing of all to remember s that God is always in control 100 percent of the time no matter what. God is the one who knows who your spouse is going to be and he also knows when and where you are going to meet that person. So always trust in God and follow him. He will lead you to the right person.

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