11
1月
2007

基督徒关系忠告为选拔(份额?)

许多选拔与我们联系为 基督徒关系忠告, 经常问问题喜欢, “如果我离开这个关系?” 或“如果我留下这个人?” 因为我们没有所有信息关于包含的党,许多次,然而,基督徒关系忠告是坚硬给关于问题,如这些。 并且,当断送基督徒关系忠告时,我在题目学会了很长时间前在提任何建议之前得到故事的双方。

基督徒关系忠告在圣经

或许最重要所有,具体基督徒关系忠告在约会和问题与有关在圣经选拔很少被找到。 如此我们提供什么样的基督徒关系忠告?

首先,如果您是一个信徒在阁下耶稣基督,您有圣灵,真相的顾问,遵守在您。 他许诺引导您,并且带领在所有区域,包括帮助您做出明断关于关系。 在我们的天的圣经诗歌,詹姆斯· 1:5读:

“如果其中任一您缺乏智慧,他应该要求上帝,慷慨地给所有,无需发现缺点,并且它将被给他”。

第二,我们写了处理基督徒的一定数量的一般基督徒关系忠告文章选拔生活。 这些文章也许是有用的为寻找将军Chrisrtian关系忠告的基督徒。 例如:

基督徒关系忠告在破坏
基督徒关系忠告关于怎样修理伤心
基督徒关系忠告关于约会不轻信者
基督徒关系忠告在遭受拒绝以后
基督徒关系忠告在建立好婚姻
基督徒关系忠告在交谈起始者
基督徒关系忠告在应付嫉妒
基督徒关系忠告为虐待关系
基督徒关系忠告在使用在网上约会的服务

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9
January
2007

Looking to Find a Christian Wife(share a tip?)

Ever wonder how many single guys out there are actually looking to find a Christian wife? I would think many Christian single women in the market for a husband would be interested in knowing the number of Christian men hoping to find a Christian wife. Well we are too, and that’s one reason why our up and coming singles survey will try to quantify the different number of Christian single men looking to find a Christian wife, those looking to simply find a date and those not seeking a mate or date at all.

Lack of Biblical Guidance on How to Find a Christian Wife

Unfortunately, there is no specific dating advice in the Bible on how to find a wife, and you certainly won’t find dogmatic teaching on this subject. For example, in 1 Corinthians 7:27 Paul writes, “Are you unmarried? Do not look for look to find a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned…”

Although there is no “how to find a wife” playbook in the Scriptures, you will find general advice on topics such as waiting on the Lord, that would be applicable in your search to find a Christian wife.

Bible Verse of Day

“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22

Dear Father, we pray for my dear brothers in Christ who are seeking a suitable helpmate. We pray for their peace and strength as they wait on you. I thank you that you promise to provide all of our needs in your perfect time. In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Related Articles:

Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles
What Christian Guys Need in a Wife

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8
January
2007

Christian Woman-Biblical Advice on How to be Attractive(share?)

The average Christian woman does her best to be as attractive as possible. Unfortunately, many Christian women are under temendous pressure to conform to the world’s standard of attractive, rather than what God’s word says is appealing.

The Christian Woman and Media Culture

Christian women are exposed to a constant media barrage of what the “perfect woman ” is supposed to look like. The only problem is that the portrayal of what a woman should be is artificial and unattainable. Ironically, many Christian women seeking to find a husband understand this situation, yet also attempt to live up to this unrealistic expectation. You can imagine that the Christian woman caught up in this way of thinking often ends up battling low self-esteem and depression.

Certainly nothing in the Bible precludes a Christian woman from making herself as feminine and appealing as possible. The key is balancing this God given and positive desire with what He says true beauty is all about. In today’s Bible verse of the day, Peter tells us that a Christian woman’s true beauty and attractiveness comes from the heart:

Bible Verse of Day

“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”
1 Peter 3:3

If you’re a single Christian woman hoping to marry a dedicated Christian man, remember he will be attracted more to your beautiful walk in the Lord, rather than your body. If he thinks otherwise, he’s simply not worth your time, nor the man of God the Lord is preparing for you.

Are you a Christian woman with something to share about attractiveness?

Related Christian Women Articles:

What Christian Women Want in a Guy
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys

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7
January
2007

Matchmaker Dating, Faith and Christian Singles(share?)

Certain online dating services are what we call matchmaker dating sites. Matchmaker dating is different from other types of online dating service (like Christian Mingle, for example) in that the person using them has less control over the dating process.

Instead of you choosing your own potential dating match, the dating matchmaker service will choose a partner for you, usually after you complete an indepth compatibility test unique to the particular service. We referred to this type of dating matchmaker service in a previous article on eharmony.com, which offers the kind of matchmaker site we are talking about.

Dating Matchmaker in the Bible

The first dating matchmaker was not a modern matchmaker service, but rather Abraham’s chief servant, whose name we never find out about in the Scripture.

The story in Genesis 24 goes like this: Abraham gave his chief servant, the very first dating matchmaker, the job of finding a wife for Isaac. The wonderful thing from this whole passage is that Abraham had faith in God that He would supernaturally provide a wife for his son.

Bible Verse of Day

Abraham said, “the LORD, the God of heaven, who brought me out of my father’s household…He will send His angel before you so that you can get a wife for my son from there.” Genesis 24:7

Wow! Look at that faith! What about you as a single Christian seeking a mate?  Do you believe your God will supernaturally provide a wife or husband for you?

I believe this because I’ve seen God play the dating matchmaker role in so many of my friends’ lives over the years. I also find it comforting that God Himself is interested in this part of our lives. He is, in fact our ultimate Dating Matchmaker.

Are you a Christian single person with something to share about matchmaker dating?

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2
January
2007

Romance Relationship Hope for Christian Singles(share?)

romance relationships

Spending New Years Eve minus a romance relationship usually spells loneliness and depression. I know many Christian singles reading this watched the Ball drop last night without a romance relationship in sight. Sigh. Under these circumstances it’s very easy to lull ourselves into a self-pity party, especially as we observe other couples enjoying their romance relationships.

Romance Relationship Hope for the Future

Last night as I watched the record crowd during the Times Square New Year’s Eve celebration, it dawned on me that many of the celebrants in romance relationships probably didn’t know Jesus as Lord and Saviour. The I sadly Thought, “what lasting hope for the future do they really have?” Yet, they sure seemed happy as they whooped it up.

Saint Paul tells us a wonderful thing about having Jesus in our lives: we are not like the world, who have no hope for the future. No, as Christians, we have a glorious future hope in Him!

So how does romantic relationships fit in all of this? Only in this way: The same God who has given you hope for eternity has also promised to meet our needs in this life as well.

My advice as you seek a romance relationship in 2007?

  • Pray to God, expecting miraculous results in the area of romance relationships.
  • Take faith filled risks as you do your part to fulfill your end of the bargain. This may mean joining a new Church singles group, or signing up at a Christian dating service
  • Consider 2007 a new chance to claim anew His promises found in His Word.

Bible Verse of Day

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.Jeremiah 29:11

Are you a single Christian with something bad or good to share about romance relationships?

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