Christian Singles, Singleness and Marriage基督教单打，单一和婚姻
I meet so many Christian singles who have a distorted view of marriage and singleness.我遇到这么多的基督教单打谁有一个扭曲的看法结婚和独身。 Somehow many singles have gotten it into their heads that marriage is THE biggest goal to achieve, while singleness is looked on as less desireable.不知怎的许多单打得到它纳入其负责人认为婚姻是最大的目标实现，而单一的期待作为并不理想。
Unfortunately, a lot of Christians’ thinking about singleness and marriage is reinforced by our church culture.不幸的是，很多信徒思考独身和婚姻是增强了我们的教会文化。 For example, while the greatest missionary in history, the Apostle Paul, was single, many modern day mission boards and churches exclude ministerial candidates unless they are married.例如，虽然最大的传教历史，使徒保罗，是单一的，许多现代天的飞行任务议会和教会排除部长人选，除非他们结婚了。 Singlehood definitely takes a back seat to married life in the churches. Singlehood需要一定的后座，以婚姻生活中的教堂。
Of course, this line of thinking is completely assinine and unbiblical, especially in light of our Bible verses of the day found in 1 Coriinthians 7: 32-34:当然，这一思路是完全assinine和unbiblical ，尤其是在根据我们的圣经诗句的一天发现1 Coriinthians 7 ： 32-34 ：
“I want you to live as free of complications as possible. “我希望你生活无并发症的可能。 When you’re unmarried, you’re free to concentrate on simply pleasing the Master. 当你未婚，你可以自由地集中于仅仅取悦主。 Marriage involves you in all the nuts and bolts of domestic life and in wanting to please your spouse, leading to so many more demands on your attention. 婚姻涉及到你在所有细节的家庭生活，并想请你的配偶，导致如此众多的更高的要求您的关注。 The time and energy that married people spend on caring for and nurturing each other, the unmarried can spend in becoming whole and holy instruments of God .” 的时间和精力，已婚的人花费在照顾和培养彼此的未婚可以花费成为全体和神圣的文书的上帝。 “
How Single Christians Distort Singleness and Marriage单一的基督徒如何歪曲独身和婚姻
Having a distorted view of singleness and marriage can cause you to lose your joy in the Lord, as well as your有一个扭曲的看法独身和婚姻可能会导致您失去的喜悦，上帝，以及您 contentedness with life知足的生活 in general.一般。 What exactly is a distorted view of singleness and marriage?究竟什么是扭曲的看法独身和婚姻？ Honestly ask yourself the following questions to see where you stand:老实说问问自己以下问题，看看你的立场：
- Do you feel you are incomplete or abnormal as long as you remain single?你觉得你是不完整的或不正常的，只要你仍然是单身呢？
- Do you feel that marriage, meeting Mr. or Mrs. Right, will solve all your problems in your life?你觉得结婚，会议或先生夫人权，将解决您的所有问题，在您的生活吗？
- Have you been so self-absorbed with seeking a soulmate for marriage that you have neglected friends, family and fellowship with other believers?你是如此自我吸收寻求soulmate结婚，你忽视了朋友，家人和奖学金与其他信徒？
- In your singleness, are you pursuing marriage more than God?在您的独身，你是追求婚姻超过上帝？ (Ouch!) （哎哟！ ）
If you answered any of these questions in the positive, you have an unhealthy view of singleness and marriage.如果你回答这些问题的积极的，你有一种不健康的看法独身和婚姻。
As singles seeking the Lord over this issue, covenenant with Him in prayer to begin seeing your singleness and marriage as He does.至于单打寻求上帝在这个问题上， covenenant与他祈祷，开始看到自己的独身和婚姻像他那样。 The important thing to remember is that our Heavenly Father did not sanction marriage as the only way to live, or singleness as second best lifestyle.最重要的事情要记住的是，我们的天父没有结婚制裁的唯一途径，生活，或独身作为第二最好的生活方式。
Are you a Christian singles with a different view of singleness and marriage?你是一个基督教单打与持不同观点的独身和婚姻？
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