مسيحية يؤرّخ وينتظر على إلهة

يعزل واحدة من ال أكثر يصعب أشياء لمسيحية راغبة في يؤرّخ ينتظر على اللورد ل أنّ [سولمت] خاصّة. هذا خصوصا يصحّ بما أنّ نحن نرى صديقاتنا وحيدة التقيت هم يحصل تاريخ [درم], يزوّج ويتحرّك فوق. يبدأ التوحد وحالة قلق أن [كريب ين] بما أنّ نحن نتساءل عندما إلهة سيبارك نا.

رغم أنّ ملك دايفيد لم يتلقّى مسيحية يؤرّخ في عقل عندما كتب هو مزامير 13, كثير الناس وحيدة ينتظر لرفيقة يستطيع بالتّأكيد عيّنت مع أحاسيسه في بيت شعر 1: " [هوو لونغ] [و] لورد? إرادة ينسىني أنت دائما?"

تكون أنت وحيدة مسيحية بنت أو شدادة يكافح مع إيمانك في المنطقة من "ينتظر على اللورد" لزوج أو زوجة? شجّعت وتذكّرت أنّ دايفيد, الّذي إلهة وصف كرجل بعد ه خاصّة قلب, أيضا كافح. بعد, هو ممتعة أنّ أثناء الوقت كتب هو مزامير 13, هو أيضا كتب مزامير 62:1: "ينتظر روحي في حالة سكون لإلهة فقط." إن أنت تقرأ الإستراحة المزامير 62, سيرى أنت دايفيد استطاع انتظرت على اللورد لأنّ هو تلقّى هدوء, توقع واثقة أنّ إلهة أتمّ تماما ماذا هو وعد: هو التقى دايفيد حاجات.

مؤخّرا, تلقّى أنا إمرأة وحيدة تحت إلى ي الى حدّ بعيد مرتبكة على المسيحية يؤرّخ إصدار. رغم أنّ هو أراد كثيرا أن يكون زوّجت إلى رجل ورعة, كان هو يمزّق على ما إذا يستعمل مسيحية يؤرّخ خدمات يعني انتظر هو كان [نو لونجر] على إلهة لإحتياطه.

كيف حول أنت? تكون أنت مرتبكة على كيف أنت سوفت قاربت مسيحية يؤرّخ وينتظر على إلهة? If so, consider these questions to guide your actions and test your heart motives:

  • Does God’s word and/or uncontrollable circumstances preclude you from taking action toward entering a dating relationship? If so, this may be the time to silently wait on Him, resting in His promises to provide.
  • Have you done all that you could do in your particular situation? Remember, God wants us to take faith-filled risks as we ask, seek and knock (Matthew 7:7). Many times we claim to be “waiting on God” before making a move on a matter, but God has already given permission to simultaneously take action while honouring him as well.
  • Do your attitude and actions show that your soul is submitted to God’s will and resting on His promises? Or are you hell bent on taking your Christian dating life into your own hands because you fear losing out on that single man or woman?

As you meander through the Christian singles dating scene, remember that waiting on God and taking proactive steps toward your dating goal need not be an either/or proposition. Just make sure as a Christian single, your heart is aligned with God’s each step of the way.

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14 Responses to “Christian Dating and Waiting on God”

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  5. Mark on August 22nd, 2007 12:28 am

    Have you ever wanted to scream because you want things to work out and fear he and the rest of life has ran off and left you? Have you ever read so many things and listened to so many people that it felt like you were in one continuous re-run of the waiting game? Have you ever wanted to finally find that mirror-image reflection of you and to love honor and cherish him or her? If you are reading this…I’m 33 years old and a guy. Right now, I’m waiting on the door to open for a new job and searching for just “one” of God’s many loveliest creations- woman. I’ve screwed things up in the past and I’ve also done the right thing too and God saw all things. It’s great to know we don’t have to say “a single word” about what makes us tick when we talk to him.

  6. Mark on August 22nd, 2007 12:29 am

    though none go with me…I still will follow..

  7. Charlene on October 12th, 2007 12:27 am

    Mark,
    just read your message above, it sounded heart felt and you are right God does see all things. I am sure that if you keep the faith, he will reward you, not only in your work life but your personal life also. Sometimes it is hard to just let go and let God. Good luck in your Personal Life and in your Job hunt, God can and does listen to us, we may not always get the answer we want but it is the best for us……Take Care

  8. Tashina on October 23rd, 2007 2:01 am

    I agree with you Mark, and, Charlene. But I don’t think God wants us to suffer. It’s seems as though I’m suffering because I have this strong desire to not be lonley, but if feels like I’m being punished for something. I often wonder, “if I want a man after God’s own heart, then why does it seem like there’s nobody out there who is after God’s own heart?” I am 23 years old and I have never worried this hard about something or someone. So if God isn’t ready to bless me with someone, then why did he make the desire so strong? Why now?!

  9. MEAGAN on October 30th, 2007 12:45 pm

    I KNOW THAT ONE SHOULD WAIT BUT SOMETIMES THE ENEMY WANTS US TO BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL NEVER COME THROUGH………I READ A BOOK BY TD JAKES WOMEN THOU ARET LOOS AND THERES A POSTION THAT I JUST HAPPEND TO OPEN ONE DAY WERE HE SAYS THAT ANOINT ME IM SINGLE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD WHY THINGS IN MY RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WORKED OUT UNTILL I READ THAT PART GOD WILL NOT GIVE U A RIGHT MAN IF U DONT FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM FIRST AND WHEN U DO HE WILL PERSONALY RELEASE ONE OF HIS ROYAL SONS TO BE A BLESSING SO SOMETIMES UR TORN BETWEEN UR FEELINGS BUT I GEUSS ONE SHOULD WAIT AND NOT FAINT

  10. Anonymous on February 18th, 2008 1:40 pm

    I know at times we feel so lonely and so depressed over the matter for we are only flesh and blood but there is one thing we should always keep in mind God said “lo, I am with you, even to the ends of the earth” which means when we feel lonely and depressed it is the devil who is giving us those false notions. God said he will never leave us nor forsake us and there is no way that we be alone. And from my experience when such feelings come to my mind, I ask God for strength and start praising and telling him that it is only him that I can’t live without in this world, and surrender my life to him and trust him that in his time he will make all things beautiful. He knows what we need and when we need it. and as the song goes he is never earlier and never late. He is right on time. He is GOD. And remember also if we let our mind stay on the thought God will not be pleased with that. To trust means to give everything to him, he operates with out us helping him in any way. Adam was at rest when God brought him a wife, he didn’t even know that there existed a thing called a wife. May God help each and everyone of us as we rest upon him.

    a sister in Christ

  11. Brittany on October 15th, 2008 3:37 am

    im only 18 and ive recently got out of a bad relationship. i have just found god truly a year ago, even though ive went to church all my life. For some reason I cant seem to find the right guy, im not trying to sound boastful at all, but i have a lot of men after me but most of them just want one thing and i dont know how to find a christian guy who just wants me for me. I really want a good guy that i could be with and i dont know what i am doing wrong. i feel as if there is someone out there for me, i just dont know where he is.

  12. Malcolm on June 2nd, 2009 7:12 pm

    I have to say my thoughts on Christian dating is alot more restricted. Taking biblical examples such as Adam and Isaac into account and even King David none of these men went out looking for a wife God provided for them at them right time when they were ready. Take Adam for example: Adam did not go to God and say Lord I am the only one here in this awesome garden without a mate … NO the Bible says God saw that it was not good for man to be alone yet God was with him every day ! Look also at Isaac the only time we here about Isaac in his case is right at the end of the story when he is walking around in a field God used Abraham’s servant to go and choose a wife for Isaac FROM HIS OWN PEOPLE ! I am 34 and single and my unbelieving and non Christian sister who is pregnant and engaged has just been ragging on my head about how she has never heard me talk about a girlfriend or someone one I am dating and that I need to get a life and get a wife ! I am busy with a project that in my heart I believe in my heart that God has asked me to do for Him and I believe that as I stay faithful to God. The Bible says God will hold no good thing from those who love Him and it also says a wife / husband is a good thing so I put my trust in Him that He will provide at the right time and I am not going to bungle it up by trying to do what only God can !

  13. katrina on August 4th, 2009 2:15 am

    I am a single mom and have been waiting and praying for almost seven years for a christian man- I feel God has put a certain man in my path- I am very attracted to him and he seems well kempt- but we only see eachother randomly every couple months at the grocery store - our eyes lock - but then nerves take over and I get so nervous to talk to him that I cry later- what do i do? and why do I feel this is the man for me that my heart is so in love and willing to wait a million years for him….please email me someone i’m confused…

  14. Jodi on August 4th, 2009 4:04 pm

    Dear Katrina,

    It is very normal and natural to have those feelings. God is a brilliant designer and gave us the gifts of emotion, feeling and hormones as part of His plan for us. Only God can be sure if this man has been put in your path for a reason.

    The one thing I am certain of is that if you are meant to connect with him than God will find a way to help you . Even though He has a perfect plan for us, it does require some effort on our part. We cannot sit back and wait for life to happen. If you are suppose to run into him again you will, and when you do maybe smile and just say hello. It doesn’t have to be any more than that. Take the pressure off yourself of having to strike up a conversation or think of something to say that sounds funny. Our eyes and smiles are sometimes the best way to say what we are feeling.

    Then leave it in His hands. Keep praying to God for the special man that you are hoping for. The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it! (1 Thessalonians 5:24)

    God Bless,
    Jodi :)
    Christian Singles Blog Moderator

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