Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart破碎的心：如何修补心都碎了

68 Responses to “Broken Hearted: How to Mend a Broken Heart” 68答复“残破的心：如何修补心都碎了”

1. Denise Williams on November 29th, 2006 12:56 pm丹尼斯威廉姆斯2006年十一月二十九日下午12时56分
   

   My fiancée cheated on me and got his ex-girlfriend pregnant.我国fiancà © é欺骗了我和他的前女友怀孕了。 I have called off the engagement, but I have so much pain that it seems unbearable.我已经取消了接触，但我有这么多的痛苦，它似乎无法忍受。 Is their someone out their that can help me get through this?是他们自己的人，可以帮助我可以很快渡过这个难关？ I vowed to be celibate until marriage, but I broke my vow of 5 years 5 months into this relationship.我发誓要独身，直到结婚，但我打断了我的誓言5年5个月到这种关系。 I feel so bad…please someone help me.我觉得这样不好...请有人帮助我。
2. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on December 7th, 2006 1:12 am在06年12月7日上午01点12
   

   Dear Denise:亲爱的丹尼斯：

   Sorry that this took so long to get back.对不起，这花那么长时间才回来。 Please know that we have been praying for you.请了解，我们一直在为你祈祷。 Our hearts go out to you in your need.我们的心去你的需要。 Jesus is REALLY the healer of broken hearts.耶稣是真正的医治破碎的心。

   Please know that Jesus looks at your heart, and forgives you completely.请了解，耶稣期待您的心，你完全免除。 He feels and knows your pain, and is here for you.他认为，知道您的痛苦，在这里为你。

   If you would like to talk we our here for you…This is our ministry…If you want a referral please let us know that too, and we will help in that area.如果您想谈一谈我们在这里，我们为您...这是我们的部...如果你想推荐请让我们知道太多，我们将有助于在该地区。
3. Daisy on March 3rd, 2007 5:22 pm菊花在07年3月3日下午5时22分
   

   I’ve been through with so many relationships and all of them hurt me so bad.我已经通过这么多的关系和所有的伤害我如此糟糕。 All my ex-boyfriends had cheated on me.我所有的前男友曾欺骗了我。 I dont understand why my relationships never succeed, and on the other hand, all my ex-boyfriends were married and happy with their family.我不明白为什么我的关系从来没有成功，另一方面，我所有的前男友已经结婚，幸福与他们的家人。 I wonder why I cant be happy…Please help me!我不知道为什么我不能很高兴...请救救我！
4. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on March 25th, 2007 3:34 am在07年3月25日上午03点34分
   

   Dear Sweet Daisy:亲爱的甜菊花：

   You are not to blame that men cheated on you…Go to the Lord even through teasr, and He will meet your needs…He promises!你不是责备，男子骗你的...转到主甚至通过teasr ，他将满足您的需求...他的承诺！ if you need a referral to a great singles group in your area…please let us know..如果您需要转诊到大组单打您的地区...请让我们知道..

   David大卫
5. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on March 25th, 2007 3:35 am在07年3月25日上午03点35
   

   Dear Sweet Daisy:亲爱的甜菊花：

   You are not to blame that men cheated on you…Go to the Lord even through tears, and He will meet your needs…He promises!你不是责备，男子骗你的...转到主甚至通过眼泪，他将满足您的需求...他的承诺！ if you need a referral to a great singles group in your area…please let us know..如果您需要转诊到大组单打您的地区...请让我们知道..

   David大卫
6. maryjane on April 30th, 2007 10:02 am关于2007年4月30日上午10点02
   

   i had a relationship with a guy who was older than me 10 years gap.我有一个关系，一个人谁是比我年长10年的差距。 He cheated on me, we had one kid and I am raising her alone.and with my own support…他骗我，我们有一个孩子，我认识她alone.and我自己的支持...
7. Rachel James on May 7th, 2007 9:57 am雷切尔詹姆斯2007年五月七日上午09时57分
   

   I had an affair with someone else’s fiance and we have been together for about 2 years.我有外遇与别人的未婚夫和我们一直在一起约2年。 He left his fiancee for me and had proposed to me but i’m terrified that he would cheat on me like what he did to his fiancee.他离开他的未婚妻对我来说，并提议给我，但我吓坏了，他会欺骗我想他做过什么，他的未婚妻。 I finally had the courage to put the relationship to an end but it’s hurting me so badly… am i doing the right thing?我终于有勇气把关系结束，但它伤害了我这么严重...我做正确的事情？ pls help me..最小二乘法帮助我..
8. Liz on May 30th, 2007 4:43 pm Liz于二〇 〇七年五月30日下午4时43分
   

   He got on his knees, and cried.他拿起他的膝盖，哭了起来。 He told me he loved me, and that he wanted to marry me.他告诉我他爱我，他想和我结婚。 I’m tired and weak and sometimes feel like just dying.我已经厌倦和软弱的，有时甚至觉得自己只是死亡。 He just left me without saying good-bye.他只是让我说再见。 My heart is shattered into many pieces!!!!!!!!!!!我的心破碎成许多碎片!!!!!!!!!!!
9. Marie Yolanda on June 22nd, 2007 2:36 am马里约兰达在2007年六月22号上午02点36
   

   David,大卫
   This is Marie Yolanda…I didnt get reply on my comment on last Sunday…I e-mailed Helen in My Space to expose the person she is pregnant with now..but she has not read it yet…这是马里约兰达...我没有得到我的答复意见上周日...我电子邮件海伦在我国航天，揭露的人，她是怀着现在..但她还没有阅读它尚未...
10. stacey on July 4th, 2007 8:54 pm斯泰西在2007年7月4日下午8点54分
    

    i was living with my boyfriend and all of a sudden , he said he sees me as a room mate so he can have relationships with other women.我的生活跟我男朋友和突然，他说，他认为我作为一个房间队友，这样他可以有与其他妇女。 I am a Christian and I want to live holy in Gods sight, he just wants to live together and do whatever he wants.我是一个基督徒，我要活在上帝神圣的视线，他只是希望能在共同生活和做任何他想做的。 Please pray for me, that God will help me and change this situation, I love him a lot, but I love Jesus more.请为我祈祷，上帝会帮助我，并改变这种状况，我爱他很多，但我更爱耶稣。 Brokenhearted and hurting in Houston, Texas Brokenhearted和伤害在得克萨斯州休斯敦
11. venus on July 19th, 2007 2:44 pm维纳斯在07年7月19号下午2点44分
    

    I was recently engaged (shortly) to a guy who was my best friend of 5 years and we have to children together.最近我参与（短期内）的家伙谁是我最好的朋友5年，我们必须儿童在一起。 Well after much longing praying, God’s answer for us was no.井后，很多渴望祈祷，上帝的答案，我们没有。 God revealed this man’s heart to me and it wasn’t the heart I thought I knew.上帝透露这个人的心，我并没有心脏病我想我知道。 My brokenness comes from feeling as if I have invested in something that no longer exists, my son is being raised by a single parent, and the devastation I feel knowing that he is still seeing the woman he cheated on me with and all the while sending me我国brokenness来自感觉如果我有投资的东西不再存在，我的儿子正在提出的单亲家庭，和破坏我觉得知道，他仍然看到了他是个骗子女人对我和所有的同时发送我 love poems爱情诗 and telling me he wants our family back.并告诉我，他希望我们的家人回来。 Knowing the truth about someone doesn’t make the pain go away.了解真相的人不会使疼痛消失。
12. bluesky19822007 on July 25th, 2007 4:50 pm bluesky19822007关于2007年七月二十五日下午4点50
    

    My我的 boyfriend cheated on me男友骗我 . 。 We were together for 1 year and 5 months.我们在一起1年5个月。 Now, i just knew that he had an affair with another girl when we’re 3 months in a relationship.现在，我只知道，他已经外遇与另一个女孩时，我们3个月的关系。 the girl got pregnant and delivered her baby girl.女孩怀孕并交付她的女婴。 I was betrayed and felt bad.我是背叛，感觉不好。 I don’t know how to react I have mix emotions.我不知道如何作出反应我已经混合的感情。 i don’t know how to deal with this.我不知道如何处理这个问题。 This is the second time a man betrayed and fooled me.这是第二次一个人背叛和欺骗了我。 Don’ti deserve to be happy once and for all?看值得高兴一劳永逸？
13. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on July 25th, 2007 5:17 pm关于2007年7月25日下午5点17分
    

    Dear Bluesky:亲爱的蓝天：

    A broken heart is NEVER easy to deal with, and we have many praying for you.心都碎了是不容易对付，我们有许多为你祈祷。 I firmly believe God will lead you to the right person, as long as you follow His will, and not your own.我坚信上帝会引导你的权利人，只要你按照他的意志，而不是自己的。 In order to avoid another broken heart, we suggest seeking out trusted Christian advice from friends who know you well before making another dating decision.为了避免再破碎的心，我们建议寻找值得信赖的基督教朋友的意见谁知道你之前再次约会的决定。 God bless you and hang in there.上帝保佑你，挂在那里。 You are worth it!你是值得的！
14. Jea on July 29th, 2007 7:27 am Jea对07年7月29日上午07时27分
    

    I’ma Christian and my is boyfriend is the son of a pastor.我是一个基督徒，我是男朋友的父亲是一名牧师。 We have been together for 4 years but recently just this month he told me he got another girl pregnant, and I am hurting until now because he is my first bf and I thought he will be my last.我们已经在一起4年，但最近这个月刚刚他告诉我他另一个女孩怀孕，我伤害到现在，因为他是我第一次BF和我认为他将是我最后一次。 What is the right thing for me to do?什么是正确的事情，我该怎么办呢？ He said I am the one he really loves, and that he was just tempted.他说，我就是他真的爱，他只是诱惑。 How can I forget him?如何才能忘记他？ Should I accept him again?我应该接受他吗？ I’m really confuse, please help.我真的迷惑，请帮助。 Do you think it’s better if I move on now?你认为如果我更好地前进呢？
15. kelly on August 7th, 2007 12:14 pm凯利在07年八月7日下午12时14分
    

    I HAVE BEEN HURT ONCE IN A RELATIONSHIP.I PRAYED FOR THE HEALING.BUT FROM THEN NO ONE HAS EVER COME ON MY WAY.AM A FAITHFUL SERVANT HAVE PRAYED AND FASTED,REPENTED OF KNOWN AND UNKNOWN SINS YET NO ANSWER FOR A GODLY SPOUSE AM WONDERING DID GOD COMPLETELY FORGOT ME.我已经伤害一旦在A RELATIONSHIP.I祈祷的HEALING.BUT从那时起从来没有人来对我WAY.AM的忠实仆人有祈祷和禁食，忏悔的已知和未知的罪孽还没有答案一虔诚的配偶10:00不知道没有神完全忘记了我。 PLEASE HELP AM DESPARATE FOR GOD TO ANSWER请帮助我绝望的神来回答
16. Bianca on August 16th, 2007 6:34 am比安卡的二○○七年八月16日上午06时34
    

    My ex-fiance broke up with me and I found out just recently that after we broke up he slept with this girl whom I suspected before that he was cheating on me with but swears he stopped talking to after I found out about them talking and now got her pregnant.我的前未婚夫打破了我，我发现，最近刚刚经过我们打破了他同睡这个女孩，我怀疑在此之前，他是欺骗我，但他发誓不再交谈后，我发现他们现在谈论让她怀孕了。 He still tells me I am his true love.他还告诉我，我感到他的真正的爱情。 Even calls me his wife.即使是我呼叫他的妻子。 He says he never meant for this to happen and he was actually getting ready to move back with me when he found out this girl got pregnant.他说，他从来就不是要做到这一点，他实际上是准备搬回我当他发现这个女孩怀孕。 Now it feels that my world was crushed.现在认为，我的世界被撞碎。 I am devastated and very hurt.我遭到破坏和受到极大伤害。 How do you deal with this??你怎么处理呢？ ？
17. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on August 21st, 2007 10:32 pm在07年八月21日下午10点32分
    

    Dear Jea:亲爱的Jea ：

    We are praying for your broken heart…The Lord is the Great Healer so you are in good hands.我们为您祈祷破碎的心...上帝是伟大的医治，让您处于良好的手中。 If your如果您的 cheating boyfriend作弊的男朋友 did this to you before you are married, do you really think he would be faithful in marriage?这样做是为了你面前你结婚了，你真的认为他将忠实的婚姻？ I think you know what to do.我想你知道该怎么办。

    Kelly:凯利：

    We know that我们知道， waiting on God等待上帝 is never easy, but always worth.绝非易事，但总是价值。 Please hang in there, because He really does make all things beautiful in His time..In the meantime, check out the advice in the above link.请挂在那里，因为他确实尽一切美好的事物在他的时间..在此同时，检查的意见在上述链接。

    Praying for you,为你祈祷，

    David大卫
18. Mrs Terry on September 12th, 2007 8:33 am陈特里在2007年9月12日上午08时33分
    

    ((((Dear God, I Pray for Broken Hearts, To Be Healed. God I do not know how fix broken heart, But you do Jesus… In The Name Of jesus Christ I Pray. Amen)) Pray for a Revival. Please pray for my safety. Please pray for the USA. Please keep praying for my Families,Friends and Neighbors. （ （ （ （亲爱的上帝，我祈祷残破的心，为了治愈的。上帝，我不知道如何修复破碎的心，但你...耶稣的名义耶稣基督我祈祷。阿门） ）祈祷复兴。请祈祷我的安全。请祈祷美国。请为我祈祷的家庭，朋友和邻居。
19. Broker Hearted on September 13th, 2007 9:04 pm经纪人心在2007年9月13日下午9点04分
    

    I’m so broken hearted right now that I can barely even breath.我很破碎心现在，我几乎连呼吸。 I stood side by side with my girlfriend for 18 months while her son underwent chemotherapy for his cancer.我站在并排跟我女朋友18个月，而她的儿子接受化疗的癌症。 I loved this woman and always ensure she had a home to lay her head and food for her and her child to eat.我爱这个女人和她始终确保了家庭奠定她的头和食物，她和她的孩子吃。 I caught her cheating and the sad part is that she had her brother tell me that me and her were over.揪住她的欺骗和可悲的是，她哥哥告诉我，我和她已经过去。 She didn’t even have the decency to say thank you.她甚至没有了庄重地说谢谢。 I’ve been sick throwing up and not eating for the last 4 days.我一直生病扔了，而不是吃的最后4天。 It pains me to write this.这令我写这篇文章。 I am a man I am suppose to be much stronger than this.我一个人，我猜想要远高于此。 I gave this woman half of what I had.我给了这个女人的一半是我了。 And the only reason I say half is because we were not married yet.和唯一的原因我要说的一半，是因为我们还没有结婚。 I’m completely devastated and I don’t know how to move on.我完全破坏，我不知道如何继续前进。
20. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on September 14th, 2007 12:12 pm关于2007年9月14号下午12时12分
    

    Mrs. Terry- What a beautiful prayer!特里夫人，真是一个美丽的祷告！

    Dear Broken Hearted:亲爱的残破的心：

    My heart goes out to you!我的心出门给你！ Remember, there is no burden to great Jesus can not heal.请记住，没有任何负担，伟大的耶稣不能愈合。 He is close to the broken hearted because those are the kinds of folks He is looking for.他是接近破碎心，因为这些种类的人，他正在寻找。 Those are not just word but the living truth.这些不仅是字，但生活的真理。 If you have accepted Christ Jesus as Lord and Saviour, I’m going to ask you to surrender all of this to Him Leave it with Him, everything, and let’s see what our God can do.如果你已接受耶稣基督作为上帝和救世主，我要请你交出所有这一切都为他离开这与他一切，让我们看看我们的上帝可以做。 We are praying for you.我们为你祈祷。 Sounds like you may need to talk to someone for encouragement and perspective on your broken heart.听起来像是你可能需要交谈的人的鼓励和观点在您的心都碎了。 Email us and we will contact you.发邮件给我们，我们将与您联系。

    David大卫
21. Bella Broken on September 17th, 2007 2:44 am贝拉残破的2007年9月17日上午02点44分
    

    I met my ex-fiance off of a Christian dating site.我认识了我的前未婚夫从一个基督徒交友网站。 I believed with all of my heart that he was my soulmate.我相信所有的我的心，他是我的soulmate 。 We shared the same passion for God, the same thirst for His Truth, and many, many interests.我们有着相同的热情上帝，同样渴求他的真相，以及许多利益。 I never felt so connected to a man in my life.我从来不觉得这样连接到一个男人在我的生活。 We had a long distance relationship, which was pure bliss.我们有很长的距离关系，这是纯粹的幸福。 We wanted to do everything God’s way and we put Him first in our relationship.我们要尽一切上帝的方式，我们让他第一次在我们之间的关系。 Then he moved from his state to be close to me.然后，他从他的国家将接近我。 We got engaged.我们得到了参与。 Things began to crumble immediately.事情开始立即崩溃。 It didn’t take long for me to realize that he was very selfish, defensive, and worst of all, dishonest.没有多久，我认识到，他很自私，防御性的，和最糟糕的是，不诚实的。 I was so crushed.我是如此粉碎。 Praise Jesus for showing me the meaning of Christlike Love and thank God for removing the blinders from my eyes.赞美耶稣表现出我的意思Christlike爱和感谢上帝消除blinders从我的眼睛。 And now I just trust in Him to heal my broken heart…现在，我只是信任他医治我破碎的心...
22. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on September 19th, 2007 6:38 pm在07年九月19号下午6时38分
    

    Dear Bella:亲爱的贝拉：

    I am so sorry.我很抱歉。 We are praying for your broken heart.我们正在祈祷的心都碎了。
23. ValeyRose on October 3rd, 2007 11:09 am ValeyRose关于2007年十月3号上午11点09分
    

    Hi, I am broken hearted with my first boyfriend (my only boyfriend)..We were engaged..您好，我破碎的心我的第一个男朋友（我唯一的男友） ..我们从事.. . 。 He broke me up for not so valid reasons….他打破了我不那么正当的理由... 。 I ‘ve experienced great pain that I wanted to die.我已经经历了巨大痛苦，我想死。 My life is not the same anymore..I am also a Christian but because of that pain, It made me a different person, it made me bitter.我的生活是不一样了..我还一个基督徒，但由于疼痛，它让我变了一个人，它使我痛苦。 The worst thing is that my life was destroyed…..It’s hard for me to trust guys anymore…especially Christian guys…Just last month we talked and found out that ever since we broke up he don’t have any girlfriend and told me that he had regrets when he left me…I never had a boyfriend after he left…Even though I am so hard, I still prayed to God for His will…Pls.最糟糕的是，我的生活被摧毁... ..这是我很难再信任的球员...尤其是基督教家伙...就在上个月，我们谈论和发现，自从我们分手，他没有任何的女朋友，并告诉我说，他感到遗憾时，他离开我...我从来没有男朋友后，他离开...虽然我很努力，我仍向上帝祷告，他将... 84692418 。 help me…e-mail me if possible…I really need Godly advice.帮助我...电子邮件箱如果可能的话...我真的需要敬虔的意见。 I know God will use you..我知道上帝会使用你..
24. james on October 12th, 2007 5:36 am詹姆斯2007年10月一十二日上午05点36分
    

    Please help me cause iI’m so broken hearted cause my girl friend and i broke up I love here so much, but iIdont know what to do please help me.请帮我做事业iI'm打破我的心造成的女朋友和我分手我爱这里这么多，但iIdont知道该怎么做，请帮助我。 Thanks.谢谢。 I hope God listens to my prayer.我希望上帝听我的祈祷。
25. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on October 13th, 2007 8:29 pm关于二〇 〇七年10月13号下午8时29分
    

    Dear ValeyRose:亲爱的ValeyRose ：

    We recommend going together for Christian counseling.我们建议将共同为基督教辅导。 You can find one on this site.你可以找到一个关于这个站点。 I am praying for you, and remember..God builds on the ashes…Your life is not destroyed after a broken heart.我为你祈祷，并记住..上帝基础上的灰烬...您的生活是不能被破坏后，心都碎了。
26. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on October 13th, 2007 8:29 pm关于二〇 〇七年10月13号下午8时29分
    

    Dear James:亲爱的詹姆斯：
    eMail us for one on one help.电子邮件给我们的一对一的帮助。
27. Nicola on October 24th, 2007 12:20 pm尼古拉在2007年一十〇月24日下午12点二十
    

    My fiance just recently went to Europe backpacking with a mate.我的未婚夫刚刚到欧洲背包一个伴侣。 He really was the man of my dreams, I knew that he was something special and I trusted him completely.他真的是男人，我的梦想，我知道他有点特别，我完全相信他。 I was a little unsure of him going only 4 months before our wedding but he assured me that I could completely trust him and he would never do anything to hurt me.我有点不确定他会只有4个月前我们的婚礼，但他向我保证，我可以完全信任他，他决不会做任何事情来伤害我。 However 2 and a half weeks into the trip I got a call from him telling me that he did something he really regretted.然而2周半的行程我打电话，他告诉我，他做了他真的很遗憾。 He told me that he had ended up going to a strip club and became quite intimate with a boy.他告诉我，他已经结束了去脱衣舞俱乐部，并成为非常亲密的男孩。 I was shocked, I never expected that from him, we had been dating for over 6 years and I knew that he was not like that.我感到很震惊，我从来没有想到，从他，我们已经约会了超过6年，我知道他不喜欢这一点。 Anyway he told me he was going to come home straight away because he felt so bad.反正他告诉我他要回来马上因为他觉得太糟糕。 So he came back, but only to tell me that it went further and that they actually had sex.所以，他回来了，但只是告诉我，它更进一步，他们实际上有性行为。 I was so shocked.我非常震惊。 We were both virgins and waiting for our wedding night.我们都是处女，等待我们的新婚之夜。 I am so hurt.我很受伤。 I dont know what to do.我不知道该怎么办。 I love him so much and I want to forgive him but I dont know how to forget what he’s done.我爱他那么多，我想原谅他，但我不知道如何忘记的事情。 I keep on thinking about it and ive become so depressed.我一直在思考和性变得非常沮丧。 He has promised me that he will NEVER do anything like that again.他已经答应我，他永远不会做任何事情一样，再次。 It is now 3 months before our wedding and I really dont know what to do.现在，前3个月我们的婚礼，我真的不知道该怎么做。 I love him so much but the hurt is so bad.我爱他，但这么多的伤害是如此糟糕。 Should we still get married or getout of it before its too late.如果我们仍然结婚或getout这之前，为时已晚。
28. Laura Fastabend on October 26th, 2007 7:19 am劳拉Fastabend对2007年10月二十六日上午07时19分
    

    Dear Kelly,亲爱的凯利，
    It is not easy to let things rest in God’s hands sometimes.这是不容易的事情，让休息的上帝的手有时。 In a book Experiencing the Depths of Jesus Christ I found something helpful for me.在一本书的深度体验耶稣基督的东西，我发现对我很有帮助。 Jeanne Guyon, the author asks “If this were to be your lot for the rest of your life, what would you do?” Then she says, “Do this”.珍妮居永，笔者问： “如果这被你很多，其余的生活，你希望什么呢？ ”然后，她说： “不要这个。 ” In another section of the book she says to “Accept the matter”.在另一节本书，她说，以“接受这个问题。 ” “Give yourself up to him as a sacrifice”. “给你了他作为牺牲。 ” If you can do this, it helps make it easier to bear.如果你能做到这一点，它有助于更容易承受。 Trust the Lord that he has your best interest at heart.信托上帝，他的最佳利益放在心上。 He understands the “you” deep inside and knows what you need.他明白“你”内心深处，知道什么是您所需要的。 Go to him in prayer and cry if you need to.转到他的祈祷和哭泣如果需要的话。 I find that tears speak the words in my heart that I often can’t express.我发现，眼泪说的话在我心中，我常常无法表达的。 And I know he understands.我知道他的理解。 Know that accepting this as If it were your lot for the rest of your life does not mean that it Will be that.要知道，接受，这是如果您的很多，其余的你的生活并不意味着这将是这一点。 I will pray for your acceptance of this, and for the ability to leave it in his hands.我将祈祷您接受这一点，并能够将它留在他的手中。 May God bless you in your surrendering.愿上帝保佑你投降。
29. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on October 27th, 2007 1:39 am关于2007年十月27日上午01时39分
    

    Thanks for that post, Laura…great advice for broken hearts.感谢后，劳拉...伟大的咨询，打破心中。
30. Patti on October 29th, 2007 9:37 pm帕蒂在2007年十月29日下午9点37分
    

    I am 37 and have been unable to get over a relationship that ended almost a year ago.我相信37和一直未能得到了关系，结束将近一年前。 I’ve had lots of failed relationships before this one but I feel like the heartache from this one will never end.我已经有很多失败的关系，在本一，但我觉得从这个心痛一个永远不会结束。 I’ve spent the last year trying to get closer to God and reading dozens of Christian books and praying about taking my desire for this person away but I don’t feel any closer to healing and the pain still hurts so bad I don’t know how to get over it and feel at peace.我已经度过了去年试图接近上帝和阅读几十个基督教书籍和祈祷的同时我希望这个人走，但我不认为任何接近愈合，疼痛仍然疼如此糟糕我不知道如何克服它，并认为和平。 And I know Christ as my Lord and Savior so this makes me feel like I have no hope in Him.我知道我的基督上帝和救世主因此，这让我觉得我没有希望他。 It took me 35 years to meet a man that I ever felt attracted to like that and love for and I fear I’ll never feel that way again.我花了35年来，以满足一个人，我都觉得吸引到这样的爱，我害怕我再也不会觉得这样了。 As I write this I feel like I must sound like a pathetic teenager and yet I can’t get past this as a grown woman.正如我写这篇文章我觉得我必须听起来像一个可怜的少年，但我无法越过这是一个女人成长。 Please God help me.请上帝帮助我。
31. Michael on November 1st, 2007 5:50 am迈克尔在2007年11月1日上午05点50
    

    The ratio of broken relationships have increased at a frightening rate past years.的比例关系已经破裂增加一个可怕的利率过去几年。 I ,too am suffering from a broken heart.My GF walked out on me &has been dating the guy I suspected &even till today she lies to me she isnt dating anyone.Jesus can heal our hearts, He is the one who gave us Love for our partners& I pray for all the broken hearted that God’s amazing,all sufficing Love is poured into each one of our hearts that all our pain&emptiness disappear..In Jesus’ name.Amen.我也很痛苦从打破heart.My石墨走出我＆一直追溯到那个我怀疑＆即使到今天，她是我约会，她并不是anyone.Jesus可以治愈我们心中，他是一个谁给了我们爱我们的合作伙伴和我祈祷所有的破碎心，上帝奇妙，所有sufficing爱是涌入每一个我们的心，我们的所有痛苦与空虚消失..在耶稣的name.Amen 。
32. virginia on November 11th, 2007 5:20 pm弗吉尼亚州2007年一十一月11号下午5时20分
    

    My boyfriend of three years stopped loving me after I got very ill with pneumonia and I am broken hearted.我男朋友三年停止后，我热爱我病得很重肺炎，我心破碎。 I have been unemployed and unable to cope for 2 years now.我已经失业和无法应付为2年。 I was beautiful, intelligent and precious.我是美丽，智慧和宝贵的。 Now I am a wreck and my health is declining and I can’t cope…He said today that he didn’t love me.现在我沉船和我的健康正在下降，我无法应付...他今天说，他不爱我。 I can’t believe it he was my prince and angel!我简直不敢相信他是我的王子和天使！ Virginia弗吉尼亚州
33. David Butler戴维巴特勒 on November 11th, 2007 6:46 pm关于2007年十一月11日下午6时46
    

    Amen Michael!阿迈克尔！

    Dear Virginia:亲爱的弗吉尼亚州：

    I am so sorry about your broken heart!我很遗憾你破碎的心！ If it has been two years that you can’t cope due to your broken heart, maybe you need to speak with a counselor?如果它已经两年，你无法应付因您的破碎的心，也许你需要发言的辅导员？ We can make a referral if you wish.我们可以推荐如果你想。 Do you know Jesus as your Saviour?你知道耶稣是你的救世主？ In Scripture it says he is close to the brokenhearted.它在圣经说，他正在接近brokenhearted 。 And remember: No man is worth what pain you are going through.请记住：没有人值得你什么都痛苦经历。

    We are praying for your healing.我们正在祈祷的愈合。
34. danny dawson on November 19th, 2007 9:11 pm丹尼道森在2007年11月19号下午9点11分
    

    i have been married for 23 months and is currently going through a divorce because of spouse abuse, with her being the abuser, i am deeply hurt over this and was willing to go to counseling but my spouse refuses to go.我已经结婚23个月，目前正在经历一个离婚，因为配偶虐待，她被施暴者，我深深地伤害了这一点，并愿意去辅导，但我的配偶拒绝去。 so i have no choice but to proceed with the divorce, i still love her and wanna help her, but i can’t fix this by myself please advise所以我别无选择，只能着手离婚，我仍然爱她，想帮助她，但我不能确定这一点，我请告知
35. John on November 27th, 2007 4:38 pm约翰在2007年11月27日下午4时38分
    

    i have been dating my girlfriend for about 4 years and after we graduate i went to a different sch from her.我一直在我的女朋友约会约4年，我们毕业后我去了不同的学校从她的。 about 8 months after i got into my new sch i found out that she had been seeing another guy.大约8个月后我到我的新学校，我发现，她看到了另一个人。 i never ever thought of that such things will happen though she got mentioned to me quite often that there is this guy and stuff they talk about, i never had suspect anything because i really trusted her completely.我从来没有想过这样的事情会发生但她提到了我常常有这个家伙和内容，他们谈论，我从来没有怀疑任何东西，因为我真的她完全值得信赖。 but after i found out that she cheated on me that was really a big big blow i don know what to do.但之后，我发现她骗我，这是真正的大大的打击我不知道该怎么办。 that guy emailed me and said ’since u love her so much i think u should know about this, i masturbated her and she did the same to me’ im really shocked to know that.那家伙的电子邮件我说： '因为吕爱她这么多我想ü应该知道这一点，我手淫她，她也做了同样的给我'免疫真的震惊地知道这一点。 i qn her at first she said she didn even kiss him, but as it got longer i asked and asked and she said the most they got to was that guy touching her ‘there’ with a skirt on.字母i每晚她在第一次她说，她甚至没有吻他，但因为它长了我问，并要求和她说，他们是最得是那个家伙感动她的'有'的裙子上。 though i still have that bit of trust on her but i keep dwell on the words of that guy.但