Looking to Find a Christian Wife

Ever wonder how many single guys out there are actually looking to find a Christian wife? I would think many Christian single women in the market for a husband would be interested in knowing the number of Christian men hoping to find a Christian wife. Well we are too, and that’s one reason why our up and coming singles survey will try to quantify the different number of Christian single men looking to find a Christian wife, those looking to simply find a date and those not seeking a mate or date at all.

Lack of Biblical Guidance on How to Find a Christian Wife

Unfortunately, there is no specific dating advice in the Bible on how to find a wife, and you certainly won’t find dogmatic teaching on this subject. For example, in 1 Corinthians 7:27 Paul writes, “Are you unmarried? Do not look for look to find a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned…”

Although there is no “how to find a wife” playbook in the Scriptures, you will find general advice on topics such as waiting on the Lord, that would be applicable in your search to find a Christian wife.

Bible Verse of Day

“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22

Dear Father, we pray for my dear brothers in Christ who are seeking a suitable helpmate. We pray for their peace and strength as they wait on you. I thank you that you promise to provide all of our needs in your perfect time. In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Related Articles:

Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles
What Christian Guys Need in a Wife

Return to Christian-Dating-Service-PLUS Home

Related posts:

  1. Why Christian Single Men Need a Proverbs 31 Wife Most Christian single men I know frequently whine about...
  2. Christian Woman-Biblical Advice on How to be Attractive The average Christian woman does her best to be...
  3. Dating Chat With God A dating chat with God? Yeah, I know that...
  4. Matchmaker Dating, Faith and Christian Singles Certain online dating services are what we call matchmaker...
  5. Unequally Yoked: Not Just For Marriage Most seasoned Christians are familiar with 2 Corinthians 6:14,...

Enter Google AdSense Code Here

Comments

15 Responses to “Looking to Find a Christian Wife”

  1. Daniel on October 17th, 2007 9:12 pm

    It’s by far the most trying task I’ve ever been through.

  2. jairus adams on October 11th, 2008 3:07 am

    Thanks for your help whoever you are? The biggest dilemma found in my steps are that I have confictions that arent status quo and im not brasen about geting that info out so ussually find myself in situations of shyness when im in the presense of a lady “IN FRONT OF ANY CHURCH PEOPLE” or in the past i would fall into sinful lusts after having sex and made mistakes ive now repented of and have been the longest with “ANY” action down there! I hope your not a woman but im just trying to get this burden off me. I pray now God takes it from both of us but scripture also says to confess your faults to one another that there may be a healing and it seems i was always in a situation to repress it and bottle it up till it burst out. I always saw this as weakness that a young man shouldnt expose himself to utter doom. This was probably the voice of the devil most definitly. I know we only have one mediater before God but we are to bear the burdens of one another thus fulfilling the law of God. Where was i? okay, i went to bible college out of high school to learn the bible , didnt graduat, ran into finace problems, sin problems , Army problems, uhh, more sin, more sin, lots of Gods mercy and keeping, then i tried to go back to bible college but now i have debt and not finding work and falling again into sin which almost became marraige maybe kindof i had to leave for a job offer here in southern california. I see providence in this but now i still have these setbacks as i only want to Follow Gods leading do not want this world of babylon and luke warmness wrapped in a morallity that denies Gods power but i know God brings Good morality. Also i dont believe in the chariots and horses we trust in,( cars and motorcycles)I dont forbid automobiles yet Id desire God brings more to a marraige than blending in with the World yet still in it protected. So ive google and maybe lancaster PA. near my hometowne of York, PA. or portland , Oregon where i read theve got bumper stickers saying keep Portland weird and like bicicles and walking and practical living yet arent mennonites or amish.. thats about it, looking for a woman who can submit to a man as i and would trust God for children when possible. Thanks, please be gentle but i want honesty. Thanks jairus adams

  3. George on December 6th, 2008 9:15 pm

    Please if you are out to find a serious relationship which should end up in marriage, please lets join hands in learning about each other. I am so lonely and just want to devote my life to someone who will not break my heart tomorrow.
    Thank you for understanding.
    George.

  4. Wilwin on January 22nd, 2009 4:47 pm

    I was looking for a wife get rid of my lonliness and walk in God’s way. I am trying for 5 yrs now I am 30
    in this time I also fel sick many times I feel I am wasted May be it’s God’s will for me
    I wan God to heal my body and soul use me for His glory

  5. Isaiah on February 4th, 2009 11:23 pm

    The most important thing every Christian should do is love the Lord our God with all their heart, soul, mind and strength. I have discovered through experience that if you wholly root yourself in this truth, you won’t feel lonely because in God you will find supply for all your ‘individual’ needs. When you desire the presence of God this is of the spirit. The only way to fulfil this desire is to fellowship with God. When you desire the company of a woman or a man this is not of the spirit but the soul. And whatever is not of the spirit can be neutered, even that which is not particularly sinful.

    I believe God has set apart only one person for each of us, though many think this is a myth. God said that He orders the steps of righteous man. This means in God’s plans for our lives we have to be at a particular place at a particular time. Therefore we can’t just marry the random person or the one we think is the best for us, even though the person might be the holiest alive. One’s individual path was laid out before time began and because you become one in spirit and in flesh with your spouse when you get married, the two paths of a wife and husband merge into one. So don’t worry about meeting your spouse. When you meet someone you like you have to ask God if they are ‘the one’. Most Christians don’t realise how critical to fulfilling our God-given destinies marrying the right person is. I’m not saying that if you marry the wrong person God won’t use you. What will happen though is you will miss your mark. God will position the both of you to allow you to sufficiently converse. The business of dating various people is quite rubbish. God knows who He has set apart for you so just trust Him. If as Christians we had to rely on trial and error then how would we call our God omniscient. Everything in its time.

  6. Robert Hillman on May 26th, 2009 11:26 pm

    I am a real bible believing christian man

    but I am also a man that means romantic passionate sensual sexual and all that

    but I have been single since I was twenty eight

    simply because woman dont want a bible believing husband and lover anymore

    they seem to want the drama and divorce

    I JUST DONT GET IT

    fourty two in ontario
    just wants love like everyone else

  7. Mycker on September 2nd, 2009 7:00 am

    The greatest honour according to the bible is to find a good wife. But like any good thing it needs commitment, honesty, and trust in God.
    At the right time God will send someone into your life BUT you have to have the spirit to guide you to notice an opportuny to say, “hello, sister, how are you?… ”
    at the end of the day you will have to take initiative for yourself. Heaven will not do unto men what they can do for themselves!

  8. Rosalie on September 2nd, 2009 2:00 pm

    He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. (vice versa) Woman also waits for the best person God has given her. Waiting will soon be over… I know.

  9. Nancy MBuru on September 24th, 2009 12:03 pm

    The greatest honour according to the bible is to find a good Husband. But like any good thing it needs commitment, honesty, and trust in God.

    Sister
    Nancy

  10. Osabuohien on October 15th, 2009 10:17 am

    I am a real christian man, I am looking for a real good christian woman who will be willing to serve the Lord with me all over the world

  11. Tryce on October 20th, 2009 2:38 am

    A wife should be found by watching and praying. God will present the right person at the right place and time.

  12. mark on November 13th, 2009 1:29 am

    hi, i’m a 51 yr old man, looking for a good christian woman. i’m totally sick and tired of the people of this world. i too want a good woman that i can trust to the end and love. the lord will provide. mark

  13. Rebecca on November 21st, 2009 7:06 am

    I don’t know how I happened upon this webpage but I did. I want to encourage all of you men out there that there are real, loving, great women out there, but they are sometimes hard to find. I haven’t met any single Christian guys it seems like they are all married or embarrassed to talk to me in front of thier friends because I’m not super skinny. I do get asked for dates on a normal basis but its never a Christian guy. I don’t think being overweight is healthy and shouldn’t be a permanent way of life but people do make mistakes and run into problems in life, a guy being overweight has never caused me to judge them or feel embarrassed by them. I think every guy has thier own unique charm and should be happy just being himself and it might help in finding a lady that is like him. I feel like i’m not “religious” because I work almost every sunday and get fed the word mostly by online and television programs since I cant make it to church. I find it almost more enjoyable and way less distracting when i hear the Word without being in a large audience. I sin all the time and try my best to pray often and seek Jesus. I would love to have a husband but I’m going to enjoy myself and be happy and content in this season of my life. Just keep your hopes up guys, they’re out there. lol p.s. there is a such thing as drama free women, they are rare lol but they exist. I am one of the most laid back women I’ve ever met haha!! I try to be that way on purpose everyday because having had boyfriends and guy friends Ive learned that guys like stuff simple and hasslefree, they like stuff straight to the point and don’t get hints at all and can’t read minds and can’t tell how a girl is feeling by looking at her. I wish more women would understand this and they would have much better relationships with all the men in thier life. I wish I could hand out the book called “The proper care and feeding of husbands” to every woman in the world. Its a funny title but serious book, it gets women to understand how thier husband functions. Keep praying guys, shes out there :D <3 i know theres one out there for me <3

  14. Ivy on December 20th, 2009 4:37 am

    Hey all! I to just want a loyal, kind, faithful christian husband and that is exactly what I thought I found. I say pray for God to move all the fake’s out of the way. God gave me a vision about the man that will be my spouse. He is a christian singer, full of love and joy, he is faithful, and prays constantly for others in his ministry. I ask God how will I know it is him, and God showed me what he looks like and said he knows your name and you know his face.

  15. Mary Flora on March 2nd, 2010 5:05 pm

    May the Lord help all the single Christian men and women who desire a mate…..find one another and serve the Lord. May the God given desire to find a partner be blessed with the solution in a physical partner. May the love and grace of our Lord guide you always.

Feel free to leave a comment...
and oh, if you want a pic to show with your comment, go get a gravatar!