Meet Christian Singles the Right Way
December 27, 2008
The following meet Christian singles article was written by Rochelle, a mother of four and grandmother of three:
As a Christian singles group leader, I have seen many attempt to meet Christian singles in the wrong way. However, As Christian singles we need to realize that we make things harder for ourselves when we don’t follow God’s way to meet Christian singles. It’s like when we’re on the road traveling and whoever is riding with us gives us the direction but, we don’t take that direction because we think we already know the way to go. By the time we realize we’re going the wrong way, it’s fifty miles in the wrong direction!
Meet Christian Singles God’s Way
When we meet other singles outside of God’s will (like dating an unbeliever) things are bound to go wrong. Our advice is top get back on the right road even if you have to turn around and start from where the right direction was given.
There are always consequences when we make the wrong decisions But when we follow the Lord’s way to meet Christian singles it CAN NOT go wrong. God said in “His” word that we are in the world but not of the world, but if we should fall, we can get up and move in the right direction with His full support.
Bible Verse of Day
~For a righteous man falls seven times, and rises again, But the wicked stumble in time of calamity~
Proverbs 24:16
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Where Can I Meet Christian Singles?
February 20, 2008
Have you ever asked yourself this question: Where can I meet Christian singles?” Well, you’re not alone. Over 100,000 single Christians who visit our site wonder where they can meet attractive Christian singles as well. That’s why we wrote an article answering the question, “Where can I meet Christian singles?”
Some Christian singles feel they have only two choices when it comes to finding the ideal soul mate: Either wait on God or take a more proactive stance. I don’t like this either/or proposition because I feel it’s not biblical. I happen to feel that true faith or waiting on God combines a submissive spirit with the taking of bold faith-filled risks. Think of Noah building the ark or Abraham offering up Issac. Wherever faith and action meet is truly where God wants us, especially on the quesion of “Where can I meet Christian singles?” What do you think?
Bible Verse of Day
~Faith without works is dead~James 2:20
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Meet Attractive Christian Singles
January 18, 2007
Want to meet attractive Christian singles? It seems just about every single Christian I know is in the market to meet attractive single Christians in hopes of meeting a mate. Reacting to this demand, many Christian dating services advertise how one can meet attractive single Christians on their sites.
What’s Wrong With Trying to Meet Attractive Single Christians?
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with hoping to meet attractive Christian singles. But I guess what bothers me is it seems Christians have accepted the world’s definition of what it means to be “attractive”. Nine out of ten times attractive by this standard entails putting much more emphasis on outward appearance, rather than on what’s inside of a person. Of course, God’s advice to those seeking to meet an attractive Christian single would be the exact opposite.
The story in 1 Samuel is that Samuel the prophet was looking to annoint a new king for Israel, and thought God’s choice for His people should be the most handsome and powerful looking dude out there. Of course, the Lord had other plans when he chose David.
Bible Verse of Day
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” - 1 Samuel 16:7-
Hey, ya know what? I’m just as clueless as Samuel was, because I still struggle with judging people by their outward appearance. So how about you? In your quest toward meeting an attractive Christian single, are you taking the world’s view of attractive over the Lord’s? Are you open to His leading you in the area of choosing a mate?
Do you have something to share about how to meet single Christians who are attractive?
