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Comment on Tiny Single Women by Lunch

Lunch — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 08:53:06 +0000

Sharon, seriously most guys arent into stick rail size 8 women. My country had a recent survey and found most guys like on average size 14. Women are suposed to have curves. Personally I like a size 14-16

Comment on Perfect Match Dating and Waiting Game by Chad

Chad — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 02:52:57 +0000

First of all, Heather is right because this is site is needed to speak your mind about life and God. Well, I don’t like it sometimes, but I know that God’s way works and it only way that really works. It hard sometimes and I guess the hardest part is the feeling that your missing something by waiting. What am I missing by waiting? Why do some people get married early and are happy? Am not sure it wrong, but am guessing am testing God’s method by waiting because my experience has shown me that my way doesn’t work.

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by Mimi

Mimi — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 06:10:27 +0000

Maxi i completely agree with you and i can speak from experience that i’ve been personally attacked by incubus. it was during the first months that i had stopped masturbating. i know that demon wanted me to do it again. i woke up in the middle of the night feeling someone on me touching me and causing arousal. i was frozen and couldn’t move. i just kept feeling someone touching me. it was then that i started praying in the spirit and rebuking it in the name of Jesus and he took off. this is not a joke this is something serious! masturbation is not okay in God’s eyes. He wants us to be pure and that includes sexually pure! don’t put your calling and relationship with God on the line for a few minutes of fleshly pleasure that will only bring you guilt and push you away from God. Seek the Lord in prayer and fasting! Ask Him for deliverance from this demon! He will never abandon you i promise!

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by maxi

maxi — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 04:19:42 +0000

CONTINUATION FROM JANUARY 27,2010
BECAUSE IT FEEL GOOD DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD DO IT. MASTURBATION IS A SIN BECAUSE MENTALLY YOU IMAGINE SEXUALLY THOUGHTS IN YOUR MIND THAT IS SIN. YOU MENTALLY GO THERE BEFORE YOU PHYSICALLY GO THERE (MASTURBATION). ]
MATTHEW 5;28 - BUT I SAY UNTO YOU. THAT WHOSOEVER LOOKETH ON A WOMAN O LUST AFTER HERCOMMITTED ADULTERY WITH HER ALREADY IN HIS HEART. LOOK UP PHILLIPPIANS 4:8

SOME PEOPLE THINK IF IT FEELS GOOD IT MUST BE ALRIGHT TO DO. THIS IS NOT TRUE THAT IS HOW SATAN TRAPS U MENTALLY AND THIS OPEN THE DOOR TO DEMONS ATTACKING YOU IN YOUR SLEEP. LOOK UP INCUBUS SPIRITS AND SEX DEMONS. THIS IS NOT A JOKE.

Comment on Looking to Find a Christian Wife by Mary Flora

Mary Flora — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:05:30 +0000

May the Lord help all the single Christian men and women who desire a mate…..find one another and serve the Lord. May the God given desire to find a partner be blessed with the solution in a physical partner. May the love and grace of our Lord guide you always.

Comment on Waiting on the Lord for Your Soul Mate by Jenny

Jenny — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 02:54:22 +0000

I am doing a conference for teenage girls on “Waiting on Prince Charming”. I am going to make them a book mark so they will have something they can refer back to. I want to make WAIT an acronym, but I am struggling to come up with something. This is what I was thinking. Let me know your ideas please!
W- welcoming
A- amazing
I- intentions
T- together
I feel that girls need to wait on that amazing partner that the Lord has planned for them. I think that they need other girls to help them and hold them accountable. Please let me know what you think.

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by Susan

Susan — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 03:16:29 +0000

Well, due to the fact that XXX Church, a foundation dedicated to keeping minds pure, released a statement that masturbation was healthy. Your girlfriend should not be upset, but rather glad that you are not with another girl. Let her know, I am a young man that is programmed to want and desire a woman, and it’s the only other option I have, unless we marry young and make our parents mad. Open up to a man figure in your life, a father, an uncle, someone that will better assist you with an answer about what may help you, becuase your testosterone levels are high, which makes you want to have sex more. It’s life.

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by Island Chick

Island Chick — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 03:58:11 +0000

Stats: almost 28, born again, female, single, virgin

I’ve been completely single for almost 9 years (yes, I heard you gsap out loud!) after ending my last relationship because I re-dedicated my life to Christ and my boyfriend wasn’t feeling the whole “saved” vibe. We were together for 2 years and did ’stuff’ to avoid having sex ONLY because I insisted. But half-way in to the relationship, I started masturbating… well, he ‘introduced’ me to it and I took over after that.

From that time until a while ago, I masturbated regularly–every night for a couple of years. Sometimes I felt guilty, sometimes not; sometimes I thought about my ex, sometimes it was all about me. I was severly conflicted and would often stop for weeks, even months at a time… then I would suddenly fall back into the same habit.

That continued until I hit my breaking point at 26. Up until then, masturbation was just to take the edge off but I started to get crazy horny–one day, I had to drive home on my lunch hour to ‘handle my business! That was around the same time that I ventured into porn on the net. It was curiosity that drove me because I never let myself indulge although everyone around me was into it. Well, I had my fill of porn for about 2 weeks and then I realized that I was dealing with a serious demon.

I made a serious commitment of sexual purity to God and to myself, and there was no looking back!! He has been more than faithful–I have been ‘clean’ (from masturbation and porn) for a year and 4 months, now! I’m still working on the thoughts of sex, but Jesus has brought me a long way.

That long testimony was simply to let everyone know that we CAN do ALL things through CHRIST who strengthens us. Even though I’m still single and believing God for my husband, those overwhelming sexual urges are completely gone and the Holy Spirit gets me through the day to day stuff.

Because I’m not 100% sure if masturbation is against God’s will or not, I’m just gonna leave it alone. But my prayer for all of the Christians struggling with it is that you EARNESTLY seek God about the issue. Pray and fast on it–the Holy Spirit will never lead us astray. God bless!!!

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by Needing advice

Needing advice — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:03:57 +0000

This is great to hear people talk about this subject. I never knew so many people struggled with this. I am 36 and very much struggle with masterbation and feeling guilty every time I do it. I’ve heard a lot of people talking about waiting until they found their Christian mate to explore their sexual feelings, but for me I don’t feel I will ever get married. I’m not even sure I want to get married. I’ve been pretty sick for the last year. I’m in end stage renal disease and I have a cathater that comes out of my side so I can do dialysis treatments 4 times a day. I don’t imagine with my health I will ever get married. However, I still have the sexual frustrations, and as most people can say “if I can just wait until I get married”, I don’t feel I will ever get married. So for those of us who will never marry and never have the hope of a sexual relationship that is right in God’s eyes, what’s the answer for us.
I wish I would never have these feelings, but it seems the more I try to suppress them, the worse they get.
I don’t want God to be disappointed in me, but I feel like such a disappointment.

Comment on Child Support Payments and Christian Single Parents by Amy

Amy — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 21:51:58 +0000

Chad, I don’t think child support is legalized theft. The man contributed to bringing the child into the world and as a father is responsible for the raising of that child. My ex continues not to pay child support but bullies and threatens because he is an attorney and continues to get away with it and knows he can. He is the reason we are divorced. He chose affairs and drugs over his marriage. This should not allow him to not pay the support of his children. I stayed home for 7 years at his insistence to raise children and gave up my career. Jesus also said render unto Caesar’s what is Caesar’s.

Comment on Tiny Single Women by Sharon

Sharon — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 03:02:06 +0000

This article should be renamed from “tiny”, to “slim, fit, athletic”…. especially in the church! I have struggled with weight my entire life, though I can do many sports and try to make myself look nice as far as makeup and clothes. But I haven’t been below a size 14 for a long time. Needless to say I am single. If you read MOST ads from guys on singles sites, even Christian ones, they are looking for women who are slim, fit, athletic… and a size 8 would be considered slim. I WISH I were a size 8! LOL

Comment on Masturbation and Christian Singles by just another story

just another story — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 05:29:24 +0000

well im a 17 yr old male. i started masturbating when i ws 11. i didnt know what i was doing. it just felt great. i did it for years and about 2 years ago started dating this amazing girl. i eventualy told her about it. it really shook our relationship but we managed to hang on. i still struggle with masturbating. sometimes every day or even multiple times in a day. my girlfriend, well, hates it. she says it hurts her. im so confused. some people say its wrong. others say its no big deal. i myself dont really know what i feel. i feel bad but thats more because my girlfriend doesnt want me to do it. not as much the act itself. it in a way helps me keep my sanity. sometimes the sexual tension is unbearable and masturbating relieves that. it also helps keep me out of trouble with my girlfriend. but the question of right or wrong still persits. ive seen both sides of the coin and have to make a descision. but im more confused than ever. if anybody can help id really appreciate it….

Comment on Letting Go of a Relationship by lisa

lisa — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 03:02:25 +0000

Not too long ago I would have called you crazy for making a decision to leave someone you loved because of your beliefsl. Not anymore. As a former agnostic taking those baby steps in faith, I suddenly understand.

Do not feel as if you failed. You did the best you could. Maybe she will come to the Lord in her own time, I had to. It took me decades.

I commend you for your strength and wisdom.

Comment on Disability Dating and Singles Dating with Disabilities by Rebbeca

Rebbeca — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 15:07:16 +0000

I am a 26 year-old Christian lady with no disability.Throughout my life, I am certainly open to dating a man with a disability, as long as he shares my faith and love me too.

Comment on Anger at Being Single-Dealing with Anger in Relationships by Jem

Jem — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 03:55:42 +0000

andy I know what you mean and I don’t believe that it is only when you have GOOD relationship with God that you’ll find someone, you can meet someone regardless. But I believe a Good relation ship with God is essential because it gives you an advantage by opening your eyes to things like the “Right Man”, directing and guiding your steps to be at the right place at the right time.

Another reason why a good relationship with God is important is the early stages of a great relationship needs some God given wisdom to navigate and having the Holy Spirit by your side is a fantastic tool :).

God is all you need as a whole being but because we were made in God’s image we have different parts to us and these parts need different things. The need for a spouse is not bad, actually God put it in us and has made provision for that need by having a compatible partner for you!