Crown Financial Advice for Singles

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During the present financial meltdown, Crown Financial Ministries offers tons of help for singles looking to make it through the pending worldwide economic depression. Many singles are “freaking out” over how they are going to make ends meet as the reality of layoffs and higher proces looms in the future.  Crown Financial offers some sound financial advice for singles of all stripes (singles-never-married, single parents, divorcees, widows, etc)  during this economy downturn.

Crown Financial Ministry Meets Church Services

Let’s face it, single people tend to have greater financial burdens simply because they tend to have no one else to count on for their daily sustenance other than themselves. Money worries for singles with kids are even greater.  In response many churches have been serving up relevant messages on topics like today’s podcast entitled, “financial peace for singles” that helps  get the  proper perspective on money. Enjoy!

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Dating the Wrong Date?

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Sometimes Christian singles can feel that they have gotten themselves in a mess when they look at their relationships. Normally your “Dr Phil” would say “get out while you still can”. However, getting out isn’t always the solution, but getting though it may be exactly what your dating relationship needs now.

It has been said quite a few times already that communication is the key to a successful relationship. At this point you feel like if you hear that phrase again you will scream, but there really is no other way. Take God as your example, as He uses different ways each day to talk to us.

At times communication can be difficult because not many people possess the proper communication skills.

Here are some other tips to practice when your dating relationship gets difficult:

•  Remember the goal is not to get out but to get through. Be patient with your partner and remember to tell him or her that you love them and are ready to grow together with them in love.
• For whatever you ask for in Jesus’ name shall be given unto you. The good old way of prayer. Cast every burden unto Him who cares for you.
• Pray together with your partner and ask God to give the skill of communication and strengthen your love for one another.
• Look at everything through a positive glance.This is a chapter of growth in your life. A situation of this nature gives you a chance to nature your patience. As you become patient with your partner in due time he or she will do the same for you. Remember to do unto others what you wish should be done to you.
• There is no mountain too high that God cannot move.  Tell your partner what you like and what you do not like about them.

This article, compiled by Sharon Mgibi, does not necessarily reflect the views of Christian Dating Service Plus.

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Failed Relationship Advice

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When a relationship has failed the first time and you both decide to try again, prepared for some hard work. A number of things can cause Christian marriages to fail, such as infidelity or dishonesty in all forms. But there are times when a couple feels that the relationship deserves a second try or third, fourth and so forth.

The second time around is definitely not going to be like the first time. Your partner can say he or she trusts you, but trust is not something that goes on and off like that. It takes a lot to build trust and even the smallest thing can break it. Many marriages are going through each day without trust. Kisses in the morning, remembering birthdays and anniversaries, knowing each others favourite colours and all that we think is needed to keep the Christian marriage strong, do not let it fool you. These people are actually hiding from the truth. What truth? The truth that; they do not trust their partner or even themselves.

Insecurity and low self-esteem is sure to be the case in a marriage that has been through separation or divorce. These two mixed emotions can in some cases be substituted by anger and resentment. Some people give love a second try for wrong reasons. They calculate the years they have given to a relationship, think of what people would say if they find out that the relationship has failed. These should not be the reasons. Bear in mind that it is not love that has failed but just the relationship. As God is love, and He cannot fail, how then can love fail? If the love is still there then give it a second try.

God gave us love when we did not deserve it, trusted us enough to give us His only Son, whom through Him we find the truth that truly sets us free. A successful Christian is one who has learned to love that which does not deserve any love at all. The break of each day itself is a sign that God believes that you can do better than yesterday.

Everyone at some point deserves a second chance in love, but not everyone is worth that second chance. Remember that love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship. Try to rebuild the trust between each other by being honest to each other. If trust cannot be attained, it is now the time to let go. Remember that being in an unhappy relationship kills you inside and slowly destroys your trust in love itself therefore leading you to stop trusting in God. By the time you decide to walk out of that marriage you are unable to love and truly love and trust.

Compiled by Sharon Mgibi [smgibi@yahoo.com]

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