Christian Ladies Night Out Ideas

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The following Christian ladies night out ideas were written by a single Christian female tired on hiatus from  the dating scene:

As a Christian single woman, it shouldn’t be all about looking for a date.  I have found that waiting for that dating match can be a tedious and draining experience. My thought here is one needs a break fro time to time in any endeavor. The best way I have found to “recharge my batteries” is to spend time with other Christian ladies on the town having fun. Not only do I have a blast having Christian Ladies Night Out get togethers, it’s also a chance to compare notes and get advice on dating and relationships. Believe me, it’s better than therapy to spend a night out with like minded single Christian ladies.

Since Christian Ladies Night Out has been so beneficial to me, I have put together a few ladies night out ideas for you to share with your friends.

Top 10 Christian Ladies Night Out Ideas

Arts and craft night
Bowling night
Club, country line or belly dancing lessons (hilarious)
Dinner and Movie night
Book club
Art galleries
Shopping outlet parties
Visit a spa  for a massage or mani-pedi
Learn a new recipe night
Help out at a homeless shelter
Tea and talk night at area Panera or Starbucks

Overall, the point of these ladies night out events is to refresh your mind and spirit and get a better perspective as you refocus on finding that dating mate.

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Dating Allowed During Marriage Separation

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Whether Christian or not, some have asked us, “Is dating allowed during marriage separation?” Of course, I always tell them it’s none of my business. However, I also realize the issue of dating during a marriage separation is a hot button issue,  and so needs to be talked about in the church in an honest, biblical and open way. As both a family court mediator and minister, I’m just gonna shoot from the heart and let it fly.

What the Bible Says About Dating During a Marriage Separation

Nothing.  That’s right, the Bible has zilch to say about dating during separation. Of course, the Bible has absolutely nothing to say about dating at all because dating is really a 20th Century phenomenon.

The closest Scripture we can find that’s even remotely related to dating while separated occurs in 1 Corinthians 7:10-19: “A wife must not leave her husband. But if she does leave him, let her remain single or else go back to him. And the husband must not leave his wife.”

The above Scripture is pretty clear here that separation is allowed but not desired.  God also appears to teach by implication that if the person who leaves is to remain single, he or she  should not be in a romantic relationship (ie: dating) with any other person other than their spouse. And in the 21st Century, the purpose of Christian dating should expressly be to find a Christian wife or husband, right?

Let’s face it, separation is a sad but sometimes necessary action needed to protect the physical/emotional well being of the person who leaves and/or the children involved. For example, if a husband is physically violent against his wife or kids, the person in this abusive relationship should seek assistance and remove themselves from that dangerous situation.

Putting whatever the Scriptures have to say on the subject aside for a moment, in Family Court we teach there are many other practical reasons and pitfalls why “singles to be” should avoid dating  marital separation. Many of these are similar to those going through the process of dating after divorce, or being a single again person dating with kids.

So where do you stand on the issue? How would you answer the question of “Should dating be allowed during marriage separation?”

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