Pursuing Love as Single Christians

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Many single Christians are pursuing christian dating relationships leading toward marriage. One of the best mariage builder tips (yes singles will benefit from this too) I have heard is is the idea that couples need to always keep pursuing each other, not only through the dating relationship but into marriage as well. The following Christian dating podcast is an awesome reminder of the above, and also gives singles and married folks tips on how to keep love alive.

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BTW: Easter is only 7 days away! If you reside anywhere in the NY or NJ and are looking for contemporary, non-denominational Easter Church Services, come check out Oasis Church NJ, the creator of this singles blog.  Attention all single Christian single parents, if you have kids, afters services there is an Easter Egg Hunt with Easter Bunny.

Oasis meets Easter Sunday at 10am at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside, but serves all of Union, Somerset, Morris, and Essex Counties including towns like Scotch Plains, Westfield, Scotch Plains, Union, Elizabeth, Fanwood, Summit, Garwood, Kenilworth, Londen, Roselle, Green Brook, Warren, Watchung, New Providence,  Berkeley Heights and more

 

Christian Singles Spiritual Gifts

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Many Christian singles wonder what their purpose on Earth is all about. Are you one of those single Christians who feel that their lives have no value unless they are in a dating relationship leading toward marriage? If you do you are not alone.

In today’s Christian podcast atcOasis Church, the discussion centers in discovering one’s spiritual gifts. If you are a Christian the Holy Spirit has given you one or more. Finding your spiritual gifts and utilizing them for God’s glory is the one sure fire way to find real meaning in life.

Power for Living for Christian Singles

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Christian singles often feel powerless in their lives. Why is this? Some I meet simply lack confidence. Other Christians find life because they are going “at it” alone.

In today’s Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com, Pastor Dave Butler discusses how the Holy Spirit can give us power for living life to the full, whether single-never married and looking for a soulmate, married or divorced.

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Take a Leap of Faith

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Are ready to take a leap of faith? In our LEAP series at Oasis, we are teaching how God wants us to take a leap of faith, trusting Him for amazing things in 2012. Now I realize many of the Christian singles and married folks reading this are already soured on 2012, and we’ve reverted into safe mode to ride the year out. Bit without taking a leap of faith, single Christians will never become all the God has created them to be, let alone be successful in finding that special dating relationship and soulmate. Look, God want you and me to live life to the full, go for the gusto, take risks.

Take a Leap of Faith Definition

What does it realy mean to take a leap of faith? It means getting out of our comfort zones, and taking a bold course of action without know for sure what the end results will be. This takes courage and a steadfast trust in God.

Love is Taking a Leap of Faith

Love is truly a leap of faith, and applying this “take a leap of faith” mentality to Christian dating can be challenging for many. The opposite of taking a leap of faith is allowing fears to rule. Many single men and women who remain single because they fear taking risks. Are you ome of those? If you are you will benefit  by listent to our podcast of the week

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spite of the fact that this action is forcing us out of our familiar territory, and our comfort zones. It also means taking action even though we cannot foresee the results or consequences of our choice. To do this requires both faith and courage!

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Christian Single Parent Support

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Single parent support is so necessary for Christian single parents. Why? Christian single parenting is one of the hardest jobs around. It’s hard enough being a parent in a household where mom and dad are together. A single parent also has to to balance, work, money worries, school, housing, etc. Forget about single parent dating. Being a single parent multiplies the stress in the whole household. Often times, what occurs is that the single parenting mother or father ends up neglecting their own health, and this in turn has a negative impact on the whole family.

Single Parent Support Podcast

If you are a Christian single parent looking for support for all your burdens, perhaps ther following single parenting support podcast will help.

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Christian Single Career Women

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Single career women make up 30% of the US labor force. If you are  a Christian single girl and one of those single career women out there, you probably know well the pressures that go along with a single woman in the workforce.

Single Career Women Trap

Many successful single career women have succumbed to this trap: You go to college, and after graduation your main goal was to work up the proverbial ladder of success. Maybe you became a successful businesswoman, doctor or lawyer. But now as you enter 30-somethings or 40-somethings status, your heart turns toward that special dating relationship you put on hold all these years, and all of a sudden this becomes your priority. Here’s the kicker, what you thought would be an easy  proposition (Ie: finding that Christian soulmate when the time was right) now looks to you as an improbability. in fact many single Christian career women I know lament that their time for romance and marriage may have passed them by as they were working on their careers. Some of the reasons single career women give for this are as follows:

Top Reasons Single Career Women Reasons Find  Romance Difficult

The Dating Prospects Lessen as You Age
Not Knowing Where to Go to Meet a Date
Inability to Balance Work and Romance

Are you a single Christian career woman who can identify with the above? In today’s Christian podcast, Lead Pastor Dave Butler of Oasis Church shares a relevant talk on how our jobs can destroy our  dating relationships. Oasis is meets Sundays 11am at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside, NJ.

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How to Save a Relationship

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Boy, wouldn’t we all want to know how to save a relationship? Especially if it’s your own or a loved one? Many Christian singles walk around heart broken over relationships that have ended, sad that they were not able to save their dating relationships.

How to Save a Relationship Podcast

In today’s church podcast, Pastor Dave Butler, of Oasis-Church-NJ.com, shares a practical message from the book of James on advice he give on how to save a relationship.  Do you have comments you would like to share on how to save a  dating relationship?   How about how to save a marriage relationship?  Share it here.

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Relationship Communication Problems

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Relationship communication problems? Many single Christians have relationship communication problems for a variety of reasons. Some Christian singles simply lack confidence with dating. Others have relationship comunication problems because they do not know how to deal with conflict and arguing and fighting

Relationship Communication Problems

If you have issues getting along with your Christian dating partner or mate, the below relationship communication  problems podcast from Oasis Church may help. Based on the book of James, the discussion venters around the cause, consequences and cure for relationship communication problems in your dating life.

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Single Hood and Discouragement Podcast

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No one said single hood is easy. But you know what? Being married has its own drawbacks as well. I know many Christian singles who prefer single hood, and some who feel that they will never really “feel happy” unless they settle down and get married. My advice for the latter is to live in present present and trust God for a unique vision in your life that brings you deeper purpose

Single Hood Advice

The following single hood podcast covers the area of discouragement.While this Christian singles site has offered  past single hood advice on how to overcome depression and discouragement in singlehood, the following podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com may help folks who have a vision to be married, but are facing opposition and discouragement fulfilling the dream.

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Dating Plan-Christian Dating Plans

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Are you a Christian single with a dating plan? If God has burdened your heart with a vision to find a Christian soulmate, you need to have a dating action plan to help bring it to fruition. After all, as we learn in today’s Christian podcast, a vision without a plan is like a ship without a rudder. For example, Nehemiah not only had a vision from God to rebuild Jerusalem’s city walls, he also had a plan ready to execute that vision. Although not about dating, we can apply the principle when it comes to Christian dating

Christian Dating Action Plan

So you are a marriage minded single Christian? Do you have a vision that includes meeting that special someone within 3 years? So what’s your dating plan? Does your plan include using an online dating service like eHarmony?  Or maybe joining a Christian singles group at your local church?  Remember, taking that first faith filled action step is the most important part of executing a dating plan.

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