Christian Singles Girls Being Unequally Yoked

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The following article on Christian single girls being in an unequally yoked dating relationship comes to us from Tracy:

I thank the Lord for this site. After choosing to live in sin for the past two years, the Lord has been merciful and has forgiven me, and filled me with his Holy Spirit once again. I was angry with God for being “alone”, and being a single mother. I rebelled, and decided that I was going to be in an unequally yolked relationship, and that “I” was going to enjoy it. For 18 months the relationship tore me to pieces! I had gotten so deep into sin, it appeared as though I would have never gotten out. I did everything I knew was against God’s word. I got into a relationship with a married man, he left his wife (he had already planned to leave if it wasnt me it would have been someone else). It was love and romance for two weeks, and then hell for two weeks. The cycle was like this for 18 months. I was filled with torment, anguish, and a loss of control. I resisted going to God b/c I wanted things my way. I wanted to believe that I could make it work, if I just changed a certian way. But it was NEVER meant to work. So, for the first time in my life I got into divination in order to keep the man, taro, and horoscopes. The devil had me as his puppet. I spent tons on psychotherapy, blamming myself for everything that went wrong in the relationship. Believe it or not, for the first time I even tried a drug to escape the pain…this nearly caused me to completely loose my mind. But thank you Jesus, because of his mercy, there were moments in the midst of this evil that I was able to cry out to Jesus for help and he heard me. I knew that I was not strong enough without his power to get out of this sickness. God heard me and he answered me. After dozens of breakups (I was the one always getting dumped and accepting him back) the man finally dumped me for Good. I believe that he found someone else, while with me (no suprise), God worked it out to where I caught him flirting and I confronted him on it. He said it was the last straw. Thank you Jesus! Thank you for my mind, thank you for your holy spirit. Thank him for forgiveness and mercy, and goodness. The devil came to destroy me. And I was helping him to do that all the way. But if it had not been for Jesus, I might have been dead today. Its just not worth it getting into an unequally yoked relationship when YOU KNOW that you shouldnt. The devil comes to rob kill and destroy, and he will use any opportunity. Its worse when we know, and willfuly go into sin. Ive had bad experiences before, in unequal relationhsips but obviously didnt learn. This experience was to really teach me and seal the deal to live for Christ. Emotionally, the loss leads me, at times, to miss the man I thought I loved, but what I have to remember is that this man was never good. He is a sinner, and has no desire to know God. Satan is a seducer, and so he presented this man as good on occassion to keep me in as long as it would take to destroy me. When I feel that sadness, or loneliness come on, each day I read my bible, and pray and cry out to the Lord about the pain my disobedience caused. And each day, I desire to get closer to Jesus b/c he is all I have and he loves me for real. The filling of his spirit makes me feel like I can get through this. I also pray that God fixes that part of me that led to my desperation to need a man so badly that I would be willing to go all out to go to hell. There is a problem in my flesh that needs healing. Im happy I had a chance to share. There is so much that I could share, but for sake of space, Ill cut it short. Thanks for reading.

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Valentines Day Gifts for Boyfriend

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Looking for some Valentines Day gifts for your boyfriend? Since Valentines Day is right around the corner you may want to start thinking about what useful Valentines Day gift to give to your boyfriend. If you have no idea (and most of us don’t, the following list of top Valentines Day gifts for Boyfriends may help.

Top Seven Valentines Day Gifts for Him

1. Get him a Tshirt or a Hoodie.  You can make your own iron-on design, order one online, or go to a shop that air brushes and puts logos on shirts.  Make it a shirt that he would want to wear out in a public place.  You can also get him a shirt or hoodie that has his faveorite band, or a movie that he likes on it.
2. Buy him a DVD.  Buy him his favorite movie, or a season of his favorite TV show.  Guys love to watch their favorite shows over and over, so don’t worry if they’ve already seen it a few times.
3. Get him a toy.  Although it may sound strange, all guys are kids inside.  Buy him a game system, or if he already has a system , get him a game.  If he is really into sports, you could get him a football or a basketball.  If he loves cars, get him a model car.
4. Give him something practical.  Give him something that he can use.  If he works out a lot, get him workout clothes, or a gym bag.  If he plays guitar, get him guitar strings or picks.  If he likes to build or fix things, get him a tool set.
5. Get him tickets to see his favorite band, or a sports event.  Guys love to go to these things, and if you go with him, he will really like it.

Whatever  Valentines Day gift for your boyfriend you decide to get him, he will appreciate the fact that you put thought into it.  He will probably love it just because you gave it to him.  And be sure to have a great Valentines Day!

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How Not to Attract a Single Guy

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A lot of single Christian articles out there write about how to attract single guys. However, sometimes learning how not to attract a single guy can also be useful finding the right kind of person. Let’s explain.

How Not to Attract a Single Guy Advice

Single guys are a different breed compared to single girls.  Many girls may try to attract guys by acting a certain way around them.  Don’t do it girls! The fact is this may turn them off.  Taking the following attraction tips will go a long way toward avoiding making your single guy date run away. Trust us on this.

How NOT to attract a Single Guy

• Being too clingy.  Although you may feel like being extra attached or clingy to your boyfriend may make him feel that you care alot about him, the opposite may be true.  Guys relate women who are too touchy and clingy to being desperate and over emotional.  The best thing to do is to relax and just enjoy being with eachother.  This will also make him more comfortable, and the relationship will have more room to grow.
• Buying his love.  Trying to over impress him with gifts, and other similar things will make him get the idea that you are insecure about yourself.  It gives the impression that you don’t want him to get to know you, but instead get to know you money.
• Laughing at everything that they do.  Many women want their date to feel like he is showing them a good time and that they are enjoying themselves.  However, laughing at every little thing that the guy says will just make him feel insecure.  This is because he will see through the fakness of your laughing and think that you are not truly enjoying yourself.  The best thing to do is to laugh when he says something that you find funny.

The bottom line is this: Please don’t try to attract a guy by doing these things. Taking it easy and just being yourself will attract just the right single guy for you.

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