Saving Your Dating Relationship Tips
January 14, 2009
Is your dating relationship going nowhere fast? Do you feel like he is about to break up with you? Are you ready to dump the relationship yourself? Not so fast. You do not have to let the relationship crumble, although you may feel that that is where it is heading. With these “how to save your relationship tips”. tips, you can save the relationship. Before you even read these, however, you should ask yourself if you are even willing to do so. As long as one person in the relationship has hope, all is not lost.
Saving Your Dating Relationship Tips
Have open lines of communication- There is no such thing mind reader, so make sure that you say how you are feeling, but say it in love. Don’t hurl insults, or accuse the other person by saying “you always” or” you never” do something. This only makes things worse. Instead tell them that what they did and how it makes you feel, but say it in love. Also remember not to say goodbye while you are still in an argument. Be open to forgive- Just as Christ forgave us, forgive each other. You will be much happier in your relationship this way. Pray together- Perhaps this tip is the most important. Remember, you can never be angry with each other and pray together for each other at the same time.
If a relationship isn’t going the way you want, then these tips can really help.
Bible Verse of Day
~A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger~Proverbs 15:1
Troubled Relationships Poems for Christian Singles
December 21, 2008
Our topic today is troubled relationships poems, and as a minister and mediator, I deal with lots of troubled dating relationships. I can tell you that through my professional life and own experiences, dating the wrong person only leads to a lot of pain. Amen?
Are you or have you ever been in a troubled dating relationship? Would you know the signs of a relationship “on the rocks”? There are a few tell tale signs a relationship is heading south. The problem with many singles is that they either don’t know when to dump a relationship, or how to break up even when if they do.
Troubled Relationships Poems
Singles in troubled relationships experience a gamut of emotions, which some express in the form of troubled relationships poems. We get them all the time as expressions of anguish. In fact, many hit songs over the years have been troubled relationships poems
For example, Elton John had a hit entitled Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word, with which many in troubled relationships can identify:
What do I do to make you want me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I say when it’s all over
And sorry seems to be the hardest wordIt’s sad, so sad
It’s a sad, sad situation
And it’s getting more and more absurd
It’s sad, so sad
Why can’t we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word
Overall, no matter what kind of relationship you are in today, I want to encourage you that God is in charge, and will lead you to find the right one as you trust Him. He will also comfort you, and lead you to do and say the right things…even in a troubled relationship.
Bible Verse of Day
~Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight~Proverbs 3:5,6
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Forgiveness and Dating Relationships
November 29, 2006
There is an amazing connection between forgiveness and healing in the Bible. Forgiveness has amazing benefits. Forgiveness can heal broken relationships, broken hearts and even bring health to one’s body. Only recently have secular psychologists and doctors begun speaking of the healing power of forgiveness in one’s life.
The Forgiveness Problem
Many Christian singles have problems with their health and the relationships in their lives because they have a major issue with forgiveness. For example, some singles have had such sour dating relationships with cheaters and patholigical liars that they now find it hard to grant forgiveness. Others walk around gloomy and depressed because they they can’t forgive themselves for past sex sins that God has long forgiven.
Are you a single Christian today in need of forgiveness for how you treated someone in the past? Remember Jesus suffered for all your wrongdoing. If He says he has forgiven you (1 John 1:9), in faith you need to forgive yourself. Is there someone seeking your forgiveness, but you just can’t open up to that person? Jesus says forgive, and you shall be forgiven. (Luke 6:37).
I really hope you don’t think I’m preaching to you. Why? Because lately a whole bunch of people have been ticking off to the point where I have had a difficult time forgiving them. So I’ll make a deal with you. You pray for me and I’ll pray for you, okay?
Bible Verse of the Day
“Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13
Feel free to share your views on relationships and forgiveness.
