Comments on: Christian Teens, Dating and Sex

By: happy

happy — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 05:07:45 +0000

hi, i’m a Christian. i’ve been dating this Christian guy and we’ve shared hugs and kisses. my parents didnt know about it because i know they would get mad. they didnt make it clear about when i can date. so i asked them when i can date and she sed when i turn 18. the guy and i stopped giving hugs and kisses and decided to wait till i’m 18. do you think i should tell my parents that we already kissed? even if we already stopped doing those things?

By: noemi

noemi — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 17:32:38 +0000

oi Christian a super difisil encontra namorado evangelico eu tenho 16 anos e me sinto carente sou cristÃ£o e fis uma coisa feia namorei um tempo com um garoto que nÃ£o era cristÃ£o e ele me maguol muito eu acho que vou ficar souteira para sempre, mas eu presiso de um namorado urgente o que eu faÃ§o?

By: David Butler

David Butler — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 00:44:11 +0000

ashleigh- It’s great that you and your “boyfriend” are planning on saving sex until marriage. Now when it comes to kissing and holding hands, it becomes a bit more tricky. Kissing and holding hands is fine, as long as these things don’t tempt you guys to sin. Its easy to get caught up in the feelings and sin. If kissing and holding hands makes you guys want to do sexual things, then you shouldn’t be doing them. However, it you are fine with kissing and holding hand, and can remain pure while doing those things, then it is fine.

By: ashleigh

ashleigh — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 00:45:20 +0000

i have a “boyfirend” thats 2 yrs older than me and he is a Christian- very sweet and respects me. We’ve been “together” for a little more than a year now. We can’t date yet becuase i am not 16 yet.He doesn’t mind waiting for me or until marriage to have sex (we prefer it that way). However we have kissed before, and when we do start dating i was wondering if maybe just kissing and holding hands would be okay?

By: Chris

Chris — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 04:50:22 +0000

hello Jessica. Your comments are interesting. I am a 17 year old Christain guy. It is very hard to find the “right person”. I feel for you because I feel as if I am in the same boat as you. Do not give in to sex. If a guy wants to do that with you don’t feel as if you have to, you are worth more than that!. You know what? If you remain pure and trust God there is someone out there for you! I am a christian guy and you know what, it is a hard this to come across a “good” christain girl.. Its is! And I garentee if you remain on the right path God WILL bless you for that. Chelsea, she was one of my best friends. And she did not have a boy friend at all.(she was 2 years older than me) And she waited patently and one day she meet him at church, he was visiting. 3 months later they are engaged and getting married. All that to say she waited and God blessed her for doing the right thing. There is a christian guy out there waiting for you and you have just got to pray about it. pray for him, your future soulmate. I heard this quote once.”Instead of trying to find the right person look at yourself and ask how can I be the right person.” Consintrate on yourself and how you act and what you do. Be the right person for him. Well its great to know some girls out there are trying to do the right things! Keep at it girl. Your doing great!

By: jessica

jessica — Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:12:45 +0000

is it good to have a Christian boyfriend… it is very hard to find a Christian guy that would like to wait until marriage… i would like to date again just to fit in with my friends…but i’m looking for a guy that is not all about sex.. all the guys i dated in the past wanted to have sex… so i broke up with him.. i just don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life..but i would love to wait until marriage also… then again i don’t want to be a 40 year old virgin…. so what do i do?????