Sex Lessons for Christian Singles
Leave a CommentNot what you expected? The following “sex lessons” for singles was submitted by John, a Sunday School teacher of 20-somenting singles:
Hi! I am a Sunday school teacher and I teach the age group 19-25 currently I am teaching sex lessons on how to resist the lure of sexual sin. You know God is totally awesome! He created everyone of us with a sex drive with sexual feelings and he knows the struggles and sexual temptations we face everyday whether single, married,divorced or widowed.
Sex Lessons in Temptation
God is love and whether we believe or not he loves us more than any person in the world. Yes, he loves us even when we have messed up sex lives due to sin. God also loves when we come to him (as we go to a friend or even to this site) and talk to him about what’s going on the inside of our soul,mind & body. Listen. I’ve never know God not to help when someone reaches out to him, but we have to genuinely come to him.
My friends stop for moment and look at all the times you have been tempted to masturbate (or any other sexual sin for that matter). What do u do when it comes? I Know it’s not easy to resist but God did not give us anything he can’t help us control. Don’t let the Devil make you feel like a scum bag. The truth is you feel bad when you commit a sexual impurity because you love God deep down, and want to do the right thing.
Top 3 Sex Lessons for Single Christians
Connect in Accountability
I beg all who struggle really hard to find a friend who knows Christ, and who you feel safe sharing the dirt face to face. If you do not have one, pray and ask God for one and He will provide.
Consume God’s Word
How can a man (or woman) keep their way pure? Fill your heart with the Word of life. The enemy will want to tell you that it’s useless to do so, but do not believe him. The word of God is powerful!
Confess Your Victory
If you are child of God, sin shall not reign in your mortal bodies (Romans 6). You have victory in Jesus. Therefore, it’s important to confess your victory for “as a man thinks so he is.” So just continue to trust God you will break free of what ever you think has mastered you.
Commune with Him
Finally, no sin can remain a habit if you are in constant dialogue with the Saviour.
Overall, I know the sex lesson “tip” are not a cure-all for falling into sexual sin, but if you practivce these C’s, you will much better off than before.
Interpersonal Dating Relationship Tips
Leave a CommentThe following article on interpersonal relationship tips was writtten by a Christian single by the name of Hazel:
I have just broken up with a guy who I was convinced was the one. I truly believe God in his providence allowed me to pursue a relationship with this guy to prepare me for the person he truly has for me. The truth is this guy became like an idol to me and was way more important than Jesus, (although I was in denial about this!!!.)
Top 4 Interpersonal Relationship Tips
Keep Him at The Center
I think we should ask God to show us how to hold any interpersonal dating relationship loosely especially if we really desire to be married. Guard your heart until you are sure you are both in the same place spiritually and that you both want the same thing out of the relationship.
Guard Your Heart
That is, until you have full confirmation from God that this is the one for you and that does not just include going by feelings, it includes using your head to weigh up all factors.
Walk by Faith, nor by Feeling
Beware of the feeling of falling in love as this can cause a person to say things and make promises that they really have not considered in the cold light of day, which means you could end up hurt when they pull out or go back on what they say. That’ s the painful lesson I have learnt. God in his providence will use every bad experience to bring about his purposes for those he loves regardless of anything.
Take Your Time
I’m thinking give a relationship a year before you let your guard down and then if you both still want the same thing move forward. However if the other person is still unwilling to commit at this stage I would consider breaking up breaking up the interpersonal dating relationship.
Christian Help Fighting Sin
Leave a CommentThe following is a heart plea from a single girl looking for Christian help fighting sin:
Hi All. I’m a 23 year old “christian” single female who needs help fighting sin. I never ever imagined in the whole two years that I’ve struggled with masturbation that there are other Christian teens and young single adults facing the exact same issues. I’m a virgin, by definition, but it gets so hard at times.
I haven’t really wanted to have sex before marriage out of personal choice even though I was presented with the opportunity, but when it comes to masturbation, it’s like a whole different force completely takes over all logic and sense. I love God, and I want to be clean, of this because it’s holding me back. It’s as though God refuses to remove this cup, and I struggle with sex sin daily. There are weeks when it doesn’t bother me, because I’ve repented and I’m desperate for God’s forgiveness. But than there are those days when it just takes over. It hurts so badly, cause I feel like I have no self control as a single person over it…and it’s like I’m playing games with God, because I repent and ask for forgiveness and than a few days later i’m doing it all over again. I feel like I’m suffering from a terminal disease. The dealing with guilt is so immense and yet, I can’t stop myself.
I really need Christian help fighting sin because I recently feel the need to watch pornography, to kinda get with the times, you know. I am the most terrible sinner and I hate myself for it, and yet it’s a cycle that does not seem to end. I am so desperate right now, because temptation is looming…I wish that I could hold on to something, but I would die if anyone found out, because people see me as capable of no wrong, I want to scream out that I am the worst of sinners, and yet I can’t because I’m afraid of a tainted image.
I live with different masks for different days, I’m so tired of it, I just want to be real, and accepted with this mess, that I caused…It’s such a relief to just be myself here. I just want this to end. Will it ever end? Or am I doomed to live in guilt and regret, and fear that I could die and go to hell at any moment.
Do you need Christian help fighting sin? Do you have Christian relationship advice for this writer?
