Why You¡¯re Still Single ¿Ö ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¾ÆÁ÷µµ ¹ÌÈ¥ (share?) (°øÀ¯?)

Have you ever been asked by someone why you¡¯re still single? During the holidays many singles were no doubt asked that worn out question by well meaning relatives and friends, ¡°So why you¡¯re still single?¡± Don¡¯t you just hate that question? »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô Áú¹®À» ¹Þ¾Æ º» ÀûÀÌ ÀÖ³ª¿ä ¿Ö ´ç½ÅÀº ¾ÆÁ÷µµ ½Ì±ÛÀº? Áß ÈÞÀÏ ÀÇ½É ÇÒ ¿©Áö¾øÀÌ ¸¹Àº ½Ì±ÛµéÀÌ Àß ¹¯´Â Áú¹®¿¡ ÁöÄ£ ±× Àǹ̸¦, ģô, Ä£±¸, "¿Ö ´ç½ÅÀº ¾ÆÁ÷µµ Çϳª?"Áö±ÝÀº ±×³É ½È¾î ÀÌ Áú¹®ÀÌ ÀÖÀ¸½Ê´Ï±î? Many who desire marriage cringe at such a question but perhaps it a good one to ask of ourselves as we enter a brand new year. ¸¹Àº »ç¶÷ÀÇ ¿å¸Á °°Àº Áú¹®À»ÇÏ°í ½ÍÁö¸¸ °áÈ¥À» ³¢ÃÄ¿ä ¾Æ¸¶ ¿ì¸®°¡ ¿ì¸® Àڽſ¡°Ô ¿ä±¸ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ ÁÁÀº ºê·£µå »õÇØ¸¦ ÀÔ·ÂÇϽʽÿÀ. No need for sulking over why you¡¯re still single here. ´õ ÀÌ»ó ÇÊ¿äÇÏÁö ¾Ê½À´Ï´Ù ¿Ö ´ç½ÅÀº ¿©ÀüÈ÷ Çϳª´Â ¿©±â¿¡ Àܶà ÀÌ»óÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Introspection can be a good thing if it leads to positive changes. ÁÁÀº ÀÏÀÌ ³»¼º ¼öÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ º¯È¸¦ ¸®µå¸éÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Reasons Why You¡¯re Still Single ÀÌÀ¯¸¦ ´ç½ÅÀº ¾ÆÁ÷µµ ½Ì±Û
Recently, we surveyed a number of Christian singles on the question, Why you¡¯re still single.¡± Here are some of the top reasons they gave for being single, which we lumped together into the following categories: ÃÖ±Ù¿¡, ¿ì¸® ±âµ¶±³ÀÎ ½Ì±ÛÀ» ´ë»óÀ¸·Î Á¶»çÇØº» °á°ú, ¸¹Àº Áú¹®À», ¿Ö ´ç½ÅÀº ¿©ÀüÈ÷ ´ÜÀÏÇÕ´Ï´Ù. "¿©±â¿¡ ±×µéÀÌ ÁØ °¡Àå Å« ÀÌÀ¯ Áß ÀϺΰ¡ ´ÜÀÏ, ¾î´À ÇÔ²² Á߽ɿ¡ ¿ì¸®°¡ ´ÙÀ½°ú °°Àº ºÐ·ù :
- Love Shyness »ç¶û ¼öÁÝÀ½
- Personal °³ÀÎ fears °øÆ÷ including fear of commitment µÎ·Á¿òÀ» Æ÷ÇÔÇÏ¿© Çå½Å
- Career/ °æ·Â / Money worries µ· °ÆÁ¤
- Single parent responsibilities µ¶½Å ºÎ¸ðÀÇ Ã¥ÀÓÀÌ
- Nowhere to ¾îµð·Î meet other single Christians ´Ù¸¥ Çϳª ±×¸®½ºµµ ÀÎ ÃæÁ·
There were a number of others, but I¡¯ll leave that for another article. ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ÀÇ ¸î°¡Áö¸¸ ´Ù¸¥ ÀڷḦ ¶°³¯ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Overall, if you feel why you¡¯re still single has something to do with one of the above please be encouraged as we enter 2008. Àü¹ÝÀûÀ¸·Î ÆÇ´ÜµÇ´Â °æ¿ì ´ÜÀϰ¡ ÇÒ ÀÏÀ» ¿Ö ´ç½ÅÀº ¿©ÀüÈ÷ À§ÀÇ Áß Çϳª¿Í °Ý·Á°¡ ¿ì¸®¸¦ ÀÔ·ÂÇϽñ⠹ٶø´Ï´Ù 2008. Why? ¿Ö? Because there is no obstacle too great that He cannot overcome if truly commit our ways to Him. ³Ê¹« Å« Àå¾Ö¹°ÀÌ ¾ø±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ±Øº¹ÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø´Ù¸é ±× ¹æ¹ýÀ» ¿ì¸®ÀÇ ÁøÁ¤À¸·Î ±×¸¦ Ä¿¹ÔÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Does that sound too simple? ÀÌ ¼Ò¸®°¡ ³Ê¹« °£´ÜÇϰÔ? That¡¯s exactly what the enemy want you to think. ¿ì¸®°¡ Á¤È®È÷ ¹«¾ù ÀûÀ» ´ç½ÅÀ» »ý°¢ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Bible Verse of Day ÇÏ·ç Áß ¼º°æ ±¸Àý
Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it. ±ÍÇÏÀÇ ¹æ¹ýÀ» Ä¿¹Ô ¿©È£¿Í¸¦ ½Å·Ú ±×¸¦ ¶ÇÇÑ, ±×´Â ÇÒ ¼öÀÖ¾î. Psalms 35:7 ½ÃÆí 35:7
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