Unrequited Love无偿的爱
In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse.在我个人的经验，无偿的爱是一样的死亡，只有更糟。 Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings.无偿的爱发生时，人，你绝对是“头以上是继”在爱与不回报同样的愿望和感受。 Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love?你能想到的任何东西都显得情绪上和精神上的痛苦比无偿的爱呢？
Unrequited Love and Hope for Healing无偿的爱与希望愈合
At least in death a Christian single is done with pain.至少在死亡的一个基督教单是做与痛苦。 In unrequited love the pain just goes on and on.在无偿的爱的痛苦，刚才的推移和对。 Sigh.感叹。 If it’s really true love, the victim of unrequited love has a long process of working through the如果这是真的爱，受害者无偿爱心一个漫长的过程，工作通过 rejection排斥反应 , heartbreak and ，心碎和 depression抑郁症 . 。 Many singles who have been hurt in this way in the past also have to overcome许多单打谁已经伤害了以这种方式在过去也有，以克服 fears of entering any future dating relationship.恐惧，进入任何未来的约会的关系。
One of the main things that helped me heal from unrequited love was remembering my Saviour also suffered from a form of unrequited love when he gave Himself on the cross.其中一个主要的东西，帮我医治，从无偿的爱是记住我的救主也受到某种形式的无偿爱情时，他给自己在十字架上。 That’s why he can sympathize and empathize with us in this area.这就是为什么他可以同情和理解我们在这方面的工作。 Can you imagine the pain the bore for us?你能想象的痛苦，钻孔，我们呢？
Bible Verse of Day 经文的一天
-He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. -他是在世界上，尽管世界上发了言，通过他，世界上不承认他。 He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him- John 1:11他来说，这是他自己，但他自己并没有收到他-约翰1时11分
I am going through this and it is extremely painful.我想通过这次和这是非常痛苦的。 It IS like dying and thanks for understanding about resenting the Bible being preached at you during times of intense distress.这就像死亡和感谢了解resenting圣经正在鼓吹在您时期激烈的困扰。
After all, the Bible also applies to those other parties involved in this situation so how can I personalise it, in any way?毕竟，圣经也适用于那些其他有关方面在这种情况下，使我如何才能个性化，以任何方式？ Given they are happy and I am not, it seems the Bible applies even more so to them, as they are the ones who have experienced love, acceptance, fruition.鉴于他们很高兴，我不是，似乎圣经适用，更给他们，因为他们是那些谁经历过爱，接受，取得成果。
The complicating thing is that I thought he liked me and he gave me cause to believe he did with his conversation,该复杂的是，我以为他喜欢我和他给我有理由相信他并与他的交谈中， body language身体语言 and eye contact etc.和眼睛接触等。
Dear Asha:亲爱的阿莎：
Thanks for your comment, and we are praying for the pain you are experiencing with unrequited love.感谢您的评论，我们祈祷的痛苦，您所遇到的与无偿的爱。 I want to refer you to the life of Job.我想你转介给生活的工作。 It looked bad in the outset…but God worked it out all for good in the end.它期待坏在一开始就… …但上帝的工作，它的一切良好，在年底。 Please hang on to Jesus during this trial…Keep in touch请挂在耶稣在此审判…保持联系，
David国宝
I completely understand, I am going through it right now and some days, I’m ok and sometimes I am just so depressed about it.我完全理解，我会通过它的权利，现在和一些日子，我很确定，有时我只是这么不景气有关。 I am a young woman and I was raised to believe that if the man is interested in a woman, than HE’LL pursue her.我是一名年轻女子和我提出的要相信，如果该名男子是有兴趣在一女，比他会追求她。 Right?对不对？
Unrequited love does feel horrible.无偿的爱是否觉得可怕。 It feels like you’re dying.感觉就像您死亡。 This has got to be one of the worst anybody can suffer.这已到了必须最严重的国家之一，谁都可以蒙受损失。 It feels worse than depression.它认为不如抑郁症。 Unfortunately, I’m going through it.不幸的是，我会通过。 When the object of your affection doesn’t feel the same way or doesn’t reciprocate your feelings it can tear you apart.当对象您的感情，感到身体不适，同样的方式或没有回报你的感受，它可以撕毁，你除了。 I have never felt so miserable in my life.我从来没有感到这么惨，在我的生命。 There are days when I feel fine but most of the time I feel intense sadness.有天，当我感觉很好，但大部分的时间，我觉得激烈的悲哀。 It is so overwhelming.它是如此压倒性的。 There are times when it seems I can’t function or I can’t go on.有些时候，似乎我不能函数或我不能继续下去。 I remember when it was hard for me to concentrate at work and I just wanted to go home and crawl into bed.我记得当这是我很难集中在工作和我只是想回家和抓取到床上。 One day I felt so severely depressed I couldn’t even finish doing my hair and just went straight to bed.一天我觉得这么严重抑郁，我不能这样做，甚至完成我的头发和公正直奔床。 I realize it’s time for me to move on.我明白它的时间，我的举动。
Unrequited love?无偿的爱呢？ I’m in this situation myself, she was one of my closest friends and it does hurt, and has for sometime now… but to equate this to the feelings of death or dying “only worse,” I think is, pardon my directness, ridiculous.我在这种情况下我自己，她是我的一位最亲密的朋友，以及是否受到伤害，并已一段时间，现在… …但等同于这感情的死亡或死亡“只有更糟的是， ”我认为，原谅我的直接因果关系，荒谬的。 If this is really how you feel, there might be some underlying issues and good, Christian counseling might be something to really consider.如果这是真的，你觉得如何，可能会有一些潜在的问题和良好的，基督教咨商可能的东西，要真正考虑的问题。
The world is a pretty big place and people everywhere are really suffering, losing children and parents to sickness and disease, impoverished and just trying to survive, battling severe mental illnesses and being imprisoned simply for wanting to worship God, unrequited love to them would be a luxury of a problem…世界是一个相当大的地方和世界各地人民是真正的痛苦，失去孩子和父母，以疾病，贫困和只是想生存，对抗严重的心理疾病和被关押的只为要崇拜上帝，无偿给他们的爱将一种奢侈的一个问题…
Mike,麦克，
about unrequited love feelings, just because you don’t feel things as intensely as others does not mean that you are the correct standard and that others are wrong because they deviate from the way you react.关于无偿爱情的感受，因为你不觉得事情紧锣密鼓别人并不意味着你是正确的标准和别人是错的，因为他们偏离了道路，你的反应。
Different people and personality types differ greatly in the way they react to loss.不同的人，和人格类型有很大的差别，在他们作出反应的损失。 For example, my mother committed suicide when I was five years old.举例来说，我的母亲自杀，当我5岁。 Therefore, losses are harder for me than for many people.因此，损失是难以我比很多人。 Yes, there are times I do feel like dying over my unrequited love.是的，有一些时候，我觉得想死我的无偿的爱。 Because to me, a life without love is hardly worth living.因为对我来说，生活中没有爱情是很难值得的生活。 It’s hard to keep going on doing things without a partner to share life with.它的努力继续进行对做事没有一个合作伙伴，分享生活。
I am aware that others suffer greatly in other countries and here in the USA.据我所知，其他国家蒙受巨大损失，在其他国家和在这里，在美国。 However, that sometimes doesn’t help a lot when you live and work with mostly happily married people without those horrible circumstances!然而，有时并不很大帮助当您的生活和工作大多与愉快已婚的人如果没有这些可怕的情况下！
I don’t think people’s feelings can be written off as “ridiculous”.我不认为人民的感情，可以注销“荒谬” 。 To label them that way just adds to their pain.标签，他们这样做只是增加他们的痛苦。 It’s like kicking a fellow soldier when they are down.这就像脚踢一名同伴，当他们下来。