Pathological Lying in Dating Relationships
September 17, 2007
Pathological lying is not exclusively a trait of politicians. Truth be told, I’ve been known to tell a few whoppers myself. But I can’t believe the number of Christians who write saying pathological lying is going on in their dating relationships. Some are dating pathological liars, but don’t know how they can break up with them. Others wrote us privately, confessing that they needed help stopping their pathological lying.
Are you a Christian single who thinks you have a problem with pathological lying? Are you in love with a pathological liar? Of course, you may want to seek some good Christian counseling for this issue.
At the Heart of Pathological Lying
A number of Christian counselors have writtenl Christian books on the reasons for pathological lying in dating relationships. But when you get down to it, it all amounts to the same thing: Sin. We are all desperate sinners in great need of forgiveness, restoration and healing.
The absolute wonderful news is that our Lord Jesus can and will perform a miracle in your life by not only forgiving the penalty of your sin, but delivering you from its power in your life as well if you truly surrender it over to Him.
Bible Verse of Day
~For if you live according to the sinful nature, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live, because those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God~ Romans 8:13,14
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Perfect Match Dating and Waiting Game
February 16, 2007
So another Valentine’s Day has come and gone and you still haven’t found that perfect match? I know some looking for that perfect match may feel like those poor folks from the Island of Misfit Toys, when they thought Rudolph and Santa had passed them by yet again. Sigh.
But please…don’t believe your doubts on this matter of finding your perfect match. The key here is waiting on God for His perfect timing. The world may tell you otherwise, but believe me, this is the way to go.
For whatever it’s worth, did you know that family counselors have found that the biggest break up day of the year is…the day after February 14? I can’t help but feel sorry for those dating singles who thought they had the perfect match in some person, but instead are now heartbroken.
The Perfect Match For You Will Happen in His Perfect Time
If you’re feeling down about your perfect match prospects, remember God promises to provide for all of your needs (Phil. 4:19), which includes your need for companionship. Just hang in there, and trust Him to do this in His time.
Bible Verse of Day
-He has made everything beautiful in its time-Eccl.3:11
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Disability Dating and Singles Dating with Disabilities
December 30, 2006
Have you heard about those disability dating sites that exist to help disabled singles the chance to meet other singles with similar issues?
Some people use disability dating sites because they feel it is harder for them to find a date on a regular dating site. I know of several Christian singles who have physical disabilities, and they with disability dating services. The main reason they use online disability dating is because they feel “normal” singles in the church and those on mainstream matchmaking websites look down on them once they discover they have a disability.
What are your thoughts about disability dating? Personally, something deep in my soul is repulsed by the idea of disability dating. Oh, it has nothing to do with the dear folks who use them. I feel sad that we as human beings categorize some folks as disabled and others as not. After all, aren’t we ALL a little disabled in different ways due to the Fall?
Bible Verse of Day
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God [sees] not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
1Samuel 16:7
How then should we treat and judge each other, and how should this verse effect our dating selections? Wow…that’s a tough one.
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