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If you happen to have an dating anxiety attack during a date, then what you need to do is take a minute alone to relax and regain your thoughts. Excuse yourself from what ever you are doing and take some time to walk around, breath, and relax. Once you regain your confidence and thoughts go back with your date and apologizes for your absence.

Above all else, Pray. Ask God to give you courage, strength, and peace. Trust in God and he won¡¯t let you down. He can and will help you overcome your dating anxiety. Don¡¯t be embarrassed by this problem because everyone at one time or another suffers from some form of anxiety.

Bible Verse of Day

~Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God~ Phil 4:6

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One Response to ¡°Dating and Social Anxiety Disorder¡±

  1. Tim W on May 10th, 2009 6:23 pm

    I have social anxiety and it has kept me from dating and forming relationships.

    Some people have told me that God gave me social anxiety disorder because he wants me to never marry and be single for life.

    I¡¯m not sure what to make of that idea. I think it sort of flies in the face of the Christian concept of overcoming life¡¯s obstacles.

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