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Singleness as an Opportunity作为一个单一的机会  (share?) （份额？）

The following article on Christian singleness was written by下面的文章对基督教单一作者 Dan Knowles丹诺尔斯 , one of our many readers from the UK.之一，我们的许多读者来自英国。 If you have any comments on singleness as it relates to being a Christian single, Dan would love to hear from you.如果您有任何意见，单一，因为它涉及到作为一个单一的基督教，丹将非常乐意倾听您的意见。 Thanks brother!感谢兄弟！

I’ve recently realised why我最近意识到，为什么 singleness can get us so down,单一可以得到我们这么下来， and it’s pretty much to do with how the devil gives us false notions.和它的漂亮许多工作要做如何的魔鬼，给我们虚假的概念。 We live in a world obsessed about我们生活在一个世界痴迷约 sex and relationships性别及关系 and there’s so much pressure to find someone to share life with more intimately.也有这么多的压力，要找人分享生活与更深切。 I fear as Christians we have also taken on this worldly view, that we need someone to complete us, make us whole, fill in the blanks.我恐怕作为基督徒我们还采取了在这个世俗的观点，我们需要有人来完成我们，使我们整个中，填写的空白。 This, for the world, is spot on.这一点，为世界，是对现货。 There’sa big God-shaped hole they are trying to fill with drugs,有大神形孔他们正试图填补与毒品， alcohol酒精 , relationships, you name it. ，人际关系，你的名字。 But for us as Christians, we should be able to see we’re already complete, we needn’t be going through life focusing on when our但对我们作为基督徒，我们应该可以看到我们已经完成，我们不必经历生活的重点是当我们的 perfect partner完美的合作伙伴 is going to show up.是要显示出来。 We already have我们已经有 all we need所有我们需要 in God, although the devil makes it extremely hard to realise it.在上帝，虽然魔鬼使得极其难以实现。

Bible Verse of Day 经文的一天

~I would like you to be free from concern. 〜我想你可以自由关注。 An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs–how he can please the Lord. 未婚男子是关心上帝的事务-如何，他可以请主。 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world–how he can please his wife– and his interests are divided. 但已婚男子是关心的事务，这个世界如何，他可以请他的妻子和他的利益分歧。 An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. 一未婚女子或处女是关心上帝的事务：她的目的是专门用来勋爵在双方身体和精神。 But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world–how she can please her husband. 但已婚妇女关心的事务，这个世界如何，她可以请她的丈夫。 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord~1 Corinthians 7:32-35 我这样说是为自己好，而不是限制你，但你可以生活在一个正确的方式在不可分割的奉献给上帝〜 1哥林多前书7:32-35

We’re never going to know God fully because He’s infinite.我们永远不会知道，上帝完全是因为他的是无限的。 However, WE can grow in knowing Him.不过，我们可以成长，在知道他。 This blows my mind!!这打击了我的心！ What an awesome opportunity we have when we’re single to focus completely and willingly on God.是什么可怕的机会，我们当我们单把重点放在完全心甘情愿地对上帝。 Such an opportunity won’t come once we’re in a Christian dating relationship so make the most of it while you can.这样的机会不会来，一旦我们正处在一个基督教约会的关系，以便使大部分的同时，您可以。 Hope this post helped希望这个职位帮助

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Christian Singles, Singleness and Marriage基督教单打，单一和婚姻  (share?) （份额？）

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I meet so many Christian singles who have a distorted view of marriage and singleness.见面这么多的基督教单打谁有扭曲的看法婚姻和单一。 Somehow many singles have gotten it into their heads that marriage is THE biggest goal to achieve, while singleness is looked on as less desireable.在某种程度上，许多单打得到它变成他们的元首，婚姻是最大的目标要达到，而单一，是期待就不太可取的。

Unfortunately, a lot of Christians’ thinking about singleness and marriage is reinforced by our church culture.不幸的是，很多基督徒的思考单一和婚姻是增强我们的教会文化。 For example, while the greatest missionary in history, the Apostle Paul, was single, many modern day mission boards and churches exclude ministerial candidates unless they are married.例如，虽然最大的传教士在历史上，使徒保罗，是单一的，许多现代天的太空飞行议会和教会排除部长级会议的候选人，除非他们是已婚。 Singlehood definitely takes a back seat to married life in the churches. singlehood一定需后座，以婚姻生活在教会。

Of course, this line of thinking is completely assinine and unbiblical, especially in light of our Bible verses of the day found in 1 Coriinthians 7: 32-34:当然，这条路线的思想是完全assinine和unbiblical ，尤其是在根据我们的圣经经文的一天，发现在一coriinthians 7 ： 32-34 ：

“I want you to live as free of complications as possible. “我要你活，作为免费的并发症可能。 When you’re unmarried, you’re free to concentrate on simply pleasing the Master. 当您未婚，您可自由集中于简单地讨好主人。 Marriage involves you in all the nuts and bolts of domestic life and in wanting to please your spouse, leading to so many more demands on your attention. 婚姻涉及到你在所有坚果和螺栓的家庭生活，并在要请你的配偶，导致这么多的更高的要求对你的关注。 The time and energy that married people spend on caring for and nurturing each other, the unmarried can spend in becoming whole and holy instruments of God .” 的时间和精力，已婚的人花费的关怀和培育对方，未婚可以用在成为整个文书和神圣的上帝 “ 。

How Single Christians Distort Singleness and Marriage如何单一的基督徒歪曲单一和婚姻

Having a distorted view of singleness and marriage can cause you to lose your joy in the Lord, as well as your有一个扭曲的看法单一和婚姻可能会导致您失去的喜悦勋爵，以及您的 contentedness with life contentedness与生活 in general.在一般。 What exactly is a distorted view of singleness and marriage?究竟是什么扭曲的看法单一和婚姻呢？ Honestly ask yourself the following questions to see where you stand:老实说，问问自己以下的问题，看看您的立场：

Do you feel you are incomplete or abnormal as long as you remain single?你觉得你是不完整或不正常的，只要你仍然是单身呢？
Do you feel that marriage, meeting Mr. or Mrs. Right, will solve all your problems in your life?你觉得婚姻，会议先生或女士的权利，将解决所有的问题，您在您的生活？
Have you been so self-absorbed with seeking a soulmate for marriage that you have neglected friends, family and fellowship with other believers?有你这么自我吸收与寻求soulmate结婚，你忽略了朋友，家人和金与其他信徒呢？
In your singleness, are you pursuing marriage more than God?在您的单一，你追求的婚姻多是神吗？ (Ouch!) （乌！）

If you answered any of these questions in the positive, you have an unhealthy view of singleness and marriage.如果您有任何回答这些问题，在积极的，你有一种不健康的看法单一和婚姻。

As singles seeking the Lord over this issue, covenenant with Him in prayer to begin seeing your singleness and marriage as He does.作为单打寻求勋爵在这个问题上， covenenant与他在祈祷中开始看到您的单一和婚姻就要像他那样。 The important thing to remember is that our Heavenly Father did not sanction marriage as the only way to live, or singleness as second best lifestyle.重要的事要记住的是我们的天父没有制裁婚姻的唯一途径，生活，或单一，作为第二个最好的生活方式。

Are you a Christian singles with a different view of singleness and marriage?你是一个基督教单打与有不同的看法的单一和婚姻呢？

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