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	<title>Christian-Dating-Service-PLUS &#187; Christian Dating Podcasts</title>
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	<description>Dating Services for Christian Singles-Dating Tips and Advice...</description>
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		<title>Sex Addicts Anonymous Anyone?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 01:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Know anybody who may need sex addicts anonymous? Fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of Christians, there are probably many sex addicts in the church who could use a good sex addicts anonymous small group. . For crying out loud, a few years back Focus [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Know anybody who may need sex addicts anonymous? Fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Know anybody who may need sex addicts anonymous? Fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of Christians, there are probably many sex addicts in the church who could use a good sex addicts anonymous small group. . For crying out loud, a few years back Focus on the Family estimated that 25% of Christian ministers were sex addicts, addicted to stuff like internet porn and masturbation.  Many of these folks have suffered in much pain, shame and guilt, feeling they had no where to dump the burdens of their hearts.
Sex Addicts and Christian Singles
The great thing about have a Christian singles site is that many can share their deepest sex secrets without worrying that they will be scorned. It's a sad and despicable thing that most churches don't provide this kind of environment, but just sweep the topic of sex addicts under the rug, making believe the problem is not even in existence. This behavior only encourages singles to hide their own desperate state instead of seeking help in a sex addicts anonymous program.

If we as a church really want to shine for Jesus, we need to be transparent to the world, scars and all. Let it all hang out (no pun intended) and let people see what God's amazing forgiveness and grace is all about.   Having dabbled in pornography myself I am familiar with the vicious cycle of  the sex addict: Excitement-Guilt-Despair, but also of the way to victory in this area that is literally eating the heart and soul out of the next generation of single Christians.

 

Our Christian podcast on sex addicts breaks the mold of what we usually find in most churches and I am thankful for men of God like Pastor Steve Nicholson, of the Vineyard  Christian Church of Evanston Illinois (IL) for his sharing. This message on this difficult topic will be sure to help many singles languishing alone in their pain and loneliness.
 Sex Addicts Signs
Are you a sex addict?

Rate yourself on these questions:

*  Do you feel like you've lost the ability to control your sex life (went over boundary lines you know you should not have, unable to stop sexual acting out even though you confessed them to God and made promises to Him)?

* Is your  risky sexual behavior causing your life to be effected negatively in other areas of like health, work, church, present relationships or the law

* Do you obsess or dwell over sexual activity even when you try not to?

* Do you keep secrets about your sex life fom the closest people in your life? Or would you say you are living a double life?

If you answered yes to any of the above you need help for a possible sexual addiction.

Related to sex addicts:

	Great Sex Tips for Christians
	Homosexuality, the Bible and Singles
	Self Control and the Single Christian Life
	Sex as Intimate Communication
	Sex Life of Christian Singles
	Sex Sin in Christian Singles
	Sexual Abuse and Singles
	Porn Use, Christian Singles and Dating Relationships
	Pornography, Nude Women and Christians

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		<title>Dating Tips for Men and Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2008 02:59:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Are you looking for dating tips for men or women?   I have to say the following Christian dating podcast  is probably the most unique of the dozens we have put on air. Pastor Marc Driscoll of the Mars Hill church in Seattle Washington, actually gives out dating tips for men and women [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Are you looking for dating tips for men or women?   I have to say the following Christian dating podcast  is probably the ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Are you looking for dating tips for men or women?   I have to say the following Christian dating podcast  is probably the most unique of the dozens we have put on air. Pastor Marc Driscoll of the Mars Hill church in Seattle Washington, actually gives out dating tips for men and women in real time during his message.
Dating Tips

Huh? Yeah, I thought so too, but here is what happens: During his message on Christian dating people were allowed to text message questions about dating tips for men or women directly to Pastor Mark. The dating tips questions were then flashed on a screen in real time, and he answered them as they came in. The following Christian podcast on dating tips for men and women is the result. I think you'll enjoy it.Share dating advice for men? Women?
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		<title>Valentines Day Sermons for Christian Singles</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2008 04:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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Valentines Day can be quite depressing for singles because it hammers home the reminder that they are not content being single at this juncture in their lives. That&#8217;s why we hope the following Valentines Day sermon on dating and love encourages those of  us who will be struggling on [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Know any good Valentines Day sermons?

Valentines Day can be quite depressing for singles because it hammers home the reminder that they are not content being ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Know any good Valentines Day sermons?

Valentines Day can be quite depressing for singles because it hammers home the reminder that they are not content being single at this juncture in their lives. That's why we hope the following Valentines Day sermon on dating and love encourages those of  us who will be struggling on the 14th of February.
Valentines Day Sermon Podcast
Today's Christian dating church podcast comes from the Journey church  in Brooklyn, NY and is entitled: "Dating-I want to Hold Your Hand."  This message serves as our Valentines Day Sermon for you, so I hope you're blessed by it.

Related to Valentines Day Sermons

Unique Valentine's Day Gifts


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		<title>First Kiss Tips for Christians</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2008 04:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Who can forget that first kiss? Remember? I know some of us have yet to experience that first kiss but be patient. A first kiss is well worth the wait if done at the right time, place and way. Many unbelievers and not a few single Christian singles may be surprised to find first kiss [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Who can forget that first kiss? Remember? I know some of us have yet to experience that first kiss but be patient. A first kiss ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Who can forget that first kiss? Remember? I know some of us have yet to experience that first kiss but be patient. A first kiss is well worth the wait if done at the right time, place and way. Many unbelievers and not a few single Christian singles may be surprised to find first kiss tips in the Bible.  Fact is one of the most romantic love songs ever, the Song of Solomon,  speaks about the thrill of that first kiss and the first signs of attraction between and man and a woman. Listen, you can never go wrong if you follow the Lord's way to kissing and romance.
First Kiss Tips Podcasts
Our church singles podcast of the week, "The Adventure of Attraction and the First Kiss" comes from  Emmanuel Baptist Church in Danville, Kentucky (KY). I hope you enjoy this biblical message on kissing and attraction.

By the way Christian Dating Service Plus! now has a  FREE singles forum where you can connect for fellowship, penpals and more. We set up the forum where you can send  started it  this week so get in on the ground floor now by registering and filling out yopersonal messages or just post whatever you want,  including first kiss tips...LOL. We justur profile with text and a pic and introducing yourself in the forum. Remember you are 14 times more likely to get contacted back with a picture.  Enjoy!

Have first kiss tip for single Christians?
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		<title>Great Sex Tips for Christians</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2007 17:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Great sex tips anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, &#8220;Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic &#8216;great sex tips&#8217; on a Christian website?&#8221; Just chill, ok?
Great Sex Tips-Why Talk About It?
First of all, God created sex and He wants us to enjoy it to the max in the way [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>38:38</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Great sex tips anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, "Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic 'great sex tips' ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Great sex tips anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, "Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic 'great sex tips' on a Christian website?" Just chill, ok?

Great Sex Tips-Why Talk About It?
First of all, God created sex and He wants us to enjoy it to the max in the way in which he designed it. 
 Second, just because the world has turned something God has blessed and called good into something ugly doesn't mean we should not broach the subject. Why let the devil and the ungodly monopolize the topic?
Third, the best great sex tips are actually found between the pages of the Bible.
 Lastly, if only more Christian singles  (and all Christians for that matter)  had a forum or outlet to discuss their sexual struggles in a safe and biblical  way we would have less sin and heartache in our lives and churches.  Sweeping our sexual impurities  under a rug leads to hypocrisy and relaonship disaster. Believe me, we get dozens of poor single Christians sharing their secret sins and struggles with us because many churches refuse to confront this issue head on. How sad!

 Great Sex Tips Podcast
Well thank God there are still some pastors who are not afraid of offending people by confronting tough  issues in a biblical way.  In our Church podcast of the week, Pastor Matt Keller of the Next Level Church in Fort Myers, Florida (FL) brings us some of the best great sex tips you will ever want to need to hear.

Other Podcasts Related to Great Sex Tips:

Dating Relationships and Sex for Singles 

Pornography, Nude Women and Christians
Christian Sex Talk for Singles
Adults dating for Sex-An American Idol
Love, Sex and the Bible
Sex and dating-Eros Redeemed in Christian Dating


Related Articles: 

Sex as Intimate Communication
Sex Life of Christian Singles
Masturbation and Christian Singles
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		<title>Soulmate Indicators-Recognizing Your Potential Mate</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2007 01:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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We&#8217;ve written quite a bit about soulmate indicators, and finding the ideal soul mate.  Several of our articles  related to soulmate indicators  would include the following, both from a negative and positive perspective:
Dating Match: Are You Dating Your Match?
 Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date
Great Boyfriend-Girlfriend Signs
 Soul Mate Test-How [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>20:38</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>We've written quite a bit about soulmate indicators, and finding the ideal soul mate.  Several of our articles  related to soulmate indicators  ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>We've written quite a bit about soulmate indicators, and finding the ideal soul mate.  Several of our articles  related to soulmate indicators  would include the following, both from a negative and positive perspective:

Dating Match: Are You Dating Your Match?
 Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date
Great Boyfriend-Girlfriend Signs
 Soul Mate Test-How To Make Sure You Don’t Marry a Loser
Soulmate Indicators Podcast
Whether you are seeking a potential mate online or not, the following Christian podcast brought to us from Pastor Jeremy McGarity of San Diego, California (CA) on  soulmate indicators and recognizing your potential mate is as encouraging as it is Biblical.


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		<title>I Feel Lonely Podcast for Singles</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2007 21:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Do you ever get the &#8220;I feel lonely&#8217; blues? Although surrounded by people I still feel lonely at certain times.  The fact is there are many lonely hearts out in the world: Lonely single moms, lonely men, lonely teens.
As singles loneliness and feeling lonely are all part of the territory.   Worse yet, [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Do you ever get the "I feel lonely' blues? Although surrounded by people I still feel lonely at certain times.  The fact is there ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Do you ever get the "I feel lonely' blues? Although surrounded by people I still feel lonely at certain times.  The fact is there are many lonely hearts out in the world: Lonely single moms, lonely men, lonely teens.

As singles loneliness and feeling lonely are all part of the territory.   Worse yet, as we approach Christmas, dealing with the holiday blues as singles often means fighting that "I feel lonely" and empty feeling.
How to Deal with Loneliness the I Feel Lonely Thinking
I have to say that this Christian podcast on loneliness from Pastor Roy Worley of Faith Fellowship Church in New Lenox, Illinois (IL)  in is a great start toward fighting those I feel lonely blues.

How do you deal with the I feel lonely feelings?
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		<title>Learning How to Forgive a Jerk</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 16:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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One of the most important things we teach singles in our parent education classes is learning how to forgive their mates or previous dating partners. Yea, that includes learning how to forgive a jerk, abuser or user.   Why? Learning how to forgive speeds the healing process, and prepares for future, healthy boyfriend/girlfriend dating [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>40:28</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>One of the most important things we teach singles in our parent education classes is learning how to forgive their mates or previous dating partners. ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>One of the most important things we teach singles in our parent education classes is learning how to forgive their mates or previous dating partners. Yea, that includes learning how to forgive a jerk, abuser or user.   Why? Learning how to forgive speeds the healing process, and prepares for future, healthy boyfriend/girlfriend dating relationships.  Conversely, a  lack of forgiveness brings bitterness and additional suffering.
Learning How to Forgive Podcast
Don Henley of Eagles fame sings about the need for  forgiving and forgiveness in his song by the same name. Yet, some Christian singles simply do not want to forgive others for past hurts. Instead of making peace with the past, they prefer to hold grudges.  But as our Christian podcast of the week speaker states: "Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person who hurt us gets sick."

What about those folks who want to forgive, but are confused as to what that means or how to actually forgive a past hurt? I do believe the following Church podcast on learning how to forgive will minster to you, and answer all questions in this difficult area.

In closing, I would really hate to leave this topic without speaking to those who are desperate for  forgiveness and are living with intense guilt. If you don't  know God offers you total forgiveness and brand new start in life, please read how you can have forgiveness and peace with Him right now.

Have a forgive me poem or something to share about learning how to forgive?


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		<title>Single Chat-Hope for Singles</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Nov 2007 16:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Single Chat?  No, by using the term &#8220;single chat&#8221; we are not talking about the many single chat rooms out there on the internet. What we are referring to is  single chat message for single Christians regarding the trials and tribulations of single life.
It&#8217;s not easy living alone as a godly Christian single [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>44:35</itunes:duration>
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		<itunes:summary>Single Chat?  No, by using the term "single chat" we are not talking about the many single chat rooms out there on the internet. What we are referring to is  single chat message for single Christians regarding the trials and tribulations of single life.

It's not easy living alone as a godly Christian single in today's world. Many of us feel pressure on all sides. Others have written us telling of their heartbreak, guilt and discouragement. Well,  the following "single chat" church podcast is one of the most compassionate and helpful messages I've heard on the issues facing single Christians today.
Single Chat  Podcast
This Christian podcast of the week is brought to us from Pastor Matt Keller of the Next Level Church, out of Fort Myers, Florida (FL). Talk about passion for singles!. Just download this single chat message and enjoy!

Do you have a Christian singles message or dating related mp3, wav file or CD you would like podcasted here at Christian Dating Service PLUS? Just let us know!


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		<title>Christian Dating Without Losing Your Brain</title>
		<link>http://christian-dating-service-plus.com/christian-dating-without-losing-your-brain.htm</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Oct 2007 03:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Don&#8217;t you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there&#8217;s a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have acted irrationally in pursuit of their perfect date? From Christian single girls who date bad guys, to dating mistakes by both guys  and girls,  it seems many need [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>31:37</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Don't you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there's a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Don't you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there's a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have acted irrationally in pursuit of their perfect date? From Christian single girls who date bad guys, to dating mistakes by both guys  and girls,  it seems many need a little help in this area.

Well. here's some good news:  in our Christian dating podcast of the month, Pastor Bob Gibson,  of the Vineyard Church in Ithaca, NY,  delievers a message entitiled, you guess it,  Christian Dating Without Losing Your Brain. Enjoy! Oh yeah, this Christian dating message has a musical intro of 40 seconds, so be patient. :)


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		<title>Pornography, Nude Women and Christians</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2007 20:13:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Now that we have your attention, sorry if you googled &#8220;pornography nude women&#8221; and came up with our site. Our church podcast of the week is not so much about nude women pornography, as it it about how poisonous pornography really is to healthy dating relationships and to Christians (mostly Christian men) in general. Fact [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>38:17</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Now that we have your attention, sorry if you googled "pornography nude women" and came up with our site. Our church podcast of the week ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Now that we have your attention, sorry if you googled "pornography nude women" and came up with our site. Our church podcast of the week is not so much about nude women pornography, as it it about how poisonous pornography really is to healthy dating relationships and to Christians (mostly Christian men) in general. Fact is, the sad truth is that many Christians  have messed up sex lives, and are as addicted to pornography as much as unbelievers are. Many  are lonely Christian single men, who also struggle with masturbation and all kinds of sexual impurity 
Victory Over Pornography
A  good first step toward victory over pornography is to talk about it. Open and honest confession,  claiming the promises of God in His word and getting accountability in Christian support groups or Christian counseling can go a long way toward healing. Unfortunately many Christians choose to  live secretly in their sins.

Pastor Forrest Pollock, from Bell Shoals Baptist Church in Brandon Florida, brings us  the following message of hope against pornography. I hope it helps

Related to Pornography: 

Porn Use Christian Singles and Dating Relationships


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		<title>Christian Single Chat Rooms</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Sep 2007 17:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Christian single chat rooms abound on the internet. The problem is finding &#8220;the right&#8221; Christian single chat room since so many who advertise as such are not really Christian. That&#8217;s one reason why Christian Dating Service Plus! offers Christian single chat room tips.
This week&#8217;s Christian podcast is not about Christian single chat rooms, but rather [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>60:03</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Christian single chat rooms abound on the internet. The problem is finding "the right" Christian single chat room since so many who advertise as such ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Christian single chat rooms abound on the internet. The problem is finding "the right" Christian single chat room since so many who advertise as such are not really Christian. That's one reason why Christian Dating Service Plus! offers Christian single chat room tips.

This week's Christian podcast is not about Christian single chat rooms, but rather it's about a single Christian, Pastor Paul Mathies, of the Village Church in Flower Mound, Texas (TX), giving a chat about what it feels to be Christian and single in today's world. If you listen to this "Christian single chat" you will definitely be encouraged and refreshed.

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		<title>Singles-Flirt Up Your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 14:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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That&#8217;s all we need, a video game about single life. Well, Singles-Flirt Up Your Life is just that. Have you heard of it? This is definitely not a Christian game. The game begins with the singles already living together.  Boy, that&#8217;s a recipe for failure right there.
Singles-Flirt Up Your Life Game
Anyway, Singles-Flirt up Your [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>33:39</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>That's all we need, a video game about single life. Well, Singles-Flirt Up Your Life is just that. Have you heard of it? This is ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>That's all we need, a video game about single life. Well, Singles-Flirt Up Your Life is just that. Have you heard of it? This is definitely not a Christian game. The game begins with the singles already living together.  Boy, that's a recipe for failure right there.
Singles-Flirt Up Your Life Game
Anyway, Singles-Flirt up Your Life is basically a Sims game spin-off. What's so interesting about Singles-Flirt Up Your Life is that you can play both Cupid and God in setting up how the relationship goes. Ever wish you had this ability in your Christian dating relationships? Just as I thought.  Oh well, if only real life dating relationships were so simple and easy as the Singles-flirt up Your Life PC  game. Of course, we all know it's not.

In fact, many singles I know aren't sure whether this thing we call single life is a blessing or a curse. What do you think? In todays church podcast, Pastor Brian Kelly,  from McLane Church in Edinboro, PA confronts this exact subject in his message entitled "Desperate Lovers."

By the way, do you have a message on the single life you would like podcasted at Christian Dating Service Plus?  Please let us know. Also, if you are familiar with the Single-Flirt Up Your Life game, feel free to send in your commentary.


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		<title>Managing Transition-Making the Most of Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Sep 2007 22:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life?  Life&#8217;s transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat.
 Managing Transitions as Singles
If you [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life?  Life's transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat.
 Managing Transitions as Singles
If you are having a rough go managing transition and making the most of change, you are not alone. The fact is singles go through more life changes and transitions  than married folks in the areas that cause the most stress units in a person's life: relationships, job changes, parenting adjustments and moving residences.

We all know the pressure involved in living alone as Christian singles, but what makes managing transitions and making the most of changes is that sometimes the change is  not by our choice. It's much easier to deal with change and transitions if the choice was ours. But how do we manage involuntary transitions like a relationship breakup or termination in such a way that we make the most of the changes in our lives?
Hope for Managing Transitions and Making the Most of Life's Changes
In our church podcast of the week, Pastor Joseph Velarde, of the Journey Church located in Jersey City, NJ, discusses how to biblically manage transitions while making the most of changes going on all around you. Sounds good?

Do you have something to share about managing transitions and making the most of changes in your life?


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		<title>Homosexuality, the Bible and Singles</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2007 00:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Butler</dc:creator>
		
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Let&#8217;s talk about something non-controversial: Homosexuality and the Bible.  Actually, put ten random singles in a room to discuss homosexuality and the Bible, or what the Bible teaches about homosexuality, and you will get a garden variety of answers at odds with each other.
As a Christian singles living in a secular world, we are [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>31:37</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>Let's talk about something non-controversial: Homosexuality and the Bible.  Actually, put ten random singles in a room to discuss homosexuality and the Bible, or ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Let's talk about something non-controversial: Homosexuality and the Bible.  Actually, put ten random singles in a room to discuss homosexuality and the Bible, or what the Bible teaches about homosexuality, and you will get a garden variety of answers at odds with each other.

As a Christian singles living in a secular world, we are constantly bombarded with unbiblical views about homosexuality and almost any other hot topic mentioned in the Bible. I find it ironic that the secular press seems to write more about homosexuality and the Bible than Christians.  Yet, the subject of homosexuality and the Bible affects many single Christians reading this article.

Some of us, like myself have relatives, friends and co-workers who are gay or lesbians. I'm thinking right now of one particular friend who is in a Christian dating relationship with a girl right now, but is struggling with homosexuality.  I know there will be some Christians reading this article who are struggling in this area, and do not know where to turn. Other singles have just found out that the person they are dating is a homosexual. Talk about surprises!
In light of what is going on in our society, you would do well asking yourself the following questions:

	 Are you theologically at peace about homosexuality and what the Bible teaches about homosexuals?
	How would you answer an unbelieving world about homosexuality and the Bible?
	Do you know how you would minister to a homosexual? Would you be protesting homosexuality by marching with a sign filled with Bible verses and slurs? Would you accept his or her lifestyle?
	Where is the heart of Jesus and the Bible on homosexuality and the one who practices homosexual behaviour?

Recently, I found one of the most balanced messages on homosexuality and the Bible I have ever heard. In our Christian podcast of the week Pastor Steve Nicholson of Vineyard Church in Indianapolis, Indiana (IN) brings the following message: " A Christian's Response to Homosexuality." As you listen to this message on homosexuality and the Bible, pray and ask the Lord to lead you as you minister to other singles.


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