Background Checks-Record Checks for Online Daters背景调查记录检查在线Daters
Background Checks in online dating are becoming more and more popular, as some背景调查在网上约会越来越流行，因为有些 internet dating services互联网约会服务 such as如 eHarmony are offering the option to their members.提供的选项，其成员。 One of the online dating sites to offer background checks of their members is an interesting site called一个网上约会的网站提供的背景调查，其成员是一个非常有趣的网站要求 WealthyMan.com which began doing criminal background checks.开始做犯罪背景调查。 Some lawmakers have actually proposed legislation that would force matchmaking services, including all Christian Dating Services, to perform background record checks on all the folks who use their sites.一些国会议员已经提出立法，实际上将迫使婚介服务，包括所有基督教约会服务，以执行背景记录检查所有的人谁使用他们的网站。
Additionally, there are many companies that offer discreet background checks for those daters who have doubts about their potential dating partners.此外，有许多公司提供谨慎的背景调查，对那些daters谁怀疑他们的潜力约会伙伴。 Just “Google” the phrase “background check”, and you’ll see a number of these services come on screen.只是“谷歌”的“背景调查” ，你会看到其中的一些服务是在屏幕上。
Most companies start the background check by verifying the potential大多数公司开始背景调查核实的潜力 soulmate’s心心相印的 identity using a combination of name, date of birth and residential/postal info.特征相结合的姓名，出生日期和住宅/邮政信息。 If you have a partial social security number, that will do as well.如果您已经有部分社会安全号码，这也将这样做。 Once the person’s birthday and residence information is confirmed, the company can perform a background check on the person of interest, searching a number of different variables一旦人的生日和居住的信息证实，该公司就可以进行背景调查的人的兴趣，搜索了一些不同的变量
Reasons to Use Background Checks With Online Christian Dating原因使用背景调查在线基督教约会
Surveys show many singles, including Christian singles, would be interested in using background checks on their dating interests.调查显示，许多单打，包括基督教单打，将有兴趣使用的背景调查，他们的约会利益。 The reason is simple: No one wants to invest their tender emotions in a原因很简单：没有人愿意投资，他们的情绪在招标 pathological liar.病理骗子。 The companies that offer background checks claim they can answer the following questions for the right price:该公司也有提供的背景调查，声称他们可以回答下列问题的合适的价格：
- Does he/she have a criminal background?难道他/她有犯罪背景？
- Is he/she already married是他/她已经结婚了 , but still in the dating market? ，但仍然在市场的约会？
- Does he/she have a prior family court history with domestic violence or难道他/她有一个家庭法院之前的历史与家庭暴力或 abuse滥用 ? ？
- Is he/she lying about name, age, occupation, location, etc?是他/她撒谎的姓名，年龄，职业，地点等？
Why Background Checks are Not So Hot为什么背景调查并不那么热
Cost 成本
Unless you are using one of the sites that offer background checks, checking除非您使用的是其中一个网站提供的背景调查，检查
backgrounds on somebody can be pricey.背景的人可以昂贵。 A background check can cost you anywhere from $15-$80, depending on how nosy or scared you are.背景调查的成本可以使用户随时随地可以从15美元- 80美元，这取决于如何管闲事或害怕你。
Accuracy 精度
Unless you pay top money, or have a dating site that knows what they’re doing, your background check may be outdated by a few years.除非你支付顶端钱，或有一个约会网站，知道他们在做什么，你的背景调查可能是过时了几年。 Also, because identity theft is so prevalent, the person you think you’re doing a background check on, may not be the person you’re doing a background check on.此外，由于身份盗窃是如此普遍，人你认为你正在做的背景检查，可能不是你的人做了背景检查。 Get it?怎么做呢？
Single Christians单基督徒 can meet whackos, liars and cheaters not only online, but also in church (i’ve met a couple myself there), the market, a club, literally anywhere.能满足whackos ，骗子和骗子不仅线上，而且在教堂（我找到了我自己有一对夫妇） ，市场，一个俱乐部，几乎任何地方。 So where do we draw the line on background checks?那么，我们划清界线的背景调查？
Our take on the background check fad is that single people who use an online Christian Dating Service could find protection in the vast majority of cases by simply educating themselves about我们采取的背景检查时尚是，单身的人谁使用在线基督教交友中心可以找到保护在绝大多数情况下通过简单的教育本身 dating safety, both online and offline.约会安全，无论在线和离线。
What are your thoughts on using dating background checks?你是怎么想的使用约会背景调查？
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I understand the why people might think this is a good idea - but there are so many things wrong with this:我理解为什么人们会认为这是一个好主意-但有许多事情会这样：
-they invade privacy without guaranteeing safety ，他们入侵隐私安全无保障
-they violate the First Amendment ，它们违反了美国宪法第一修正案
-they force a business to incur costs that may be prohibitively expensive (imagine doing a background check on every single user of MySpace at a min. of $15 per background check). ，迫使企业承担费用，可昂贵（想象这样一个背景检查每一个用户的MySpace在民。 15美元计算的背景检查） 。
These companies are just out there to make a buck!这些公司是刚从那里赚钱！
Background record checks?背景记录检查？ Pictures don’t always do someone justice, it is better to review the profiles and accept or decline from what is written.照片并不总是这样的人绳之以法，这是更好地审查概况和接受或拒绝从所写的内容。 Does it hurt to speak with someone on the phone; you never know who your match will be?疼发言与某人的电话;你永远不知道是谁的比赛将是什么？ What you may consider to be your ideal match won’t be.你可能认为是您理想的比赛将不会。 Especially as we get older, try to be a little more open minded and honest with yourselves, if you aren’t serious then don’t put someone through the headache.特别是当我们变老，尽量多持开放态度和诚实的自己，如果你不认真然后不要有人通过头痛。 I also signed up for My-chek to make sure the people I date know I am really who I say I am.我也注册了我的赤，以确保人们知道我至今我真的谁我说我。