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Comment on Tear Jerker Lost Love Quotes by Amy

Amy — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 07:11:43 +0000

If you miss me, tell me.
If you love me, show me.
And if you leave me, remember me.

Comment on Looking to Find a Christian Wife by mark

mark — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 01:29:53 +0000

hi, i’m a 51 yr old man, looking for a good christian woman. i’m totally sick and tired of the people of this world. i too want a good woman that i can trust to the end and love. the lord will provide. mark

Comment on Prayer for Christian Singles by zenitsa tsoneva

zenitsa tsoneva — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 18:44:06 +0000

please,pray for me-I want to know what love is

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by This Is My Testimony

This Is My Testimony — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 18:33:56 +0000

I am a teen. I am a good girl. I make good grades. But, about 2-3 years ago, I started to begin to have raging hormones. I had a friend who showed me what sex was, on the internet. After that, I started to watch porn, because it made me feel something that I had never felt before. I didnt realize what I was doing at the time. My parents are big Christians, so they never discuss porn or the consequences. As I watched the porn, I would masturbate. It left me feeling dirty and gross. It lasted for about a year. I didnt tell anyone and I was not close to God in this dark time. I stopped watching porn and I fought my urges and resisted masturbation. It has been 2 years since I have watched porn and yes, it is a daily battle. But, my life is much happier without it.
I was not raised in a bad home, I just made a few bad choices.

But, in conclusion, my Savior, Jesus, forgave me for my sins. I realized that you can live without fufilling your sexual desires and I am so happy that I turned away from my sin. He forgave me and showed me the light. It was not all easy. I dont know if masturbation is a sin, but I know that I can live without it, and I can wait until marriage. Anything is possible with the help of God.
Bless you all
My Savior lives, My Savior loves

Comment on Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents by clarissa

clarissa — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 03:28:47 +0000

this is a tough issue -one that I am struggling with as well -it seems unGodly to pursue child support -you can’t get blood from a stone -but yet it is disgusting that someone would be more concerned with their own extravagant needs than meeting the basic needs of a child -listen for the prompting of the Holy Spirit and God -I believe the answer is there

Comment on Soul Mate Indicators for Single Christians by Monika

Monika — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:02:21 +0000

hello,

what I often find when it comes to people looking for their soul mate is that they keep thinking a soul mate is a person of their own age group - and of the opposite sex. often, looking for a soul mate seems to be confused with looking for the perfect lover … however, a soul mate can be of the same sex and can also be considerably older or younger ….. sometimes several decades. a soul mate is not necessarily the one you are going to marry ….

as for the above mentioned indicators: love, respect, friendship and accepting the person for who he/she is comes so naturally when you interact with your soul mate. this is not something you even have to think about. it’s given. if you have to make an effort to act that way then it’s probably not your soulmate.

and another myth - finding your soul mate doesn’t mean the end of all your (love) problems. often times such a relationship can mean that we have to deal with circumstances in our lives that are quite challenging - but nevertheless help us further down the path and towards personal maturity…

also, keep in mind that soul mates can come from all walks of life.

hope this helps
Monika

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by Acod

Acod — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:25:50 +0000

Dear Shannon,
I cant say i know what it feels like to lose ur soulmate but ive “lost” someone that i loved b4. Though we never actually had sex, we came close more than once and when we broke up it was hard for me to cope with my sexual desires. I found myself masturbating whenever i thot of the times we were together, but each time i did it, it left me feelin emptier than ever and alienated from God.

I have given myself standards for testing sin. ask urself, How do u feel afterwards? Can u talk with God or do u feel far away from Him? Can u tell ur friends or family what u do? I answered no to all of these and i have my answer. Masturbation only takes from me, it gives nothing back. it leaves me empty.

Comment on Unrequited Love Quotes by Ellie

Ellie — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:57:44 +0000

If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you,
it was meant to be. If they don’t, their love was never
yours to begin with.

Comment on Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents by Mayrae

Mayrae — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 23:43:45 +0000

Diane I made that mistake 10 years ago, I dropped the Child Support case just cause i did not want to deal with him. Sweety don’t close the case save the money for your child’s college for your present needs, don’t close it because if he does move out of state or far away it’s going to be a headache to open it, You don’t feel the heavy financial burden too much now, but think about your child’s future. Be blessed and be strong, take up your cross and serve HIM in spirit and in truth!

Comment on Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents by Jodi

Jodi — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:25:30 +0000

Dear Diane, you were so faithful to God in having your daughter. It couldn’t have been an easy decision for you. Your daughter’s biological father has a responsibility to her. Emotionally, spirutually and (YES) financially. Just because she was conceived out of wedlock doesn’t make her any less a gift, or any less deserving. I can understand the temptation to run the other direction and avoid the possibility of being bullied. I remember when my EX used to get me on the phone and rip me apart. It would cut to my soul and I would end up in tears. We have 2 children together so I couldn’t sever all communication. With God’s strength we can face anyone. One day I prayed for the Holy spirit to give me the right words. When he started in on me, I calmly said “I am not your wife, you have no authority over me and you are not allowed to speak to me that way” and I hung up. Anytime he would start I would politely end the conversation. He doesn’t even bother trying those tactics anymore. That isn’t to say that in your situation he may try MANY times to intimidate you. God is always at our side with us in our battles.

Read Psalm 59. It is all about God’s promise to help us be victorious over anyone who comes again God’s children. In times of trouble HE is our refuge!

God Bless,
Jodi

Comment on Dating Advice for Cell Phone Relationship by Jodi

Jodi — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:11:53 +0000

The biggest problem with communicating electronically in any way (e-mail, texting, instant messages) is the the emotion ccis lost. It is often difficult to interpret the tone in what the other person is saying. This can lead to misunderstanding and conflict. We also tend to be braver in what we choose to say, whether it is positive or negative.

God didn’t make us like machines. We have heart, emotion, soul and the gift of the HOLY SPIRIT. I am not saying to give up your electronics, but try not to make them the focus of your relationship. You are missing out on all the yummy stuff!

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by LadyT

LadyT — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 21:57:18 +0000

I believe mine started when I was young, I had such a fear of having sex or getting anything from sex I build a wall around myself and said this way I don’t have to worry about getting any sexual transmitted dieseases.

I dated when I was a teen and had sex a few times but didn’t care for it because I wanted to be married before I even started, so being young at that time I stayed to myself and away from masturbatation.

As I grew into adult I started dating again it had been 10 years I had not have sex or even masturbate, but as time when on in the relationship I finally gave into sex with my partner and I was so unhappy with it because he didn’t care about pleasing me just his self.

So I left that relationship and asked GOD to forgive me having sex before marriage and masturbation. In my opinion I felt masturbation kind of saved my life from having sex like crazy.

Finally I got married but later the marriage took a bad turn, my husband had a problem with sex with other women and I divorced him, he had 6 affairs on me and it was hurting.

Sometimes I use masturbation as a way to guard my heart from hurt because I want someone to really love me and not use me as a sex toy.

Yes sometimes I feel bad about it but I feel safe with it because I don’t have to worry about getting a sexual transmitted diseases.

I know we each have our own reason for doing it and i’m not saying i’m any better.

I know GOD have a heart and see us for who we really are and he know we love him.

Comment on Anger at Being Single-Dealing with Anger in Relationships by Foxy

Foxy — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 19:21:46 +0000

Hello Everyone,

Last Sunday I accepted God as my personal savior because for one I felt my relationship with God could be strong and two I want to clear my heart and mind from all negative things. I’ve been single going on 2 years now I am 26. These past two years have been the worst ever on the dating scene and I don’t even want to try anymore. I get so upset at this because I feel I have everything going for me. I pray so much, sometimes in the restroom at work just for patients and understanding. But I have faith that God has a plan for each of us. And with more patients and prayer our wishes and desires will come to pass.

Blessed day all.

Comment on Christian Dating Tips for Teens by blessed

blessed — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 08:38:37 +0000

why is it that when it comes to dating , christian teens are put under the same umbrella as non belivers? does not the fact that we are belivers show that we able to judge right from wrong?

Comment on Anger at Being Single-Dealing with Anger in Relationships by Tryce

Tryce — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 03:23:12 +0000

I’m single but I consider myself married to the cross. Life does get lonely at times and church folks can make it worse but God is so faithful. He carries me when my heart is heavy and listens to every word and catches every tear. I am learning to trust him and not be angry or feel less than but to choose the path of peace every time.