Christian Dating and Waiting on God基督教交友和等待上帝
One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate.一个最困难的事情感兴趣，基督教单打约会正在等待上帝的特别心心相印。 This is especially true as we see our single freinds meet their dream date, get married and move on.这是尤其如此，因为我们看到我们的单身朋友，满足他们的梦想迄今为止，结婚，继续前进。 Loneliness and anxiety starts to creep in as we wonder when God will bless us.孤独感和焦虑中开始蔓延的时候，因为我们不知道上帝会保佑我们。
Although King David did not have Christian dating in mind when he wrote Psalms 13, many single people waiting for a mate can certainly identify with his feelings in verse 1: ” How long O Lord?虽然大卫王没有基督教约会时考虑到他写道诗篇13 ，许多单身人士等待队友一定能找出与自己的感情诗1 ： “主啊多久？ Will you forget me forever?”你会忘掉我吗？ “
Are you a single Christian girl or guy struggling with your faith in the area of “waiting on the Lord” for a husband or wife?你是一个单一的基督教女童或家伙挣扎与您的信仰领域中的“等待上帝” ，为丈夫或妻子？ Be encouraged and recall that David, whom God described as a man after His own heart, also struggled.鼓励和回顾，大卫，人神描述为一名男子后，他的心，也挣扎。 Yet, it’s interesting that during the time he wrote Psalms 13, he also penned Psalms 62:1: “My soul waits in silence for God only.” If you read the rest of Psalms 62, you’ll see David could wait upon the Lord because he had a calm, confident expectation that God would do exactly what He promised: He would meet David’s needs.然而，有趣的是这段时间他写诗篇13日，他还写下诗篇62:1 ： “我的灵魂在沉默中等待上帝只。 ”如果你读了其他诗篇62 ，您会看到大卫可以等待根据主，因为他的冷静，自信期望上帝会正是他承诺：他将大卫的需要。
Recently, I had a single woman come up to me quite confused over the Christian dating issue.最近，我有一个单身女人来给我很困惑的基督教约会问题。 Although she wanted so much to be married to a godly man, she was torn over whether虽然她想这么多是嫁给一个虔诚的人，她被蹂躏是否 using Christian dating services利用基督教约会服务 meant she was no longer waiting on God for His provision.意味着她已不再等待上帝为他提供。
How about you?你呢？ Are you confused over how you should approach Christian dating and waiting on God?你混淆了你如何应基督教约会和等待上帝？ If so, consider these questions to guide your actions and test your heart motives:如果是这样，考虑到这些问题，以指导你的行动和测试你的心的动机：
- Does God’s word and/or uncontrollable circumstances preclude you from taking action toward entering a dating relationship?没有上帝的文字和/或无法控制的情况下，排除您采取行动对进入恋爱关系？ If so, this may be the time to silently wait on Him, resting in His promises to provide.如果是这样，这可能是时间，静静地等待他，在他的承诺休息提供。
- Have you done all that you could do in your particular situation?你尽了一切， 你可以在您的特定情况？ Remember, God wants us to take faith-filled risks as we ask, seek and knock (Matthew 7:7).请记住，上帝希望我们能够采取的信仰充满风险，因为我们要问，寻求和敲（马太7时07分） 。 Many times we claim to be “waiting on God” before making a move on a matter, but God has already given permission to simultaneously take action while honouring him as well.很多时候，我们自称是“等待上帝” ，然后才作出行动上的问题，但上帝已经获准同时采取行动，同时也尊重他。
- Do your attitude and actions show that your soul is submitted to God’s will and resting on His promises?你的态度和行动表明，你的灵魂是提交天意和休息对自己的诺言？ Or are you hell bent on taking your Christian dating life into your own hands because you fear losing out on that single man or woman?或者是你的地狱执意考虑您的基督教约会生活到您自己的手中，因为你害怕失去了单身男人还是女人？
As you meander through the Christian singles dating scene, remember that waiting on God and taking proactive steps toward your dating goal need not be an either/or proposition.当您漫步通过基督教单打约会场景，请记住，等待上帝和采取积极主动的步骤，您的约会的目标不一定是一个非此即彼/或命题。 Just make sure as a Christian single, your heart is aligned with God’s each step of the way.只要确定作为基督教单，你的心是符合神的每一步。
Are you a non-dating or dating Christian with a comment or a different take?你是一个非基督教约会或约会的评论或不同的考虑？ Consider helping other Christians by sharing your dating thoughts.考虑帮助其他基督徒分享您约会的想法。
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Have you ever wanted to scream because you want things to work out and fear he and the rest of life has ran off and left you?你曾经想尖叫，因为你想要的东西的工作，并担心他和其他生活跑去，离开你呢？ Have you ever read so many things and listened to so many people that it felt like you were in one continuous re-run of the waiting game?你有没有读太多的事情，并听取了如此多的人，这感觉就像你是在一个连续的重新运行游戏的等待？ Have you ever wanted to finally find that mirror-image reflection of you and to love honor and cherish him or her?你曾经想最后发现镜像反映了你和爱的荣誉，珍惜他或她？ If you are reading this…I’m 33 years old and a guy.如果您正在阅读此...我33岁和一个男人。 Right now, I’m waiting on the door to open for a new job and searching for just “one” of God’s many loveliest creations- woman.现在，我等待着的门打开了新的就业机会和寻求公正“一”上帝的许多可爱的创作女人。 I’ve screwed things up in the past and I’ve also done the right thing too and God saw all things.我已经喝醉的事情在过去和我也做了正确的事情太多，上帝看到所有的东西。 It’s great to know we don’t have to say “a single word” about what makes us tick when we talk to him.很高兴知道我们并没有说“一个字： ”什么让我们选择当我们谈论他。
though none go with me…I still will follow..虽然没有和我一起去...我仍然将按照..
Mark,马克，
just read your message above, it sounded heart felt and you are right God does see all things.刚才宣读邮件以上，听起来感觉和你的心是正确的上帝没有看到所有的东西。 I am sure that if you keep the faith, he will reward you, not only in your work life but your personal life also.我确信，如果你保持信念，他将回报你，不仅在您的工作生活，但您的个人生活也。 Sometimes it is hard to just let go and let God.有时很难仅仅放开，让上帝。 Good luck in your Personal Life and in your Job hunt, God can and does listen to us, we may not always get the answer we want but it is the best for us……Take Care好运气在你的个人生活和工作中的亨特，上帝也可以听我们的，我们可能总是没有得到正确的答案，但我们希望这是最好的，我们... ...以护理
I agree with you Mark, and, Charlene.我同意你的标记，并且，夏琳。 But I don’t think God wants us to suffer.但我不认为上帝希望我们受苦。 It’s seems as though I’m suffering because I have this strong desire to not be lonley, but if feels like I’m being punished for something.这好像我很痛苦，因为我有这个强烈的愿望不会孤独，但如果感觉就像我被惩罚了。 I often wonder, “if I want a man after God’s own heart, then why does it seem like there’s nobody out there who is after God’s own heart?” I am 23 years old and I have never worried this hard about something or someone.我常常想， “如果我想一个人在上帝的心，那么为什么它似乎没有人有后，谁是上帝的心？ ”我23岁，我从来没有担心这很难了解某事或某人。 So if God isn’t ready to bless me with someone, then why did he make the desire so strong?所以，如果上帝不准备保佑我与某人，那么他为什么作出如此强烈的愿望？ Why now?!为什么是现在？ ！
I KNOW THAT ONE SHOULD WAIT BUT SOMETIMES THE ENEMY WANTS US TO BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL NEVER COME THROUGH………I READ A BOOK BY TD JAKES WOMEN THOU ARET LOOS AND THERES A POSTION THAT I JUST HAPPEND TO OPEN ONE DAY WERE HE SAYS THAT ANOINT ME IM SINGLE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD WHY THINGS IN MY RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WORKED OUT UNTILL I READ THAT PART GOD WILL NOT GIVE UA RIGHT MAN IF U DONT FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM FIRST AND WHEN U DO HE WILL PERSONALY RELEASE ONE OF HIS ROYAL SONS TO BE A BLESSING SO SOMETIMES UR TORN BETWEEN UR FEELINGS BUT I GEUSS ONE SHOULD WAIT AND NOT FAINT我知道，应该等待，但有时的敌人希望美国相信，上帝将永远是通过... ... ...我读一本书的TD勾画妇女THOU ARET LOOS及THERES的位置，我只是HAPPEND开启一个一天他说，涂油ME的即时单理解为什么我从来没有的东西我从来没有关系，直到我读这部分上帝会不会普遍合适人选中频ü不爱上首位当ü溶解氧他将PERSONALY释放他的一个儿子皇家是福所以有时乌拉圭回合的乌拉圭回合情怀之间挣扎，但我GEUSS应该等待和不FAINT
I know at times we feel so lonely and so depressed over the matter for we are only flesh and blood but there is one thing we should always keep in mind God said “lo, I am with you, even to the ends of the earth” which means when we feel lonely and depressed it is the devil who is giving us those false notions.我知道，有时我们对此感到非常孤独和沮丧的事，我们只是血肉，但有一件事是我们应该永远记住上帝说： “看哪，我与你，甚至到了天涯海角”这意味着，当我们感到孤独和沮丧是魔鬼谁给我们这些虚假的概念。 God said he will never leave us nor forsake us and there is no way that we be alone.上帝说，他将永远不会离开我们，也没有抛弃我们，是没有出路，我们被孤立。 And from my experience when such feelings come to my mind, I ask God for strength and start praising and telling him that it is only him that I can’t live without in this world, and surrender my life to him and trust him that in his time he will make all things beautiful.从我的经验时，这种感情来到我的脑海，我要问上帝的力量，并开始赞扬，并告诉他，只有他，我不能生活在这个世界上，并移交给他我的生活和信任他，在他的时间，他将尽一切美好的事物。 He knows what we need and when we need it.他知道我们需要的东西，当我们需要它。 and as the song goes he is never earlier and never late.作为这首歌不用他从来都不是较早和从不迟到。 He is right on time.他是正确的时间。 He is GOD.他是上帝。 And remember also if we let our mind stay on the thought God will not be pleased with that.请记住，如果我们也让我们的心留在想上帝不会高兴了。 To trust means to give everything to him, he operates with out us helping him in any way.相信一切手段给他，他操作了我们帮助他以任何方式。 Adam was at rest when God brought him a wife, he didn’t even know that there existed a thing called a wife.亚当是在休息时，上帝给他的妻子，他甚至不知道存在的东西称为妻子。 May God help each and everyone of us as we rest upon him.愿上帝帮助每一个人，我们为我们立足于他。
a sister in Christ一个妹妹在基督
im only 18 and ive recently got out of a bad relationship.即时只有18岁，香港专业教育学院最近获得了一个坏的关系。 i have just found god truly a year ago, even though ive went to church all my life.我刚才发现上帝真正在一年前，虽然香港专业教育学院去教会我所有的生活。 For some reason I cant seem to find the right guy, im not trying to sound boastful at all, but i have a lot of men after me but most of them just want one thing and i dont know how to find a christian guy who just wants me for me.对于某些原因，我似乎不能找到合适的人，即时通讯没有试图健全自夸，而是我有很多男人追我，但其中大多数是只想一件事，我不知道如何找到一个基督教家伙谁公正希望我为我。 I really want a good guy that i could be with and i dont know what i am doing wrong.我真的想一个好人，我可以和我不知道我做错了。 i feel as if there is someone out there for me, i just dont know where he is.我觉得如果有人有我，我只是不知道他在哪里。