Our vision for this Christian single dating site has never been to be simply a Christian dating service. ÀÌ ±âµ¶±³¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ºñÀüÀ» º» ÀûÀÌ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® »çÀÌÆ®´Â ±âµ¶±³ µ¥ÀÌÆ® ¼ºñ½º¸¦ °£´ÜÇϰÔÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Rather, our goal has always been to be a Christian singles ¡°resource hub¡± where one can find ¿ÀÈ÷·Á, ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ¸ñÇ¥´Â ¾ðÁ¦³ª ±×¸®½ºµµ°¡ ½Ì±Û "¸®¼Ò½º Çãºê¿¡"¾îµð Çϳª¸¦ ãÀ» ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù Christian single dating reviews ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® ¸®ºäº¸±â , spiritual encouragement, , ¿µÀû °Ý·Á dating advice ¿¬¾Ö , singles groups and interaction with other singles by the , ´ÜÀÏ ±×·ì°ú »óÈ£ ÀÛ¿ëÇÏ´Â ´Ù¸¥ ¾Ù¹ü°ú ½Ì±Û writing and sharing of articles. ±â»ç¸¦ ÀÛ¼º ¹× °øÀ¯ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
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Many have written asking us what Christian single dating advice we could give in order to help singles enjoy a better online Christian dating experience. ¸¹Àº »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ¿ì¸®¿¡°Ô ¹» ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® Á¶¾ðÀ» ¼¸é ¿äûÀ» ¿ì¸®¿¡°Ô ÁÙ ¼ö ½Ì±ÛÀ» µ½±â À§ÇØ ¿Â¶óÀÎÀ¸·Î ±âµ¶±³ µ¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ Áñ±â´Â ´õ ³ªÀº °æÇèÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. We thought long and hard on this, and came up with one simple thought: Avoid Extremes. Here¡¯s what we mean by that: ¿ì¸®°¡ »ý°¢ ±æ°íµµ ÈûµçÀÌ, ±×¸®°í ³¶¼º 1 °³ÀÇ °£´ÜÇÑ »ý°¢ : ÇÇÇÒ ±Ø´ÜÇÕ´Ï´Ù. ¿©±â¿¡ ¹Ù·Î ¿ì¸®°¡ ¾î¶² Àǹ̰¡ Àִµ¥ :
On the one hand, there are many singles who yearn for a Christian single dating partner, but are overly cautious. ÇÑÆíÀ¸·Î´Â, ±×¸®½ºµµ¸¦ °¥¸ÁÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷ÀÌ ¸¹Àº ½Ì±Û ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® ÆÄÆ®³Ê´Â, ±×·¯³ª Áö³ªÄ¡°Ô ½ÅÁßÇÕ´Ï´Ù. So much so that they ³Ê¹« ¸¹Àº ±×·¡¼ ±× »ç¶÷ allow their fears to rule over ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ µÎ·Á¿òÀ» Áö¹è Çã¿ë their desire for a Christian single dating relationship. ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® °ü°è¸¦ ±×µéÀÇ ¿å¸ÁÀ»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. The end result is that these poor singles remain ÃÖÁ¾ °á°ú´Â ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ °¡³ÇÑ ½Ì±Û ³²¾Æ depressed, discouraged ¿ì¿ïÁõ, ³«´ã and quite possibly out of God¡¯s will. ±×¸®°í ¾Æ¸¶µµ ¹ÛÀÇ Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¶æÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
As far as the other Christian single dating extreme is concerned, there are those Christians who get tired of ´Ù¸¥ ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ®¸¸Å ±Ø´ÜÀûÀÎ ³»¿ëÀº ±×¸®½ºµµ ÀÎÀÌ ±× ´©±¸ ½ÈÁõÀ» waiting on God Çϳª´ÔÀ» ±â´Ù ¸®¸é¼ , and plunge heart first into a Christian single dating relationship that they should have avoided altogether. , ±×¸®°í ½ÉÀåÀ» ù ¹øÂ°·Î ±Þ¶ô ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® °ü°è¸¦ ÇѲ¨¹ø¿¡ ±×µéÀº ÇÇÇØ¾ßÇÕ´Ï´Ù. The result is often a bunch of pain, rejection and heartache. ¹¶Ä¡ÀÇ °á°ú´Â Á¾Á¾ °íÅë°ú »ó½ÉÀ» °ÅºÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù. These Christian dating singles have not taken to heart our Bible Verse of the day: ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ ±×¸®½ºµµÀÇ ½ÉÀåÀ» À̵¿ÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀº ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® ¿À´ÃÀÇ ¼º°æ ±¸Àý :
-Above all else, guard your heart, - ¹«¾ùº¸´Ùµµ, °æºñ ´ç½ÅÀÇ ½ÉÀå,
for it is the wellspring of life.-Proverbs 4:23 ÀÇ ¿øÃµ¿¡ ´ëÇÑ °ÍÀº life. - ¼Ó´ã 4:23
Successful Christian single dating means having a prayerful balance between the two dating attitudes we find among Christian singles. ¼º°øÀûÀÎ µ¥ÀÌÆ® ±âµ¶±³ ´Ü Çϳª µÑ »çÀÌ¿¡ ±ÕÇüÀ»±âµµÇÏ´Â ¼ö´ÜÀº Âü Áß ±âµ¶±³µµ ¿ì¸®´Â ã¾Æ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® ŵµÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Are you interested in sharing about Christian single dating? ±âµ¶±³¿¡ ´ëÇØ °øÀ¯¸¦ ÇüÅ¿¡ °ü½É ÀÖÀ¸¼¼¿ä ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ®?
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Some ÀϺΠdating Christian singles ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û µ¥ÀÌÆ® I have spoken with recently have put a unique spin on Mary Winkler¡¯s confession that she murdered her husband, Matthew Winkler. °ú ¾ê±â¸¦ ÃÖ±Ù¿¡ÀÌ ¸¶¸®¾Æ¸¦ ¼³Ä¡ÇØ µ¶Æ¯ÇÑ ½ºÇÉ winklerÀÇ °í¹é¿¡ ±×³àÀÇ ³²ÆíÀÌ ±×³à¸¦ »ìÇØ, ¸ÅÆ© winklerÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Congregants of the Fourth Street Church of Christ in Selmer, Alabama, found Winkler shot dead with a bullet hole in his back. congregants ±×¸®½ºµµ ±³È¸ÀÇ Á¦ 4 °Å¸® selmer, ¾Ù¶ó¹è¸¶¿¡ ÃÑ¾Ë ±¸¸ÛÀÌ ¹ß°ß winkler Ç㸮¿Í ÃѰÝÀ¸·Î »ç¸ÁÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Our interesting conversation centered around a comment a church attendee made about the couple who was married 11 years: ¡°They were a good Christian family. Àç¹ÌÀÖ´Â ´ëȸ¦ Áß½ÉÀ¸·Î ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ±³È¸¿¡ Âü¼®ÀÚÀÇ Àǰ߿¡ ´ëÇØ¼´Â µÎ »ç¶÷ÀÌ °áÈ¥ »ýȰ 11 ³â : "±×µéÀº ÁÁÀº ±âµ¶±³ ÆÐ¹Ð¸®ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. They always seemed happy.¡± ±×µéÀº Ç×»ó Çàº¹ÇØÇÕ´Ï´Ù. "
One single Christian woman offered, ¡°This woman had everything we pray about having. ±âµ¶±³ ¿©ÀÚ¸¦ ÇϳªÀÇ Á¦¾È, "À̰Ϳ¡ ´ëÇØ ¿©ÀÚ´Â µ¥ ÃÖ¼±À»±âµµÇÕ´Ï´Ù. She had a husband, three beautiful children, a home and a ministry. ±×³à´Â ³²Æí, 3 °³ÀÇ ¾Æ¸§´Ù¿î ¾ÆÀ̵é, °¡Á¤°ú »ç¿ªÇÕ´Ï´Ù. I guess the grass is not always greener on the other side.¡± ¾Æ¸¶ Ǫ¸¥ ÀܵðÀº Ç×»ó ¹Ý´ëÆí¿¡ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. "
Another ´Ù¸¥ single guy ´ÜÀÏ ³²ÀÚ stated ¡°What are we as single Christians supposed to think when we hear of crazy stuff like this that is happening? Áø¼ú "¾î¶»°ÔÇØ¾ß ¿ì¸®°¡ ±×¸®½ºµµ ÀÎÀ¸·Î ´Ü ÇϳªÀÇ ¹ÌÄ£ ¿ì¸®°¡ µè°í ÀÌ·± »ý°¢À»ÇÏ´Â ÀÏÀÌ¿¡¿ä? And how about those divorce rates (45%) that are no different from those of non-Christians? ±×¸®°í ±× ÀÌÈ¥À»ÇÏ´Â ¹æ¹ý¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¿ä±Ý (45 %)°¡ ¾Æ´Ñ Áö¿ªÀÌ ´Ù¸£´Ù - ±âµ¶±³ÀÎ? I want to get married, but I don¡¯t want to end up like that.¡± ³ª´Â °áÈ¥ÇÏ°í ½Í¾îÇÏÁö¸¸ ³ ±×·± ½ÄÀÇ °á¸» ½ÍÁö ¾Ê´Ù. "
Christian Dating Lessons ±âµ¶±³ µ¥ÀÌÆ® ·¹½¼
Some neat things came out of our ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ÀϺο¡¼ ³ª¿Â ±ò²ûÇÑ °Íµé Christian singles small group ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û ¼Ò±×·ì talk, and we thought of sharing them with you as gentle reminders: ÅäÅ©, ±×¸®°í ºÎµå·¯¿î ´ç½ÅÀÌ ±×µéÀ» ¿ì¸®°¡ »ý°¢À» °øÀ¯ ¾Ë¸² :
- Getting married does not guarantee happiness. °áÈ¥À» ÇູÀ» º¸ÀåÇÏÁö ¾Ê½À´Ï´Ù. Yes, a ±×·¸½À´Ï´Ù, Christian marriage ±âµ¶±³ °áÈ¥ can be wonderful, but sorrows and worldly concerns will come to you (1 Cor. 7:32-35). Àº ¾Æ¸§´Ù¿ï ¼ö ÀÖÁö¸¸, ±×·¯³ª ¼¼»óÀÇ ½½Çİú ¿ì·Á°¡ ¿Ö ´ç½Å¿¡°Ô (1 ¾ßÇÕ´Ï´Ù. 7:32-35).
- Whether married, dating or a eunuch, the joy of the Lord is our real strength and hope (Nehemiah 8:10). ¿©ºÎ¸¦ °áÈ¥À̳ª ¿¬¾Ö ³»½Ã, ÁÖ´ÔÀÇ ±â»Ý°ú Èñ¸ÁÀº ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ÁøÁ¤ÇÑ Èû (nehemiah 8½Ã 10ºÐ). Another person, no matter how gorgeous or sweet, cannot provide all our needs. ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ÀÌ, ¾Æ¹«¸® È·ÁÇÑÀ̳ª ´ÞÄÞÇϰí, ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ¿ä±¸ Á¦°øÇÒ ¼ö¾ø½À´Ï´Ù.
- Learn to be content in your present single state ±ÍÇÏÀÇ ÇöÀç ´ÜÀÏ »óŰ¡ ÄÜÅÙÃ÷¸¦ ¹è¿ï , and delight in your Jesus (Phil 4:12, Psalms 37:4). , ±×¸®°í ±â»ÝÀÇ ¿¹¼ö (ÇÊ 4:12, ½ÃÆí 37:4). Your God knows what you need, and will give them to you as you give Him first place in your life (Matt. 6:33). ³ÊÈñÀÇ Çϳª´ÔÀÌ ÇÊ¿ä ¾Ë°í, ±×¸®°í ´ç½ÅÀÌ ÁÙ »ç¶÷ÀÌ ³ª¿¡°Ô ±×°ÍÀ» ´ç½ÅÀÇ Àλý¿¡¼ ù ¹øÂ° Àå¼Ò (matt. 6½Ã 33ºÐ). In the meantime, ÇÑÆí wait on God Çϳª´ÔÀ» ±â´Ù and serve others in a local ministry, have fun and relax! ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ÀÇ ·ÎÄà ºÎó¿Í ºÀ»ç°¡ Àç¹Ì¿Í ±äÀå Ç®¾î!
- If you are a single Christian dating someone you met through an µ¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ÇÏ´Â °æ¿ì ÇϳªÀÇ ±×¸®½ºµµ¸¦ ÅëÇØ ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¸¸³ »ç¶÷ online Christian matchmaking site Á߸Š»çÀÌÆ®¸¦ ¿Â¶óÀÎÀ¸·Î ±âµ¶±³ , or even the local supermarket, surround yourself with many Godly and discerning counselors (Prov. 24:6). , ¾Æ´Ï¸é ½ÉÁö¾î´Â ÇöÁö ½´ÆÛ¸¶ÄÏ, ¼¶ó¿îµå ÀÚ±â ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ºÐº° ¸¹Àº °æ°ÇÇÑ ¹× Ä«¿î½½·¯ (prov. 24:6). They may very well protect you from a fate like Matthew Winkler¡¯s. ±×µéÀ» º¸È£ÇÏ´Â ¾ÆÁÖ Àß ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù ¸ÅÆ© winklerÀÇ ¿î¸íÀ» °°ÀÌÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Christian singles groups ±âµ¶±³ ½Ì±Û ±×·ì and church small groups are a great place to get sober (and sometimes unwanted) advise. ±×¸®°í ±³È¸¿¡ ¼Ò±Ô¸ð ±×·ìÀº ÁÁÀº À§Ä¡¸¦ ±ÝÁÖ (±×¸®°í ¶§·Î´Â ¿øÄ¡ ¾Ê´Â) Å뺸ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
So you¡¯re a Christian single in hopes of getting married? ±×·¡¼ ´ç½ÅÀÌ ±âµ¶±³ ´Ü ÇϳªÀÇ Èñ¸ÁÀº °áÈ¥ÇÏ´Ï? Have these sad events in Alabama caused you to rethink your views on Christian dating and marriage? ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ ¿øÀÎÀ» °ËÅä ¾Ë¶ó¹Ù¸¶ ½½Ç À̺¥Æ®¿¡ ±ÍÇÏÀÇ °ßÇØ¸¦ ±âµ¶±³ µ¥ÀÌÆ®¿Í °áÈ¥? Feel free to ¹«·á·Î ´À³¢´Â share your thoughts. ÀǰßÀ» ¼·Î ³ª´©¼¼¿ä.
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