If you really get down to it, aren¡¯t we all looking for unconditional love? ¸¸¾à¿¡ Á¤¸»·Î ³»·Á¸é, ¿ì¸®´Â ¸ðµÎ¸¦ ã°íµÇÁö ¾Ê½À´Ï´Ù ¹«Á¶°ÇÀûÀÎ »ç¶û? Many Christian singles enter into dating relationships with hopes of finding this kind of ¸¹Àº ±âµ¶±³ÀÎ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® µé¾î°¥ ÀÌ·± Á¾·ùÀÇ °ü°è¸¦ Á¼È÷°í true love ÁøÁ¤ÇÑ »ç¶û . ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. While I certainly believe God can lead you to a life long Çϳª´ÔÀº È®½ÇÈ÷ ¹ÏÀ» ¼öÀÖ´Â °÷À¸·Î °¥ µ¿¾È ÀλýÀ» ±ä soulmate ¼Ò¿ï ¸ÞÀÌÆ® , only the Lord can love us unconditionally. , ¿ÀÁ÷ ÃÖ°íÀÇ ¹«Á¶°ÇÀûÀÎ Çϳª´ÔÀº ¿ì¸®¸¦ »ç¶û ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù.
I know some of us feel we have to ¡°earn our love with God, and never quite are able to accept what He says about us in His word. ¿ì¸®°¡ ¾Ë°í ´À³¢´Â ¿ì¸® Áß ÀϺθ¦ "Çϳª´Ô°ú ÇÔ²² ¿ì¸®ÀÇ »ç¶û Àû¸³, ±×¸®°í ¹«¾ùÀ» ¹Þ¾ÆµéÀÏ ¼öÀÖ´ÙÀº °áÄÚ ¿ì¸®¸¦ Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¸»¾¸¿¡ ´ëÇØ ±×´Â ¸»ÇÑ´Ù. But the neat and ironic thing is, once we accept God¡¯s unconditional love, we can then love ourselves and others (including our future mate) more fully. ´ÜÁ¤ÇÏ°í ¾ÆÀÌ·¯´ÏÇÏÁö¸¸ ¹®Á¦´Â, ÇÑ ¹ø ¿ì¸®°¡ Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¹«Á¶°ÇÀûÀÎ ¼ö¿ë »ç¶û, ¿ì¸®´Â ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» »ç¶ûÇÏ°í ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ (¿ì¸®ÀÇ ¹Ì·¡¸¦ Æ÷ÇÔ ¸ÞÀÌÆ®) ´õ ¿ÏÀüÇϰÔÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Unconditional Love From Above Á¤»ó¿¡¼ ¹«Á¶°ÇÀûÀÎ »ç¶û
In 1 John 4:9-11, we are reminded that God proved His love for us by sending His Son to be the payment for our sins. 1 ¿äÇÑ 4:9-11, ¿ì¸®´Â »ó±â ¿ì¸®´Â Çϳª´Ô ²²¼ ±×ÀÇ »ç¶ûÀ» Áõ¸íÀ» º¸³¿À¸·Î½á ±×ÀÇ ¾Æµé¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ÁöºÒÀº ¿ì¸®ÀÇ Á˸¦ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. If you ever find yourself doubting God¡¯s love for you, look to the cross, where it was settled once and for all. ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ÀǽÉÇÏ´Â Çϳª´ÔÀÇ »ç¶ûÀ» ¹ß°ßÇÑ´Ù¸é ´ç½ÅÀ» À§ÇØ ±³Â÷À»º¸¼¼¿ä, ¾îµð ±×°ÍÀº ¸ðµÎ Çѹø¿¡ ÇØ°áÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Let¡¯s be led not by our feelings, but by our faith in the risen Christ who loves us with an never-ending unconditional love! ¿ì¸®ÀÇ °¨Á¤À» À̲ø ¼ö ¾ø´ÙÇÏÀÚ,ÇÏÁö¸¸ »ó½Â¿¡ ÀÇÇØ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ¹ÏÀ½À» ±×¸®½ºµµ¸¦ ¿ì¸®¸¦ »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷ - °á¸» °áÄÚ ¹«Á¶°ÇÀûÀÎ »ç¶û!
Bible Verse of Day ÇÏ·ç Áß ¼º°æ ±¸Àý
~This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. ~ À̰ÍÀº ±×ÀÇ »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â ¹æ¹ý Áß Çϳª´Ô º¸¿´´Ù ¼Ò°³ : ±×´Â ±×ÀÇ À¯ÀÏÇÑ ¾ÆµéÀ» ¼¼°è¿¡ º¸³»´Â °ÍÀ» ¾òÀ» ¼öÀÖÀ» ±×¸¦ ÅëÇØ »ì¾ÆÀÖ´Ù. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. À̰ÍÀÌ »ç¶û : ±×·¸°Ô ¿ì¸®°¡ Çϳª´ÔÀ» »ç¶ûÇÏÁö¸¸ »ç¶ûÇÑ´Ù´Â ¸»À» ¿ì¸®¿Í ±×ÀÇ ¾Æµé·Î º¸³» ¿ì¸®ÀÇ Á˸¦ ´ë¼ÓÀû Èñ»ýÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another~1 John 4:9-11 Ä£¾ÖÇϴ ģ±¸, Çϳª´Ô Á¤¸» »ç¶û ¶§¹®¿¡ ¿ì¸®°¡ ¼·Î »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ ¸¶¶¥ ¶ÇÇÑ ~ 1 ¿äÇÑ 4:9-11
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Are you familiar with love tests? Àͼ÷ÇѰ¡? »ç¶û Å×½ºÆ®? You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines. µ¥ÀÌÆ® »çÀÌÆ®¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Å×½ºÆ®¸¦ ¸¹ÀÌ º¼ ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù »ç¶û°ú ·Î¸Ç½º / ¿¬¾Ö ÀâÁöÇÕ´Ï´Ù. What exactly is a love test? Á¤È®È÷´Â »ç¶û Å×½ºÆ®? A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it. ½ÃÇèÀº ±âº»ÀûÀ¸·Î »ç¶û ÄûÁî, ÀÏ·ÃÀÇ Áú¹®Àº ÃßÃøÀ̳ª ³²ÀÚ°¡ ¿©ÀÚ¸¦ÇÒÁö ¿©ºÎ¸¦ °áÁ¤ÇÒ µ¥ÀÌÆ® ´ç½ÅÀº ´ç½ÅÀ» Á¤¸»·Î »ç¶û ÇØ¿ä, ¾Æ´Ï¸é ±×°ÍÀº À§ÀåÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the ¡°he loves me, he loves me not¡± games we used to play when we were kids. ³» »ý°¢¿¡, ´ëºÎºÐÀÇ ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ Å×½ºÆ®°¡ Á¤È®ÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀº »ç¶û, ±×¸®°í °°Àº Á¾·ùÀÇ´Â Á¦°ÅµÇ¾î¾ß "±×´Â ³ª¸¦ »ç¶û, ±× »ç¶û µûÀ© ÇÊ¿ä ¾ø¾î"°ÔÀÓÀº ¿ì¸®°¡ ¾î·ÈÀ» ¶§ »ç¿ëÀ» Àç»ýÇÕ´Ï´Ù. (Just thought I¡¯d share that the petals on my flower always seemed run out on she loves me not) (´ÜÁö ³» °Å¶õ »ý°¢À» °øÀ¯ÇÏ´Â ²ÉÀÇ ²ÉÀÙÀÌ ±×³à°¡ »ç¶û µûÀ© ÇÊ¿ä ¾ø¾î ´Ã ºÎÁ·)
A True Love Test ÁøÁ¤ÇÑ »ç¶û Å×½ºÆ®
A real love test will take into account the actions of a person, and not just his or her¡¯s words. ÁøÁ¤ÇÑ »ç¶ûÀ» Å×½ºÆ®´Â ÇൿÀ» °í·ÁÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷,»Ó¸¸ ¾Æ´Ï¶ó ±× ¶Ç´Â ±×³àÀÇ ¸»À»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. How often have we heard those wonderful words ¡°I love you¡±, only to realize later that the person saying them was manipulative and insincere. ¿ì¸®°¡ ±× ¸ÚÁø ´Ü¾î°¡ ¾ó¸¶³ª ÀÚÁÖ µé¾ú´Ù "»ç¶ûÇØ", ³ªÁß¿¡ ±× »ç¶÷À» ½ÇÇö¸¸À» ÅëÇØ¼´Â ±³¹¦ÇÏ°í ¼º½ÇÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Mere words ring hollow, but actions speak volumes. ´Ü¼øÈ÷ ´Ü¾î ¹ÝÁö Áß°ø,ÇÏÁö¸¸ Çൿ ÅëÈ º¼·ýÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
In this regard of connecting our words with our actions, the Bible speaks an awful lot about the meaning of love, and always connects true love with sacrificial giving of one¡¯s self and goods. ÀÌ·± Á¡¿¡¼ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ´Ü¾î¸¦ ¿¬°áÀÇ Çൿ¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¸¹Àº ²ûÁ÷ÇÏ°Ô ¼º°æÀÇ Àǹ̸¦ ¸»ÇÏ´Â »ç¶û, ±×¸®°í Ç×»ó ÇϳªÀÇ ¿¬°á ÁøÁ¤ÇÑ »ç¶û°ú ÀÚ±â Èñ»ý°ú ¹°ÀÚ Á¦°øÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Bible Verse of the Day ¿À´ÃÀÇ ¼º°æ ±¸Àý
¡°This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. "À̰ÍÀº ¿ì¸®°¡ ¾Ë°í »ç¶ûÀÌ ¹ºÁöÇÏ´Â ¹æ¹ý : ¿¹¼ö ±×¸®½ºµµ¸¦ ¿ì¸®´Â ¸ñ¼ûÀ» ³»·È´ä´Ï´Ù. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. ±×¸®°í ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ÇüÁ¦ Àڸſ¡ ´ëÇÑ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ »î¿¡ ´©¿öÇØ¾ßÇÕ´Ï´Ù. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? À̰ÍÀÌ ´©±¸¶óµµ ±×ÀÇ µ¿»ýÀº ¼ÒÀç ¼ÒÀ¯¹°À»º¸°í ±×¿¡°Ô ¿¬¹ÎÀ»À̾ø´ÂÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÏÁö¸¸, ¾î¶»°Ô Çϳª´ÔÀÇ »ç¶ûÀÌÀÖ´Ù´Â °É ¼öÀִ°¡? Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.¡± 1 John 3:16-18 Ä£¾ÖÇÏ´Â ¾ÆÀ̵é, ÀØÁö¸»ÀÚ ´Ü¾î ¶Ç´Â ÇôÇÏÁö¸¸ Çൿ°ú »ç¶û°ú Áø½ÇÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. "1 Á¸ 3:16-18
As a single Christian, how do your actions in the relationships add up against the ¡°ultimate love test¡± found this verse. À» ÇϳªÀÇ ±×¸®½ºµµ, ¾î¶»°Ô Àΰ£ °ü°è¿¡¼ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ Çൿ¿¡ ¸Â¼ Àå¹Ù±¸´ÏÀÇ "±Ã±ØÀûÀÎ »ç¶û ½ÃÇè"ÀÌ ±¸Àý ¹ß°ßÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Are you all talk and no action? ´ç½ÅÀÇ ¸ðµç ´ëȵµ¾ø°í ¾×¼Ç? Do your words ring true, or are you just blowing hot air? ´ç½ÅÀÌ ÇÑ ¸»À»ÇÏÁö ¹ÝÁö »ç½ÇÀ̶ó¸é ¾Æ´Ï¸é ¹«½¼ ºÒ¾î ´õ¿î °ø±â°¡?
Are you a Christian single with something to share about love tests? ´ç½ÅÀº »ç¶û¿¡ ´ëÇØ Å×½ºÆ®¸¦ °øÀ¯ ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±ÛÀº ¹º°¡?
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