9
Janvier
2007
Demandez-vous jamais à combien de célibataires dehors là regardent réellement trouvez une épouse chrétienne ? Je penserais que beaucoup de femmes célibataires chrétiennes sur le marché pour un mari seraient intéressées à savoir le nombre d'hommes chrétiens espérant trouver une épouse chrétienne. Puits nous sommes aussi, et c'est une raison pour laquelle notre haut et venir choisit l'aperçu essayeront de mesurer le nombre différent d'hommes simples chrétiens regardant pour trouver une épouse chrétienne, de ceux qui regardent pour trouver simplement une date et de ceux ne cherchant pas un compagnon ou une date du tout.
Manque de conseils bibliques sur la façon dont trouver une épouse chrétienne
Malheureusement, il n'y a aucun conseil datant spécifique dans la bible sur la façon dont trouver une épouse, et vous certainement ne trouverez pas l'enseignement dogmatique à ce sujet. Par exemple, dans les Corinthiens 1 que 7:27 Paul écrit, « êtes-vous célibataire ? Ne recherchez pas le regard pour trouver une épouse. Mais si vous vous mariez, vous n'avez pas sinned… »
Bien qu'il n'y ait aucun « comment playbook trouver épouse » dans le Scriptures, vous trouverez le conseil général sur des matières telles que l'attente sur le seigneur, qui serait applicable dans votre recherche pour trouver une épouse chrétienne.
Vers de bible de jour
« Il qui trouve des trouvailles d'une épouse ce qui est bon et reçoit la faveur du seigneur. »
Proverbes 18:22
Cher père, nous prions pour mes chers frères en Christ qui cherchent un compagne approprié. Nous prions pour leur paix et force pendant qu'ils attendent sur toi. Je vous remercie que vous promettez de fournir tous nos besoins dans votre temps parfait. Nom en Jésus', amen
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8
January
2007
The average Christian woman does her best to be as attractive as possible. Unfortunately, many Christian women are under temendous pressure to conform to the world’s standard of attractive, rather than what God’s word says is appealing.
The Christian Woman and Media Culture
Christian women are exposed to a constant media barrage of what the “perfect woman ” is supposed to look like. The only problem is that the portrayal of what a woman should be is artificial and unattainable. Ironically, many Christian women seeking to find a husband understand this situation, yet also attempt to live up to this unrealistic expectation. You can imagine that the Christian woman caught up in this way of thinking often ends up battling low self-esteem and depression.
Certainly nothing in the Bible precludes a Christian woman from making herself as feminine and appealing as possible. The key is balancing this God given and positive desire with what He says true beauty is all about. In today’s Bible verse of the day, Peter tells us that a Christian woman’s true beauty and attractiveness comes from the heart:
Bible Verse of Day
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”
1 Peter 3:3
If you’re a single Christian woman hoping to marry a dedicated Christian man, remember he will be attracted more to your beautiful walk in the Lord, rather than your body. If he thinks otherwise, he’s simply not worth your time, nor the man of God the Lord is preparing for you.
Are you a Christian woman with something to share about attractiveness?
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Posted: Single Christian Women, Christian Woman, Romance Relationships, Singles Ministry, Lonely Woman, Christian Singles, Bible Verse of Day Tags: Christian Woman, women, attractive, Bible verse of day, 1 Peter 3:3, single Christian
3
January
2007
There are many single Christian women listed in the Bible, and they played a huge role in the spread of the gospel in the early Church. I never really thought about this myself until some single Christian woman during a Bible study asked about single Christian women role models in the Scriptures. So I ended up doing a little bit of digging and found the following single Christian women listed at the bottom of this page.*
An Amazing Single Christian Woman
One of my favorite single Christian women in the NT was Lydia. I wonder what this Christian single woman would have thought of the modern women’s liberation movement. Here is part of her bio:
This single Christian woman was an independent and succesful businesswoman, who was in charge of her own household.
This single Christian woman, the first Christian convert in Europe, also started Europe’s first church right out of her own home! In fact, many of the first antendees of this church were right out of her own household, because she exposed them to words of the Gospel. Had Lydia not taken a faith filled risk by inviting male strangers (Paul and co.) into her home, this may never have occurred.
This single Christian woman had a servant’s heart, helping to take care of the needs of Paul and other missionaries, which in turn helped spread the good news about Jesus even more.
Talk about a positive example of a single Christian woman! This one single Christian made such a difference in the world, and so can we!
Bible Verse of Day
And Mary said:
“My soul glorifies the Lord
and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior,
for he has been mindful of the humble state of His servant” Luke 1:46-48
If you are a single Christian woman, or any Christian for that matter, struggling to balance personal desires (such as dating), job and ministry, remember you have a Lord who knows your name, and is intimately aware of your heart’s needs and burdens.
List of Probable Single Christian Women
Mary Magdalene (Matthew 27, Mark 16, and John 19)
Susanna (Luke 8:2,3)
Martha and Mary and Lazarus’ sisters, (Luke 10, John 11 and 12)
Dorcas (Acts 9:36-42)
Lydia (Acts 16:13-15, 40)
Damaris (Acts 17:34)
Mary (Romans 16:6)
Phoebe (Romans 16:1,2)
Posted: 40-Somethings, 50-Somethings, Single Gals, Single Christian Women, 30-Somethings, Single Parents, Lonely Woman, 20-Somethings, Single Moms, Bible Verse of Day Tags: single Christian women, single Christian woman, Christian single women, liberation movement, Bible verse of day
30
December
2006
Have you heard about those disability dating sites that exist to help disabled singles the chance to meet other singles with similar issues?
Some people use disabilty dating sites because they feel it is harder for them to find a date on a regular dating site. I know of several Christian singles who have physical disabilities, and they with disability dating services. The main reason they use online disability dating is because they feel “normal” singles in the church and those on mainstream matchmaking websites look down on them once they discover they have a disability.
What are your thoughts about disability dating? Personally, something deep in my soul is repulsed by the idea of disability dating. Oh, it has nothing to do with the dear folks who use them. I feel sad that we as human beings categorize some folks as disabled and others as not. After all, aren’t we ALL a little disabled in different ways due to the Fall?
Bible Verse of Day
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God [sees] not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
1Samuel 16:7
How then should we treat and judge each other, and how should this verse effect our dating selections? Wow…that’s a tough one.
Are you a single Christian with something to share about disability dating?
Posted: 40-Somethings, 30-Somethings, 50-Somethings, Inspirational Love Quotes, Disability Dating, Singles Ministry, Single Parents, Bible Verse of Day, Lonely Woman, Christian Singles, 20-Somethings, Christian Social Networks Tags: diability dating, disabilities
25
December
2006
We at Christian Dating Service PLUS! want to take this time to wish the thousands of dear single brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus who visit us each week a very warm and Merry Christmas! It is our hope and sincere prayer that the Lord will bless you with love, hope and joy in the coming year.
As Christian singles we know it is especially during Christmas that many sense a longing for intimacy and love as found in a Christian dating or marriage relationship. Many singles are lacking hope for such a relationship, and are dealing with intense loneliness, along with simply trying to survive the usual holiday blues.
Our heartfelt message to you is to not give up hope in your God. He loves you where you are and promises to meet you in your need. As our Wonderful Counselor, we can run to Him with our burdens, and lay them down at His feet. He really wants us to!
Remember, our Precious Saviour specializes in taking a rotten situation and turning it into something beautiful. The smelly and dank stable He chose to come into the world in speaks volumes regarding this beautiful fact.
Bible Verse of the Day
“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever. The zeal of the LORD Almighty will accomplish this.” Isaiah 9:5,6
Are you a single person with something to share on the topic of hope?
Posted: Thankfulness, Christmas, 30-Somethings, Singles Ministry, Lonely Woman, 20-Somethings, Bible Verse of Day Tags: singles, Christiams, hope, Christian dating, holiday, Bible verse of day, Isaiah 9
23
December
2006
As an employee in family court, I see a lot of single gals come through our doors. Not a few of these single gals are pregnant teen girls in great financial, spiritual and emotional need.
This thought about single gals got me thinking about Mary, the blessed mother of Jesus, our Saviour. Think about it. She too was a single gal, a pregnant teenager with some heavy needs of her own.
Single Gal Problems
First of all, she was a small town single gal who was having a baby. Can you imagine the scandal and hurtful gossip going on in Nazareth at this time? If you’re from a small town or village, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
Secondly, besides this single gal having to deal with all the vicious rumours spreading around town, she also had to worry about her family. What do you think this single gal’s parents had to say about all of this? Suppose you had a teenage daughter. Would you believe her if she told you the Holy Spirit impregnated her? Would you think she was lying? Or Crazy? In the pressure of the moment, would you be tempted to get this single gal an abortion?
Finally, when our single gal left Nazareth for Bethlehem, she literally had nothing but the clothes on her back sans a couple extra rags she was to use as swaddling clothes. In grievous labour pains on the back of a donkey, she arrives at her destination: a smelly stable in the open air of the night. The single gal and Joseph coudn’t afford much else.
At just the right time, this single gal gave birth to a Precious Child without any assistance except for Joseph, who was probably just as clueless as most guys today are under similar circumstances.
I suppose most of us know the rest of this glorious story. This single gal ended up okay because God’s Grace was upon her, as witnessed by our Scripture of the day.
Bible Verse of Day
“My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my saviour, for He has been mindful of the humble state of his servant.”
Luke 1:46,47
Single Gal Promises
If you’re a single gal today with great burdens, and feel there is no hope for you, please know that the same God who blessed Mary in her humble circumstance, is willing and able to do the same for you.
Are you a single gal with something to share?
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Posted: Singles Ministry, 30-Somethings, Single Parent Family, Single Gals, Single Parents, Single Moms, Bible Verse of Day, Christian Teens, Lonely Woman, 20-Somethings, Uncategorized Tags: single gals, single gal, teen girls, christian singles, pregnant, teenager, daughter, Bible verse of day, Luke 1
16
December
2006
Many single women and men walk around with a lot of anger because they are still single long past the time they thought they would be married. Does being single at this time in your life make you angry?
Target of Anger in Relationships
One target of a single person’s anger is directed at God Himself because He has not brought that one true love into their lives. Frustration, jealousy and discouragement cuts deep into them as their closest friends and colleagues (even the ones we thought would nver find anyone!….I know, what a wretched, ungodly thought!) have found their dating match and have gotten married.
Secondly, many Christian singles have unresolved anger against a previous dating relationship partner. Perhaps they were in an abusive relationship, or got dumped for reasons they never understood. This kind of anger has caused a festering of bitterness and cynicism in their hearts, which has only fostered more anger.
Finally, many singles, including Christian singles, have directed anger against themselves for their dating failures and apparent inability to find a marriage partner. Anger turned inward often results in depression, anxiety and a host of other physical ills.
Bible Verse of the Day
In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.
Ephesians 4:26.27
If you are a Christian single today struggling with anger over being single, or at having a failed dating relationship, remember the following practical tips that could help you:
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Admit your anger, and understand the reasons why you are feeling this emotion. Admitting you are ticked off means recognising the emotional and physical signs of anger. This admission is the first step toward resolving the issue. Many Christians suppress anger and feel guilty when they experiencel this powerful emotion because they believe it to be sinful in and of itself. This is simply not the case according to the above verse.
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Restrain your anger by setting ground rules on it. Anger becomes a problem when it becomes uncontrollable. By not letting the sun go down on our anger, we are consciously taking control of our anger. This may mean honestly addressing the person we are angry at, and having a heart to heart talk about our feelings before things get out of hand. At other times restraining our anger may mean taking a long walk to blow off steam, or having a good prayer session.
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Understand the consequences of uncontrolled anger. The Scripture states that unbridled anger (rage really) results in giving the devil, your mortal enemy, a stronghold in your life. We see the results of this kind of anger all over the world today in places like Iraq, our respective workplaces and even our own homes. When we truly understand what is at stake when we allow anger to rule us, we will be more motivated to practice good anger management.
Are you a single Christian who has an anger problem?
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Posted: Singles Ministry, Anger, Single Moms, Lonely Woman, Single Dads, Bible Verse of Day Tags: none
9
December
2006
Christian dating.com singles? Who are these people and where do they come from? Christian dating.com singles are Christian singles who have used or are using online Christian dating services.
Dating.com singles come from all areas and make up all kinds of people. They are Christian single parents, college students, 30-something, never married singles, divorcees and widows, etc.
Christian Dating.Com Singles and the Church
Most attend evangelical churches on Sundays and get involved involved in local ministries such as small groups. The only problem is many of the churches dating.com singles attend have few other singles attending them who are available for a dating relationship. On account of this fact, more and more Christian singles are becoming dating.com singles.
If you are a single Christian thinking about using one of the dating.com services that are scattered throughout the internet, I want to encourage you to have fun, and don’t be bothered by other people judging you for taking a faith filled risk with the Lord in this area of your life. The fact is, tens of thousands of single dating.com Christians are meeting and marrying by using services as ChristianMingle/Relationships.com, Christian Cafe or eHarmony.
Our only piece of Christian dating advice is to educate yourself on how to start using online Christian dating.com services, be patient as you wait on the Lord and to commit everything you do to Him.
Bible Verse of Day
“Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.”
Psalms 37:4-6
Posted: Singles Ministry, Divorced, 30-Somethings, 40-Somethings, 50-Somethings, Single Parents, Single Moms, Bible Verse of Day, Christian Singles Dating, Lonely Woman, Christian Singles, 20-Somethings, Uncategorized Tags: Christian dating.com singles, Christian dating, Christian singles, evangelical, churches, divorcees, widows, college students, teens, Bible vere of day, psalm 37
