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August 8月
2007 2007年
If you really get down to it, aren’t we all looking for unconditional love?如果你真的坐下来，是不是我们都在寻找无条件的爱呢？ Many Christian singles enter into dating relationships with hopes of finding this kind of许多基督徒单打进入约会关系充满希望，找到这种 true love真爱 . 。 While I certainly believe God can lead you to a life long而我绝对相信上帝可以让你拥有终身 soulmate , only the Lord can love us unconditionally.中，只有上帝能爱我们无条件放人。
I know some of us feel we have to “earn our love with God, and never quite are able to accept what He says about us in His word.我知道，我们当中有些人觉得我们已经"赚我们的爱与上帝，并没有很能够接受他的话，关于我们在他的一句话。 But the neat and ironic thing is, once we accept God’s unconditional love, we can then love ourselves and others (including our future mate) more fully.但整齐讽刺的是，一旦我们接受上帝的无条件的爱，我们便可以爱自己和他人（包括我们未来的伴侣）更加充分。
Unconditional Love From Above无条件的爱，从以上
In 1 John 4:9-11, we are reminded that God proved His love for us by sending His Son to be the payment for our sins.在约翰一4:9-11 ，我们想起上帝证明他的爱，为我们送他的儿子被支付，为我们的罪。 If you ever find yourself doubting God’s love for you, look to the cross, where it was settled once and for all.如果你发现自己会怀疑上帝的爱你的，看在十字架上，在那里定居一劳永逸。 Let’s be led not by our feelings, but by our faith in the risen Christ who loves us with an never-ending unconditional love!让我们来领导而不是由我们的感情，但我们的信仰在复活的人喜欢给我们提供了一个永无休止无条件的爱！
Bible Verse of Day 圣经经文的一天
~This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 〜这是神是怎么显示他的爱在我们中间：他派了他的一次，也是唯一的儿子融入世界，我们可以经受住他。 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.这是爱：不是我们爱上帝，但他爱我们，并派他的儿子作为一个atoning牺牲，为我们的罪孽。 Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another~1 John 4:9-11亲爱的朋友们，因为神爱我们，我们也应该彼此相爱〜 1约翰4:9-11
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December 12月
2006 2006年
Are you familiar with love tests?你熟悉的爱情考验？ You can see love tests on many dating sites and in romance/dating magazines.你可以看到，爱情测试，很多交友网站，并在浪漫/约会杂志。 What exactly is a love test?到底是一个爱情的考验吗？ A love test is basically a quiz, a set of questions that supposedly will determine whether or not the girl or guy you are dating really loves you, or is just faking it.一个爱情测试基本上是一个问答，一套问题，理应将决定是否或不是女孩或家伙，你是约会真的爱你，或者只是作假。
In my opinion, most of these love tests are inaccurate, and should be taken sort of like the “he loves me, he loves me not” games we used to play when we were kids.在我看来，大部分这些爱情测试是不准确的，并应采取有点像"他爱我，他爱我不是"游戏，我们用来玩的时候，我们的孩子。 (Just thought I’d share that the petals on my flower always seemed run out on she loves me not) （只是想过自己有同感花瓣对我的花总是似乎失控，对她爱我不要）
A True Love Test一个真正的爱情考验
A real love test will take into account the actions of a person, and not just his or her’s words.一个真正的爱情的考验会顾及行动的一个人，而不是只为他或她的话。 How often have we heard those wonderful words “I love you”, only to realize later that the person saying them was manipulative and insincere.如何我们经常听到那些精彩的话： "我爱你" ，只有实现后，那人说，他们是操控性和缺乏诚意。 Mere words ring hollow, but actions speak volumes.仅仅话听起来很空洞，但这些行动必须讲册。
In this regard of connecting our words with our actions, the Bible speaks an awful lot about the meaning of love, and always connects true love with sacrificial giving of one’s self and goods.在这方面的连接我们所说的话，与我们的行动，圣经说，脸难看很多关于爱情的意义，并始终连接真爱与祭祀让一个人的自我和货物。
Bible Verse of the Day 圣经经文的一天
“This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. "这是我们如何知道什么爱情是：耶稣基督牺牲了，我们来定。 And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.我们应该放下我们的生活，为我们的兄弟。 If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him?如果任何人有物质，并认为他的弟弟需要的，但没有怜悯他，又如何能上帝的爱是他呢？ Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.” 1 John 3:16-18亲爱的孩子，让我们不要爱字或舌头，但与行动，并在真理， "约翰一3:16-18
As a single Christian, how do your actions in the relationships add up against the “ultimate love test” found this verse.作为单一基督徒，贵国如何行动的关系加起来，对"终极爱情测试" ，发现了这首诗。 Are you all talk and no action?你的所有谈话，并没有任何行动？ Do your words ring true, or are you just blowing hot air?做你的说话不顺，还是你刚刚吹热风？
Are you a Christian single with something to share about love tests?你是一个基督教单身东西分享真爱测试？
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