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August 8
2007 2007
Are you a time saver?您节省时间？ A time waster?一时间，废品？ For whatever reason, time management and living single and alone don’t mix too well.出于何种原因，时间管理及生活单一和单不配合过于良好。 Many single Christians, especially许多单身基督徒，尤其是 recently single again最近再度单身 men and women, seem to be short on time.有男有女，似乎很短的时间。 Many I know tell me the problem is they don’t prioritize their time efficiently.很多，我知道告诉我的问题是，他们不会优先考虑他们的时间效率。 That’s what we call poor time management.这就是我们所谓的穷人的时间管理。
Maybe one of the reasons some of us have time management issues is because we always seem being pulled in thousand different directions by “things” or activities that beg for our time (yeas, I’m preaching to myself!) Hey, some of this stuff can be good and necessary, like可能的原因之一，我们一些时间管理问题，是因为我们似乎总是被10,705.64千不同方向的"事物"的活动或者乞求的时间（年内，我鼓吹自己！ ）嘿，有这东西可以很好的和必要的，像 single parenting单亲 , working, ，工作 finding a dating relationship寻找一个约会的关系 , serving at church, etc. But at the end of the day we wonder what have we actually done with our time.服务，在教堂等，但在一天结束，我们知道了什么，其实我们做我们的时间。
Spiritual Time Management精神时间管理
Did you know that God wants His child to use their time on Earth wisely?你可知道，上帝希望他的孩子用自己的时间对地球明智？ He certainly does not want us to他当然不希望我们 stress out as singles强调指出，作为单打 , but to have joy in Him as we our time for the furthering of His kingdom. ，但有喜悦，在他为我们的时候，我们为增进他的王国。
God’s word reminds us often about good time management for God’s the kingdom of God.上帝的话语提醒我们常常良好的时间管理上帝的王国的上帝。 For example, in our Bible passages of the day, Paul encourages us In Ephesians 5:15-20 to walk wisely/sensibly/intelligently (v. 15).举例来说，在我们的圣经段落一天，保罗鼓励我们在以弗所5:15-20步行明智/理智/智能（五15 ） 。 We are to make the most of each opportunity to shine brightly for Him in the midst of a dark world (v. 16).我们正以最每个机会鲜亮光芒，他在一片黑暗的世界（五16 ） 。 Let’s not waste our lives on foolish pursuits such as drunkenness, but let’s continually walk in the fullness of the Spirit (v. 18).让我们不要浪费生命，我们就愚蠢追求诸如酗酒，但让我们不断走在丰满的精神（五18 ） 。
In other words, let’s be constantly under the influence of nothing but the Spirit of God.换句话说，让我们可以不断的影响下，但没有精神的上帝。 Those who are full of the Spirit long for worship and they speak words and sing songs that reflect the heart of a worshiper (v. 19).那些充满精神向往和崇拜，他们讲的话和唱歌，反映心脏的一个崇拜者（五19 ） 。 In addition, those who are full of the Spirit show it in their gratitude,此外，在那些充满精神，展示他们的感激， thanking God for all things感谢上帝，为万物 (v. 20). （五20 ） 。
Remember that He is able to use all things, even the difficult circumstances and the times when we’ve been wrongfully hurt, for His ultimate purposes (Rom. 8:28).记得他是能够利用一切东西，甚至困难的情况下和时代时，我们一直错误地伤害了，他的终极目的（ rom. 8时28分） 。 He wastes nothing in our lives, including our time!他没有浪费我们的生活，包括我们的时间！ Let’s shine for Him!我的光芒，为他！
Bible Verse of Day 圣经诗句日间
~Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil~Ephesians 5:15,16 〜必须十分谨慎，那么您是怎样活不是明智之举，但作为明智的，使大多数每一个机会，因为日子邪恶〜以弗所书5:15,16
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August 8
2007 2007
Even though即使 most singles avoid church最单打避免教堂 , many are singles of faith who profess to know Christ as Lord and Saviour.中，不少是单打信仰自称知道基督作为上帝和救世主。
Singles of Faith for Singles单打信仰为单打
In 1 John 5:1-5, Paul writes about genuine faith in Christ.在约翰一书5:1-5 ，保罗写道真正信仰基督。 This is not mental assent or an intellectual exercise.这是不是心理或某项智力运动。 Rather, it is active, abiding, believing, trusting faith… the kind of faith that Abraham had as he offered his son Isaac (James 2:19-22) and that Moses had as he led the children of Israel out of Egypt and through the wilderness.相反，它是积极，守法，信仰，信任，信仰… …这种信仰亚伯拉罕为他提供他的儿子艾萨克（詹姆斯2:19-22 ） ，并认为摩西了，因为他率领的子女以色列出埃及，并通过旷野。
This is faith that demonstrates itself in loving obedience to the Father (v. 2-3) and in overcoming perseverance as we withstand the这是信仰，表明自己热爱服从父亲（五2-3 ）和毅力克服，我们顶住 pressures压力 and temptations of the world (v. 4-5).和诱惑的世界（五4-5 ） 。 God offers us immeasurable grace to deal with life’s hardships and to shine like lights with the love of God!上帝为我们提供了不可估量的风度来处理生活中的艰辛与光芒像灯与上帝的爱！
Bible Verse of Day 圣经诗句日间
~Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well. 〜每个人相信耶稣是基督诞生的神，人人热爱父亲热爱他的孩子等。 This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands~ 1 John 5:1,2这就是我们如何知道我们爱孩子的上帝：爱上帝和贯彻他的命令〜约翰一书5:1,2
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August 8
2007 2007
Are you living victoriously today as a single person?你的生活今天胜利作为一个单一的人？ I just read this excellent book by Danny Lovett called Rod of the Spirit. Basically, he wrote that when trouble comes in one’s life (ie: a我刚刚看了这本书很好，由丹尼洛维特称为棒的精神。基本上，他写道，当麻烦来一个人的生命（即： broken heart破碎的心 , ， single parenting problems单亲问题 , a ， sickness疾病 , an ， abuse relationship虐待关系 , etc.) it’s easy to lose your等） ，很容易失去你 contentment血防 . 。 In these times you can become one of two things: a victim or a victor over your circumstance.在这些时候你就可以成为其中两件事：一，受害人或胜利者超过你的情况。 Of course, on our own we are pretty much powerless, but if we surrender to the Holy Spirit and let Him fill us and lead us during these kind of circumstance, we can rise up victoriously through them.当然，我们对我们自己都是很无能为力，但如果我们投降圣灵，让他填写，我们并导致我们在这种情况下，我们可以站起来，胜利通过他们。
So, let me as you a question.因此，让我为你一个问题。 Are you living today as a victim or a victor?你今天的生活，作为一个受害人或胜利者？
Bible Verse of the Day 圣经诗句的一天
~For God works together all things for good to those who love the Lord~Romans 8:28 〜上帝的作品一起万物良好那些爱主〜罗马书8时28分
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July 7
2007 2007
Today is my birthday.今天是我的生日。 Yippee! yippee ！ Actually, I can’t stand aging and growing older by yet another year, but it sure beats the alternative.其实，我不能袖手旁观，老化及老化所又一年，但它肯定拍的另一面。 I have spoken to a number of Christian singles (and there are many out there) who are also having, shall we say, a difficult time aging gracefully as well.我曾向一些基督教单打（有许多有）的人也有，我们应说，一时间难以优雅老化等。 Why did I feel a tinge of comfort as they spoke of their own issues with aging?为什么我觉得色彩安慰，因为他们谈到了自己的问题与衰老？
Coping with Aging and Growing Older应对老龄化和不断增长的老年
Basically what we have found is that you can graph singles’ attitudes about aging as a bell curve.基本上，我们所发现的是，你能把图单打的态度老化作为贝尔曲线。 The good news here is that majority of both extremes,好消息是，大多数两个极端， twenty-something singles 21岁单打 and senior singles, are handling aging okay.高级单打，是处理好老龄化。 The former rarely give it thought, and the latter group of older singles (surprisingly in my view) have adjusted to the idea that the body “just ain’t what it used to be.”’ To these healthy singles “age is just a number.”前者很少给予思考，而后者组老年单打（竟然在我看来）调整设想，即机构"公正并不是什么用呢" 。 '这些健康单打"年龄只是一个号码。 "
However, the group of single Christians who do have trouble with aging and growing old are the然而，该集团单基督徒者确有麻烦随年龄增长和旧有 30-somethings 30岁 and 40-somethings.和40多岁。 Many in this group, whether single females or single males, feel the stress of clock ticking off time.许多在这个小组，是否单身女性或单身男性，感觉压力时钟倒数断时间。 Bulging bellies, sagging pectorals and breasts and dating disappointments wreak havoc on the minds of plenty of these singles.胀肚子，垂pectorals和乳房约会失望同龄人的心目中很多这些单打。 Throw in the fear of remaining single forever and single parenting problems, and it’s no wonder that扔在恐惧其余单永远单亲问题，它的，难怪 anxiety焦虑 and depression plagues this group more than any other.抑郁困扰这一群体比其他任何。
How to Deal with Agiing Without Whining如何处理未经agiing尝试
I recently had a great conversation with an 80 year old Christian guy who helped me get an attitude adjustment on my views on aging.我最近有一个很大的交谈一个80岁的基督教家伙谁帮我找到的态度调整对我的意见就老化。 He gave three suggestions, that I’ll pass on to you.他列举了三个建议，我将传授给你。 He promised me that if I was successful at doing this I would conquer my phobia about aging and growing old.他答应我，如果我是成功的在做，这点我会征服我的恐惧症和衰老越来越旧。 Oh well, here they are:哦，在这里，他们是：
- Take Jesus’ advice and live one day at a time…really…really…savor it as if it was your last on earth.以耶稣的意见和活一天时间真的… …真的… …品尝它，如果你过去对地球。
- Take your mind off you (oops, he had me here!) and serve others with a sincere heart fulfilling the command in Romans to “rejoice with those who rejoice, and to weep with those who weep.”你介意过你（布兰妮，他我在这里！ ）服务他人真诚的心履行指挥罗马书"庆幸那些欢呼，并与流泪者流泪" 。
- Take God at His word as you采取上帝在他的字如你 wait on Him 等待他 for your needs and future blessing 你的需要和未来的祝福
Hey, I feel better already.嘿，我感觉更好了。 Are you a single Christian with something to share about aging?你是一个单一的基督教与东西分享约老化？
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July 7
2007 2007
Connecting Christian singles with other singles is one of the goals of Christian Dating Service Plus. Of course, dating is not our only reason for connecting singles together.连接单打基督教与其他单打是目标之一基督徒约会服务加上。当然，约会，是不是我们的唯一原因单打连接在一起。 If you read the comments here you will will see real sharing of burdens, prayers and caring going on between connecting singles. Singles are also connecting with each other by finding如果你看过评论在这里你会看到真正的分担负担，祈祷和爱心去之间连接单打。单打也是连接对方找到 Christian single groups基督教单一集团 in their local areas for great Christian fellowship. Isn’t this what it’s all about?在地方大基督教团契。这不是什么的一回事？ Christian singles connecting with others of like minded faith is a great way to build each other up in the Body of Christ.基督教单打连接与他人一样的胸襟信念是一个伟大的方式建立彼此在基督的身体。
Bible Verse of Day 圣经诗句日间
~For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit~ 1Corinthians 2:13 〜为一精神，我们都洗成一个身体，我们是否将犹太人或2:8 ，我们是否将债券或免费;并已全部喝成一个精神〜 1corinthians 2时13分
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June 6
2007 2007
My friend is我的朋友 heartbroken断肠 . 。 You see, Mary Andrusiak, her mom, recently died.你看，玛丽andrusiak ，她妈妈，最近去世。 It was very difficult for Andrea to watch this dear 80 year young widow, once full of life and vigor, slowly fade away from cancer.这是非常困难的安德观看亲爱的，这80年的年轻寡妇，曾经充满生机和活力，慢慢淡出远离癌症。 After her mom’s death, Andrea reminisced, “Dave, I used to see her everyday.之后，她妈妈的去世，安德列回忆， "戴夫，我来看看她的日常。 She wasn’t just my mother, she was my best friend.” The pain in her voice said it all for me.她不光是我妈妈，她是我最好的朋友。 "痛苦的声音，她说，这一切对我来说。
Dying a Lonely Death as a Single Person临终寂寞死一人
We hear many sad stories of folks who are single-never married, divorced or widowed, and who face我们听到许多悲惨的故事，乡亲谁都是单从未结婚，离婚或丧偶的，他们面对 sickness疾病 and death alone with no one to support them.与死亡单独与任何人支持他们。 Considering that over 25% of US households are run by singles,考虑到超过25 ％的美国家庭都是由单打 fear of being alone害怕被单独 in death is a legitimate concern many singles have.死亡是一种合法的关注，许多单打。 Thankfully, Mary had a loving daughter who took care of her to the end of her life on earth.幸好，玛丽了爱女儿照顾她到最后，她对地球上生命。
Hope After Death希望死后
Dealing with grief over the death of a loved one处理哀悼去世至亲 is one of the most difficult things to endure.其中最困难的事情，承受了。 While Andrea misses her mom terribly, she knows the parting is only a temporary arrangement, and looks forward to the day when they will meet again.而安德想念她妈妈惊人的，她知道临别只是一项临时安排，并期待着有一天，他们将再次举行会晤。 Yes, the wonderful thing for Christians is that death is not the end, but the beginning of eternal life with Jesus in Heaven.诚然，天底下基督徒就是死亡不是结束，而是开始，永生与耶稣升天。 No more pain or tears or dying.不再疼痛或流泪，或奄奄一息。 Thank God Mary is now more alive than ever before!感谢上帝，圣母，现在活着更比以往！
Bible Verse of Day 圣经诗句日间
~Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. 〜兄弟，我们不希望你能一无所知那些入睡，或伤心休息一下男人，谁没有希望。 We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him…therefore, encourage each other with these words~ 1 Thessalonians 4:13,14,18我们相信耶稣死亡和再次上升，所以，我们相信上帝将耶稣与那些睡在他的… …所以，相互鼓励与这些话〜 1尼迦4:13,14,18
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June 6
2007 2007
Pot luck dinner anyone?一锅运气吃饭吗？ Churches seem to love those fat laden affairs, and Christian singles are apparently leading the way to the buffet.教会似乎那些爱发载货事务和基督教单打，显然是领导方式的自助餐。 A recent UK survey on the habits of singles found that singles of all ages had unhealthier diets than married folks.最近一项英国的调查研究习惯单打发现单打各年龄了胆固醇饮食比已婚的乡亲。 For example:举例来说：
- More than two times as many single people ate fried food and fast food (3x a week) compared to those married.超过两倍之多单人吃油炸食品和快餐（ 3倍光学一周）相比，那些已婚。 That’s a lot of Burger King!这是一个很大的汉堡王！
- Only 20% of single men and women ate the recommended 5 daily servings of fruits and veggies, compared to 34% for married couples.只有20 ％的单身男性和女性吃5建议每天水果和蔬菜相比， 34 ％的夫妇。
The only good news for singles is that they were more likely to excercise than their married counterparts.唯一的好消息是单打比赛，他们更可能excercise比已婚。 I suppose we have to work off all that artery clogging junk food!我猜想我们已经工作过的所有动脉堵塞的垃圾食品！
I found the above news on diet quite surprising.我发现，上述消息对饮食颇为惊讶。 After all, obesity is usually counter-productive to毕竟，肥胖通常是反效果 finding a girlfriend找女朋友 or boyfriend.或男友。 Yet, there are many reasons why singles may have poorer diets than married people.但是，有许多原因可能单打较差的饮食比已婚人士。 Some singles report that they would rather not cook if they are doing it for themselves.一些单打报告说，他们宁可不要厨师，如果他们都为自己虚开。 Others report that eating comfort foods (like French Fries) helps them其他报告说，吃安慰食品（如炸薯条）帮助 deal with stress处理压力 and及 loneliness孤独 . 。 Finally, still other singles stated they’re on the run so often, they simply have no time to prepare a healthy meal.最后，还有其他单打说明他们对如此时候，他们根本没有时间准备健康餐。
In God’s Word, it’s clear that God wants His children to honor Him with their bodies.在上帝的话语中，很显然的，上帝要他的子女对他的荣誉与自己的身体。 Would you agree that this not only means to stay away from sexual impurity, but also from stuffing our faces with unhealthy foods?你会同意，这不仅意味着远离性杂质，而且还从馅，我们面临着不健康食品？ Ouch.乌。
Bible Verse of Day 圣经诗句日间
-Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? -你不知道你的身体是一个庙圣灵，是谁在你的人，你已收到来自上帝吗？ You are not your own; you were bought at a price.你是不是你自己;你买一个价格。 Therefore honor God with your body- 1 Cor.因此荣耀上帝与你的身体- 1心病。 6:19-20属灵
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March 三月
2007 2007
Many singles have a fear of love.许多单打有恐惧爱情。 Someone who has a fear of love has a hard time communicating the words “I love you” to a single person of the opposite sex.有些人害怕爱情有困难的时候沟通的话， "我爱你"一个人的异性。 There are many reasons some Christian singles have a fear of love原因有很多一些基督教单打有恐惧爱情 , including worries about rejection and the uncomfortable feelings that go along with becoming vulnerable. ，其中包括担心排斥和不舒服的感觉，附和变得脆弱。
Getting Over Fear of Love越来越多的恐惧爱情
Many singles who have a fear of love also desire a love relationship more than anything else.很多单身者害怕爱情，也渴望爱的关系比什么。 How sad!如何难过！ That’s why it’s so important for singles to conquer their fears of love in any way they can.这就是为什么这么重要单打征服自己的恐惧爱情的任何方式，他们可以这样做。
Are you a single Christian who stumbles over words because of a fear of love?你是一个基督徒，曾研发了字，因为害怕爱情？ Perhaps it’s easier for you to put your feelings down in a poem or love song.也许它更容易，你把你的感受在一首诗或情歌。
Sweet and Cute Love Quote of the Day 甜人见人爱每日名言
Yeah, I know its kind of strange 嗯，我知道了一种奇怪
But every time I’m near you, I just run out of things to say. 但每次我靠近你，我刚跑出话要说。
I know you’d understand cause every time I tried to tell you, 我知道你知道原因，每次我试图告诉你，
The words just came out wrong 话刚出来错误
So I’ll have to say I love you in a song-Jim Croce 所以，我还得说我爱你在一首歌-吉姆克罗齐
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