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June 6
2006 2006
One of the hardest things for Christian singles is remaining sexually pure.最困难的事之一，为基督教单打剩下的是纯粹性。 It doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or man, or whether you believe in courtship or traditional dating.不要紧，如果你是一个单身女子或男子，还是你认为在求爱或传统约会。
Yes, remaining sexually pure as a single Christian is a real battle, a tug-o-war between our raging hormones and desires, and our Lord’s plan for our lives in this area: “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable.” (1Thes 4:3)不错，其余性纯作为一个单一的基督教是真正的战斗，拖船-邻之间的战争的熊熊荷尔蒙和欲望，而我们的主的计划为我们的生活在这方面说： "这是上帝的意志，你应该被神圣化，你应该避免性不道德;每一个你应该学习如何控制自己的身体在某种程度上是神圣和崇高。 " （ 1thes 4:3 ）
If you are a Christian single struggling with sexual impurity, you are probably doing so in one or more of these areas:如果你是一个基督徒单一挣扎性杂质，你可能做一个或更多的这些方面：
- Pornography addiction色情成瘾
- A Christian dating relationship that started off well, but has now devolved into an out-of-control sexual one基督徒约会的关系，起步良好，但现已移交成失控性之一
- Habitual masturbation惯性自慰
- An adulterous relationship with someone else’s mate一个通奸与别人的搭档
Christain Singles’ Sexual Sins and Isolation基督教单打的性罪孽和分离
More than most any other sin, sexual sins tend to be be hidden, secret sins that few close to us will know we are commiting.超过大多数其他任何单性过错往往会被隐藏，秘密罪，很少接近，我们将知道我们犯。 Also, due to the perceived embarrassing nature of sexual impurity, many Christain singles feel they have no where to turn for help with their sexual problems. Additionally, many churches lack mechanisms to deal with such issues.另外，由于感觉尴尬性性杂质，许多基督教单打感到，他们并没有向何处求助与自己的性问题。另外，许多教会缺乏机制来处理这类问题。
Help for Christian Singles with Sexual Impurity in Their Lives帮助基督教单打性杂质，在其生命
Dear single brothers and sisters, if you are feeling lost and alone in sexual impurity, and see no way out, let me make the following suggestions:亲爱的单身兄弟姐妹，如果你感觉失去了独性杂质，而看不到出路，我提出以下建议：
Remember how much God loves you. 记得多少上帝爱你。
Although sexual impurity may take you out of fellowship with your Heavenly Father, His love for you remains unchanged.虽然性杂质可能你们出金同贵天父，他爱你不变。 If you are now living in sexual sin, you are one prayer away from forgiveness and complete cleansing (1John 1:9). His heart’s desire for you is complete restoration, and the rebuilding of your intimate relationship with Him.如果你正生活在性单，你是一个祈祷远离宽恕和彻底清洗（约翰1:9 ） 。他心中的愿望，为你完成修复工作，以及重建你的亲密关系，他的说法。
Understand God’s perspective on sex. 明白上帝的角度对性。
Hey, I love sex, and I hope you do too.嘿，我爱美女，我希望你过。 But the fact of the matter is God loves sex even more than we do.但事实上，是神爱的性，甚至比我们做的。 Afterall, he thought of it, right?毕竟，他想起了它，对不对？
Most of us have heard that God is not a kill-joy when it comes to sex (See Song of Solomon). Yet as it’s inventor, He wants us to enjoy the full purpose for which he created it. It’s a wonderful and exciting expression of love within the bonds of marraige between a man and a woman.我们大多数人听说上帝是不是杀-欢乐的时候，性（见雅歌） 。然而，作为它的发明者，他希望我们能充分享受为目的，而他一手创立的。它的一个精彩和激动人心的表达爱与债券之间的婚姻为一男一女。 When we settle for anything less than this, we cheat ourselves.当我们解决什么比这个目标，我们欺骗自己。
Find a Christian singles support group for sharing and accountability. 找到一个基督教单打支援小组共享和问责制。
The Scriptures tell us we should confess our faults to one another (James 5:16).圣经告诉我们应该承认我们的失误，以一又（詹姆斯5点16分） 。 Why?为什么？ Sharing our sins and struggles in a safe group setting helps the healing process and causes spiritual growth.分享我们的罪孽和斗争安全小组设置有助于愈合过程和原因的精神成长。
If your church does not have such a group, do a Google search for one in your area.如果你的教会没有这样的一个集团，做一个谷歌寻找一个在你的领域。 It’s easy.它的容易。
Avoid situations which bring added temptation. 避免局势增添诱惑。
Paul told Timothy to flee youthful lusts. Only you know the situations that cause you temptation.保罗告诉提摩太逃亡青春欲望。只有你知道的情况，造成你的诱惑。 We know that good intentions can only go so far, but with Jesus’ help you can have victory over sexual impurity in your life. 我们知道好意只能走那么远，但耶稣的帮助你能战胜性杂质在你的生活。
Are you a Christian single who has struggled with sexual impurity?你是一个单一的基督教人士挣扎性杂质？ Help other singles by sharing your thoughts and comments.帮助其他单打分享您的想法和意见。
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July 7
2006 2006
Let’s talk about the M word and Christian singles.让我们说说米字和基督教单打。 Male masturbation.男性自慰。 Female masturbation.女性自慰。 Adolescent masturbation.少女自慰。 Chronic masturbation.慢性自慰。 Is it a sin to masturbate?它是一个单曝光？ Are you feeling uncomfortable yet?你感觉不舒服的事情？ Most churches apparently are because they avoid the masturbation topic as well as Osama bin Laden evades captivity.大多数教堂显然是因为他们避免自慰话题以及拉登逃避囚禁。 This is a little ironic, to say the least, when survey after survey reveals a majority of single Christians of all different ages (guys and gals) have masturbated.这是一个小讽刺，至少可以说，当调查后，调查显示，大多数单身基督徒所有不同年龄（小伙gals ）吊死。
As a Christian single, just what are your feelings about masturbation?作为一个单一的基督教，到底是你的感受，自慰？ Are you a masturbator?你masturbator ？ Do you struggle with the practice because you feel it is morally wrong?你的奋斗与实践，因为你觉得它是道德上是错误的？ Do you live in guilt and confusion over the whole issue?你生活在内疚和混乱，在整个问题？
Personally, I can’t stand it when Christian teachers are so dogmatic on the ”rights” and “wrongs” of masturbatory activities because it’s such a complex issue, with many different contingencies connected to the practice.个人，我不能袖手旁观，当基督徒教师都是这样武断对"权利"与"错"的masturbatory活动，因为它的这样一个复杂的问题，与很多不同的应急连接到实践。 So I’ll try to leave my preaching in the pulpit as I share from my heart some observations and Scriptures to help guide you through this sensitive issue.所以，我将设法离开我的说教，在讲坛作为我分享我的心一些意见和经文，以帮助指导你通过这个敏感的问题。
Masturbation Observations自慰意见
- The Bible is silent on the issue of masturbation even though the vast majority of humankind is preoccupied with it.圣经是沉默就自慰即使绝大多数是人类与专注。
- The Roman Catholic Church, some Protestant denominations and even Webster’s Dictionary have attempted to equate the sin of Onan (Genesis 38:6-10) with masturbation, but a simple exegesis of these passages precludes this possibility. You see, under Jewish law, a person was required to procreate with his brother’s widow.天主教，一些新教教派甚至韦氏字典企图等同的单目（创38:6-10 ）自慰，但一个简单的注释，这些机票排除这个可能性。你看，根据犹太法律一个人需要生育与他兄弟的遗孀。 When Onan refused out of selfishness, the Lord killed him.当韩拒绝出自私，上帝将他打死。 The bottom line here?底线这里？ God did not whack Onan for whacking off, but rather for “spilling his seed” by ejaculating outside of his dead brother’s wife during sexual intercourse.上帝没有偏离目为库房过，而是"泄露他的种子" ejaculating之外他死去的弟弟的妻子在性交。
- Many Christian singles and not a few Christian pastors feel masturbation to orgasm is acceptable in order to: 1) relieve unabated sexual tension, and/or 2) to avoid sexual immorality.许多基督徒单打，而不是少数基督教牧师感到自慰到高潮，是可以接受的，以： 1 ）减轻有增无减性紧张，和/或2 ） ，以避免性不道德。 The catch is that there should be no lustful thoughts connected to the act.渔获，是不应有任何想法色连接法。
- The vast majority of single Christians feel that compulsive masturbation, simply for the purpose of self gratification, is always wrong. Most would also agree that habitual masturbation while single will make it harder for any future spouse to please them sexually. 绝大多数单身基督徒觉得强迫手淫，只是为自我满足，总是错误的。最也会同意手淫习惯，而单将更难应付未来的配偶，请他们性。
Notwithstanding the above points, let the following paraphrased verses guide you as you pray and seek the Lord over whether masturbating should have any room in your life as a single person:尽管上述几点，让以下转述诗句引导你们祈祷，并寻求主逾自慰是否应该有余地，你的生活作为一个单一的人：
- Matthew 5:28- Looking lustily at a woman (or a man if you’re a woman) means you are commiting adultery in your heart.马太5点28分-寻找敲出一个女人（或男人，如果你是一个女人）你是犯通奸罪在你的心。
- 1 Corinthians 6:12- All things are lawful for you, but not all things are profitable.哥林多6点12分-所有的东西都是合法的，你的，但不是所有的东西都有利可图。
- 1Corinthians 6:19,20- Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and so you should glorify God with it. 1corinthians 6:19,20 -你的身体是庙圣灵，所以你应该颂扬上帝而已。
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4,5- You should learn to control your body in a holy and honourable way, not in passionate lust like the heathens. 1尼迦4:4,5 -你要学会控制你的身体在神圣与光荣，而不是激情的欲望像产物。
- 2 Peter 2:19- You are a slave to whatever has mastered you. 2 2时19分彼得-你是一个奴隶，无论掌握了你。
- James 4:17- If you know you should do something, but fail to do it, it’s sin.詹姆斯4点17分-如果你知道你应该做的事，但做不到，它的单。
Finally, if you are a Christian who is really beating yourself up over the issue of masturbation, or are最后，如果你是一个基督徒到底是谁打你了以上的问题，手淫，或者是 struggling with sexual impurity挣扎性杂质 , remember that Jesus offers forgiveness (1 John 1:9) you and loves you where you are. Also consider the words of James Dobson of Focus on the Family :记耶稣宽恕优惠（ 1约翰1:9 ） ，你和你爱你所在。同时考虑的话，詹姆斯多布森的重点放在家庭 ：
“It is my opinion that masturbation is not much of an issue with God. "这是我认为自慰是没有太大的问题，与神。 It does not cause disease.它不会引起疾病。 It does not produce babies, and Jesus did not mention it in the Bible.它不生产婴儿，耶稣并没有提到它在圣经。 I’m not telling you to masturbate, and I hope you won’t feel the need for it.我并没有告诉你们曝光的，我希望你不会感到这种需要。 But if you do, it is my opinion that you should not struggle with guilt over it.”但如果你说了，这是我认为你不应该纠缠在内疚。 "
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August 8
2006 2006
The Bible talks about four basic purposes of sex: procreation, recreation, release and intimate communication.圣经谈四个基本宗旨性别：生育，娱乐，释放和亲密沟通。 Does it get any better than this?是否得到任何比这更好？
Regarding sex as intimate communication, our Bible verse of the day is found in Genesis 2:24: “ Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh .”关于性的亲密沟通，我们的圣经诗句的一天发现成因2时24分： " 所以应一名男子离开父亲和母亲，并会裂开に妻子 ： 他们应一体 " 。
Most Bible expositors teach that the “one flesh” spoken of in our verse means the amazing blending of body, spirit, mind and soul–your entire being–with your husband or wife.最expositors圣经教导说， "一体"的话，我们韵文手段惊人勾兑身体，精神，心灵和灵魂，你被整-你的丈夫或妻子。 Talk about intimate communication!谈亲密沟通！
In essence, the Lord’s great plan for sex was intended for married couples as a means of totally revealing themselves to each other.在本质上，上帝的伟大计划性意夫妇作为一种手段，完全暴露自己向对方。 Sex is intimate communication because it provides a way for of a couple to “know” each other in the full sense of the word.性是亲密沟通，因为它提供了一种方法，为一对夫妇，以"了解"对方在完整意义上的字。 That’s why Christian singles who choose to have sex outside of a commitment in marriage may enjoy “great sex”, but cheat themselves out of all the rest as God intended.这就是为什么基督教单打选择性交以外的承诺，在婚姻，可享有"伟大性" ，但欺骗自己的全部休息上帝打算。
Today, as you dwell on the topic of sex as communication, pray for your future husband or wife.今天，当你谈论话题性的沟通，祈求你的未来丈夫或妻子。 You may not know who they are, but God does!你可能不知道他们是谁，但上帝没有！ Thank the Lord that you are a sexual being, and thank Him that He is preparing a mate that will one day become “one flesh” with you.感谢上帝，你是一个正性，并感谢他正准备交配，将有一天成为"一体"与你。
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September 9
2006 2006
John is a thirty-something Christian single whose sex life is a real mess!约翰是一个30岁左右的基督教单一的性生活，是一个真正的烂摊子！ After just promising God through tears that he would clean up his sex life, and not have sex again with his Christian girlfriend, he ended up in the sack this past Saturday night for the umpteenth time.经过公正光明上帝透过泪水说，他会清理自己的性生活，并没有发生性关系再次与他的基督教女朋友，他结束了在这个布包过去周六晚无数时间。
John is now depressed over his约翰现萧条他 lack of sexual purity缺乏性纯洁 . 。 He also knows his sex life is out of control, but doesn’t know where to turn.他还知道他的性生活是失控，但不知道在哪里转。 He is afraid others will judge him, and is embarrassed to discuss his sex life with a counselor.他是怕别人听，是不好意思来讨论他的性生活与参赞。 Worst of all, John feels God can’t forgive him of this sexual sin because it happens over and over again.最糟糕的是，约翰觉得上帝不能原谅他的性本善，因为它发生一遍又一遍。
Does this story sound familiar to you?请问这个故事健全熟悉你？ If I had a penny for every time I heard single women and single men sing the “sex life blues”, I’d be able to retire.如果我有一分钱，为每次我听到单身女性和单身男人唱"性生活蓝调" ，我可以退休。 Fact is, many single Christians walk around with guilt, depression and heaviness of heart due to sex life sins that so easily entangle them.事实是，许多单身基督徒走走与内疚，抑郁和沉重的心因性生活太重，所以很容易卷入其中。
If you are one of the many people struggling (like myself) with temptations in your sex life, please know that our Lord has not abandoned you.如果你是其中的许多人挣扎（像我）的诱惑，在你的性生活，请知道我们的上帝并没有放弃你。 There is no sin too great that he cannot forgive; no wound too deep that He cannot heal.毫无罪恶太大，他不能原谅;没有伤口太深，他无法愈合。 Just go to Him humbly, and be honest about your sex life.刚刚去他谦虚，诚实对你的性生活。 Pour out your heart and Jesus will meet you where you are, and bring peace.倾出你的心和耶稣会和大家见面，你在什么地方，并带来和平。
Verse Of The Day韵文的一天
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1John 1:9. "如果我们承认我们的罪孽，他是忠实和公正原谅我们的罪孽，净化我们一切不正" 。约翰1:9 。
Quote Of The Day每日名言
There is nothing, absolutely nothing, that God will not forgive. 没有什么，绝对没有什么，上帝不会原谅。 You cannot “out-sin” His forgiveness. 你不能"出仙" ，他宽恕。 You cannot “out-sin” the love of God. 你不能"出仙"上帝的爱。
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October 10
2006 2006
Most seasoned Christians are familiar with 2 Corinthians 6:14, concerning being unequally yoked.最老练的基督徒所熟悉科林蒂安2 6时14分，就受到不平等的羁绊。 Most Christians may also agree that a believer should not marry a non-believer.大多数基督徒也可能同意一个信徒不要嫁给一个非信徒。
However, the problem is that being unequally yoked goes beyond just marriage. Any partnership that “yokes” a believer with a non-believer should be avoided.不过，问题是，受到不平等的羁绊超越刚刚结婚。 任何伙伴 "轭"信徒与非信徒，应该避免。 One example of this issue is when a Christian and a non-Christian embark in a business together.这方面的一个例子是，当一个基督徒和一个非基督徒展开在商业在一起。 Christian values and moneymaking are at odds many times.基督教价值观和赚钱处于赔率多次。
Dating is a partnership too.约会是一种伙伴关系。 If a believer knows for sure that the potential “date” is a non-believer, the issue of dating should be a “no brainer” for the Christian.如果一个信徒都知道，为确保潜在的"日期"是一个非信徒，问题应约会是一个"没有易如反掌" ，为基督教。 He is unequally yoked.他是不平等的羁绊。 The believer shouldn’t rationalize the decision to date as an opportunity to witness and “create” a Christian spouse.该信徒不应合理化的决定日期为契机，见证"创造"基督的配偶。 The Believer can witness and evangelize without dating, and the witness will be more powerful.信仰见证和无不良约会，与证人将更为强大。
Is it a sin for a believer to date a non-believer?它是一个单信至今一个非信徒？ I don’t know, but I do know it is unwise.我不知道，但我知道这是不明智的。 The Bible is filled with individuals who decided not to follow the Lord’s Wisdom and found misery.圣经充满个人决定不跟随基督的智慧和发现苦难。
Bible Verse of the Day 圣经诗句的一天
D o not be yoked together with unbelievers.丁澳不会羁绊连同る。 For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? 为什么正义和邪恶有共同点？ Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 或有什么奖学金可以轻与黑暗？
2 Cor 6:14 2日6时14分心病
Larry Phillips, the author of this article, is a Youth Leader at 拉里菲利普斯，作者是一个青年领袖 Oleander United Methodist 夹竹桃联合卫 Church, located in Union Grove Alabama. 教堂，位于联盟格罗夫损失1550万美元。 He may be contacted at 他可能在接触 RandomPneumatics@Hotmail.com randompneumatics@hotmail.com
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November 11
2006 2006
Please pray for Ted Haggard, of New Life Church in Colorado.请祈求泰德憔悴，新生活教会在科罗拉多。 Oh, Jesus will forgive Haggard’s gay sex massage, meth use and hypocrisy.哦，耶稣会原谅憔悴的同性恋色情按摩，使用方法和伪善。 But how about the evangelical Christians out there and the Liberal press?但如何对福音派基督徒出来，并有自由的新闻？
Yeah, I know many folks are in shock that Haggard, the leader of the National Association of Evangelicals (NEA), and someone who is in touch with the Bush White House on a regular basis, would engage in things like gay sex, drugs and who knows what else.嗯，我知道很多乡亲都在冲击憔悴，领导全国协会福音（核能） ，并有人是谁在触摸与布什在白宫定期会搞事像同性恋色情，毒品和谁知道什么。
Fallout from Haggard’s Gay Sex Admission尘从憔悴的同性恋色情入场
Interviewing several Christian singles on the Haggard and gay sex issue, we elicited feelings of anger, pain, betrayal and disgust.走访几位基督教单打就憔悴和同性性问题，引起了我们的感情，愤怒，痛苦，背叛和反感。 One 25 year old Christian single girl lamented that she did not know if she could ever trust another “Christian leader” again.一个25岁的单身基督徒女孩感叹说，她不知道她是否能不断信托另一个"基督教领袖" 。 How sad is that?如何悲哀的是为何？ Let’s pray that other single Christians will not be negatively affected by gay sex sins, or any other sins their leaders commit.让我们祈祷，其他单一基督教徒不会受到负面影响同性恋的性罪，或其他任何过错，他们的领导人承担。
Ted Haggard’s Apology for Gay Sex Sin泰德憔悴道歉同性恋性单
The press is having fun hammering Pastor Ted’s gay sex admission, especially in light of his public opposition to homosexuality and gay marriage.新闻界玩乐击牧师泰德同性恋性入场，尤其是考虑到他的公众反对同性恋和同性恋婚姻。 However, most media outlets conveniently left out the heart of Haggard’s letter of apology to his church for his fall into gay sex.不过，大多数媒体的方便遗漏的心脏憔悴的致歉信给他的教会，他陷入同性恋性行为。 Therefore, we thought it would be good to show it here:因此，我们认为这将是很好的表现，它在这儿：
To my New Life Church family: I am so sorry. 我的新生活家庭教会：我很抱歉。 I am sorry for the disappointment, the betrayal, and the hurt. 对不起失望，背叛和伤害。 I am sorry for the horrible example I have set for you. I have an overwhelming, all-consuming sadness in my heart for the pain that you and I and my family have experienced over the past few days. 对不起可怕例子，我订了你。我有压倒性，所有的哀伤，在我心的痛苦是你，我和我的家人都经历过去几天。 I am so sorry for the circumstances that have caused shame and embarrassment to all of you. I asked that this note be read to you this morning so I could clarify my heart’s condition to you. 我很抱歉，这种情况已经引起羞愧和尴尬，给大家。我问，这说明阅读你今天早上，所以我可以澄清我心中的条件给你。 The last four days have been so difficult for me, my family and all of you, and I have further confused the situation with some of the things I’ve said during interviews with reporters who would catch me coming or going from my home. 过去四天一直这么难我，我的家人和所有的人，你们和我有进一步的混乱局面与一些事情，我曾经说过，在采访记者会追上我的未来还是从我的家。 But I alone am responsible for the confusion caused by my inconsistent statements. 但我感到，仅负责所引起的混乱，我不发言。 The fact is, I am guilty of sexual immorality, and I take responsibility for the entire problem. 但事实是，我犯性不道德，我负责整个问题。
I am a deceiver and a liar. 我是一个骗一个说谎者。 There is a part of my life that is so repulsive and dark that I’ve been warring against it all of my adult life. 还有一部分就是我的生命是如此的丑恶与黑暗，我一直在交战反对我所有的成年生活。
For extended periods of time, I would enjoy victory and rejoice in freedom. 很长时间，我会享受胜利的欢呼和自由。 Then, from time to time, the dirt that I thought was gone would resurface, and I would find myself thinking thoughts and experiencing desires that were contrary to everything I believe and teach. 那么，从时间，泥土，我以为是会去铺，我会觉得自己的思维思考和经历的愿望，违背了一切，我相信并任教。
Through the years, I’ve sought assistance in a variety of ways, with none of them proving to be effective in me. 经过多年，我已经求助中以不同的方式，它们都被证明是有效的话。 Then, because of pride, I began deceiving those I love the most because I didn’t want to hurt or disappoint them. 然后，因为骄傲，我开始欺骗那些我爱最大，因为我不想伤害还是令他们失望。
The public person I was wasn’t a lie; it was just incomplete. 公众人物，我是不是一个谎言;这只是完整。 When I stopped communicating about my problems, the darkness increased and finally dominated me. 当我停下来沟通，对我的问题，增加了黑暗并最终主宰我。 As a result, I did things that were contrary to everything I believe. 作为一个结果，我没有事了，相反的一切，我相信。
The accusations that have been leveled against me are not all true, but enough of them are true that I have been appropriately and lovingly removed from ministry. 指斥已针对我是不是全部属实，但不够，他们是真的，我已妥善爱恋除名部。 Our church’s overseers have required me to submit to the oversight of Dr. James Dobson, Pastor Jack Hayford, and Pastor Tommy Barnett. 我们教会的监督员们，我必须向监督博士詹姆斯多布森，牧师杰克2006 ，牧师和托米巴内特。 Those men will perform a thorough analysis of my mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical life. 那些男将演出全面分析我国心理，精神，情绪，身体和生活。 They will guide me through a program with the goal of healing and restoration for my life, my marriage, and my family. 他们将指导我通过一个程序与目标的愈合和恢复我的生活，我的婚姻和我的家人。
I created this entire situation. 我创造了这个全局。 The things that I did opened the door for additional allegations . 事情，我没有开门额外指控。 But I am responsible; I alone need to be disciplined and corrected. 但我负责;我仅需要予以处分并予以纠正。 An example must be set. 例如，必须定。
It is important that you know how much I love and appreciate my wife, Gayle. 这是很重要的，你知道我是多么热爱和欣赏我的妻子， gayle 。 What I did should never reflect in a negative way on her relationship with me. 我所做的绝不应体现在消极地对她与我。 She has been and continues to be incredible. 她一直并将继续是不可思议。 The problem is not with her, my children or any of you. 问题不在于她，我的孩子或任何你。 It was created 100 percent by me. 它创建百分之百由我。
I have been permanently removed from the office of Senior Pastor of New Life Church. 我已经永远离开办公室高级牧师新的生命教会。 Until a new senior pastor is chosen, our Associate Senior Pastor Ross Parsley will assume all of the the responsibilities of the office. 直到一个新的高级牧师选择，我们的资深协理牧师欧芹罗斯将承担所有的责任办事处。 On the day he accepted this new role, he and his wife, Aimee, had a new baby boy. 就一天，他接受了这个新的角色，他和妻子， aimee了新的男婴。 A new life in the midst of this circumstance - I consider the confluence of events to be prophetic. 新的生活，在一片此情况-我认为合流事件被预言。 Please commit to join with Pastor Ross and the others in church leadership to make their service to you easy and without burden. 请犯下一起牧师罗斯和其他教会领导，使他们的服务你轻松无负担。 They are fine leaders. 他们罚款的领导人。 You are blessed. 你是有福的。
I appreciate your loving and forgiving nature, and I humbly ask you to do a few things. 我很欣赏你的爱和包容性的，我谦卑地请你做几件事。
1.) Please stay faithful to God through service and giving. 1 ） 。请留忠于上帝透过服务，并给予。
2.) Please forgive me. 2 ） 。请原谅。 I am so embarrassed and ashamed. 我这么尴尬和羞愧。 I caused this and I have no excuse. 我造成这个，我没有借口。 I am a sinner. 我是一个罪人。 I have fallen. 我已经堕落。 I desperately need to be forgiven and healed. 我迫切需要得到原谅和愈合。
3.) Please forgive my accuser. 3 ） 。请原谅我的冤家。 He is revealing the deception and sensuality that was in my life. 他揭示了欺骗和性能力那是我的生命。 Those sins, and others, need to be dealt with harshly. 这些罪恶，和其他人，必须加以严厉打击。 So, forgive him and, actually, thank God for him. 所以，原谅他，其实，感谢上帝他。 I am trusting that his action will make me, my wife and family, and ultimately all of you, stronger. 我很信任他的行动将使我，我的妻子和家人，并最终所有的人，你们更强。 He didn’t violate you; I did. 他没有违背你 ; 我就照着做。
4.) Please stay faithful to each other. 4 ） 。请留下忠实于对方。 Perform your functions well. 履行你的职责。 Encourage each other and rejoice in God’s faithfulness. 鼓励相互庆幸上帝的忠诚。 Our church body is a beautiful body, and like every family, our strength is tested and proven in the midst of adversity. 我们的教会团体是一个美丽的身体，并希望每个家庭，我们的实力是检验和证明，在一片逆境。 Because of the negative publicity I’ve created with my foolishness, we can now demonstrate to the world how our sick and wounded can be healed, and how even disappointed and betrayed church bodies can prosper and rejoice. 由于负面宣传，我创建了我的愚蠢，我们现在可以展示给世界，我们如何伤病员可以治愈，如何失望，甚至出卖教会团体蓬勃发展，并感到高兴。
Gayle and I need to be gone for a while. gayle我要消失一段时间。 We will never return to a leadership role at New Life Church. 我们决不回到了领导作用，在新的生命教会。 In our hearts, we will always be members of this body. 在我们心中，我们将永远本组织成员。 We love you as our family. 我们爱你，作为我们全家。 I know this situation will put you to the test. 我知道这个情况将会把你的考验。 I’m sorry I’ve created the test, but please rise to this challenge and demonstate the incredible grace that is available to all of us. 对不起，我已经创造了考验，但请迎接这一挑战，并证明这种难以置信的恩典，是提供给大家。
Ted Haggard 泰德憔悴
Pastor Haggard’s gay sex confession was heartwrenching and raw.牧师憔悴的同性恋色情供词痛心和生吃。 And it was all somehow very refreshing to finally hear the truth stripped of all excuses, and laid bare for all to see.据或多或少都非常清新，终于听到真相剥夺所有借口，并戳穿有目共睹。 Okay, Haggard was caught like a rat, and lied at first.好，憔悴被抓获像老鼠，并谎称起初。 But he eventually did come clean in a humble way about his gay sex encounters and struggles.但他最终没有来清洁一个谦虚地对他的同性性接触和斗争。 He didn’t have to do this.他没有这样做。
Look, was Haggard being a hypocrite for making public stands against the homosexual lifestyle, while at the same time engaging in gay sex?你们看，是被憔悴伪善公开主张对同性恋生活方式同时从事同性恋色情？ Yes.有的。 Did he commit a grievious sin as a minister of of Jesus Christ?他犯了一个grievious单作为一个部长耶稣基督？ Yes again.再次肯定。
How Pastor Haggard Affects Us如何牧师憔悴我们的影响
After I read Pastor Ted’s apology, the Lord convicted me in several areas:之后，我看到牧师泰德道歉，主有罪，我在几个方面：
- Many of us, including myself, have judged Pastor Haggard over his gay sex affair.我们许多人，包括我在内，判断牧师憔悴超过他的同性恋性事。 But do we have have但我们已经有 need to confess secret sins必须承认秘密罪 as well?为好呢？ Now that was a scary thought!现在这是一个可怕的思想！
- Am I truly willing to forgive Pastor Haggard, and better yet, Christian close to us who have done us wrong?我真的愿意原谅牧师憔悴，会更美好，基督徒接近我们的人对我们所做的错？
Bible Verses of Day圣经诗句日间
“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. " 不要判断 ， 还是你们也会判断。 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 在以同样的方式你判断别人，你将判断与衡量你的使用，它将会衡量你。 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? "为什么你看看斑点木屑在你弟弟的眼睛和不注意 ，以木板在自己的眼睛？ How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 你怎能说你哥哥'让我以斑点出你的眼睛，当所有的时间有一个木板，在你自己的眼睛？ You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” Matthew 7:1-5 你伪君子，先以木板出自己的眼睛，然后你会清楚地看到，以消除斑点，从你弟弟的眼睛。 "马太7:1-5
Are you a Christian with something to to share about Ted Haggard and his gay sex sins?你是一个基督徒与一些分享约泰德憔悴和他的同性恋色情罪孽？
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There is an amazing connection between forgiveness and healing in the Bible.是一个了不起的连接宽恕和愈合的圣经。 Forgiveness has amazing benefits.宽恕了惊人的效益。 Forgiveness can heal broken relationships, broken hearts and even bring health to one’s body.宽恕可以愈合的关系破裂，破碎的心，甚至使健康的身体。 Only recently have secular psychologists and doctors begun speaking of the healing power of forgiveness in one’s life.只是近来世俗心理学家和医生开始讲愈合力宽恕，在一个人的生命。
The Forgiveness Problem赦问题
Many Christian singles have problems with their health and the relationships in their lives because they have a major issue with forgiveness.许多基督徒单打有问题，与自己的健康及关系，他们的生活，因为他们有一个大问题，与宽恕。 For example, some singles have had such sour举例来说，有些单打有这种酸味 dating relationships with cheaters约会关系使诈 and及 patholigical liars patholigical说谎者 that they now find it hard to grant forgiveness.他们现在很难给予宽恕。 Others walk around别人走走 gloomy and depressed悲观和沮丧 because they they can’t forgive themselves for past因为他们不能原谅自己的过去 sex sins性罪孽 that God has long forgiven.上帝早已原谅。
Are you a single Christian today in need of forgiveness for how you treated someone in the past?你是一个基督徒今天需要宽恕你如何对待别人，在过去？ Remember Jesus suffered for all your wrongdoing.记得耶稣受难你所有的不法行为。 If He says he has forgiven you (1 John 1:9), in faith you need to forgive yourself.如果他说，他已经原谅你们（ 1约翰1:9 ） ，在信仰中，你要原谅自己。 Is there someone seeking your forgiveness, but you just can’t open up to that person?还有就是有人求你原谅，但你就不能开放这个人？ Jesus says forgive, and you shall be forgiven.耶稣说，请原谅，你应当原谅。 (Luke 6:37). （ 37克） 。
I really hope you don’t think I’m preaching to you.我真的希望你不认为我说教你了。 Why?为什么？ Because lately a whole bunch of people have been ticking off to the point where I have had a difficult time forgiving them.由于近来整个一群人已经打勾假的地步， 我有困难的时候原谅他们。 So I’ll make a deal with you.所以，我会作出处理。 You pray for me and I’ll pray for you, okay?你祈求我，我会为你祈祷，好吗？
Bible Verse of the Day 圣经诗句的一天
“Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. "忍受对方原谅什么委屈，你可能对彼此。 Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13 原谅作为主原谅你。 "罗西3点13
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All Christian single men battle lust of the flesh from time to time.所有基督徒单身男性战斗欲望的血肉联系，从时间。 In fact, let’s just make that ALL guys, whether they be single men or married men, Christian or non-Christian.事实上，让正义，使所有的家伙，无论他们是单身男性或已婚男性，基督徒还是非基督徒。