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January 一月
2008 2008年
Many singles write us asking for Christian dating principles or许多单打写我们要求基督徒约会原则或 Christian dating rules基督教约会规则 to guide their dating lives.来指导自己的约会生活。 Well listen.以及听。 I don’t claim to be a Christian dating expert, but I do know that the Scriptures have some wonderful stuff from which we can cobble some general Christian dating principles.我不声称自己是一个基督教约会专家，但我知道圣经中有一些优秀的东西，从其中我们可以卵石一些一般性的基督教约会原则。
Top Christian Dating Principles for Singles顶部基督教约会原则单打
- Guard Your Heart- This means not 警惕你的心-这意味着不 rushing in like a fool in love赶在像一个傻瓜在爱 into a Christian dating relationship but be sensible about it.成为一个基督徒约会的关系，但很明智态度。 No need to be没有必要加以 a desperate Christian dater绝望的基督教dater here.在这里。 “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23)” So take time to see if you are really "看得高于一切，警惕你的心，因为这是泉源的生活（索洛蒙箴言4:23 ） " ，所以需要时间来看看，如果你是真的 compatible with your Christian date与您的基督徒日期 before giving away your heart.然后送你的心。 Okay?还好吧？
- You Are Who You Date- Yeah I know…the saying is “you are what you eat.” But the fact is you will be highly influenced by the person you end up dating. 你是谁，你的日期是啊，我知道…该说的是"你是你吃的东西" ，但事实是，你将很有影响的人，你最终约会。 If you are如果你是 dating an unbeliever约会一个异教徒 , even for “missionary dating” reasons, chances are you will be negatively influenced by him or her “Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character.” (1 Corinthians 15:33).即使是"传教约会"的原因，很可能你将受到负面影响，他或她"不要被误导：不良公司腐化，良好的品格" （哥林多前书15时33分） 。
- Know What Love Is- So you think you have all the 知道什么是爱，因此，你认为你有一切 signs of a great Christian dating relationship?标志一个伟大的基督徒约会的关系？ Put your Christian dating to把你的基督徒要追溯到 the true love or lust test.真正的爱情，有欲望的考验。 “Love is patient, love is kind…..” (1 Corinthians 13) "爱情是耐心，爱是一种… … " （哥林多前书13 ）
Overall, Christian dating can be confusing indeed, but if you put into practice the above Christian dating principles and the belove Bible verse of the day I don’t think you can go wrong.总体而言，基督教约会，可以混淆的确，但如果你付诸实践上述基督教约会原则和彼罗菲经文的一天，我不认为你可以去错了。
~Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship~Romans 12:1 〜因此，我呼吁你们，兄弟们，鉴于上帝的怜悯，提供你的身体为生活牺牲，神圣和令人欣慰的上帝-这是你的精神行事的崇拜〜罗马书1 2:1
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7 七日
January 一月
2008 2008年
Well…we finally did it!好… …我们终于赢了！ We now have a现在我们有一个 FREE Christian Singles Forum for single Christians免费基督教单打论坛为单身基督徒 . 。 The vision for this Christian singles forum is that it will help Christian singles connect with each other for dating advice, fellowship and ministry…all for FREE!远见这个基督教单打论坛的是，这将有助于基督教单打连接与对方约会建议，团契及部…所有这一切都是免费！
We have a lot of cool features on our Christian singles forum like instant messaging, so register, set up a profile (you can include a photo if you wish) and introduce yourself under “Introduce Yourself to other Singles.” Boy that was original, right?我们有许多酷炫功能对我们基督徒单打论坛，例如即时消息，所以注册时，成立了一个剖面（你可以包括图片，如果你想） ，并介绍自己的"介绍自己的其他单打"的男孩，这是原著，对不对？ Although we get many thousands of visitors each week, it’s gonna take a while for our forum to populate.虽然我们获得了数以千计的游客每星期，它在哪里也需要一段时间，为我们这个论坛来填充。 So it comes down to this: The more singles and their friends we get to register the more it will attract, so register and post away and you will be having lots of interaction with thousands of singles in no time.因此，可以归结为一点：越是单打和自己的朋友们，我们取得登记，越有利于吸引，所以登记后离开，你将拥有大量的互动与数以千计的单打在任何时候。 Think of the potential for fellowship, pen pals and more!认为这一潜在的奖学金，笔友和更多！
We have a number of singles categories you may be interested in including Dating and Relationships Advice, Single Parenting, Ask a Guy, Ask a Girl, Prayer Requests and others.我们有若干单打类别，你可能有兴趣在包括约会和人际关系咨询，单亲，想问一个家伙，问一个女孩，祈祷请求等。 Oh yeah…I almost forgot.噢，耶… …我几乎忘了。 If you’re interested in being a moderator when we start growing (and we will), just contact us through the singles forum.如果您有兴趣在一名主持人的时候，我们开始成长（我们会） ，刚刚联系我们透过单打论坛。 Blessings and I hope you enjoy our祝福，我希望您能喜欢我们的 Christian singles forum.基督教单打论坛。
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4 四
January 一月
2008 2008年
Have you ever been asked by someone why you’re still single? During the holidays many singles were no doubt asked that worn out question by well meaning relatives and friends, “So why you’re still single?” Don’t you just hate that question?你从未问过某人，你为什么还是单身？农历新年假期期间，许多单身者毫无疑问，要求破旧问题，是由意义的亲人和朋友， "那么，为什么你还在单身吗？ "难道你们不只是恨这问题吗？ Many who desire marriage cringe at such a question but perhaps it a good one to ask of ourselves as we enter a brand new year.很多人的愿望，婚姻，不禁在这样的一个问题，但也许是好的，要问自己，要不然我们进入一个崭新的一年。 No need for sulking over why you’re still single here.没有必要sulking为什么你还在单身这里。 Introspection can be a good thing if it leads to positive changes.反思可能是一件好事，如果因此导致积极的变化。
Reasons Why You’re Still Single为何你还在单
Recently, we surveyed a number of Christian singles on the question, Why you’re still single.” Here are some of the top reasons they gave for being single, which we lumped together into the following categories:最近，我们调查的一些基督教单打关于这个问题，为什么你还在单身" ，而这里我们有一些最大的原因，他们给为单身，我们混为一谈分为以下几类：
- Love Shyness爱害羞
- Personal个人 fears恐惧 including fear of commitment包括惧怕承诺
- Career/职业生涯/ Money worries金钱忧虑
- Single parent responsibilities单亲责任
- Nowhere to无路可走 meet other single Christians满足其他单一基督教徒
There were a number of others, but I’ll leave that for another article.有一些其他人，但是，我可以离开，对于另一篇文章。
Overall, if you feel why you’re still single has something to do with one of the above please be encouraged as we enter 2008.总体而言，如果你觉得为什么你还在单身有某种联系，与上述其中一个请鼓励我们在进入2008年。 Why?为什么呢？ Because there is no obstacle too great that He cannot overcome if truly commit our ways to Him.因为不存在任何障碍，过大的，他不能克服的，如果真正地致力于我们的方式给他。 Does that sound too simple?没有健全的太简单了？ That’s exactly what the enemy want you to think.这正是敌人想让你的想法。
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it. 承诺你的方式，向上帝祷告，也信任他，他都会去做。 Psalms 35:7 诗篇35:7
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