Singles Blog

NJ Christmas Eve Candlelight Church Services 12/24/11 @ 5PM

December 7, 2011 · Leave a Comment 

Are you  single or married and looking for Christmas Eve Candlelight church services in NJ? Well, we have some good news! Oasis-Church-NJ.com is holding its FIRST ever Christmas Eve Candlelight Church Service on 12/24/11 at  5PM at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside! We not only sponsor this Christian singles dating and online dating  advice blog,  but we are also brand new contemporary church in NJ that attracts singles and young families from all over NJ. Christmas Eve Candlelight Service If you are planning on attending ... Get more>>>

Dating Advice

Relationships for Dummies-Christian Singles

August 23, 2011 · 1 Comment 

Anybody out there wish there was a book called  Relationships for Dummies? I sure do. In my 20-Somethings group, there appears to be a number of single Christians who are clueless about the opposite sex and dating, and would benefit from a Relationships for Dummies manual. I mean it could cover all types of  situations and offer sound, biblical advice on issues ranging from sex sins and dating, to marriage, divorce,  how to ask a girl or guy out on a date,  to dating advice on how start using on using online Christian... Get more>>>

Letting Go of a Relationship as a Christian Single

August 19, 2011 · Leave a Comment 

Sometimes letting go of a relationship can can be  harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over feeling guilty or think that that the right person will never come into your life if you break up with the other person. Never feel that way about letting... Get more>>>

Letting Go of a Relationship

March 2, 2009 · 7 Comments 

Most of us know that letting go of a relationship, even if it’s a toxic relationship, is one of the most difficult thing to do. In a previous article we mentioned when it might be a good idea to let go of a relationship However,  many single Christians have communicated to us that simply knowing letting go of a relationship is not enough. One single Christian girl wrote that her cheating boyfriend has her under his power, and try as she might, she cannot break free by breaking up with him. Letting Go of a Relationship... Get more>>>

Single Dads

Single Dads Dealing with Grief and Loss

November 29, 2008 · 2 Comments 

Hundreds of single dads who lost their wives during the 9/11 terrorist attacks are still dealing with grief. One particular single dad I interviewed relayed that he and his deceased wife had both worked in the World Trade Center. He survived that day only because he was late to work after taking his child to the school bus. Single Dads Going Through Grief The worst part of that day for this single dad was having to tell his five year old daughter that her mommy was never coming home. As he shared, you could just feel... Get more>>>

Single Moms

Single Mothers Survival Tips

November 11, 2008 · Leave a Comment 

Single mothers have a hard road to travel. In the US 4 in 10 babies are born out of wedlock, and 95% of the time it’s the single mother who has residential custody and the brunt of responsibility in raising the child. Talk about stress! Single parenthood is without a doubt the most challenging endeavor I can think of. Whether due to divorce or having an out-of-wedlock child, there are many Christian single mothers who need our prayers. Toward this end several single mothers have sent us the following single mother... Get more>>>

Finances

Money Worries for Christian Singles

October 2, 2008 · Leave a Comment 

Single Christians didn’t need the September 2008 economic meltdown on Wall Street to start worrying about money and finances. In fact, according to our 2007 extensive surveys, singles worry just as much about money and careers as they do relationship and dating issues. Did you know that?  So how do we counsel singles (single-never married, single parents, divorcees) who worry over money? The actual meaning of the word “worry in Greek actually means to have a “divided mind”. The gist of the meaning... [Read the full story]