Female Commitment Phobia

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Is there  really such a thing as female commitment phobia? As I teach in our single parenting seminars, commitment phobia is usually a guy problem. However, with over 49 million single women in the US alone, female commitment phobia is rising sharply. Why is this? There are many fears that keep women single but some feel this increase in female commitment phobia is coming from those who have been through a past troubled relationship, such as a divorce. For example, many have shared with us how dating after divorce can be a very scary experience.

Do you or someone you know suffer from female commitment fears?  If you answer yes to any of the below, you just may:

Female Commitment Phobia Signs

1. Do you often date men who are unavailable?
2. Are you staying in an abusive relationship that’s going nowhere?
3. Do you have an unrealistic list of requirements for a potential soulmate?
4.Do you get panic attacks right before a date that causes you to back out?
5. Are you constantly choosing your career over dating?

The sad thing about many singles, both male and female, who are commitment phobes, is that they don’t want to be. They desire deliverance from this kind of bondage, but feel there is no way to overcome. If this is your situation, please remember that there is no hopeless cause with Jesus Christ in the picture, and many single Christians get great benefit from a certified Christian counselor trained in this area of need.

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Free Christian Singles Advice on Dating

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Did the title Free Christian Singles grab your attention? you know there is a lot of free Christian singles dating advice on dating on the internet today, and most of it is totally unbiblical or just plain sucks.  To counter this problem, each week we search the web for the best free Christian singles podcasts advice out there for our thousands of listeners.

Free Christian Singles Podcast

This week we have a free Christian singles podcast from Elevation Church, one of the fastest growing churches in the US. In my humble opinion, this is one of the best dating advice podcasts we have ever put on the air. Do you have a free christian singles podcast you would like to put on Christian Dating Serviced Plus?

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Christian Singles Websites for Dummies

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Today, I’d like to talk about Christian singles websites.  There are tons of Christian singles websites and Christian dating websites out there, but not all are “really Christian”. Have you ever wondered how all these Christian singles websites got started? Well I did, and that’s how I began Christian Dating Service Plus, a website for single Christians. I had a heart for Christian singles, and I wanted to come up with a way where I could not only create a worldwide outreach for this target, but also create funds at the same time for our NJ church plant called Oasis Church.

It’s been an amazing experience for me, as this little Christian singles website now gets over 1 million hits per month, and brings in hundreds of dollars a week for ministry and personal  expenses. If you’re interested to know how a non-techie neophyte like myself was able to do this, just read on. I’ve written down some “Christian singles websites” tips on how to make one for yourself.

Christian Singles Websites-How to Start One

See What Others Are Doing

The first step you should take is to simply Google “Christian singles websites” and study the top 20 singles sites that come up. Look at the content of the christian singles topics, and observe ways that you would do it better. Make sure you have a notepad and pencil. The idea is not to copy, but to improve on what these Christian singles websites are offering.

Get a Vision

After you get a look at all the other the Christian singles sites that you found interesting, with that notepad and pencil start brainstorming ideas on the kind of site you would like to have. For example, I liked the concept of a Christian singles site that would not only honestly review Christian dating websites like eHarmony and ChristianMingle, but would also offer articles a single person could  use. Since wWe didn’t want the same old stuff,  we became the first Christian singles website to integrate interactive blogging and podcasts into our site. This made our single Christian website new  and fresh. You can do the same if you take the time and think out of the box.

Learn how to Make a Christian Singles Website with Site Build IT

Ok, I had a desire and some good ideas, but I hadn’t a clue on how to actually build a Christian singles/dating site. A vision without a plan to get you there…gets you nowhere. So I started researching how a dope like me could build a website from scratch without knowing a shred of HTML, PHP or any other web design coding. Sounds difficult right?  Well think again.

How did I do it? From the bottom of my heart I want to thank this websites for dummies program known as Site Build It. Without Site Build It I would have never have been able to build the Christian singles website you are reading right now. This program is actually an amazing step by step proven manual on:

1. How to build a website from scratch even if you no scratch
2. How to find a topic for your site that fits your passion
3. How to get traffic and make money on your website
4. How to have fun while doing it

Site Build It offers a free Action Guide, that gently walks you through how to do all of the above.  Just going through this course for the first time  got me so excited, I couldn’t wait to begin. If you have any interest at all in an online ministry or making money online, I think you’ll feel the same way.

Overall, I stand behind  this program because I am living proof that it works. So if you’re interested in building a Christian singles website, or any other site for that matter, what are you waiting for? Check out the video tour now and build a worldwide ministry a stay at home business or both!

Have any questions about making  Christian singles websites? If you have any questions, you can contact us here as well.

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