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Christian Single Dating And Mary Winkler基督教单身约会和玛丽温克勒 (share thoughts?) （分享想法？ ）
Some有些 dating Christian singles约会基督教单打 I have spoken with recently have put a unique spin on Mary Winkler’s confession that she murdered her husband, Matthew Winkler.我也与最近提出了一个独特的自旋对玛丽温克勒的供述，她谋杀了她的丈夫，马修温克勒。 Congregants of the Fourth Street Church of Christ in Selmer, Alabama, found Winkler shot dead with a bullet hole in his back.同一天的第四街中华基督教selmer ，阿拉巴马州，发现温克勒枪杀与子弹洞，在他回来。
Our interesting conversation centered around a comment a church attendee made about the couple who was married 11 years: “They were a good Christian family.我们有趣的谈话围绕一个评论一所教堂与会者作了关于对夫妇结婚11年： "他们都是一个很好的基督教家庭。 They always seemed happy.”他们总是看起来很高兴" 。
One single Christian woman offered, “This woman had everything we pray about having.单一的基督教女子提供的， "这名女子的一切 ，我们祈祷大约过。 She had a husband, three beautiful children, a home and a ministry.她有一个丈夫，三个漂亮的孩子，一个家，一个部。 I guess the grass is not always greener on the other side.”我猜想草并不总是青翠在另一边" 。
Another另 single guy单佬 stated “What are we as single Christians supposed to think when we hear of crazy stuff like this that is happening?声明： "我们有什么作为单一基督徒要相信当我们听到疯狂的东西一样，这就是发生？ And how about those divorce rates (45%) that are no different from those of non-Christians?以及如何对这些离婚率（ 45 ％ ）表示，并没有什么不同，从这些非基督徒？ I want to get married, but I don’t want to end up like that.”我想结婚，但我不想结束了这样的" 。
Christian Dating Lessons基督徒约会的教训
Some neat things came out of our有的干净的东西出来，我们 Christian singles small group基督教单打小群 talk, and we thought of sharing them with you as gentle reminders:谈，同时，我们的思想交流，他们把你当温柔催问：
- Getting married does not guarantee happiness.准备结婚，但并不保证幸福。 Yes, a不错， Christian marriage基督教婚姻 can be wonderful, but sorrows and worldly concerns will come to you (1 Cor. 7:32-35).可以好，但是血汗和世俗化的关注，将来找你（ 1肺心病。 7:32-35 ） 。
- Whether married, dating or a eunuch, the joy of the Lord is our real strength and hope (Nehemiah 8:10).不论已婚，约会或宦官，喜悦，耶和华是我们的真正实力，并希望（ nehemiah 8时10分） 。 Another person, no matter how gorgeous or sweet, cannot provide all our needs.另一人，无论怎样华丽或甜，不能提供一切我们的需求。
- Learn to be content in your present single state学习当内容在你的，目前单一国家 , and delight in your Jesus (Phil 4:12, Psalms 37:4). ，并高兴地在你的耶稣（菲尔4时12分，诗篇37:4 ） 。 Your God knows what you need, and will give them to you as you give Him first place in your life (Matt. 6:33).你的上帝知道什么是你需要，并会给予他们向你，你会给他第一次发生在你的生活（ matt. 6时33分） 。 In the meantime, 在此同时， wait on God等候上帝 and serve others in a local ministry, have fun and relax!服务他人，在当地省，玩得高兴和放松！
- If you are a single Christian dating someone you met through an如果你是一个单一的基督教约会某人，你满足了 online Christian matchmaking site在线基督教红娘网站 , or even the local supermarket, surround yourself with many Godly and discerning counselors (Prov. 24:6).或什至当地超市，环绕自己与许多godly辨别辅导员（ prov. 24:6 ） 。 They may very well protect you from a fate like Matthew Winkler’s.他们很可能是保护你从一个命运一样，马修温克勒的。 Christian singles groups基督教单打组 and church small groups are a great place to get sober (and sometimes unwanted) advise.和教会的小团体是一个伟大的地方，以获得清醒的（有时是不想要）告知。
So you’re a Christian single in hopes of getting married?所以你是一个基督徒单，希望从中获取结婚吗？ Have these sad events in Alabama caused you to rethink your views on Christian dating and marriage?有这些悲惨事件，在阿拉巴马州造成的，你重新考虑你的意见是基督教约会和婚姻？ Feel free to感受到这种自由 share your thoughts.分享您的想法。
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