途切れ途切れ 心強い: ハウツー メンデル アト 失恋

失恋

ハウツー メンデル アト 失恋 対して シングルズ who are 途切れ途切れ 心強い?

略 誰も has had their own “ 失恋 懺悔” of アト ロスト 仲. アエ 失恋 is アト 失恋, whether 厥 仲 was アト 日付け 脈絡 オペレーションズリサーチ アト 成婚. 有らん限り 麿 宜しい is its’ 某 of 最高 涙ぐましい 物事 Ive’ 曾て 被害者.
While 補修 アト 失恋 テイク 変わった 量 of 暦年 対して 人々, 以下 点数 於いて ハウツー メンデル アト 失恋 情意 be 有用 付き 有らん限り 独身 キリスト教徒.

ハウツー メンデル アト 失恋

話し 約 御主人 失恋 共に Those Who 用心

屈指 道端 打ち出す 補修 アト 失恋 is 言い触らす イット. 語り 約 朕 疼痛 力添え 当方 アクセプト ザ 本当 of ザ 立場, 又 当方 沿って 医 処理過程 又 対応 有罪, 任意

儘 信者 シングルズ, ザ 一人称 朕 べき 碁 付き is ザ 天帝. アエ 佚 予言 is found Psalms 3418:: “ザ 天帝 is 直と ザ brokenhearted 又 saves those who are 聖戦 霊魂” Tell 御主人 天 Dad where イット 傷, 又 直 how 麿 膚触り. Dont’ 把持 幾らか 儘 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is 彼方 対して 麿, 又 宜しい テイク whatever 麿 スロー at Him.

先に pouring アウト 御主人 失恋 付き ザ 天帝, getting 連座 アト 信者 シングルズ 連, 聖堂 友情, オペレーションズリサーチ 支援団体 情意 give 麿 アト 事無し 生き場 別け前 御主人 涙ぐましい 例 又 受信側 恋仲 又 力. Dont’ 膚触り 厥 麿 宜しい 治癒 オペレーションズリサーチ メンデル 御主人 失恋 於いて 御主人 own. 厥’ 平らか 仄か 驕傲, 又 情意 由 麿 齎らす もっと 癒す. 朕 有らん限り 必用 somebody より 暦年 量る.

了見 並 治癒

彼方 is an 凄まじい 量 of 治癒 力 存在 了見, オペレーションズリサーチ 下賜 了見 付き 某 who has 不可 麿. ザ 力 of 了見 began at 十字架 of 人の子, where ヒューマンエンジニアリング フォージ 当方 朕 sins. 麿 dont’ 了知 what イット 力 付き be 了見 by 天帝, 良い 披見how 麿 宜しい 拾い物 佚 共に Him 疇 連続.

了見 塩水 閉鎖 又 cleansing, which 遅速 医 of ザ 途切れ途切れ 心強い 方. 其れ故 麿 不可 某 アト 前 日付け オペレーションズリサーチ 成婚 仲, ask 了見. Whatever 片方 does 共に 厥 申入 is not 御主人 煩う.

反面に, 某 has 不可 麿, dont’ 僥 返礼 ( 厥’ ザ 上院’ 商う), 併し 鍛錬 より ザ 中部. イット doesnt’ 平均値 厥 麿 have 扨 become アト ドアマット 対して 尚 冷罵. 下賜 了見 付き 某 who has 途切れ途切れ 御主人 中部does 平均値 厥 麿 have 断じて 付き let 碁 of 来し方 又 冒頭 アト 立上り 御主人 人生ゲー.

気を付けて of 御主人 物体

Having アト 失恋 puts 爆発的 歪力 於いて 御主人 物理的 又 主情的 wellbeing. 厥’ why its’ 大した 食らう right, 召 豊富 of 流体, 行使 又 拾い物 暦年 対して 放念. 力 yourself 働く これら 物事, 例え 麿 dont’ 膚触り 如く イット, 又 イット 情意 力添え 麿オーバコート 鬱病 又 想い of 低い 主我- 輿望. Youll’ より マイクロエレクトロニクス 後 麿 do.

Be 気さく 齎らす 変わった 冒険

Okay, 御主人 仲 didnt’ 労役 アウト, 又 youve’ been 左側 共に アト 失恋. 其れ故 テイク 今般 付き 評価 where 麿 宜しい 推敲 yourself 対して 来世.

儘 アト 途切れ途切れ 心強い 独身 切ない 繕う, 麿 are アト vulnerable 様子. 厥’ why 麿 必ずや 欠乏 免れる ザ 危殆 of アト 反発 仲. 以上 別て 真正 麿 are アト独身 子持ち 日付け 共に 餓鬼.

併し乍ら, 良い dont’ 密 yourself オフ 付き ザ 可能性 of 恋路. 時宜 又 余地 its’ アト 素晴らしい 物件. 本 尊重, 麿 五月 欠乏 慮るusing an online 信者 日付け 労務 儘 its’ アト 優れた 打つ手 放念 into 日付け 於いて 御主人 体様, 又 at 御主人 own 歩調.

Are 麿 アト 独身 婦人 オペレーションズリサーチ 万物の霊長 共に 任意 副 注意 於いて ハウツー メンデル アト 失恋?

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107 反応 付き “ 途切れ途切れ 心強い: ハウツー メンデル アト 失恋”

  1. 抹殺 気さく 於いて 十一月 29th, 2006 1256: 午後
    我が fiancﾃδｩe cheated 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス 又 got his 上がり- 意中の女 多産. 麿 have 入掛 ザ 夫婦約束, 併し 麿 have 此れ程 疼痛 厥 で 堪らない. Is their 某 アウト their 厥 宜しい 力添え マイクロエレクトロニクス 頂戴 通じて 本? 麿 母音 在る 独身 今迄 成婚, 併し 麿 すっからかん 我が 誓い of 伍つ 年輩 伍つ 月 into 本 仲. 麿 膚触り 其れ故 badplease… 某 力添え マイクロエレクトロニクス.
  2. David 執事 於いて 十二月 7th, 2006 112: 振幅変調

    拝啓 抹殺:

    済みません 厥 本 took 其れ故 末長く 取り返す. 良い ノウ 厥 朕 have been praying 対して 麿. 朕 ハツ 碁 アウト 付き 麿 御主人 必用. イエス is 全く ザ 治癒 of 途切れ途切れ ハツ.

    良い ノウ 厥 イエス 面相 at 御主人 中部, 又 鍛錬 麿 備に. ヒューマンエンジニアリング 膚触り 又 ノウ 御主人 疼痛, 又 is これで 対して 麿.

    麿 自称 如く 弄する 朕 朕 これで 対して 年少者… is 朕 ministryIf… 麿 欠乏 アト 付託 良い let 当方 ノウ 厥 too, 又 朕 情意 力添え そこら.

  3. デージー 於いて 弥生 3rd, 2007 522: 午後

    Ive’ been 通じて 共に 其れ故 many 仲 又 有らん限り of 題材} 傷 マイクロエレクトロニクス 其れ故 不可. 有らん限り 我が 上がり-boyfriends had cheated 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス. 麿 dont 了知 why 我が 仲 決して 後続, 又 反面に, 有らん限り 我が 上がり-boyfriends were 既婚 又 愉快 共に their 眷族. 麿 不可思議 why 麿 cant be happyPlease… 力添え マイクロエレクトロニクス!

  4. David 執事 於いて 弥生 25th, 2007 334: 振幅変調

    拝啓 芳しい デージー:

    麿 are not 咎める 厥 殿方 cheated 於いて youGo… 付き ザ 天帝 平滑 通じて 揶揄, 又 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 情意 ミート 御主人 必用… 予言! 麿 必用 アト 付託 付き アト 優れた シングルズ 連 御主人 areaplease… let 当方 ノウ..

    David

  5. David 執事 於いて 弥生 25th, 2007 335: 振幅変調

    拝啓 芳しい デージー:

    麿 are not 咎める 厥 殿方 cheated 於いて youGo… 付き ザ 天帝 平滑 通じて 劈, 又 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 情意 ミート 御主人 必用… 予言! 麿 必用 アト 付託 付き アト 優れた シングルズ 連 御主人 areaplease… let 当方 ノウ..

    David

  6. maryjane 於いて 四月 三十日, 2007 1002: 振幅変調

    麿 had アト 仲 共に アト 奴 who was 年嵩 より マイクロエレクトロニクス 十 年輩 切. ヒューマンエンジニアリング cheated 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス, 朕 had 某 童子 又 麿 振幅変調 養殖 her alone.and 共に 我が own 力…

  7. Rachel James 於いて 五月 7th, 2007 957: 振幅変調

    麿 had an 代物 アベック 然も無いと’ 許婚 又 朕 have been 偕 対して 約 弐つ 年輩. ヒューマンエンジニアリング 左側 his 許婚 我乍ら 又 had 発言 付き マイクロエレクトロニクス 併し im’ 凄まじい 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 自称 cheat 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス 如く what ヒューマンエンジニアリング did 付き his 許婚. 麿 揚句の果て had ザ 勇烈 張る ザ 仲 付き 終末 併し its’ 傷 マイクロエレクトロニクス 其れ故 badly… 振幅変調 麿 遣い 物件? pls 力添え マイクロエレクトロニクス..

  8. Liz 於いて 五月 三十日, 2007 443: 午後

    ヒューマンエンジニアリング got 於いて his 膝, 又 cried. ヒューマンエンジニアリング told マイクロエレクトロニクス ヒューマンエンジニアリング 恋仲 マイクロエレクトロニクス, 又 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 恋しい 副う マイクロエレクトロニクス. Im’ tired 又 羸 又 時折 膚触り 如く 平らか 斃. ヒューマンエンジニアリング 平らか 左側 マイクロエレクトロニクス 無し さよなら. 我心 is shattered into many 切れ切れ!!!!!!!!!!!

  9. マリー Yolanda 於いて 六月 22nd, 2007 236: 振幅変調

    David,
    以上 マリー YolandaI… didnt 頂戴 reply 於いて 我が 付注 於いて 最終 日曜日… e- メイラー Helen 我が 空白 暴く ザ 方 彼奴 is 充満 扨..併し 彼奴 has not 披見 イット 未だ…

  10. 歯切れの良い 於いて 七月 4th, 2007 854: 午後

    麿 was 暮らし 共に 我が boyfriend 又 突如 , ヒューマンエンジニアリング 前記 ヒューマンエンジニアリング シーソー遊び マイクロエレクトロニクス 儘 アト 余裕 料 其れ故 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 宜しい have 仲 共に 余り 女人. 麿 振幅変調 アト 信者 又 麿 欠乏 暮らす holy 神神 , ヒューマンエンジニアリング 平らか 欲 暮らす 偕 又 do whatever ヒューマンエンジニアリング 欲. 良い pray 我乍ら, 厥 天帝 情意 力添え マイクロエレクトロニクス 又 変革 本 立場, 麿 恋仲 him 連中, 併し 麿 恋仲 イエス 未だ. Brokenhearted 又 傷 ヒューストン, テキサス

  11. 明星 於いて 七月 19th, 2007 244: 午後

    麿 was 先度 予約済み ( 低い) 付き アト 奴 who was 我が 無上 友達 of 伍つ 年輩 又 朕 have 付き 少国民 偕. 偖 上 余程 慕情 praying, 神神’ 返事 対して 当方 was . 天帝 披歴 本 mans’ 中部 付き マイクロエレクトロニクス 又 イット wasnt’ ザ 中部 麿 了見 麿 knew. 我が brokenness さ より 念 如し 麿 have invested 少し 厥 もっと 有無, 伜 is 存在 レイズ by アト 独身 子持ち, 又 ザ devastation 麿 膚触り 御存知 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is 未だに 見参 ザ 婦人 ヒューマンエンジニアリング cheated 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス 共に 又 有らん限り ザ while 発送 マイクロエレクトロニクス恋仲 作歌 又 telling マイクロエレクトロニクス ヒューマンエンジニアリング 欲 朕 眷族 . 御存知 約 某 doesnt’ 做 ザ 疼痛 碁 先に.

  12. bluesky19822007 於いて 七月 25th, 2007 450: 午後

    我がboyfriend cheated 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス. 朕 were 偕 対して 壱 年度 又 伍つ 月. 扨, 麿 平らか knew 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング had an 代物 共に 変わった 女の子 when were’ 参 月 アト 仲. ザ 女の子 got 多産 又 交付者 her 女児. 麿 was 又 フェルト 不可. 麿 dont’ ノウ ハウツー リアクター 麿 have ミックス 恋愛. 麿 dont’ ノウ ハウツー 捌 本. 以上 二世 暦年 アト 万物の霊長 又 腑抜け マイクロエレクトロニクス. Dont’ 麿 砂漠 在る 愉快 ずばり?

  13. David 執事 於いて 七月 25th, 2007 517: 午後

    拝啓 ブルース:

    アエ 失恋 is 決して 容易い 臨む, 又 朕 have many praying 対して 麿. 麿 断然 believe 天帝 情意 統率 麿 付き 方, 以上 麿 倣 His 情意, 又 not 御主人 own. 為 回避 変わった 失恋, 朕 提示 僥 アウト 信憑 信者 注意 より 身内 who ノウ 麿 偖 疇 造作 変わった 日付け 了見. 天帝 bless 麿 又 ハング 彼方. 麿 are 値打ち イット!

  14. Jea 於いて 七月 29th, 2007 727: 振幅変調

    Im’ アト 信者 又 我が is boyfriend is ザ 伜 of アト 牧師. 朕 have been 偕 対して 四つ 年輩 併し 先度 平らか 今月 ヒューマンエンジニアリング told マイクロエレクトロニクス ヒューマンエンジニアリング got 変わった 女の子 多産, 又 麿 振幅変調 傷 今迄 儘 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is 我が 第一 bf 又 麿 了見 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 情意 be 我が 最終. What is 物件 我乍ら 働く? ヒューマンエンジニアリング 前記 麿 振幅変調 ザ 某 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 全く 恋仲, 又 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング was 平らか 癇癪. How 宜しい 麿 フォージ him? べき 麿 アクセプト him 又もや? Im’ 全く 騒然, 良い 力添え. Do 麿 羸 its’ 優利 麿 歩み方 於いて 扨?

  15. kelly 於いて 八月 7th, 2007 1214: 午後

    麿 HAVE BEEN 傷 曾て アエ 仲 PRAYED 対して ザ HEALING.BUT より 扨 某 HAS 曾て さ 於いて 我が WAY.AM アエ 誠実 僮 HAVE PRAYED 又 FASTED,REPENTED OF ギウ 又 名も無い SINS 未だ 返事 対して アエ 信心深い 伉濃 振幅変調 百可桟気 DID 天帝 備に サォージ マイクロエレクトロニクス. 良い 力添え 振幅変調 DESPARATE 対して 天帝 答える

  16. Bianca 於いて 八月 16th, 2007 634: 振幅変調

    我が 上がり- 許婚 すっからかん up 共に マイクロエレクトロニクス 又 麿 found アウト 平らか 先度 厥 上 朕 すっからかん up ヒューマンエンジニアリング slept これで 女の子 whom 麿 疑似 疇 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング was cheating 於いて マイクロエレクトロニクス 共に 併し 汗 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 充塞 語り 付き 上 麿 found アウト 約 題材} 語り 又 扨 got her 多産. ヒューマンエンジニアリング 未だに tells マイクロエレクトロニクス 麿 振幅変調 his 真正 恋仲. 平滑 来訪 マイクロエレクトロニクス 令閨. ヒューマンエンジニアリング says ヒューマンエンジニアリング 決して 平均値 対して 本 振り懸かる 又 ヒューマンエンジニアリング was 真に getting 出来上がり 下げる 共に マイクロエレクトロニクス when ヒューマンエンジニアリング found アウト 本 女の子 got 多産. 扨 イット 膚触り 厥 我が ワールド was 聖戦. 麿 振幅変調 devastated 又 余程 傷. How do 麿 捌 本??

  17. David 執事 於いて 八月 21st, 2007 1032: 午後

    拝啓 Jea:

    朕 are praying 対して 御主人 途切れ途切れ 中部… 天帝 is ザ 優れた 治癒 其れ故 麿 are 良い ホールドアップ. 御主人 cheating boyfriend did 本 付き 麿 疇 麿 are 既婚, do 麿 全く 羸 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 自称 be 誠実 成婚? で 麿 ノウ what 働く.

    Kelly:

    朕 ノウ 厥ウエイト 於いて 天帝 is 決して 容易い, 併し 毎毎 値打ち. 良い ハング 彼方, 儘 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 全く does 做 万有 佚 His 暦年.. ザ meantime, check アウト ザ 注意 前 併設.

    Praying 対して 麿,

    David

  18. 夫人 Terry 於いて 九月 12th, 2007 833: 振幅変調

    ((((拝啓 天帝, 願わくわ 対して 途切れ途切れ ハツ, 癒える. 天帝 麿 勿れ ノウ how fix 失恋, 併し 麿 do イエス ザ 名前 Of イエスキリスト 願わくわ. 南無)) Pray 対して アト 復古. 良い pray 対して 我が 無難. 良い pray 対して ザ USA. 良い keep praying 対して 我が Families,Friends 又 Neighbors.

  19. 仲買人 心強い 於いて 九月 十三夜, 2007 904: 午後

    Im’ 其れ故 途切れ途切れ 心強い right 扨 厥 麿 宜しい 裸 平滑 息吹. 麿 スツール 脇 by 脇 共に 我が 意中の女 対して 18 月 while her 伜 襯衣 chemotherapy 対して his 蟹座. 麿 恋仲 本 婦人 又 毎毎 確 彼奴 had 一家 生み付ける her 本 又 兵粮 対して her 又 正嫡 食らう. 麿 caught her cheating 又 ザ 憂い 役割 is 厥 彼奴 had her 魔窟 tell マイクロエレクトロニクス 厥 マイクロエレクトロニクス 又 her were 余. 彼奴 didnt’ 平滑 have ザ 体裁 曰く メルシー. Ive’ been sick 投技 up 又 not 口に 対して 末の末 四つ 月日. イット 疼痛 マイクロエレクトロニクス 著す 本. 麿 振幅変調 アト 万物の霊長 麿 振幅変調 もし 付き be 余程 最強 より 本. 麿 gave 本 婦人 半面 of what 麿 had. 又 ザ 啻に 理由 麿 半面 is 儘 朕 were not 既婚 未だ. Im’ 備に devastated 又 麿 dont’ ノウ ハウツー 歩み方 於いて.

  20. David 執事 於いて 九月 14th, 2007 1212: 午後

    夫人 Terry- What アト 佚 prayer!

    拝啓 途切れ途切れ 心強い:

    我心 goes アウト 付き 麿! 銘記, 彼方 is 厄介者 付き 優れた イエス 宜しい not 治癒. ヒューマンエンジニアリング is 直と ザ 途切れ途切れ 心強い 儘 those are ザ 類 of 民間 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is 対して. Those are not 平らか 伝言 併し ザ 暮らし 本当. 麿 have アクセプト 人の子 イエス 儘 天帝 又 救世主, Im’ 参入 頼む 麿 付き 投降 有らん限り of 本 付き Him 閑 イット 共に Him, 万端, 又 lets’ see what 朕 天帝 宜しい do. 朕 are praying 対して 麿. 物音 如く 麿 五月 必用 申し聞かせる 某 対して 励み合い 又 見通し 於いて 御主人 失恋. Email 当方 又 朕 情意 麿.

    David

  21. Bella 途切れ途切れ 於いて 九月 17th, 2007 244: 振幅変調

    麿 met 我が 上がり- 許婚 オフ of アト 信者 日付け 用地. 麿 believed 共に 有らん限り of 我心 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング was 我が soulmate. 朕 シェアード 同断 癇癪 対して 天帝, 同断 渇き 対して His 本当, 又 many, many interests. 麿 決して フェルト 其れ故 密 付き アト 万物の霊長 我が 人生ゲー. 朕 had アト 長距離 仲, which was 清らか 疱疹. 朕 恋しい 働く 万端 神神’ 陽 又 朕 プット Him 第一 朕 仲. 扨 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 歩み方 より his 様子 在る 直と マイクロエレクトロニクス. 朕 got 予約済み. 物事 began 崩れる 命令一下. イット didnt’ テイク 末長く 我乍ら 思い知る 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング was 余程 利己的, 防備, 又 最低 of 有らん限り, 不正直. 麿 was 其れ故 聖戦. 毀誉 イエス 対して 上 マイクロエレクトロニクス ザ 訳 of Christlike 恋仲 又 より 天帝 対して removing ザ ブラインド より 我が . 又 扨 麿 平らか 信憑 in Him to heal my broken heart…

  22. David Butler on September 19th, 2007 6:38 pm

    Dear Bella:

    I am so sorry. We are praying for your broken heart.

  23. ValeyRose on October 3rd, 2007 11:09 am

    Hi, I am broken hearted with my first boyfriend (my only boyfriend)..We were engaged.. . He broke me up for not so valid reasons窶ｦ. I ‘ve experienced great pain that I wanted to die. My life is not the same anymore..I am also a Christian but because of that pain, It made me a different person, it made me bitter. The worst thing is that my life was destroyed窶ｦ..It窶冱 hard for me to trust guys anymore…especially Christian guys窶ｦJust last month we talked and found out that ever since we broke up he don窶冲 have any girlfriend and told me that he had regrets when he left me窶ｦI never had a boyfriend after he left窶ｦEven though I am so hard, I still prayed to God for His will窶ｦPls. help me…e-mail me if possible…I really need Godly advice. I know God will use you..

  24. james on October 12th, 2007 5:36 am

    Please help me cause iI’m so broken hearted cause my girl friend and i broke up I love here so much, but iIdont know what to do please help me. Thanks. I hope God listens to my prayer.

  25. David Butler on October 13th, 2007 8:29 pm

    Dear ValeyRose:

    We recommend going together for Christian counseling. You can find one on this site. I am praying for you, and remember..God builds on the ashes…Your life is not destroyed after a broken heart.

  26. David Butler on October 13th, 2007 8:29 pm

    Dear James:
    eMail us for one on one help.

  27. Nicola on October 24th, 2007 12:20 pm

    My fiance just recently went to Europe backpacking with a mate. He really was the man of my dreams, I knew that he was something special and I trusted him completely. I was a little unsure of him going only 4 months before our wedding but he assured me that I could completely trust him and he would never do anything to hurt me. However 2 and a half weeks into the trip I got a call from him telling me that he did something he really regretted. He told me that he had ended up going to a strip club and became quite intimate with a boy. I was shocked, I never expected that from him, we had been dating for over 6 years and I knew that he was not like that. Anyway he told me he was going to come home straight away because he felt so bad. So he came back, but only to tell me that it went further and that they actually had sex. I was so shocked. We were both virgins and waiting for our wedding night. I am so hurt. I dont know what to do. I love him so much and I want to forgive him but I dont know how to forget what he’s done. I keep on thinking about it and ive become so depressed. He has promised me that he will NEVER do anything like that again. It is now 3 months before our wedding and I really dont know what to do. I love him so much but the hurt is so bad. Should we still get married or getout of it before its too late.

  28. Laura Fastabend on October 26th, 2007 7:19 am

    Dear Kelly,
    It is not easy to let things rest in God’s hands sometimes. In a book Experiencing the Depths of Jesus Christ I found something helpful for me. Jeanne Guyon, the author asks “If this were to be your lot for the rest of your life, what would you do?” Then she says, “Do this”. In another section of the book she says to “Accept the matter”. “Give yourself up to him as a sacrifice”. If you can do this, it helps make it easier to bear. Trust the Lord that he has your best interest at heart. He understands the “you” deep inside and knows what you need. Go to him in prayer and cry if you need to. I find that tears speak the words in my heart that I often can’t express. And I know he understands. Know that accepting this as If it were your lot for the rest of your life does not mean that it Will be that. I will pray for your acceptance of this, and for the ability to leave it in his hands. May God bless you in your surrendering.

  29. David Butler on October 27th, 2007 1:39 am

    Thanks for that post, Laura…great advice for broken hearts.

  30. Patti on October 29th, 2007 9:37 pm

    I am 37 and have been unable to get over a relationship that ended almost a year ago. I’ve had lots of failed relationships before this one but I feel like the heartache from this one will never end. I’ve spent the last year trying to get closer to God and reading dozens of Christian books and praying about taking my desire for this person away but I don’t feel any closer to healing and the pain still hurts so bad I don’t know how to get over it and feel at peace. And I know Christ as my Lord and Savior so this makes me feel like I have no hope in Him. It took me 35 years to meet a man that I ever felt attracted to like that and love for and I fear I’ll never feel that way again. As I write this I feel like I must sound like a pathetic teenager and yet I can’t get past this as a grown woman. Please God help me.

  31. Michael on November 1st, 2007 5:50 am

    The ratio of broken relationships have increased at a frightening rate past years. I ,too am suffering from a broken heart.My GF walked out on me &has been dating the guy I suspected &even till today she lies to me she isnt dating anyone.Jesus can heal our hearts, He is the one who gave us Love for our partners& I pray for all the broken hearted that God’s amazing,all sufficing Love is poured into each one of our hearts that all our pain&emptiness disappear..In Jesus’ name.Amen.

  32. virginia on November 11th, 2007 5:20 pm

    My boyfriend of three years stopped loving me after I got very ill with pneumonia and I am broken hearted. I have been unemployed and unable to cope for 2 years now. I was beautiful, intelligent and precious. Now I am a wreck and my health is declining and I can’t cope…He said today that he didn’t love me. I can’t believe it he was my prince and angel! Virginia

  33. David Butler on November 11th, 2007 6:46 pm

    Amen Michael!

    Dear Virginia:

    I am so sorry about your broken heart! If it has been two years that you can’t cope due to your broken heart, maybe you need to speak with a counselor? We can make a referral if you wish. Do you know Jesus as your Saviour? In Scripture it says he is close to the brokenhearted. And remember: No man is worth what pain you are going through.

    We are praying for your healing.

  34. danny dawson on November 19th, 2007 9:11 pm

    i have been married for 23 months and is currently going through a divorce because of spouse abuse, with her being the abuser, i am deeply hurt over this and was willing to go to counseling but my spouse refuses to go. so i have no choice but to proceed with the divorce, i still love her and wanna help her, but i can’t fix this by myself please advise

  35. John on November 27th, 2007 4:38 pm

    i have been dating my girlfriend for about 4 years and after we graduate i went to a different sch from her. about 8 months after i got into my new sch i found out that she had been seeing another guy. i never ever thought of that such things will happen though she got mentioned to me quite often that there is this guy and stuff they talk about, i never had suspect anything because i really trusted her completely. but after i found out that she cheated on me that was really a big big blow i don know what to do. that guy emailed me and said ’since u love her so much i think u should know about this, i masturbated her and she did the same to me’ i m really shocked to know that. i qn her at first she said she didn even kiss him, but as it got longer i asked and asked and she said the most they got to was that guy touching her ‘there’ with a skirt on. though i still have that bit of trust on her but i keep dwell on the words of that guy. when i think of him masturbating her i really cant take it. i don know if its true. but we are still together. it really bothers me a lot. i put my prob to God but some how the imagine always flashes back to me during some part of the day and i will really feel very miserable. pls email me or reply me here.

  36. Darius on November 30th, 2007 1:16 am

    To all: My girlfriend broke up with me last night after youth at are church. she said the reason was because she had given her whole heart to me and wanted it to be with God only. She believed that if she breaks up with me she will give ALL of her heart to God and cant have me apart of it. She still has feelings for me and so do I for her but we just don’t know what to do. Please help.

    Please Please contact me at M3-Euro@hotmail.com

  37. dear nicola on December 2nd, 2007 5:35 am

    It sounds like your fiance is gay. I mean bad enough that he cheated on you, but he did it with a guy. I understand if you want to forgive him because everyone makes mistakes…but are won’t you wonder in the future that he might not be into girls and is just using you. Common on he had sex with a guy get a clue you don’t belong in that relationship!!!!!

  38. David Butler on December 2nd, 2007 3:40 pm

    Dear Darius:

    I getting you and her to discuss the topic of what it means to “love the Lord above all” with your youth pastor or other trusted elder. When we love the Lord we can love others even better as well. Has she made your her idol?

  39. David Butler on December 2nd, 2007 4:41 pm

    John:

    The pain you are experiencing is one reason why it’s not God’s plan for you to have sex before marriage. What she has done is wrong, and I feel your pain, but she does not belong to you.

  40. v kelly on December 7th, 2007 5:54 pm

    My husband move out of our home. He said it’s God’s will for him to do that. Over a year ago he was having an affair with someone in our church and she got pregnant. I took him back. Ever since then our marriage has not been the same what to do.

  41. Agostinho on December 11th, 2007 2:14 am

    I just broke up with my girlfriend of 15 months. We broke up because my parents didn’t approve of and her family. Theres loads of other variables involved which I wont get into now, but what matters is that i wasn’t my choice. I was given the choice between staying with her and getting chucked out of my house and cutting all ties with my family or ending the relationship. I don’t know whether ill ever be able to tell her the reason why. It hurt so bad when i told her that I even fainted. We were sat out in the for nearly 3 hours sobbing in each others arms. My heart feels like its broken in two.

    I just pray that God will be able to mend my broken heart and if its mean to be then its meant to be.

  42. Mike on December 24th, 2007 12:59 am

    Ive been 1 year with my girlfriend, I love her so much i can’t explain it, my GF cheated on me on 1 Year Anniversary, I almost died. I have so much hate now for this women, that she destroyed everything, I know it’s wrong to hate, but I’m so devastated. She started begging me to forgive her, which I can not and never will. My pain is so intense, I need help please!!!

  43. kdj on January 9th, 2008 7:51 pm

    What does not kill us makes us stronger. Hang in there!

  44. Susan on January 10th, 2008 11:34 am

    I’m single, and although I’m glad I’ve been single up to this point (36) because it’s given me time to find out who I am on my own, I’ve felt for some time that a good, healthy, passionate, loving, committed relationship with a Christian guy is not going to happen for me. I’m not putting out negative, angry vibes, I enjoy my life on my own but this is a real longing I feel that just gets more painful with time. All the pat “Christian” answers (Don’t worry, honey, Jesus is working through this!) only hurt. At this point, I don’t fell any joy at all in my faith and I just feel like God likes to play head games….if I’m meant to be single, fine, but for crying out loud why won’t he take this desire away? Please, no one tell me it’s to bring me closer to him. It just feels numb when I hear those canned answers that are supposed to make me feel better

  45. Jess on January 28th, 2008 9:36 pm

    I am brokenhearted: I was going out with this girl I fell in love with. She proposed I said yes,then we went to visit her and she cheated on me with my best friend. I’ve been going crazy everyday Ii can’t live with her and can’t live with out her any advice?

  46. David Butler on January 29th, 2008 12:56 am

    Susan…God is NOT into head games. If I were you I would get into group counseling (Christian) and work through these legit issues. We are praying for you…and that’s not a canned answer.

    Jess: Of course you can live without this jerk! She will just damage your broken heart more if you attempt to get back. Please surround yourself with Christian singles who really care, and let them minister to you, okay?

  47. alfredo on February 4th, 2008 2:57 pm

    I am brokenhearted. No one is wrong. she just make her choices. but it is painful. I want to release her and not getting bitter. But the bitterness is very hard to let go. I need help n prayer

  48. Snow on February 6th, 2008 12:51 pm

    I need help with my broken heart and how to mend it. It has been about four months since my ex bf broke up with me. He broke my heart but-I haven’t had a day go by when I haven’t thought of him. He can be such a cruel person, talking about girls he wants to be with and girls he has been with since me. I feel ill when I see him. I just wish I hadn’t fallen at all…. he has torn me down :(

    But I really need to move on and get over this?

    I need to pick up the pieces of my broken heart…

  49. Snow on February 6th, 2008 12:53 pm

    but this situation has made me a whole lot stronger… everyone with a broken heart should hang in there.

  50. JM on February 14th, 2008 5:56 am

    Somebody please help me with my brokenheart. Ive broken up multiple times. Thanks to this my heart is broken and aches and I feel like useless waste in this world. I do not know why but I can not seem to shake off the sadness, heartache pain and torment. Everyday I can only think about how I will be rejected again and again; I feel like there is no one out there for me… no one to love and be loved back…no girl who will want to have me for a bf… why? I dont understand, Im confused and alone please help me in this v_v Im slowly losing all hope in love and romance :(

  51. Me on February 27th, 2008 6:24 am

    This is about broken hearts: I have been involved with a guy for 14 years. He decided to tell me after coming back into my life for the 2nd time that he was still not certain of his love for me. I’m hurting from a broken heart so bad, just as I started to want to try to trust him he pulls this. He has been leaving town a lot to go to his sons basketball games in PA, on the weekends never asking me to go with him and then getting upset if I call before he gets back just to see where he is and how long it will take for him to get home. Please pray for me my spirit and heart has been broken so many times by this guy. He just does not care and I have a broken heart.

  52. susie on April 21st, 2008 5:19 am

    Dear readers,

    Its just a week he left me for a very valid reason. My guts keep telling me that he will change his mind, but the other part of me saying better to let go of him. God knows how much i deeply love him. We were so close until i cant face my days without him but i force myself to get rid of him. I busy myself, i meet alots of friend, i create hobbies, and i prayed alots until im not sure whether God is listening and feel the pain i gone through. im so weak i fall again. i feel like dying. im so empty…anyone please help me. im so helpless.

  53. duty on April 24th, 2008 8:17 pm

    My heart is broken. My fiancee of two years just left me for reasons i don’t know .He didn’t break up just stopped picking my calls and avoiding me for over 4 months.I hurt too much .I am not desperate but i need to know what i did .I still love him and this hurts me more because he doesnt seem he is ever coming back.I feel like my self esteem has come crashing.Am a good Christian but instead of praying i cry ever nite .Can anyone who has gone through this help me heal? i want to be free. i want to love again because i seem to have closed my heart to all men. I am brokenhearted

  54. eReL on May 6th, 2008 5:21 am

    How to mend a broken heart? i met this guy..at first i tried myself not to fall for him. i knew he had a long time girlfriend for 7years but things keep going..we hanged out every week but it all ended one day when i found out that he still loves his girl friend in the other country…i was so hurt its like he just using me but he kept on telling me he’s not that kind of person. the pain is killing me..how did all of this happen..i’m so depressed…my heart is broken..i couldn’t even eat and sleep..i really had a hard time moving on..i used to talk to him every hour minutes but now no body i could lean on..im so lonely will you help me?? it hurt so much specially this my first..please help me with my brokenheart..i’m begging u all

  55. cilla on May 20th, 2008 9:03 pm

    I finally got a boyfriend at the age of 20, he was my first everything and i was his first everything we were together for 3 years and he broke up with me? i dont know if i should try to get back with him or if i should let him go. the thing i fear is that how could i share myself with someone else and know if he is the right person. i dont know the whole reason why her broke up with me, but i find myself praying to god to help heal his heart and mine so that we may get back together but everyday my prayer goes un-answered, and i find myself hurting even more, and i know that if i ask in jesus’s name i will recieve, and that god does answers prayers, i just have to be patient, but as the days go by i am more upset then hopeful. what do i do?

  56. che-che on May 21st, 2008 5:29 am

    to all broken hearted same as me…there is always a good reason behind all this things,let us move foreward to be a better person…continue to live..God is so good,He will not give us somthing we connot endure..live one at a time and lets us enjoy the pain..one we find ourselves happy and so inlove again…

  57. Larry on June 30th, 2008 5:56 pm

    My friend…..Whom i thought I can start a relationship with…turned me down because she didn’t feel there is no physcial bond between us…have u ever heard of such a thing????is that a necessity…(I’ve never been involved this much…emotionally ever)

  58. Milly on July 3rd, 2008 8:55 am

    My boyfriend of 4 years engaged me and cheated on me 2months into our engagament. I wanted to forgive him and let us continue. He told me we should move on. But I kept on reminding him of the hurt. He then decided to end the relationship without any reason. I am still hurt but would like to move on with my life.

  59. elizabeth on August 29th, 2008 12:21 am

    I broke up with my ex-fiance not too long ago because God says no, and my parent disapprove also because it wasn’t God’s will. I had to come clean to him eventhough I love him dearly. Now he hates me and my parent!!
    He said i walked out on all that we built and that we can never be friends and he doesn’t want to know me. I feel so guilty that I’ve broken his heart and hurt him so bad. He doesn’t believe that I loved him in the first place, he kept saying I think he’s not good enough for me. This is not the case, can he ever forgive me? What am I going to do to convince him not to feel worthless. I’m heart broken too and I’m so lost. pls help me, advice me. thank you

  60. lashawn on September 11th, 2008 1:17 am

    Broken hearts are hard to deal with. Surrender your hurt and emotions to God and have faith that you’ll be fine. Continue to pray and keep busy in due you’ll feel better. This is my testiomy.

  61. H, Mickey Gill on September 15th, 2008 3:04 am

    I’ve got to ask again: if thisis what one has to go through to find a life mate, then what’s the point??? I’m not sure that flying solo for life isn’t the lesser of two evils, especially if all one is going to find in the dating minefield is one disappointment after another. I say again: WHAT’S THE POINT?

  62. sillyher on September 17th, 2008 4:33 am

    Hello–my heart was broken years ago, and more recently when I witnessed a friend’s heart break. I wish I could offer help, hope or healing. I grew up in an ultra-conservative religious setting and all I have ever prayed for is PEACE. Isn’t that what our Father offers, and freely? Why then has it illuded me for so long–and made it impossible for me to recommend Him to others? Why does he continue to treat me like a joke? Again, tonight, I will pray for healing for my friend, and peace and wisdom for me…

  63. Simon on October 6th, 2008 5:14 pm

    I was with the girl of my dreams for over a year. I honestly thought she would be the last girl for me, we talked about marriage and kids and stuff like that and we were both looking forward to it. I went abroad on my gap year for 6 months, and found that a few months in she started seeing another guy. I found out when she came out to see me, and it crushed me. When we were back in England I was going to going to pop the question, but instead I broke it off with her. I am struggling to forgive her for what she did to me, I have never been so open to anyone or have trusted anyone as much as her. I really hate her for what she did, and for destroying the life we could have had. She has changed a lot since I’ve come back, I can’t stop thinking about her, but its all bad thoughts, like what I would do to her if I saw her again. I don’t want to feel like this anymore, I want to forgive her and move on, but I am really struggling. Please help me.

  64. nana on October 10th, 2008 4:49 am

    this is to all especially denise:

    He heals the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds psalm 147:3
    so trust in him and pour out your heart to him he is close to those with a contrite spirit.
    As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us. psalm 103:12
    you are forgiven once you asked and repented so forgive yourself he forgave you.

    There’s no condemnation in Christ Romans 8:1
    don’t let the past hold you from your future seek the lord and his love and it will be more than enough he loves you and knows every detail of you

    Matthew 6:33 states,”But seek ye first the kingdom of God,and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
    let him be the man in your life and once it is time he will give you what your heart desire. Have faith and don’t give up or impatient because it’s not right when you want it.

    “A woman’s heart should be so close to God that a man has to seek God to find it.”

    peace and blessings you are loved and worth much more to the lord than you’re current situations.

  65. Mindy on October 23rd, 2008 9:48 pm

    In regard to how to mend a broken a broken heart:This is not enough. when you go to find something only to be let down. A man tells you he accepst you yet does the oppostite of what you want? What happens to the ones that purposely hurt you? Are they punished for their sins? Exactly what Mickey said. Too me It is criminal… Do they even have a heart or a soul whey you cry and they cut you down because you do tell me?

  66. shellby on November 14th, 2008 7:47 pm

    I was fell inlove with the guy whom I expected that he feel what I feel for him… then on the day that we had a revival, he told me that, we will be stay as friend only.. huhu, it really hurt, oh my God help me..

  67. Daniel on November 23rd, 2008 4:25 am

    You know what?
    I am a male 22. My girl friend said good bye to me. I know what it was like. I understand it. I got it. It is the worst possible my heart has experienced. Worse than I am physically beaten up. WORST!!! if you need to talk… I am here. email me: ibjduy@yahoo

    GOD BLESS.

  68. Jackie on December 1st, 2008 6:22 am

    Hey, so, this isn’t about my breakup… No, I’m with my boyfriend and it’s more like he can’t heal his own heart no matter what.

    My boyfriend’s last relationship was 13 months (he ended it about 7 months ago), and his ex-girlfriend cheated on him about 3 times, and now he’s convinced he’s worthless and what really tears me apart (and he knows it hurts me more than it hurts him) is that he cuts because of her and what she did to him.

    I don’t know how to help him, besides praying for him and doing what I can to make him happy… Any ideas on what I can do to help him?

  69. rosie on December 31st, 2008 4:57 am

    In regard to a broken heart, I need help. i don’t know what to do. My boyfriend left the house 4 months ago. he cheated on me and i’m due in 3 weeks. i call him he doesn’t pick up and when he calls. he tells me he will call back and he doesn’t. i feel im dying.he comes and goes when he wants to and it hurts so much. please help. i have been praying all this time and GOD says if you ask with faith it will be given to you. i don’t want to throw in the towel.

  70. thalan on January 11th, 2009 1:12 pm

    rosie,

    I wish i can tell you things will get better,but they want for a guy to do this while you are pregnant means he does not love. I know how it feels I’m in the same boat as you and trust me it does not get any better. I hope your situation works out better than mines

  71. Alexis on January 16th, 2009 4:45 am

    MY ex was abusive to me in every way possible but when i finally noticed i was so hooked on him i didnt want to break up. we finally did after three years and im trying to get God back to my number one spot again like i was… my ex is still keeping me on hold and i know he isnt right and that God doesnt want me to be with him.. but i want love and im trying to have patience but i feel like no guy will want me b/c of all that has happened in my past just with my ex. when i read my own words i know what i need to do is simple and i my friends are there for me to support me but i just dont keep away and i feel like God isnt with me anymore… im a Christian but im lonely and broken inside and the front i put up is fading fast… please say anything that will help, im desperate for God again

  72. CadyB on January 19th, 2009 7:08 am

    Hi Alexis,

    I can’t help but to comment after reading your heartfelt post. I’m so sorry you have gone through so much! I truly hope and pray you are in a better place today. And I hope it brings you comfort to know we all go through hardships in our Christian lives. Ultimately God uses these things to perfect us, and teach us. In Psalm 34 it says, “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him from them all!” If you get a second, please read all of this chapter! It will absolutely bless you!

    As single ladies, we are in a unique dilemma. It is comforting to know that God’s love for us is better than anything. But we still hope and pray that a true gentleman will come our way whom we can begin a relationship with. It makes me feel not so alone to consider the hardships of others. Some are having financial difficulty, or health problems. Others have trouble with their children, their spouses, ex spouses, depression, addictions; the list goes on and on. We all encounter disappointments in life. But I believe that all can find through difficulty the blessed hope which is in the Lord Jesus. One of my favorite Scriptures says, “I count all things loss, compared to the excellency of knowing Christ.” When this Scripture becomes real in one’s life, other things simply cease to matter as much.

    Alexis, I am SO glad you have good friends. In addition to this, I hope you are finding time to look into the Scriptures, have prayer time, and listen to several of the wonderful preachers we are so blessed to have on this earth with us, such as Joel Osteen, and Joyce Meyers. Please feel free to email me sometime. I am on staff with the church that hosts this site, and will soon have my own email. In the mean time, you are in my thoughts and prayers. We are in this together my sister.

    Cadyb

  73. H. Mickey Gill on January 29th, 2009 5:32 am

    With the singular commercial fraud known as Valentine’s Day right around the corner, here’s my next question? Why do we even need it???

  74. Evangeline Ames on February 3rd, 2009 11:19 pm

    Everyone who has left a message on this site should pray for one another as well as all of the other broken hearted people in the world. This epidemic is the cause of most situational depression. If left unattended it could lead to a serious chemical imbalance due to continued feelings of despondancy. Supporting each other at this time is critical. No one should have to bear this burden alone. try to think of ways to lift each others spirits. Use humor and love to reverse the feelings of sadness. Let this be a healing rather than hurting experience. “This too shall pass” and you’ll wonder how you ever got through it. But the Good News is that you will get through it. No matter what you feel like or what the situation looks like, KNOW that you will recover. This will make you a better person and lover of yourself and your new special perso in your life. i know you would never want to make anyone feel the way you’ve felt. So respond ot life in a very positive and happy manner. Love and Peace will prevail always

  75. Justin Breiner on February 4th, 2009 10:32 am

    I have a hard time feeling anything anymore…the only thing that I do know is that I feel broken. My last relationship ended over a year ago. I really did love her…but the feeling apparently wasn’t mutual. We were pseudo engaged…nothing official but we had discussed marriage as a desire in our lives. The ending of the relationship was a hard one for me. She really was my best friend. I eventually “thought” that I got over it and healed. I even, a few months ago, got the closure that I felt that I needed. I know that she really really loves the man she’s with now and I think that’s what hurts me the most…the fact that I’ve never felt that kind of love towards me. The only comfort that I have and only refuge is Christ. When I feel like I do now he is the only thing that can even begin to heal my broken heart. I guess my question is…what am I not doing? I feel the healing of Christ when I need it most…but I never truly feel healed. I don’t have any spiritual doubts…I know Christ is my Lord and Savior…and the only true path in this world. Is there any advice that anyone can give me? It really is difficult…I start to develop feelings for other women…but I just can’t explain what happens next…I just fade. The only thing that I can think of is that I need to feel that kind of love that was lacking from my last relationship…but if I can’t find it in myself to be in another relationship…what then? Please…any advice would be appreciated.

  76. Kayla on February 11th, 2009 10:05 am

    I was with my bf for 3 years. 5 months ago he broke up with me. He told me I’ll never make him happy. The Sunday befor the paster told us you find happiness in God alone. We haven’t talked in 5 months. I see him everyday of my life. I know this man loves me. We have had so many problems because of drugs. I know he left me to drink and get high. He lost so much weight I think he is back on coke too. This man was a youth paster. I can’t believe he picked that dark life over me. I don’t know if I should break the silence by telling him I love him and am praying for him or let him go? I just don’t want this for his life!

  77. Nancy on February 17th, 2009 12:27 am

    I hear so many speaking such saddness. I want you to know there is true hope out there. I have a friend who has been married for 16 years. They have been good years until the last year. She told me that she discovered that he was cheating on her through phone records. She has taught me something greater about love.

    They have discussed it, and he is going through the sacrament of penance and they are NOT giving up. For the last two weeks, they have spent a lot of time together rebuilding there marriage. Neither wanted to give each other up nor the marriage. It has reminded me of God’s love. Her love for him is so deep that she is willing to bear the burden with him and forgive. Most would say she is silly, but I can only see the willingness to understand and forgive. I hope one day to experience a love where we are willing to forgive at an extreme cost.

    They are trying very hard to work it out. She said each day gets easier to forgive and move on.

  78. JuzMe on February 18th, 2009 1:02 am

    I’m going through a heart break right now that really hurts because the relationship ended abruptly, without an explanation and if anything, just a series of mixed messages. The thing that’s really hard to shake off and that makes me wonder if it gets easier or harder the more time passes is that it really felt orchestrated by God how we met, everything. I don’t claim that for every dating relationship I’ve been in. Actually, this is the first time I’ve thought this and felt what I’ve felt for this man. I now know that it was for a season because I think the guy’s freewill just didn’t choose what God seemed to set up for us, but the thing I’m wondering is….

    the reason I had faith in the relationship’s future, or at least prayed the most I have and trusted God to proceed at the risk of getting hurt (knowing he would heal me),… is simply the fact that it seemed God was directing the way we got to know each other. I felt more secure in this because everytime I asked God for guidance, He would show me His hand in various situations for His glory. I don’t have faith in and sometimes really just want to avoid going on dating sites or going online period to meet men because it does not seem organic enough for me. I want to rely on God in the same way He led me to meet this man. It was worth the wait. I just was not expecting it to end so soon and the way it did. I know with God all things are possible and although I am not setting my heart to believe it, if it’s God’s will God can put 2 people back together… BUT…. I can’t put my faith in that right now…. so right now, I’m convinced to go back to just waiting again. Go back to just focusing on Him rather than meeting other guys because I just hate casual dating, think it’s a waste of time and money and feel a pit in my stomach when I think about it.

    In the process of healing, do you all think this attitude is healthy or unhealthy?

  79. Tracy on February 20th, 2009 3:08 am

    Im no expert, and you probably wanted an expert opinion, but based on the pain Ive experienced by not waiting, waiting on God sounds spiritually healthy and like the best way to go for me. This whole relationship thing is so hard. Yet, with everything else. I pray and wait on God and he has met my needs, but with relationships I try to take into my own hands. There have been women at my church who I have seen just go about their business of serving God, and these are the same women who tell me that they werent thinking about dating or marriage. Yet, they are now married. In knowing these women, prior to marriage, they appeared to be (only God knows their hearts) all about Christ and content in their singlehood. They had their own ministies in the church. They were not over the top gorgeous, and didnt seem to spend a lot of effort in the mirror and shopping. For me, I think that I have to put God first in my life. And live to fulfill Gods plan, for his glory. And when I do, if and when it is his will he will open that door. Only God knows why he puts some people together and who he keeps single. Since I wrote the above comment, Ive been sticking close to a sister in Christ (shes had a similar experience), and we build each other up to feeling good about where God has us now “single”.

  80. Deborah on February 21st, 2009 5:13 am

    I just wanted to share me experience. I was single for many years. I was very devoted to God. I keep praying for God to send me someone. I did have different chances. I was very firm that they had to serve & be a believer in God. I got weary & ended up marry a man that I knew when I was 15 years old. This man was a real charmer & very good to me at first, but that was not his true colors. His true colors we he had no morals, no character, & no integrity. He said that he grew up Catholic so thought that he would start going to church with me, but that never happen. This man put me through a lot of pain & suffering. He got into drugs & cheated by having extramarital affairs. He had women over when I was not there. He had many demons that he was fighting: Porn, drugs, alcohol, & very mentally/verbally abusive. He even burnt all my clothes. he has kicked me & our baby out numerous time so that he could have his freedom. Please wait on God to bring you the right person! I know the pain that comes from being lonely/single hurts, but the pain of going through a bad marriage & divorce is far more serve. It is very painful. I don’t believe in divorce but I can’t keep going through this heartache with a man that keeps cheating. Plus not to mention there are too many diseases out there. I have a son to raise now as a single mother.

  81. Jessica on February 22nd, 2009 6:11 am

    Dear peeps,
    I’m fifteen and have previously never had a relationship with a guy before. I have felt so needy the last past year or so now though and really wanted someone to care about me and love me. And then my dream came true… I lovely wonderful amazing 16 year old guy told me that he loved me and wanted to have a relationship with me. My parents are against having relationships so young, so I agreed secretly. This was all on msn btw. So…. anyways we were planning to get together as soon as possible and he was gonna kiss me on the lips and show me how he loved me. I felt so wonderful. At peace!!!! We talked stacks on msn coz we don’t get to see each other that often and I thought really got to know him. Then I found out that he had another girl friend and everything he sayed to me he also says to her. I feel absolutely desolate, broken, and pulled to pieces by the only person I have ever trusted. I haven’t said anything to him yet, he doesn’t even know that I know!!! I’m gonna tell him soon that it is sooo over between us, and I need help to know what to do??? My heart is rendered in two!! I could of done things with him that I could never get back. I am just so glad that I didn’t see him and so have had physical attatchment as well as emotional to deal with. Am I supposed to forgive the jerk???? Deep down I still almost feel like I love him….. but I know that’s stupid… plz help me….

  82. kd on February 25th, 2009 4:42 pm

    Im a 35 year old single mom who has been praying for the right man to come along since before my son was born more than 12 years ago. In the last 12+ years I have been involved with one man, and that lasted for just under a year. That was 5 years ago. We broke up on my 30th birthday. A month later I lost my job, had to pull my son out of private school, sell my home and file for bankruptcy. when it rains it pours, doesnt it? I spent about 2 months laying in bed crying. I found another job, but was very unhappy. I felt that God was leading me back to college, so my son and I moved back into my parents home, I left my job and went back to school. Not long ago, I fell in love with a professor. Of course, I did not let him or anyone else know and have not seen him since my class with him ended in December. It is possible for me to end up in one of his classes again. I would really just like to move on and am seeking guidance and friendly support. I also have to wonder why we sometimes fall for the wrong person. It is so painful and I feel so stupid all the time. Im in love with him.

  83. Ryan on February 25th, 2009 7:31 pm

    I just got out of a Relationship with someone that i loved very much and she was the first person i actually truly fell in love with she even went to my church and i thought she was perfect for me but she left me for someone else and this other person isn’t a Christian and I thought if she is a Christian why would she leave me for someone that isn’t? I am very heart broken I don’t know what to do or think and its like i don’t want to see her yet i do and i can’t help seeing her if she continues to go to my church i see her there. Can anyone give me some advice what i should do and how to get over my heart brokenness

  84. Kelele on March 30th, 2009 8:31 am

    I prayed and fasted for about 5 years for my future husband. When he finally did arrive, our relationship did not even last 6 months. I would like to know if I prayed wrong, wasn’t he the one I had prayed for or did I miss God. I was so shattered that I stopped going to church and wandered off into the world where I met a man with whom I had a child. I am disillusioned with God, I am hurt to the deepest part of my soul. Why did God send him if he wasn’t the one for me? Is it possible to pray for someone who doesn’t even know that he has been chosen for you? How do I recover? How do I start to believe God again when he took away the desires of my heart?

  85. Neil on May 6th, 2009 9:20 am

    Wow! I just happened to be looking around christian websites and stumbled on this blog. Just reading all these stories about heartbreak and pain has helped me in my healing process. I fell in love with a non christian woman (she’s 37, I’m 46). She’s into smoking marijuana and drinks heavily & I was hoping she would change her ways for me. Wrong! However, there is no animosity between us and we remain friends. I now know that I should wait on God for a Christian woman and ultimately a wife.
    I agree with so many of the people here that it’s difficult to be patient in waiting for the Lord to send us our hearts’ desires. It’s so easy to turn away from Him because we may be feeling lonely and need a loving partner. I gave in to my desires instead of guarding my heart and paid the price of heartbreak. Thankfully, God has eased the burden and I have gained new strength in walking with Jesus.
    In the end we all need to hang on to Him no matter what we go through. Even though it causes confusion, pain and massive heartache as so many of you have felt, in the end God has a purpose for all our lives. Keep going everyone, hang on to Jesus by your fingernails if necessary!
    To Kelele, if you happen to come back to this blog again. The only advice I can give you is that recovery starts on your knees in prayer and a whole lot of tears.

  86. Matshepo on June 18th, 2009 12:33 pm

    I just broke of with my boyfriend of 3 months, the reason we broke up is that I asked him about the plans of our relationship and he said that he doesn’t want to get married nor commit himself. What was I supposed to do? hang in that relationship for the fear of been lonely? or hope that someday he’ll come around? I am still confused and I feel as if I rushed him or asked many questions in a short period of time…… I mean if he doesn’t want to commit himself in our relationship, what am I still doing in the relationship? I am not in a rush to get married but I need to feel that I am in a stable relationship, where I will feel safe and secured.

  87. nathan beck on June 28th, 2009 2:10 pm

    i caught my girlfriend cheating on me with one of friends..they did say that before they were about to have intercourse, they thought ‘what were doin is wrong…we shouldnt be doin this’…i walked in my this time, screamed a little, but mostly couldnt stop crying…this morn my gf(now ex) said she wants to be free and isnt ready for commitment…we went for a walk, and sat on the beach, she cried her eyes out for ages, and said shes so sorry..i didnt know it was possible to feel this kind of pain..its so intense…i dont know what to do…help me please….

  88. Emily F on July 4th, 2009 7:47 pm

    I was seeing someone, and I really cared for him. even though many things were against our relationship (family, and age factor), but he promised me things would work… and I gave it a go. Then he cheated on me… and even after blamed me for it… saying I should have walked out if I knew something might happen… and still after pretendned to be with me, while at the same time tryin to win this other girl over. Now… Im so angry after finding out, and I really want to destroy him for what he’s done… and I hate feeling this way… Its like after everything I tried and prayed for… he’s getting what he wants… and Im left with nothing. I dont know what to do anymore… cant pray.. because I dont know what to say anymore and I really dont feel like God is listening or cares about me. People will say I should be glad to have an abusive and cheating man out of my life… but… even though he switched off easily from me… I cared about him and it hurts that after everything, he does this…

  89. Rina- 21 yrs on July 8th, 2009 2:35 am

    I don’t know what to do!!!
    I broke up with my bf of 1 and a half years because we were getting intimate and i didn’t want to displease God. However, 3 months later, i got with a guy-who was my friend of six months[i did have a liking for him, but initially, it wasn't my intention to be with him]. Nevertheless, it only lasted 2 months- he broke it off{his excuse was just incomprehensible}. I was greatly heartbroken. Remembering it, brings back the literal feelings that i felt then. Hypertension, dizziness, lack of appetite…death{you know}. Well, i really loved him, and seeing that we were at school- seeing him every day, just didn’t help. Worst of all- i lost weight and i had to lie to family and friends about the reason why i got smaller.
    Well, for seven months i prayed to God to bring us back together. I also told God to let his will be done nonetheless. But deep down, i wanted MY will to be His.
    It so happens that he came back, naturally i gladly accepted! Now, we’re together. But, it is not what i dreamed it to be! His intention is to be with me up to being married! I’d like that…but, i don’t feel it! I haven’t been happy since we got back together because he’s continually ignoring my needs as his girlfriend and he is too friendly with the females he encounters, it’s like i no longer exist, because i receive little attention from him. Sometimes i feel as if I’m just a “trophy girlfriend’. We’re both Christians- I believe that God is trying to teach me a lesson. I really need some advice!!!! I wanna break it off, but i don’t believe I’ll survive mentally…
    I feel sometimes that he intentionally tries to make me jealous when he’s giving those girls so much attention when we’re together, he doesn’t even introduce me as his girlfriend to his female friends, only to the males. Well, he doesn’t introduce me period to his female friends!!!! ??????
    I have guy friends, but i don’t talk to them much because i know he’ll feel jealous i feel so dumb! It’s like destroying my life for his sake., and receiving little to nothing in the return.
    I don’t believe he’s mature enough to handle a girlfriend his “rookiness” brings me daily pain! I say that I love him, but, this can’t be love! I can’t even trust him!! I believe it’s love, i don’t know!!
    Please- What do you think?
    What’s God answer to this strange relationship that I’m in?

  90. Christian sister on July 28th, 2009 9:27 am

    I’m a 30year old woman, I am getting confused now. Do i have to consider being with a man who loves me with all his heart and soul(and waited for the last 12years) but i still don’t ? Its scares me to think I would never find a love like his or lose a friend like him.
    we are long time friends since childhood and we had kept distance after i learned he was in love. we recently started meeting again and he’s still completely in love and extremely vulnerable. I have no idea what to do. I’m gonna break his heart again. Will it help him if i be with him for awhile?

  91. Wayne on August 4th, 2009 2:40 pm

    I loved a girl who was broken up with her Ex. In her broken heart time, i accompanied with her and went to travel. At last, i found i love her. Unfortunately, she still loved her Ex, even that guy did many thing to hurt her. She still keeps loving him. When i tried to told her the reality, she became to hate me. I gave her too much thing, include love. i feel pain, can’t sleep. this sad experience have effected my work and study. Last week, i went to church and prayed. At that time, i felt much better. But the problem is still here. i can’t avoid the contact with her, because she’s my classmate and workmate in a department of hospital. It’s a hardest thing to letting go. But i’m still keeping pray to God to healing my broken heart. I tried to believe God have prepare a life to enjoy. i will meet the right one can go together through all my life and can give me a warm family.

  92. Jodi on August 4th, 2009 4:44 pm

    Dear Christian Sister,

    I can hear from your comments that you care deeply for this person and do not want to see him hurt. Love is something you have to feel in order to be in a relationship. Otherwise you are not being fair to either of you. It is very tempting for you to want to try to reutrn his feelings. He is obviously a dear friend, you enjoy spending time together and there isn’t much more appealing than a man who loves us with all his heart.

    Even if you were with him for a while, it would be more upsetting for both of you when things didn’t work out. I know you must feel like this may be your only opportunity to have a man that is so devoted to you. God has a perfect plan for you. Try to have faith. If you do not have feelings for this man and it just doesn’t feel right, that may be the Holy Spirit trying to guide you. Spend some time along with God where you can really quite your heart and your soul. Ask him to reveal to you His will in this situation. Open your heart and He will pour Himself into it and you will know what is right,

    God Bless, Jodi
    Christian Singles Blog Moderator

  93. Hope on August 6th, 2009 4:34 pm

    Wayne,

    I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year. I loved him very much and I am heartbroken and it is affecting all aspects of my life as well. I pray but it still comes up. What have you been doing to get you through the days?

  94. Dad of 4 boys on August 13th, 2009 4:45 am

    The short of it is that my wife of 17 years woke me up last spring and said she wanted a divorce, that she needed to find her happiness. I have tried to work things out, Marrage retreats, Counseling, “us time”, and lots of prayer. She has moved out and I have filed for divorce. No fighting or anger. Saddness: yes. Confussion: big YES. I have the boys and everything else, she just wants to be “free”. If I did not have a good relation with Jesus and a great men’s group at my church this could easily be un-bareable. I hurt bad, like when my father passed away and when a friend and Team mate of mine was murdered. With God’s help I’ll make it and raise my boys well. I have to failure is not an option. She’s a good woman and I pray she finds what she needs.

  95. David on August 14th, 2009 5:56 pm

    Dear brother, I am praying for you as you mend your broken heart. You may want to check out some of articles on single christian parenting on this site…

    Pastor David
    http:/oasis-church-nj.com-
    -Moderator at Christian Dating Service Plus!

  96. Marcell on August 16th, 2009 11:05 am

    Just looking for some sound advice here. I am currently on deployment and am really in need of some help out here! I’ve been staying in the word and have been steadfast in prayer. Well recently I was engaged to a very great gal and have broken up. We both met each other before I started going to church and gave my life to Christ. We were living together and indulging in our flesh. After some time I realized that what I was doing was wrong and to try and make things “ok” I asked her to marry me. We decided to get married this last June. In May just before I left for a one month out to sea period she called me and asked me to come see her. When I got to her house she said she was leaving and I watched her drive away in this truck with these two guys. Well when I got back from my underway I went home on leave for a couple weeks and my little sister passed away. To top it off I found out through a friend that my ex-fiancﾃｩe was pregnant. Well July came around and I gave into temptation and started talking to her again. We decided to work things out and I was going to slowly let her back in. She ended up having a miscarriage a week before I left for deployment. She kept telling me that she wanted to work things out and that she’d be there for me when I got back from deployment and how we were going to fix things and everything was going to be peachy! Well six days out to sea her sister sends me an email describing how my fiancﾃｩe moved out and moved back in with the guy she cheated on me with. So I have just been totally confused. I know I need to move on I’m not completely naive. I know that this is the Lord’s will and if it is His will for me to be married He will send me a Godly righteous woman who will push me to do more for the Lord and not hold me back. I just keep thinking about her and I have heard from some of her friends that she is doing drugs again and living her old lifestyle. I care about her even though I know in my heart I need to let it go and move on. I am wondering if I should even be praying for her. A part of me hopes that one day she’ll turn away from her sins and realize what she is doing but until then I know that I need to focus on the Lord. I am in so much hurt right now especially because I am stuck on this ship and I don’t have too many people to talk to about this. I keep giving it to the Lord but I still find myself with many thoughts about her and I have cut every tie to her. Even if I wanted to talk to her I couldn’t. Somebody that knows her got my email somehow and started emailing me. I don’t know if it’s the enemy trying to confuse me or not but I asked her to please leave me alone because I really don’t know what to do. Thank you for your time. Pray for me!

  97. Liz on August 18th, 2009 2:46 am

    My Fiance left me the beginning of November. We dated for 2 years and were engaged for 4 months. He just all of a sudden told me he felt like it was not God’s plan for us to be together, He said I did nothing wrong. My heart aches so much. I miss him. He was my best friend, and I loved him so much. Please pray that God would heal my heart. Sometimes I feel like I go two steps forward then 3 steps back. I just wanna move on and see what God has in store for me!

  98. Stephanie on August 18th, 2009 3:12 pm

    For the last 5 and a half years, I have dated a married man. We fell in deep love with one another; however, he stayed married. I didn’t think that he was with his wife sexually nor planning a future with her; but, over the years, he had done things like giving her the same gifts that he gave me, taking her places we went, etc. We worked together for a while and I invested a lot ($200K+) into his business and lost it all. We still stayed together. He lied to me a lot, more than I could describe in 100 pages. I felt this supernatural forgiveness for him each time. I thought we were soul mates for real.
    He is just now starting his divorce even though he told me time and again he was doing it and even told me a month ago that it was done. He wants to marry me as soon as it is finalized. What is going on now is that I am so angry with him for all of this deceit and lies over all the years. One night, I prayed really sincerely that God would shove me hard in the direction I should go with this man. I specifically asked that God make the event so ironic that I would recognize it as from him. The ironic event happened.
    Now the pain of all the years and of the loss of the relationship is overwhelming. He begs and begs to stay together. Says he’s more sorry than he imagined anyone can be. He says that my unforgiving heart is ruining us. I have asked him to go away for a while and let me heal and be good to me from afar. He won’t. He wants us to be together now but I’m just so upset about how everything has happened that I cannot just be an item with him again. On top of all that, my best friend of 10+ years just declared that he loves me and wants to marry me.
    I pray that God will heal my broken heart and show me what to do. I’m so confused about what God is telling me to do even though every one around me says that God is obviously telling me to get away from the man and be with my best friend.
    —Please pray for me. I’m a new Christian and if I am involved in some kind of spiritual warfare that is creating this unforgiveness or confusion, pray that I can handle it and do God’s will for me and my 2 girls.

  99. Alison on August 26th, 2009 1:10 am

    I have no idea how you mend a broken heart other than to give it to God afresh. This is what I’m trying to do. I met my ex-fiance on christian mingle after many years of singleness (13) and it didn’t work out. We were together for 3 years. I was so upset and mad at God that I just thought ‘fine since you don’t care about me or listen to me I’ll do my own thing’. Well that was a stupid way to go. I ended up going abroad to work and meeting a non christian man. We lived and worked together and he told me loved me and wanted to marry me. I thought ‘well why not since God isn’t providing me with any christian husband’. This man turned out to be the possible kind of man. He’s a cheater, liar, con man and violent man. He is also married and lied about that to me. I didn’t marry him obviously but he hurt me very badly and treated me worse than an animal. To make matters worse I am 3 months pregnant by him. I thank God that He shut doors and protected me and got me back home safely but I feel so bad for backsliding so much and now bringing another life into the world in this way. I was a mature christian who let her need and desire for love and companionship take over. My christian friends don’t know what to think of me and I know that they are disappointed in me. I am disappointed in me more than they ever could be. I know church would probably help me but I am too ashamed to attend. I just wish I could turn back the clock.
    I don’t know how to heal but I pray God does and that He hears me. I need Him desperately. I pray too for everyone here that needs his healing and comfort.

  100. Renee' on August 29th, 2009 3:41 am

    Allison, I have been in your shoes! My heart ached when I read your story. You cannot turn back the clock, and you cannot undo your mistakes, but you CAN learn from them! And you ARE worthy to go to church and seek comfort and guidence in this scary and stressful time. You are still loved by God! Your actions have not changed that fact one bit. What your actions did was cause a consequence that is painful. As I write this, I am feeling my very own consequence, and it hurts. I stayed in a relationship with a non-believer for over four years, knowing full well that it wasn’t right. I had absolutely no peace. My relationship with him has recently ended, and I feel lonely, sad and guilty. I also know that I am doing the right thing by letting him go. You did the right thing by getting out of a toxic and abusive relationship. Although you feel disappointed in yourself, but all you can do from this point is move ahead and forgive yourself. Remember to seek out people in your life that will support you, and to avoid people that will just want to condemn you and judge you. You are your own worst judge, and you do not need any more negativity in your life. Embrace the grace that God has for you and move ahead into a new life. Take one day at a time. I know that it is scary, but remember that you are not alone. I myself was seeking solace in my own pain tonight, and when I ran across your post…I was reminded that there are many others out there that have their own hurts as well. God bless you Allison. I pray for health for you and your baby, and healing from the pain of a toxic relationship. -Renee’

  101. Andrew on September 3rd, 2009 7:14 pm

    Dear Alison was just curios about how to mend a broken heart so I read your story, as I to have had a troubled year. On reading your story my heart goes out to you. FOR WE ALL make mistakes, which is why you should remember the story of the prodigal son, yes we feel terrible and ashamed, BUT the Lord loves you beyond measure Alison, his heart is for you not against you. While you were far of he has been looking and waiting for you to return to him. Do not let people who do not understand the Grace of our Lord put you of, seek him and let him bless you, remember God makes the best of every situation. You are wonderfully made,read psalm139, v13–16.
    Seek out and hold onto his Grace he LOVES us more than we can understand. Andrew

  102. Vilmaris on September 3rd, 2009 8:48 pm

    I’ve been broken hearted for a year and 4 months, so far. Depression is taking over, i’m 20 years old with a 2 year old daughter. My daughter father and i been together for four years. Well he cheated on me with a women he barely knew and got her pregnant, and married her. All this happened within a year. Words can’t describe how hurt i was.
    A year past and i’m still reliving everything that happened. The spirit of depression is knocking me down. My heart still is in pain. I want to get out of it but it follows. Its effecting me in many ways. I worry because i have a beautiful little girl i have to take care of. I know that the blood of Jesus heals all. Brothers and Sisters may you pray for me, pray that God may heal me and rescue me from this spirit of depression.
    I Know he Will heal me, i know he”ll work on me.
    Thank You and God Bless You All

  103. Nakia Jordan on September 6th, 2009 2:27 pm

    Marcell,

    I say yes to your question , if you should continue to Pray for your ex-girlfriend…she is standing in the need of prayer, especially if she is doing drugs. I am praying for you for strength, peace and forgiveness. You have to let her go, not because its something you want to do, but because God needs you to step aside and let Him have his way with her. I feel your pain, I have been though a similar situation, except he just didn’t love me the way God did.
    I can understand how lonely it is on a ship and if you need someone to talk to or write to you can write me: Nakia.jordan@yahoo.com
    I have several family members currently in the military and I try to keep their moral up though words and packages. I would be more then happy to send you words of encouragement. Nakia

  104. rein on September 7th, 2009 3:04 am

    My story is a little different. I dated my childhood sweetheart for over 3 years and got pregnant by accident. We got engaged and I was so excited to get married. I asked the Lord for his help, and if this was the man he wanted for me. He opened my eyes and helped me realize that something was off. I pleaded with my fiance, telling him about how i felt. It was then he admitted his addiction to drugs which has been going on throughout the whole relationship. For the safety of my child, myself and in obedience to God, i ended everything. Im left alone, pregnant and with a shattered heart. Can someone tell me something that will help make sense as to why all this is happening in my life?!?!

  105. Dad of 4 boys on September 7th, 2009 4:25 am

    I know I’ll get through this, God works in his own time. But BOY is this rough. I’ve had family members and friends/TEAM mates pass, even murdered. I have never felt the hurt like this before. I deal with people in crisis all the time as a L.E.O and negotiator. None of that has preparied me to be on this end, I pray I’ll be better for it.
    Last week I came onto some information about my wife, I asked her about it and her answers were vauge and re-directing. I may be wrong, but I feel there is more to this than she’s telling me. I did not confront her, just asked. We have not fought even through all this and I want to keep it that way.
    I went home and cried. I’m a fixer, and for about a half an hour all I could do was sit there crying and praying. It had finial hit that the marrage is dead, She really does not want to be my wife or a full time mom to our boys. It hurts bad, but I know God will see us through this.

  106. yan-yan on September 14th, 2009 5:13 am

    Smiling couldn’t hide the pain I feel inside my heart so I try to search for help.

    I loved someone who doesn’t love me at all…. she cheated on me, damp me without saying the truth about her boyfriend and now she got pregnant窶ｦ…

    I don’t know how to forgive her after all she done to me… I loved her before but now I hate her so much… Don’t know how to overcome this pain and heal this broken heart of mine….

    Please help….

  107. Dad of 4 boys on September 14th, 2009 10:09 pm

    Regarding a broken heart, a good friend reminded me that what’s past is in the past and cannot be changed. He made me thing of an old things I have used in dealing with others in crisis: “you can get bitter or you can get better, It’s up to you.” I think God just told me to get better.

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