Matchmaker Dating, Faith and Christian Singles Á߸Š¿¬¾Ö, ¹ÏÀ½°ú ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û (share?) (°øÀ¯?)
Certain online dating services are what we call matchmaker dating sites. ƯÁ¤ ¿Â¶óÀÎ µ¥ÀÌÆ® ¼ºñ½º´Â ¿ì¸®°¡ °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎ µ¥ÀÌÆ® »çÀÌÆ®¸¦ È£ÃâÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Matchmaker dating is different from other types of online dating service (like Christian Mingle, for example) in that the person using them has less control over the dating process. ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎ ´Ù¸¥ À¯ÇüÀÇ ¿Â¶óÀÎ µ¥ÀÌÆ®´Â ´Ù¸¥ ¼ºñ½º (¿¹ : ±âµ¶±³, ¾î¿ï·Á, ¿¹¸¦ µé¸é)¿¡ ±× »ç¶÷ÀÌ µ¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ °øÁ¤ÇÏ°Ô Á¦¾îÇÒ ¼ö¸¦ »ç¿ëÇÏ¿© ±×µéÀÌ ´úÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Instead of you choosing your own potential ´ë½Å¿¡ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ÀáÀç·ÂÀ» ¼±ÅÃÇÏ¿© dating match µ¥ÀÌÆ®¿Í ÀÏÄ¡ , the dating matchmaker service will choose a partner for you, usually after you complete an indepth ÀÇ ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎ ¼ºñ½º´Â ÆÄÆ®³Ê¸¦ ¼±ÅÃÇϰí, º¸Åë ÈÄ¿¡´Â ¿Ï·áÇÏ´Â indepth compatibility test ȣȯ¼º Å×½ºÆ® unique to the particular service. ƯÁ¤ ¼ºñ½º¿¡ °íÀ¯ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. We referred to this type of dating matchmaker service in a ¿ì¸®°¡ÀÌ À¯ÇüÀÇ ÃßõÀ¸·Î Á߸мºñ½º¸¦ µ¥ÀÌÆ® previous article on eharmony.com ÀÌÀü ±â»ç¸¦ eharmony.com , which offers the kind of matchmaker site we are talking about. , °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎÀÇ Á¾·ù¸¦ Á¦°øÇÏ´Â »çÀÌÆ®¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¾ê±âÇϰí ÀÖ¾î¿ä.
Dating Matchmaker in the Bible ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎ ¼º°æ
The first dating matchmaker was not a modern matchmaker service, but rather Abraham¡¯s chief servant, whose name we never find out about in the Scripture. ù ¹øÂ° µ¥ÀÌÆ®°¡ ¾Æ´Ï°í, Çö´ëÀûÀÎ Á߸аáÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎ ¼ºñ½º, ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ¾Æºê¶óÇÔÀÇ ¼ö¼® Á¾, ´©±¸ÀÇ À̸§À» ¿ì¸®°¡ °áÄÚ ¼º°æÀÇ ÃÖ½ÅÀÛ.
The story in Genesis 24 goes like this: Abraham gave his chief servant, the very first dating matchmaker, the job of finding a wife for Isaac. â¼¼±â¿¡ 24°¡ ÀÌ·¸°Ô À̾߱â : ±×ÀÇ ¼ö¼® ¾Æºê¶óÇÔÀÇ Á¾, ù ¹øÂ° ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎ, ÀÌ»èÀÇ ¾Æ³»°¡ Á÷ÀåÀ» ã¾Æº¸½Ê½Ã¿À. The wonderful thing from this whole passage is that Abraham had faith in God that He would supernaturally provide a wife for his son. ÀÌ ¸ðµç Åë·Î¿¡¼ ¸ÚÁø ÀÏÀÌ ¾Æºê¶óÇÔÀÌ ¹ÏÀ½À¸·Î Çϳª´ÔÀÌ ±× ¾ÆµéÀ» À§ÇØ ¾Æ³»°¡ ºÒ°¡»çÀǸ¦ Á¦°øÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Bible Verse of Day ÇÏ·ç Áß ¼º°æ ±¸Àý
Abraham said, ¡°the LORD, the God of heaven, who brought me out of my father¡¯s household¡¦He will send His angel before you so that you can get a wife for my son from there.¡± Genesis 24:7 ¿¡ÀÌ ºê ¶óÇÔÀº "ÁÖ´Ô, ÇÏ´ÃÀÇ Çϳª´ÔÀÌ »ç¶÷ÀÌ ³¯ µ¥·Á ²¨Á® ³» ¾Æ¹öÁöÀÇ ¼¼´ë¡¦ ±×´Â ±×ÀÇ Ãµ»ç¸¦ º¸³» ÀÖµµ·ÏÇϱâ Àü¿¡ ¾Æ³»¸¦ ¾òÀ» ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù °Å±â¿¡¼ ³» ¾ÆµéÀ» À§ÇØÇÕ´Ï´Ù."24:7 ¹ß»ý
Wow! ¿Í¿ì! Look at that faith! ±× ¹ÏÀ½À» ºÁ! What about you as a single Christian seeking a mate? ã°íÀÖ´Â ´ç½Å¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¹«¾ùÀ» ÇϳªÀÇ ±×¸®½ºµµÀÇ Ä£±¸? Do you believe your God will supernaturally provide a wife or husband for you? ¹ÏÀ¸¼¼¿ä ´ç½ÅÀÇ Çϳª´ÔÀº ¾Æ³»¿Í ³²ÆíÀ» Á¦°øÇÏ´Â ºÒ°¡»çÀǰ¡?
I believe this because I¡¯ve seen God play the dating matchmaker role in so many of my friends¡¯ lives over the years. ¹Ï½À´Ï´Ù Çϳª´ÔÀÌ Àֱ⠶§¹®¿¡ °ÔÀÓÀ» º» ÀûÀÌ ³Ê¹« ¸¹Àº ³» Ä£±¸µéÀÇ ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎÀÇ ¿ªÇÒÀ» 'Áö³ ¸î ³â µ¿¾È »ì°íÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. I also find it comforting that God Himself is interested in this part of our lives. ¶ÇÇÑ ÀÚ½ÅÀÌ °ü½ÉÀ» ã¾Æ °Ý·Á´Â Çϳª´Ô ²²¼ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ »îÀÌ ºÎºÐÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. He is, in fact our ultimate Dating Matchmaker. ±×´Â, »ç½Ç ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ±Ã±ØÀûÀÎ ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Are you a Christian single person with something to share about matchmaker dating? ´ç½ÅÀº ±×¸®½ºµµ ÀÎ ´ÜÀÏ ¿¬¾Ö °áÈ¥ Á߸ÅÀο¡ ´ëÇØ ¹«¾ð°¡¸¦ °øÀ¯?















