Find the Ideal Soul Mate?
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How do you find the ideal soul mate? As one person told me, in order to find the ideal soul mate, you must be the ideal soul mate for for that special single. What did she mean by that? Simply that as Christian singles there are certain traits that will make it easier to find that ideal Christian soul mate. The following ingredients evident in every healthy marriage relationship, and as singles we must strive to get them in our dating relationships as we seek to find the ideal soul mate for life.
Keys to Finding the Ideal Soul Mate
Patience
Besides waitng in patience on God, if we are to connect with another single person to find out if they are the potential ideal soul mate, we must be willing to invest time and effort into the endeavor. As the say, Rome was not built in a night, and neither will a soul mate relationship bud in one or two dates.
Truthfulness
If we are to find the ideal soul mate, we must be our true selves and vulnerable if a connection is to occur. Otherwise you or the other person may risk falling in love with a false perception of who you think that person is, rather than who they really are. I can’t tell you the number of singles who have deep regrets for entering into a Christian marriage under such false pretenses. There is a certain fear and risk involved in being truthful about who we really are as people, but in the end it will be worth it if you find that ideal soul mate.
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is the healing glue that hold together all great relationships. Why? Because at one time or another we all screw up and have need to either forgive or ask for forgiveness. Arguments will occur, so you need to learn how to deal with fighting early on in a dating relationship. Please don’t be so unrealisitc to think that even if you find that ideal soul mate you’re not going to have trials. As our bible verse of the day states: Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. (Colossians 3:13)
Overall, if you put into practice the above keys, you you will be more apt, with the Lord’s help to find your ideal soul mate.
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Holy Ghost-Do You Believe in Ghosts?
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Woooo! This now in: According to the Associated Press, 38% of Americans (many of whom are singles) believe in ghosts. Do you? Anyway, I wonder if that includes belief in the Holy Ghost, the third Person of the Trinity? The Bible teaches that the gift of the Holy Ghost is given to all who become Christians through faith in Jesus Christ.
The Holy Ghost is God Over All Ghosts
The Scriptures are pretty clear that ghosts do in fact exist. Whether they are demons or dismembered spirits of human beings (Ex: In 1 Samuel 28:7-19, King Saul seeks the Witch of Endor to contact the ghost of Samuel), I don’t really know. I do know that God clearly condemns contacts with ghosts or spirits of any kind (Lev. 20:6) and that the Holy Ghost, God Himself, is above all and guides and comforts us through all our experiences in this world.
So let me ask you a question: Do you know the Holy Ghost? Is He residing in your heart? If you do, you need not fear any other kind of ghost.
Bible Verse of Day
~For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father~ Romans 8:14
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True Love Quotes
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Ah yes, true love. Although there are hundreds of true love quotes out there, many of us often mistake lust for true love. Recently a Christian single gal wrote us asking what true love was all about. Well, I just happened to be going through Rick Warren’s 40 Days of Community devotional, where he writes about true love, and has several true love quotes from 1 Corthinians 13:
- True love always protects
- True love always trusts
- True love perseveres
My Favorite True Love Quote
~True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly~
I think the above true love quote is what God’s love is all about, and what our professed love for others should be about as well. Have a true love quotes to share?
