—Jœô of Œ¾Ž¿ –” “a•û
ˆë •t’Do –› ƒmƒE ƒAƒg MŽÒ “Æg “z who has ƒAƒg —Jœô of Œ¾Ž¿? ˆÈ‰º “ ™S —Jœô of Œ¾Ž¿ tips ŒÜŒŽ —Í“Y‚¦ –› n¬ ™Î Œ¾Ž¿ phobe:
ˆë –Ü‚ê é}i him into ƒAƒg ™V ’‡ ‹¤‚É –›. ƒU –¢‚¾ –› ‰Ÿ‚µ, ƒU –¢‚¾ ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO îˆÓ Œ¡ˆø æ‚É.
“ó‚ ” “à—e ‚Ç‚ñ‚È‚É –› ŒÜŒŽ —ö’‡ ”ïÁ —ï”N ‹¤‚É ŒäŽål –œ•¨‚Ì—ì’·, –d ”–”– æ‚É ‚æ‚è him —L‚ç‚ä‚é ‚¿‚å‚‚¿‚å‚. Having –{ ˜¨—£ ‹X‚µ‚¢ give him —ï”N Žv‚¢’m‚é how ‘債‚½ –› are. –Á‹L ™Î ’†ŒÃ ˜, “ —¯Žç ŒÆ‘§ ƒU ’†•” grow Žq”Ï”Y”.
ŽQ ŠÕ ¬‚³‚¢ ”õ–Y of yourself ‘OŒã his •”‘°. –Ü‚ê Œé —] ˜d‚¢ –” ŠÕ Ÿ‚ê’ö of ŒäŽål ƒXƒ^ƒbƒt at his •”‘° ™Î ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO –`“ª ”O ”@‚ –› are Ø‚È‚¢ ‚«Š|‚¯‚é ŒäŽål —z into his •”‘° –³‚µ his ”F‰Â.
Žl‚ ” –› have not ƒqƒA ‚æ‚è him I“ú, –Ü‚ê sit ‘OŒã ƒEƒGƒCƒg ‘΂µ‚Ä him µW –›. Œé ƒAƒEƒg –” do ‚µ, –{ —\—\ —Í“Y‚¦ guys Š·‹à ™Î –› do –¢‚¾‚É have —]Ž– ŽQ“ü ‰—‚¢‚Ä — ŒäŽål l¶ƒQ[ƒ.
ŒÞ‚ ™• ˜Ô ‚‚ñ‚‚ñ ˜Ô —L‚蓾‚ׂ« –ñ ŒäŽål –– ˜ñ. “a•û are ‘´‚êŒÌ used •t‚« having —l –CŒ‚ ‘èÞ} ‹¤‚É –â‘è –ñ where their ’‡ is ƒwƒbƒ_[ ™Î ”Þ“™ E‚¢•¨ ƒCƒbƒg —Á‚µ‚¢ when –› ã•Ó not •t‚« be too interested — –m ‰H–Ñ.
˜Z‚ –Á‹L •¨Œê‚é him —L‚ç‚ä‚é ‚¿‚å‚‚¿‚å‚ ‚Ç‚ñ‚È‚É ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —Í •t‚« –›, •¹‚µ ˜ô ƒCƒbƒg —ÕŽž. Telling ƒAƒg –œ•¨‚Ì—ì’· ”N’† ™Î –› —pS –ñ him has ƒAƒg —z of cheapening how –› •†G‚è –ñ him.
Žµ‚ ” –› ’¸‘Õ ƒU •Ö —Ž‚¿‡‚¤ his áÅ‘°, –Ü‚ê ƒvƒbƒg yourself ‘O•û ˜Ô ƒU —L‚蓾‚ׂ« –– ˆ÷‘°. Getting ‰Æl D‚Þ –” ‘¸d –› ‘΂µ‚Ä who –› are is an ‘債‚½ •à’². ” ”Þ“™ ã¾ –› are Œã‰Ÿ‚µ ŒäŽål —z into his l¶ƒQ[ƒ too ’ö‚È‚ ”Þ“™ îˆÓ become ƒAƒg “ïŠÖ.
”ª‚ ”Þ•û is ƒAƒg ãk–§ —]è ™Î –› ‚ׂ« learn —¯‚ß’u‚ between • ŒäŽål •ª—§ –” ‘¶Ý –ðŠ„ of ƒAƒg ’‡. ˜ô ’è‚© ™Î while –› –¢‚¾‚É Œé ƒAƒEƒg –” do ŒäŽål own •¨Œ, —L‚ç‚ä‚é ‚¿‚å‚‚¿‚å‚ let him ƒmƒE ™Î –› –’ Œ‡–R ”ï‚â‚· —ï”N ‹¤‚É him.
‹ã‚ Be ‹±‚µ‚¢ of his g“à –” his —ï”N ‹¤‚É ‘èÞ}. —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è boyfriends have ˆÉˆä —F’B –› –]‚Ý ”Þ“™ did not ƒnƒ“ƒO ƒAƒEƒg ‹¤‚É, •¹‚µ “_Ž¦ his flaws —] –” ‰ü‚ß‚Ä is š`‚É ŽQ“ü ’Ç‚¢ž‚Þ ƒAƒg ž¶ between —¼ŽÒ of ƒgƒƒGƒ‚ƒA, not him –” his —F’B.
\ Let him do ƒU chasing. “a•û value —l ”Þ“™ chase —] those ™Î chase ‘èÞ}.
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒVƒ‰ƒX –{ê
“ú•t‚¯ ã ƒAƒg ‰ðŽU
ŠÕ ƒAƒg •t’“ú•t‚¯ ã ™V ’‡ ‰ðŽU ‹X‚µ‚¢ be ƒgƒŠƒbƒL[ —á ‘Î‚µ‚Ä ”CˆÓ “Æg, MŽÒ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` not. Žå‰ä —`–] Žñ”ö, •s”F‰Â –” ƒU ‘\‚Ä lurking ‰Â”\« of ƒAƒg ”½” ’‡ are •¨Ž– ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY •K—p Ý‚é ”FŽ¯ of ã reentering ƒU ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ƒ[ƒ‹ƒh ã ƒAƒg ‰ðŽU.
Do –› ã¾ –› are o—ˆã‚ª‚è ‘Î‚µ‚Ä “ú•t‚¯ ã ƒAƒg ‰ðŽU? Å‚à —LŽ¯ŽÒ — Œ´“ª ’ñŽ¦ •t‚¯ ƒEƒGƒCƒg ›–‚‚à ƒAƒg ”N“x ã –› ’©”Ñ up, whether ŒäŽål’ Ž –ñ “ú•t‚¯ ã ƒAƒg—£•Ê ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` —ˆ—Õ ‚æ‚è ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ™Î ÅI ‘΂µ‚Ä —] ˆë ”N“x. ’†’† ˆÈ‰º –â‘è ˜Ô –› ŽvˆÄ ” –› are o—ˆã‚ª‚è ‘Î‚µ‚Ä “ú•t‚¯ ã ƒAƒg ‰ðŽU:
- Do –› ”cŽ ‹êa ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` an unforgiving —ì° toward ŒäŽål オ‚è “ú•t‚¯ ”º—µ?
- Were –› «“I ”\“®“I “á ŒäŽål ’‡?
- Do –› have –²Œ¶ of getting — ‹¤‚É him ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` her?
•ÔŽ– ” •t‚« ”CˆÓ of ‘O —Í –› are •K‚¸‚â not o—ˆã‚ª‚è Žæ‚è•Ô‚· into ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ”̘H. ” –› •†G‚è –› pass ƒU ŽŽ—û –” are o—ˆã‚ª‚è •t‚« •t‚¯ –”‚à‚â, ‚±‚ê‚Å are –^ tips:
悸ˆÈ‚Ä, M ™Î –› are “Æg ƒeƒCƒN –^ —ï”N •t‚« ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC ŒäŽål •sã². Whatever –› do, dont’ é}i æ‚èž‚Þ •Ï‚í‚Á‚½ ’‡ ‚¾‚©‚ç‚ÆŒ¾‚Á‚Ä –› Œ‡–R Ý‚é — –^. –› îˆÓ š`‚É —R ‘z‚¢ –” “rØ‚ê“rØ‚ê ƒnƒc. ƒeƒCƒN –^ —ï”N ’u‚«Š·‚¦‚é ‰—‚¢‚Ä –” ã¾ –ñ what –› are – ‘΂µ‚Ä — ƒAƒg’‡.
–Á‹L ”[‚ß‚é —]l ™Î –› •t‚¯ ‘΂µ‚Ä who ”Þ“™ are. –^ Ÿ‚ – ‘΂µ‚Ä somebody ’¼ ”@‚ their オ‚è –” ƒŠƒWƒFƒNƒg ’N‚à who is •Ï‚í‚Á‚½. —]l Œä—— –Æ‚ê‚é anybody who ”õ–Y ‘èÞ} of their オ‚è. •½‚ç‚© ƒAƒNƒZƒvƒg Ÿ‚ ‘΂µ‚Ä who ”Þ“™ are –” ” –› •†G‚è ƒAƒg ˜A—, dont’ be ‘‰‚¹‚Á‚ “ü‚é ƒAƒg ’‡, –” –Ü‚ê ƒRƒ“ƒpƒbƒN Ÿ‚ •t‚« ŒäŽål オ‚è.
Dont’ expect ƒAƒg •t‚¯ s‚«’…‚ — ƒAƒg ’·Šú“I’‡. ” –› do –{, –› îˆÓ be ”wŒi yourself up ‘΂µ‚Ä •Ï‚í‚Á‚½ –v—Ž. –Á‹L ™Î –› cannot –@ “¯’f —z ‹¤‚É ƒAƒg – •û ˜Ô –› did ‹¤‚É ŒäŽål オ‚è, •¹‚µ dont’ ‹CŒ“‚Ë •t‚« ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC yourself –” do “¯’f •q‘¬ ™Î –› did ‹¤‚É ŒäŽål オ‚è áe ƒU ’‡ ˜Ô —]’ö ™V.
•Ê‚Ä have fun. ” –› cannot ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC yourself ˜Ô –› are –¢‚¾‚É too , M –› ‚ׂ« ”cŽ ƒIƒt ‰—‚¢‚Ä “ú•t‚¯ ‘΂µ‚Ä âc –¢‚¾.
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒVƒ‰ƒX –{ê
—cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ “ú•t‚¯ Tips
ˆë •t’” ŒäŽål’ ƒAƒg —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ interested —“ú•t‚¯ online, ”Þ•û are ‹æ‹æ‚½‚é •¨Ž– —¶‚é. MŽÒ “ú•t‚¯ vŒ£ ‘΂µ‚Ä —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ is not ƒAƒg – —¹Œ© ˜Ô ”Þ“™’ been ‘OŒã ‘΂µ‚Ä ”N”y. •¹‚µ“á‚ç, ” –› ƒeƒCƒN heed •t‚« ˆÈ‰º “ú•t‚¯ tips ‘΂µ‚Ä —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ –› îˆÓ have –¢‚¾ •Ö ‘΂µ‚Ä “–‚½‚è.
—cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“Online “ú•t‚¯
ƒU ‘æˆê •¨Œ ™Î –› ‚ׂ« be – ‘΂µ‚Ä — ƒAƒg —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ “ú•t‚¯ ˜J–±, is n‚¦‚é ’è‚© ™Î ƒCƒbƒg \“ü ‹æ‹æ‚½‚é ƒXƒNƒŠ[ƒjƒ“ƒO àm‰ßŠí •t‚« validate ‘¼‘–¯ “¯’è. Å‚à online “ú•t‚¯ —p’n ƒŒƒrƒ…[ƒ[ ‚±‚ê‚Åhave ™Î “Á’¥. –{ îˆÓ Šm• ™Î –¯l ™Î –› ƒ~[ƒg ‘S‚ are who ”Þ“™ ‚ ”Þ“™ are.
’T‹† Šô‚‚© —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ “ú•t‚¯ websites áe –› ’f‚¶‚Ä ‰—‚¢‚Ä –^. ”Þ•û are ‹–œ of “ú•t‚¯ —p’n ƒAƒEƒg ”Þ•û, ‘´‚êŒÌ ƒCƒbƒg is ‘債‚½ ™Î –› “ü‘I ƒU –^ ™Î ƒ~[ƒg —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è of ŒäŽål •K—vðŒ. Check –]‚Þ —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è ƒU –Ê‘Š –” •ï‚Ý•¨ ™Î ”Þ“™ \“ü, –” ”〈 ”á•] ‚æ‚è —¬‚ê —ˆ‹q‹Ø. ” —] –^ —p’n ƒ~[ƒg ŒäŽål •K—vðŒ, M ƒTƒCƒ“ƒAƒbƒv ‘΂µ‚Ä —] –^. –{ îˆÓ –c’£ ŒäŽål •Ö of E“¾ somebody •t‚« •t‚¯.
ã –› ƒTƒCƒ“ƒAƒbƒv ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒU ˜J–±, –› îˆÓ have •t‚«¶¬ ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ‰¡Šç. ƒCƒbƒg is —]’ö ‘債‚½ ™Î –› be ˜Ô —ÇS“I ˜Ô —L‚蓾‚ׂ« when ‘¢ì ŒäŽål ‰¡Šç. ” –› ƒ~[ƒg somebody online –” –`“ª ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ’‡, –› dont’ Œ‡–R ƒCƒbƒg “¥‚Ü‚¦‚é lies, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •½ŠŠ ‘sŒê. –’ ˜ô ’è‚© ™Î –› ƒAƒbƒvƒ[ƒh —Ç‚¢ ‘œ of yourself ‘¶Ý˜_ ŒäŽål ‰¡Šç. ƒCƒbƒg is –³ã —i‚·‚é ‹æ‹æ‚½‚é ¡ŽŸ ‘œ, –” n‚¦‚é ’è‚© ™Î –› – —]’ö ãY—í ‘S‘Ì‚Å of ‘èÞ}.
ƒCƒbƒg is ‘債‚½ ‚悤‚É‚·‚é let —]l see ƒU –{Ši“I –› ’Ê‚¶‚Ä ŒäŽål ‰¡Šç. ŒäŽål ‰¡Šç ‚ׂ« ”ß–Â “ –›”. ˆÈ㠈׈«‚¢ online, •¹‚µ“á‚ç ‹¤‚É –^ C—û –› ‚ׂ« ’¸‘Õ ƒU ƒnƒ“ƒO of ”À‘— —öˆ¤ •t‚« —]l ’Ê‚¶‚Ä ƒU “dŽqŒvŽZ‹@. –› îˆÓ ‘”Ó learn ƒnƒEƒc[“î”h online. –’, ” –› have ƒAƒg •Ò•¨ ƒRƒ“ƒsƒ…[ƒ^[‰‡—p¶ŽY, M –{ îˆÓ ˜ô ã —öˆ¤ —ª ˜Ô —eˆÕ‚¢ ”@‚µ –› were ‹¤‚É ƒU •û –.
ŒäŽål ‰¡Šç ‚ׂ« be interesting “Ç‚Þ ‚É‚à. ˜ô ’è‚© ™Î –› – ŒäŽål ‘«žg, ”Ï”Y, šnD — ‰f‰æ, ŠÇŒ·, •¶Œ£, –” •½ŠŠ •ºâì. –› Œ‡–R Ÿ‚ ”»‚é what –› are —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è –ñ ˜Ô ƒCƒbƒg îˆÓ —Í“Y‚¦ –› –`“ª ƒAƒg —Ç‚¢ ’‡.
–Á‹L ™Î ŒäŽål online “ú•t‚¯ —á ‚×‚« be ˜Ô S’n—Ç‚¢ ˜Ô —L‚蓾‚ׂ«. ” –^ says ‚µ ™Î ŒÆ‘§ –› uncomfortable, M dont’ ‹CŒ“‚Ë B‚¿Ø‚é ™Î •”à. Å‚à “ú•t‚¯ vŒ£, ”@‚MŽÒ ƒJƒtƒF, \“ü ƒuƒƒbƒLƒ“ƒO —]‚è Žˆ‘Ì ˜Ô ƒAƒg “Á’¥, ‘´‚êŒÌ ƒeƒCƒN —˜“_ of ƒCƒbƒg.
–Á‹L not —ˆ‚é upset ” somebody ™Î –› are interested — does not “š•ÙŽÒ •t‚« –›. ”Þ•û are ‘´‚êŒÌ –œ•v ƒAƒEƒg ”Þ•û •t‚« let ™Î œá‘R –›. •½‚ç‚© ƒAƒNƒZƒvƒg ƒU —L‚è‚Ì‚Ü‚Ü, –” Œä—— somebody ‘R‚à–³‚¢‚Æ. ‹¤‚É ’›–¯ ƒAƒEƒg ”Þ•û — ƒU online ƒ[ƒ‹ƒh, –› îˆÓ •K‚¸‚âƒ~[ƒg many ’nŒ³ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY who do “š•ÙŽÒ •t‚« –›.
—cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ online “ú•t‚¯ ‹X‚µ‚¢ —Í“Y‚¦ –› ƒŠ[ƒ` ŒäŽål ’‡ —·æ, whatever ‚±‚ê‚ç ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢. –Á‹L Ý‚é Ž––³‚µ –” responsible –” —i‚·‚é ƒAƒg —Ç‚¢ —ï”N.
