يعزل استمناء ومسيحية

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[لت'س] [تلك بووت] ال [م] كلمة ويعزل مسيحية. استمناء ذكريّة. استمناء أنثويّة. استمناء مراهقة. استمناء مزمنة. يكون هو خطيئة إلى [مستثربت]? تكون أنت يشعر متضايق بعد? كثير كنائس ظاهريّا لأنّ هم يتفادون الاستمناء موضوع [أس ولّ س] [أسما] يتجنّب خانة مثقّل ب عمليّة أسر. هذا قليلا ساخرة, أن يقول ال بعض, عندما يكشف فحص بعد فحص أغلبية من مسيحيات وحيدة من كلّ أعمار مختلفة (شدادات و [غل]) [مستثربتد].

عزلت كمسيحية, فقط ماذا يكون ك أحاسيس حول استمناء? تكون أنت [مستثربتور]? أنت تكافح مع أسلوب حياتك مسيحية لأنّ أنت تشعر هو [مورلّي] خاطئة? أنت تعيش في شعور بالذنب وإرباك على الإصدار كاملة?

يظلم شخصيّا, أنا يستطيع لا يقف هو عندما معلمات مسيحية هكذا عقديّة على ال "[ريغتس]" و"" من أنشطة [مستثربتوري] لأنّ هو يكون هذا إصدار معقّدة, مع كثير احتمالات مختلفة يربط إلى الممارسة. هكذا سيحاول أنا أن يترك ي يعظ في المنبر بما أنّ أنا أشارك من قلبي بعض بطاقات و [سكريبتثرس] أن يساعد أرشدت أنت من خلال هذا مسألة حسّاسة.

استمناء بطاقات

1. الكتاب مقدّس يسكت على الإصدار الاستمناء [إفن ثوو] ال [فست مجوريتي] الجنس بشريّ يكون شغلت مع هو.
2. قد حاول الكنيسة [رومن-كثوليك], بعض [بروتستنت دنومينأيشن] وحتّى [وبستر] معجم أن يعادل الخطيئة [أنن] (تكوين 38:6 - 10) مع استمناء, غير أنّ تأويل بسيطة من هذا ممرات يعيق هذا إمكانية. أنت ترى, تحت قانون [جويش], شخص كان تطلّبت أن ينجب مع أخه أرملة. عندما رفض [أنن] من أنانية, اللورد قتله. النتيجة أخيرة هنا? God did not whack Onan for whacking off, but rather for “spilling his seed” by ejaculating outside of his dead brother’s wife during sexual intercourse.
3. Many Christian singles and not a few Christian pastors feel masturbation to orgasm is acceptable in order to: 1) relieve unabated sexual tension, and/or 2) to avoid sexual immorality. The catch is that there should be no lustful thoughts connected to the act.
4. The vast majority of single Christians feel that compulsive masturbation, simply for the purpose of self gratification, is always wrong. Most would also agree that habitual masturbation while single will make it harder for any future spouse to please them sexually.

Notwithstanding the above points, let the following paraphrased verses guide you as you pray and seek the Lord over whether masturbating should have any room in your life as a single person:

• Matthew 5:28- Looking lustily at a woman (or a man if you’re a woman) means you are commiting adultery in your heart.
• 1 Corinthians 6:12- All things are lawful for you, but not all things are profitable.
• 1Corinthians 6:19,20- Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and so you should glorify God with it.
• 1 Thessalonians 4:4,5- You should learn to control your body in a holy and honourable way, not in passionate lust like the heathens.
• 2 Peter 2:19- You are a slave to whatever has mastered you.
• James 4:17- If you know you should do something, but fail to do it, it’s sin.

Finally, if you are a Christian who is really beating yourself up over the issue of masturbation, or are struggling with sexual impurity, remember that Jesus offers forgiveness (1 John 1:9) you and loves you where you are. Also consider the words of James Dobson of Focus on the Family:

“It is my opinion that masturbation is not much of an issue with God. It does not cause disease. It does not produce babies, and Jesus did not mention it in the Bible. I’m not telling you to masturbate, and I hope you won’t feel the need for it. But if you do, it is my opinion that you should not struggle with guilt over it.”

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Sexual Purity and Abstinence

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The following article was written by Jesse Butler, an 18 year old Christian Teen:

Many people feel uncomfortable when the topic of sexual purity or abstinence comes up mainly due to their own temptations, or past sins. As Christians, we are commanded by God to live a sexually pure life. Now I’m sure that all of you have heard all this before: “Save sex for marriage, blah blah blah…”

But the problem is not knowing what is right. The real struggle is doing what is right and saving sex for the right place and time. (which is marriage) Today;s society is screaming at us to engage in sexual activities in any way, and as often as we would like with whoever we want. So how are we as Christians supposed to stay pure and live up to Gods standards.

Sexual Purity Tips

1. A good thing that we can to avoid sexual sins is to make sure that we don’t put ourselves in situations where there is temptation. If you are in a dating relationship, and things are getting very serious, then it would be a bad idea to be together alone in a house because it may cause temptation which can lead to sexual sin. Instead go out somewhere where it would be difficult to take things too far.
2. Try not to engage in activities that may tempt you to sin sexually. There many fun and creative dating ideas that you can choose from that will help you get brainstorming.

Overall, staying pure is a day by day commitment. Remember that God already has that special someone for you, and if you have sex before marriage, then you will be cheating yourself and your future soul mate of untold great sex.

Bible Verse of Day

We should not commit sexual immorality
1 Cor. 10:8

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Sex Sin in Christian Singles

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Sex sin is a huge issue for christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least tempted in this particular area.

What exactly is sexual sin? There are a number of words the Bible uses that would go under the umbrella of sexual sins:

• Fornication-Any unlawful sexual intercourse outside of marriage.
• Sexual Immorality-An other sexual activity outside of a God ordained union of man and wife, other than sexual intercourse, that would be considered defrauding your single brother or sister (1Thes. 4).

For example, oral sex outside of marriage would fall under this second category of sex sin. So, when a popular US president stated: “I did not have sex with that woman”, he was partially telling the truth in that he did not specifically commit fornication as biblically defined, but did partake in sexual immorality. Get it?

Phew! This is all a little confusing, and I’ll be the first to admit that there are a lot of gray areas. The point is though, I think most believers know when we are crossing a line into sex sin territory. If you’re one of the many single Christians struggling with sex sin, remember God’s wonderful provision of assistance:

Bible Verse of Day

“No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. and God is faithful: He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so you can stand up under it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13

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