The following article was written by Jesse Butler, an 18 year old Christian Teen:
Many people feel uncomfortable when the topic of sexual purity or abstinence comes up mainly due to their own temptations, or past sins. As Christians, we are commanded by God to live a sexually pure life. Now I’m sure that all of you have heard all this before: “Save sex for marriage, blah blah blah…”
But the problem is not knowing what is right. The real struggle is doing what is right and saving sex for the right place and time. (which is marriage) Today;s society is screaming at us to engage in sexual activities in any way, and as often as we would like with whoever we want. So how are we as Christians supposed to stay pure and live up to Gods standards.
Sexual Purity Tips
- A good thing that we can to avoid sexual sins is to make sure that we don’t put ourselves in situations where there is temptation. If you are in a dating relationship, and things are getting very serious, then it would be a bad idea to be together alone in a house because it may cause temptation which can lead to sexual sin. Instead go out somewhere where it would be difficult to take things too far.
- Try not to engage in activities that may tempt you to sin sexually. There many fun and creative dating ideas that you can choose from that will help you get brainstorming.
Overall, staying pure is a day by day commitment. Remember that God already has that special someone for you, and if you have sex before marriage, then you will be cheating yourself and your future soul mate of untold great sex.
Bible Verse of Day
We should not commit sexual immorality
1 Cor. 10:8
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Posted: Bible Verse of Day, Christian Singles and Sex Tags: sexual abstinence, Dating and Sex
I often hear Christian singles complain that “there are no singles in my area for free to date.” What these singles mean is that there are no free Christian dating sites out there. In fact, we have written several articles on the subject of “finding singles in my area for free.” We have also listed several Christian dating services that offer FREE trial memberships.
For all the hoopla over online dating, our research shows that online Christian dating is still not the number 1 way singles meet other singles. Don’t get me wrong, dating online as a single Christian is cool, and I obviously support it because we give free online Christian dating tips on how to start right here.
However, our first suggestions would be to first start at your local church and work your way out among your friends if you are looking to find singles in your area free of cost. And how those local and free Christian singles groups?
By the way, if you live in NJ and looking for a church, feel free to check out our new NJ church at www.Oasis-Church-NJ.com. Our church is located in Central New Jersey and is geared for both singles and young families, with equal attention given to each.
In the meantime learning to find Contentment being Single will help greatly as we wait on the Lord for His provision of a soulmate/life partner.
Bible Verse of Day
~Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little~Philippians 4:11,12
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Have you had your heart broken in a relationship? Being rejected is very painful and at first it may seem that things will never get better. However, in time you will heal and be ready to date another person. In the middle of all these emotions, it is very important to remember romans 8:28. All things work together for good for those that love the lord. All things; even a breakup. God is all powerful and all knowing, and he knows what is best for you in the end. Although it may not make sense at the time, God is working everything together for good if you love him. This means that we don’t need to stress out or worry about anything because the Lord is in control and he will work All Things for good if you love him. Eventually, you will heal from you heartbreak and you will also see how God has worked everything together for good.
~And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,who have been called according to his purpose~Romans 8:28
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