1
July
2008
Many people get discouraged and disheartened when they cannot find a good lasting relationship. People also try to rush a relationship because they have the opportunity to be in one. However, the Bible tells us in Psalm 27 that we need to be patient and trust in God to show us the right person to date.
As humans, we tent to get anxious and want to find our future soul mate as soon as we want to. This may cause us to get discouraged when we don’t find a person right away. God already knows who, and where your soul mate is. He also knows when and where you will meet that person; so don’t take take finding your future soul mate into your own hands. Trust in the Lord and he will guide you in the right direction. If we try to take things into our own hands, then we will get discouraged because we are not God. “Be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD” remember also not to rush into a relationship just because you get the opportunity to be in one.
We also tend to rush into a relationship just because we are desperate to be in one, even if we know deep inside that the person we are dating is not meant for us. If you know that you are getting yourself into a relationship that won’t work out for you, then get out because that isn’t what God has planned for you. If you try to do things without God, then obviously you will not find success!
Remember that the Lord knows you better than anybody and knows exactly who your soul mate is so there is no need to rush things. Have faith in the Lord and pray and when his (not yours) time is right, you will meet that person that God has made just for you and find a true long lasting, God honoring relationship.
Bible Verse of Day
~Wait for the LORD;
be strong and take heart
and wait for the LORD~ Psalm 27
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9
June
2008
Looking for free Christian e cards? A number of Christian singles have written us wondering about where they could find Christian ecards for free on the web. Many singles use Christian e cards for free for not only romantic reasons, but to also send a word of encouragement to other singles they have met along the way. Have you ever been encouraged by someone sending you an online Christian e card? I have, and it really made my day.
Here are some cool Christian e cards for free sites for you to use:
www.dayspring.com/
www.crossdaily.com/cards/
cards.heartlight.org/
Free Christian ecards aside, in the Bible there are a number of words that can be translated encouragement. One such word is οἰκοδομέω, which means to build each other up. In this world with so many people trying to tear other folks to pieces, we should well remember to give a single brother or sister an uplifting word or two. you’ll make their day!
Bible Verse of Day
~Therefore exhort one another, and build each other up, even as you also do~1 Thessalonians 5:11
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25
May
2008
Do you have dating anxiety? There is enough stress in life besides the added addition of dating anxiety. For those fortunate ones who don’t suffer from this ailment, dating anxiety includes developing a social anxiety disorder when you think about going on a date or even thinking about love itself.
Here are some good tips to help conquer dating anxiety:
It isn’t a good thing to keep all of your nervousness bottled up inside. Many people try to hold in their dating anxiety whenever they are around their date. However, keeping all that nervous energy inside will only make the situation worse. When you feel anxious around your date, don’t pretend that you are perfectly fine. Instead, tell your date how you feel. Say ” I apologize if i appear to be nervous, but I am very nervous right now.” Your date will understand and they will appreciate your honesty. You will also feel relieved after you let them know how you are feeling.
If you ever have a dating anxiety episode during a date, don’t let that make you more anxious about the next date. Also don’t put yourself down because of how you may have acted. Instead, you should relax and give yourself positive affirmations that build your confidence. If you have acted in a certain way on a previous date, remember not to do that on the next date and instead think of a positive way to act. Take control of your thoughts and actions and you will do much better next time.
If you happen to have an dating anxiety attack during a date, then what you need to do is take a minute alone to relax and regain your thoughts. Excuse yourself from what ever you are doing and take some time to walk around, breath, and relax. Once you regain your confidence and thoughts go back with your date and apologizes for your absence.
Above all else, Pray. Ask God to give you courage, strength, and peace. Trust in God and he won’t let you down. He can and will help you overcome your dating anxiety. Don’t be embarrassed by this problem because everyone at one time or another suffers from some form of anxiety.
Bible Verse of Day
~Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God~ Phil 4:6
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