9 九日
January 一月
2007 2007年
Ever wonder how many single guys out there are actually looking to find a Christian wife? I would think many Christian single women in the market for a husband would be interested in knowing the number of Christian men hoping to find a Christian wife.以往不知有多少单一的家伙在那里，其实是期待找到一个基督徒的妻子，我会想很多基督徒单身女性在市场上寻找丈夫，将有兴趣知道有多少基督徒男子希望能找到一个基督徒的妻子。 Well we are too, and that’s one reason why our up and coming singles survey will try to quantify the different number of Christian single men looking to find a Christian wife, those looking to simply find a date and those not seeking a mate or date at all.我们有过，而这其中的原因，我们的行动和未来单打调查，会尽量以量化不同数量的基督徒单身男性期待找到一个基督徒的妻子，那些寻求简单地找到一个能和那些没有寻求伴侣或日期都没有。
Lack of Biblical Guidance on How to Find a Christian Wife缺乏圣经指导他们如何找到一个基督徒妻子
Unfortunately, there is no specific dating advice in the Bible on how to find a wife, and you certainly won’t find dogmatic teaching on this subject.不幸的是，我们并没有具体的约会建议在圣经中，就如何找到一个妻子，你一定不会觉得教条式的教学这个问题。 For example, in 1 Corinthians 7:27 Paul writes, “Are you unmarried?例如，在哥林多前书7时27保罗写道， "你是未婚？ Do not look for look to find a wife.不要小看为指望找到一个妻子。 But if you do marry, you have not sinned…”但是，如果你结婚，你有没有犯罪… … "
Although there is no “how to find a wife” playbook in the Scriptures, you will find general advice on topics such as waiting on the Lord, that would be applicable in your search to find a Christian wife.虽然目前还没有" ，如何找到一个妻子"的剧本在经文，你会发现，一般咨询课题，如排队等候耶和华，将适用于在你的搜索找到一个基督教的妻子。
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” "他一个人发现妻子认定，什么是好，并接收青睐，从上主" 。
Proverbs 18:22 谚语18时22分
Dear Father, we pray for my dear brothers in Christ who are seeking a suitable helpmate.亲爱的爸爸，我们祈祷，为我亲爱的弟兄们，在基督里的人正在寻找一个合适的helpmate 。 We pray for their peace and strength as they wait on you.我们祈祷，为他们的和平和力量，因为他们等待在你们身上。 I thank you that you promise to provide all of our needs in your perfect time.我感谢你，你的承诺，以提供我们的所有需要，在您完美的时候。 In Jesus’ Name, Amen奉耶稣之名，阿门
Related Articles: 相关文章：
Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles而基督教单打满足其他单打
What Christian Guys Need in a Wife什么基督教家伙需要在妻子
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8 八
January 一月
2007 2007年
The average Christian woman does her best to be as attractive as possible.平均基督教女，她成为最好的因应作为吸引力越好。 Unfortunately, many Christian women are under temendous pressure to conform to the world’s standard of attractive, rather than what God’s word says is appealing.不幸的是，许多基督徒妇女正在temendous压力，以符合世界的标准有吸引力的，而不是什么神的话语说，是有吸引力。
The Christian Woman and Media Culture基督教女子及媒体文化
Christian women are exposed to a constant media barrage of what the “perfect woman ” is supposed to look like.信仰基督教的妇女有机会接触到一个常数媒体接二连三的什么"完美女人" ，是要这个样子。 The only problem is that the portrayal of what a woman should be is artificial and unattainable.唯一的问题是，这种描写一个什么样的女人应该是人为的和遥不可及。 Ironically, many Christian women seeking to find a husband understand this situation, yet also attempt to live up to this unrealistic expectation.讽刺的是，许多基督徒妇女设法找到一个丈夫了解这样的情况，但也尝试着活到这个不切实际的期望。 You can imagine that the Christian woman caught up in this way of thinking often ends up你可以想见，基督教女赶上了，在这种思维方式往往结束 battling low self-esteem战低自尊 and depression.和抑郁症。
Certainly nothing in the Bible precludes a Christian woman from making herself as feminine and appealing as possible.当然，没有在圣经中排除了一个基督教女作自己的女性，并呼吁市民尽量。 The key is balancing this God given and positive desire with what He says true beauty is all about.关键问题是如何平衡这个上帝给予积极的欲望，跟他说，真正的美是一回事。 In today’s Bible verse of the day, Peter tells us that a Christian woman’s true beauty and attractiveness comes from the heart:在今天的经文的一天，彼得告诉我们，是一个基督教女的真美和吸引力来自于心：
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” "你的美丽不应来自外向装饰品，如编织头发和服装的黄金首饰等财物和罚款的衣服。 相反，它应该是你的内在的自我，里面存着长久温柔安静的心，这是非常值得妆饰" 。
1 Peter 3:3 彼得前3时03分
If you’re a single Christian woman hoping to marry a dedicated Christian man, remember he will be attracted more to your beautiful walk in the Lord, rather than your body.如果你是一个单一的基督教女人希望嫁给一个专门的基督教的男人，还记得他，将吸引更多以你的美丽走在主，而不是你的身体。 If he thinks otherwise, he’s simply not worth your time, nor the man of God the Lord is preparing for you.如果他认为，否则，他的，根本不值得你的时间，也不该名男子的上帝耶和华是准备给你。
Are you a Christian woman with something to share about attractiveness?你是一个基督教女东西分享约吸引力？
Related Christian Women Articles: 有关基督教女文章：
What Christian Women Want in a Guy 什么基督教妇女希望在一个家伙
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys 基督教单身女孩日期坏人
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3 三
January 一月
2007 2007年
There are many single Christian women listed in the Bible, and they played a huge role in the spread of the gospel in the early Church.有许多单身基督徒妇女列在圣经中，他们发挥了巨大的作用，在传播福音，在初期教会。 I never really thought about this myself until some single Christian woman during a Bible study asked about single Christian women role models in the Scriptures.我从来没有真正想过这个自己，直至一些单一基督教女在一本圣经研究被问及单身基督徒妇女的榜样，在念经。 So I ended up doing a little bit of digging and found the following single Christian women listed at the bottom of this page.*因此，我结束了做一点点的挖掘，并发现下列单一基督教妇女列在本页面的底部.*
An Amazing Single Christian Woman一个了不起的单身女基督徒
One of my favorite single Christian women in the NT was Lydia.其中我最喜爱的单身基督徒妇女在新台币是邓莲。 I wonder what this Christian single woman would have thought of the modern women’s liberation movement.我不知道这是什么基督徒单身女性会想到现代妇女解放运动。 Here is part of her bio:这里是她的生物：
This single Christian woman was an independent and succesful businesswoman, who was in charge of her own household.这个单一基督教女是一个独立和成功商人，曾负责她自己的家庭。
This single Christian woman, the first Christian convert in Europe, also started Europe’s first church right out of her own home !这个单一基督教女，第一次转换为基督教在欧洲，也开始了欧洲的第一堂右出了自己的家 ！ In fact, many of the first antendees of this church were right out of her own household, because she exposed them to words of the Gospel.事实上，有很多的第一次antendees这个教堂是正确的走出自己的家庭，因为她揭露他们的话说福音。 Had Lydia not taken a faith filled risk by inviting male strangers (Paul and co.) into her home, this may never have occurred.曾邓莲没有采取一种信仰充满风险，邀请男性陌生人（保罗和合作） ，到她的家里，这可能永远不会发生。
This single Christian woman had a servant’s heart, helping to take care of the needs of Paul and other missionaries, which in turn helped spread the good news about Jesus even more.这个单一基督教女进行了仆人的心，帮助需要照顾的需要，保罗和其他传教士，这反过来又帮助传播好消息告诉耶稣，甚至更多。
Talk about a positive example of a single Christian woman!谈一个很正面的例子，一个单一的基督教女！ This one single Christian made such a difference in the world, and so can we!这个单一基督教作出这样的差异，在世界各地，如此，我们才能！
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
And Mary said: 和玛丽说：
“My soul glorifies the Lord "我的灵魂，美化了主
and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, 和我的精神高兴上帝，我的救世主，
for he has been mindful of the humble state of His servant” Luke 1:46-48 因为他已经注意到这一谦虚的状态，他的仆人"路加福音1:46-48
If you are a single Christian woman, or any Christian for that matter, struggling to balance personal desires (such as dating), job and ministry, remember you have a Lord who knows your name, and is intimately aware of your heart’s needs and burdens.如果你是一个单身女子基督教或任何基督教为这件事，拼搏，以平衡个人私欲（如约会） ，职业和财政部，记得你有一个主谁知道你的名字，并密切知道你的心的需要和负担。
List of Probable Single Christian Women 名单可能单一基督教女
Mary Magdalene (Matthew 27, Mark 16, and John 19)抹大拉的马利亚（马太27日，马克16 ，约翰19 ）
Susanna (Luke 8:2,3)苏珊娜（卢克8:2,3 ）
Martha and Mary and Lazarus’ sisters, (Luke 10, John 11 and 12)玛莎和玛丽和拉撒路'姐妹（卢克10 ，约翰11和12 ）
Dorcas (Acts 9:36-42) dorcas （使徒9:36-42 ）
Lydia (Acts 16:13-15, 40)邓莲（使徒16:13-15 ， 40 ）
Damaris (Acts 17:34) damaris （使徒17时34分）
Mary (Romans 16:6)玛丽（罗马书16时06分）
Phoebe (Romans 16:1,2)楠（罗马书16:1,2 ）
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December 12月
2006 2006年
Have you heard about those disability dating sites that exist to help disabled singles the chance to meet other singles with similar issues?你有听说过那些残疾约会地点存在，以帮助残疾人单打机会，以满足其他单打类似问题？
Some people use disabilty dating sites because they feel it is harder for them to find a date on a regular dating site.有些人用disabilty交友网站，因为他们觉得这是很难为他们找到一个能进行定期的约会站点。 I know of several Christian singles who have physical disabilities, and they with disability dating services.我所知道的几个基督教单打有身体残疾，他们与残疾约会服务。 The main reason they use online disability dating is because they feel “normal” singles in the church and those on mainstream matchmaking websites look down on them once they discover they have a disability.主要原因是，他们使用网上约会残疾，是因为他们觉得"正常"的单曲在教会和那些对主流红娘网站看不起他们，一旦发现他们有一个残疾。
What are your thoughts about disability dating?请问你对此有何想法残疾约会？ Personally, something deep in my soul is repulsed by the idea of disability dating.我个人而言，一些深，在我的灵魂，是击退由构思残疾约会。 Oh, it has nothing to do with the dear folks who use them.哦，它已经完全与亲爱的乡亲，他们使用它们。 I feel sad that we as human beings categorize some folks as disabled and others as not.我觉得遗憾的是我们作为人的分类，有的乡亲为残疾人和其他作为。 After all, aren’t we ALL a little disabled in different ways due to the Fall?毕竟，是不是大家都有点残疾，在以不同的方式，由于秋季？
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God [sees] not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”但主说：萨穆埃尔， "你不要看他的外表，或者说在身高他的身高，因为我已经拒绝了他，因为上帝[视]并不如男子看见，因为人看来，在外表，但主期待于心" 。
1Samuel 16:7 1samuel 16时07分
How then should we treat and judge each other, and how should this verse effect our dating selections?那么我们如何看待和判断对方，又应如何看待这个韵文的影响，我们约会选曲？ Wow…that’s a tough one.哇… that'sa强硬的一个。
Are you a single Christian with something to share about disability dating?你是一个单一的基督教与东西向的份额约残疾约会？
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December 12月
2006 2006年
We at Christian Dating Service PLUS! want to take this time to wish the thousands of dear single brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus who visit us each week a very warm and Merry Christmas! It is our hope and sincere prayer that the Lord will bless you with love, hope and joy in the coming year.我们在基督教约会服务加上！想利用这个时间来想数以千计的单一亲爱的兄弟姐妹们，在基督耶稣里，他们参观我们每个星期十分热情，圣诞快乐！这是我们的希望和真诚的祈祷，上帝会保佑你以爱，希望和喜悦，在未来1年。
As Christian singles we know it is especially during Christmas that many sense a longing for intimacy and love as found in a Christian dating or marriage relationship.作为基督徒单打，我们知道它是特别是圣诞期间，很多某种意义上是一个渴望亲密与爱，因为发现在一个基督教约会或婚姻关系。 Many singles are lacking hope for such a relationship, and are dealing with许多单打缺乏希望这种关系，并正在处理 intense loneliness激烈的寂寞 , along with simply随着简单 trying to survive the usual holiday blues要生存，通常假期蓝调 . 。
Our heartfelt message to you is to not give up hope in your God.我们衷心的讯息给你的是不要放弃希望，在你的上帝。 He loves you where you are and promises to meet you in your need.他很爱你您身在何处，并承诺，以满足你的需要。 As our Wonderful Counselor, we can run to Him with our burdens, and lay them down at His feet.作为我们的美妙参赞，我们可以运行，以他与我们的负担，并奠定下来，在他的双脚。 He really wants us to!他真的要我们！
Remember, our Precious Saviour specializes in taking a rotten situation and turning it into something beautiful.请记住，我们宝贵的救主擅长于以一个烂情况，并把它变成美丽的东西。 The smelly and dank stable He chose to come into the world in speaks volumes regarding this beautiful fact.该发臭及透水稳定的他选择来到这个世界在说话卷关于这个美丽的事实。
Bible Verse of the Day 圣经经文的一天
“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. " ，为我们展示一个孩子出生时，给我们一个儿子，是考虑到，而政府将放在他的肩上。 And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.他的名字将被称为美妙参赞，威武之神，永恒之父，和平王子。 Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end.的增加，他的政府与和平将不会有任何目的。 He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever.他将统治对大卫的宝座，并超过了他的王国，建立和维护它与公平和正义，从那时候就和永远。 The zeal of the LORD Almighty will accomplish this.” Isaiah 9:5,6热情的上帝会做到这一点， "以赛亚书9:5,6
Are you a single person with something to share on the topic of hope?你是一个单一的人与东西分享讨论的题目是没有希望了吗？
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December 12月
2006 2006年
As an employee in family court, I see a lot of single gals come through our doors.作为雇员，在家事法庭，我看到了很多单身gals来，通过我们的大门。 Not a few of these single gals are pregnant teen girls in great financial, spiritual and emotional need.没有数的这些单身gals是怀孕少女的女孩最重要的金融，精神和感情的需要。
This thought about single gals got me thinking about Mary, the blessed mother of Jesus, our Saviour.这一思想对单一gals劝止了我的思考玛丽，祝福母亲的耶稣，我们的救主。 Think about it.想一想。 She too was a single gal, a pregnant teenager with some heavy needs of her own.她也被一个单一的半乳糖，一个怀孕的少女，与一些大型的需要，形成自己独特的。
Single Gal Problems单半乳糖问题
First of all, she was a small town single gal who was having a baby.首先，她是一个小城镇单一加尔人是一个婴儿。 Can you imagine the scandal and hurtful gossip going on in Nazareth at this time?你能想象丑闻和伤害闲话正在进行，在拿撒勒在这个时候？ If you’re from a small town or village, you know exactly what I’m talking about.如果你从一个小城镇或村庄，你知道到底是什么，我说的。
Secondly, besides this single gal having to deal with all the vicious rumours spreading around town, she also had to worry about her family.其次，除了这种单一的半乳糖经处理一切与恶性谣言遍布城市，她还担心她的家人。 What do you think this single gal’s parents had to say about all of this?您怎么看这个单一加尔的家长不得不说，这一切均？ Suppose you had a teenage daughter.假设你有一个十几岁的女儿。 Would you believe her if she told you the Holy Spirit impregnated her?你相信她，如果她告诉你圣灵浸渍她吗？ Would you think she was lying?你会觉得她是在说谎？ Or Crazy?还是疯啦？ In the pressure of the moment, would you be tempted to get this single gal an abortion?在压力的时刻，你会受到诱惑而得到这个单一加尔堕胎？
Finally, when our single gal left Nazareth for Bethlehem, she literally had nothing but the clothes on her back sans a couple extra rags she was to use as swaddling clothes.最后，当我们的单半乳糖离开拿撒勒为伯利恒，她从字面上无关，但对衣服的她背部SAN的一对夫妇，额外的衣服，她用襁褓。 In grievous labour pains on the back of a donkey, she arrives at her destination: a smelly stable in the open air of the night.在悲痛阵痛对后面的驴，她来到她的目的地：臭稳定在露天的夜晚。 The single gal and Joseph coudn’t afford much else.单半乳糖和约瑟夫coudn't负担，其他一概不管。
At just the right time, this single gal gave birth to a Precious Child without any assistance except for Joseph, who was probably just as clueless as most guys today are under similar circumstances.在恰当的时间，这个单一的半乳糖生下了一个宝贵的孩子没有任何帮助，除了约瑟夫，他们大概正如没有头绪，因为大部分球员都是今天类似的情况下。
I suppose most of us know the rest of this glorious story.我想我们大部份人都知道，其余的这一光荣的故事。 This single gal ended up okay because God’s Grace was upon her, as witnessed by our Scripture of the day.这个单一加尔收盘上涨无关紧要，因为上帝的恩典是当她，因为看到我们的经文的一天。
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
“My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my saviour, for He has been mindful of the humble state of his servant.” "我的灵魂，美化了主，我的精神高兴上帝，我的救主，因为他一直铭记的谦卑的状态，他的仆人" 。
Luke 1:46,47卢克1:46,47
Single Gal Promises单半乳糖诺言
If you’re a single gal today with great burdens, and feel there is no hope for you, please know that the same God who blessed Mary in her humble circumstance, is willing and able to do the same for you.如果你是一个单一的半乳糖今天怀着极大负担，并觉得是没有希望的你，请你知道，同样的上帝的人有福了玛丽在她简朴的情况下，是愿意和能够做同样的给你。
Are you a single gal with something to share?你是一个单一的半乳糖东西分享吗？
Related Articles On Single Gals: 有关文章，就单一gals ：
What Christian Single Girls Want in a Guy什么基督教单身女孩想要在一个家伙
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys基督教单身女孩日期坏人
Christian Single Moms and Dating Tips基督教单身妈妈和约会贴士
Christian Teens, Dating and Sex基督教十几岁的时候，年龄和性别
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December 12月
2006 2006年
Many single women and men walk around with a lot of anger because they are still single long past the time they thought they would be married.不少单身女性和男性走走了很多愤怒，因为他们仍然是单身，只要过去的时候，他们以为他们会结婚。 Does being single at this time in your life make you angry?是否单身，在这个时候，在你的生活令你生气？
Target of Anger in Relationships目标的愤怒关系
One target of a single person’s anger is directed at God Himself because He has not brought that一个指标，一个人的愤怒是针对自己的上帝，因为他并没有带来说 one true love真爱 into their lives.到他们的生命。 Frustration, jealousy and discouragement cuts deep into them as their closest friends and colleagues (even the ones we thought would nver find anyone!….I know, what a wretched, ungodly thought!) have found their沮丧，嫉妒和挫折削减深入到他们当作自己最亲密的朋友和同事（甚至是我们以为会nver找到任何人！ … ，我知道，是何等倒霉， ungodly想到！ ） ，发现其 dating match约会比赛 and have gotten married. ，并已得到了婚。
Secondly, many Christian singles have unresolved anger against a previous dating relationship partner.其次，许多基督教单打有悬而未决的愤怒，对过去的恋爱关系伙伴。 Perhaps they were in an也许他们在 abusive relationship辱骂性的关系 , or got dumped for reasons they never understood.或获得倾倒的原因，他们从来没有理解。 This kind of anger has caused a festering of bitterness and cynicism in their hearts, which has only fostered more anger.这种愤怒已经引起了日益恶化的怨恨和犬儒主义在他们心中，这不仅促进了更大的愤怒。
Finally, many singles, including Christian singles, have directed anger against themselves for their dating failures and apparent inability to find a marriage partner.最后，许多未婚，包括基督教单打，已指示愤怒，对自己，他们的约会失败，显然无法找到婚姻伙伴。 Anger turned inward often results in愤怒拒绝外来往往造成 depression抑郁症 , anxiety and a host of other physical ills. ，焦虑以及许多其他的身体疾病。
Bible Verse of the Day 圣经经文的一天
In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. 在你的愤怒并不单：不要让太阳走，而你还在生气，不给魔鬼一席之地。
Ephesians 4:26.27 以弗所4:26.27
If you are a Christian single today struggling with anger over being single, or at having a failed dating relationship, remember the following practical tips that could help you:如果你是一个单一的基督教今天挣扎与愤怒正单，或在过一个失败的恋爱关系，记住以下实用技巧可以帮助你：
Admit your anger, and understand the reasons why you are feeling this emotion.承认你的愤怒，并明白为何你感觉这种感情。 Admitting you are ticked off means recognising the emotional and physical signs of anger.承认你是分起飞意味着承认情绪和身体的迹象愤怒。 This admission is the first step toward resolving the issue.这是招生的第一步，这一问题的解决。 Many Christians suppress anger and feel guilty when they experiencel this powerful emotion because they believe it to be sinful in and of itself.许多基督徒压制愤怒和内疚的时候，他们experiencel这个强大的情感，因为他们认为这应该是罪孽深重和他自己。 This is simply not the case according to the above verse.这是根本没有的情况，根据上述诗句。
Restrain your anger by setting ground rules on it.克制你的愤怒，通过设置地面规则。 Anger becomes a problem when it becomes uncontrollable.愤怒变成一个问题，当它变得无法控制。 By not letting the sun go down on our anger, we are consciously taking control of our anger.不让太阳下去对我们的愤怒，我们正自觉以控制我们的愤怒。 This may mean honestly addressing the person we are angry at, and having a heart to heart talk about our feelings before things get out of hand.这可能意味着诚实地处理人，我们对此感到愤怒时，有一个心谈论自己的情感，才失控的地步。 At other times restraining our anger may mean taking a long walk to blow off steam, or having a good prayer session.其他时候，是制约我国愤怒，可能意味着以长期步行到打击小康蒸汽，或有一个好祈祷。
Understand the consequences of uncontrolled anger.了解后果不受控制的愤怒。 The Scripture states that unbridled anger (rage really) results in giving the devil, your mortal enemy, a stronghold in your life.圣经说，肆无忌惮的愤怒（愤怒真的）的成绩给予魔鬼，你的死敌，一个重要据点，在你的生活。 We see the results of this kind of anger all over the world today in places like Iraq, our respective workplaces and even our own homes.我们看到的结果，这种愤怒遍布世界各地，今天在地方与伊拉克一样，我们各自的工作场所，甚至我们自己的家园。 When we truly understand what is at stake when we allow anger to rule us, we will be more motivated to practice good anger management.当我们真正了解什么是关键时候，我们让愤怒的人来统治我们，我们会更主动地实践好愤怒管理。
Are you a single Christian who has an anger problem?你是一个单一的基督教，他们有一个愤怒的问题？
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December 12月
2006 2006年
Christian dating.com singles?基督教dating.com单打？ Who are these people and where do they come from?谁是这些人的时间和地点，他们从那里来？ Christian dating.com singles are Christian singles who have used or are using online Christian dating services.基督教dating.com单打是基督徒单打曾使用或正在使用网上基督徒约会服务。
Dating.com singles come from all areas and make up all kinds of people. dating.com单打来自各领域，弥补各种人的。 They are Christian single parents, college students, 30-something, never married singles, divorcees and widows, etc.他们是基督徒的单亲家长，大学生， 30多岁，从来没有结婚，单身，离婚和寡妇等。
Christian Dating.Com Singles and the Church基督教dating.com单打和教会
Most attend evangelical churches on Sundays and get involved involved in local ministries such as small groups.大部分参加福音派教会于星期日及介入参与当地的部长职位，例如小团体。 The only problem is many of the churches dating.com singles attend have few other singles attending them who are available for a dating relationship.唯一的问题是很多的教堂dating.com单打出席很少有其他单打出席他们的人，可为恋爱关系。 On account of this fact, more and more Christian singles are becoming dating.com singles.基于这个事实，越来越多的基督教单打正成为dating.com单打。
If you are a single Christian thinking about using one of the dating.com services that are scattered throughout the internet, I want to encourage you to have fun, and don’t be bothered by other people judging you for taking a faith filled risk with the Lord in this area of your life.如果你是一个单一的基督教思考用其中的dating.com服务，那是分散在全国各地的互联网，我想鼓励你们有乐趣，也不要理会其他人看你走的信念充满风险主在这方面你的人生。 The fact is, tens of thousands of single dating.com Christians are meeting and marrying by using services as事实是，有成千上万的单dating.com基督教徒会议并结婚用服务 ChristianMingle/Relationships.com christianmingle / relationships.com , ， Christian Cafe基督教网吧 or或 eHarmony eharmony . 。
Our only piece of Christian dating advice is to educate yourself on我们唯一的一块基督教约会建议就是要教育自己对 how to start using online Christian dating.com services如何开始使用网上基督徒dating.com服务 , be ， patient as you wait on the Lord以病人为你等候耶和华 and to commit everything you do to Him.并致力于将您所做的一切给他。
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
“Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. "高兴自己在上帝和他会给你的愿望你的心。 Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.”致力于用自己的方式主对他的信任，他将做到这一点：他将让您的正义光芒像黎明，正义的你的事业一样noonday孙" 。
Psalms 37:4-6诗篇37:4-6
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