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Christian Mingle Premium Services

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• Christian Mingle Online chat rooms and instant messenger to allow you to communicate with others in real time
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Christian Mingle Kudos and Crowns

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According to the folks at ChristianMingle, a growing single Christian database caused the revamping of the tools used on the dating site. While they were at it, ChristianMingle decided a fresh name and some new searching features would bring in more singles in search of a soul mate. However the new name never worked out because it confused Christian singles

We always thought Christian Mingle had great features, and as “an online community specifically for Christian singles looking to to meet other Christians”, you cannot really beat ChristianMingle, which is the most visited Christian dating site in the world.

Christian Mingle offers free trial memberships and is easy to navigate. If you a single college student or single parent dating, please consider helping other singles by letting us know what you think of ChristianMingle previously called Relationships.com.

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Dear Christian singles, my beloved sisters and brothers in Jesus, here at Christian Dating Service PLUS!, we want to take time to thank you for being our special guests.

We take this singles ministry very seriously, and want you to know that we are praying for your unique needs as single Christians. True, we don’t know all your names, but God does, and He honors the heartfelt, faith-filled prayers of His children.

Christian Dating Service PLUS! News

Another reason for writing to you is to keep you updated on what’s going on, or about to be going on, at Christian Dating Service PLUS!:

You Can Now Read Christian Dating Service PLUS! in Your Own Language

Every week thousands of singles from over 100 countries of the world read our singles articles, dating tips and top Christian dating reviews. We’ve had singles from Europe, Asia, North America, South America, Australia, the Middle East and Africa (*please see bottom of page for a full list of countries).

Realizing that not all folks speak English, we’ve placed on Christian Dating Service PLUS! a language translator that allows people to see the site in Spanish, French, Chinese, German, Japanese, Portugese, Italian, Korean and English. You can find the translator on the lower portion of our sidebar. It’s not perfect (yet), but we hope this makes your reading more enjoyable!

Submit Your Own Singles Articles

The “whole idea” of Christian Dating Service PLUS! is to help singles grow spiritually while they connect with other singles of like-minded faith. Of course, it wouldn’t hurt to meet their mate along the way too!

Sharing topics (dating, sex, marriage,relationships, career, church, singles ministry, etc) related to the single Christian life experience is one way of connecting with others.

Therefore, if you are a single Christian of any sort, a Christian singles group or church group leader, pastor, college and career leader, a member of a college campus ministry, singles counselor or singles events coordinator, please consider helping other singles by submitting an article to this site.

Anyone who submits a singles related piece will be credited as the author (if they wish), and if they have a ministry or website, we will link back to you, which will bring more traffic and attention to your site, singles group, ministry or church.

In the very near future, writers will be able to log-in to Christian Dating Service PLUS! directly via their own password and post articles directly to the site. For now, articles may be submitted here.

Publicize Your Christian Singles Group, Coffehouse or Church Ministry

As mentioned previously, Christian Dating Service PLUS is in the process of making a directory of all known Christian singles groups, churches, Christian fellowships, Christian social networks, college ministries, para-church groups, singles support groups, small groups, podcasts and coffeehouses. Whatever country you live in, let us help you get the word out on your local singles outreach and events by placing your information on our website.

Finally, please pray for all the single people of the world, many of whom are facing dangerous and lonely times in war. Whether we be college students, single parents, divorced, widowed, 30 something, 40 something, 50 something or single seniors, we all need prayer. So. let’s reach out in believing faith that Jesus will help us in our time of need.

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*Pray for all single Christians in the churches, college campuses, para-church groups, Christian singles groups, fellowships, or church groups in these countries:

Azerbaidjan,Algeria,Angola,Antigua and Barbuda,Argentina,Armenia,Australia,Austria,Bahamas,Bahrain,Bangladesh,
Belgium,Bermuda,Bulgaria,Bolivia,Bosnia-Herzegovina,Brazil,Brunei Darussalam,Burkina Faso,Cameroon,Canada,Cape Verde,Chile,China,Colombia,Congo,Costa Rica,
Croatia,Cuba,Cyprus,Czech Republic,Denmark,
Dominican Republic,Egypt,El Salavador,Estonia,Ethiopia,European Union,Finland,France,Gambia,Georgia,Germany,Guinea Bissau,Great Britain,Greece,Greenland,Guam,Guyana,Guatemala,Honduras,Hong Kong,Hungary,Iceland,India,Indonesia,Iran,Iraq,Israel,Italy, Ireland,Japan,Jordan,Kazakhstan,Kenya,Kuwait,Kyrgyzstan, Latvia,Lebanon,Libya,Lithuania,Luxembourg,Macau,Malawi,Malaysia,Mali,
Malta,Maldives,Mauritius,Mexico,Moldova,Mongolia,Monaco,Morocco,
Myanmar,Namibia,Nigeria,Norway,Netherlands,Netherlands Antilles,Papua New Guinea, New Zealand,Nicaragua,Norway,Pakistan,Panama,Paraguay,
Peru,Philippines,Poland,Portugal,Qatar,Romania,Russian Federation, Saint Lucia,Saudi Arabia,Scotland,Senegal,Singapore,Slovak Republic,Slovenia,South Africa,
South Korea,Spain,Sudan,Sweden,Switzerland,Syria,Tanzania,Taiwan,Thailand,
Trinidad and Tobago,Togo,Turkey,Uganda,UK,Ukraine,United Arab Emirates,
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While Christian single interracial dating or married couples can live peacefully in most urban societies of the world, they may still be stigmatized in rural areas, and sadly even within the confines of their own church and family.

Therefore, any single Christian thinking about interracial dating should prepare for success by asking themselves the following questions:

Interracial Dating Question Checklist

• What would your family and friends say if you told them you were dating someone from a different race or ethnicity?
• If family and friends react negatively to interracial dating, what would be your response?
• How will you and your interracial date respond to societal disapproval and outright racism? Prejudices could come in forms ranging from staring at a restaurant or church, to ostracizing and outright physical threats.
• Have you and your interracial dating partner openly discussed cultural differences, and their implications if the dating relationship were to culminate in marriage?

Openly and honestly go over the above questions first by yourself, and then together with your interracial dating interest. This exercise will give you an indication of whether or not this interracial dating relationship could be successful.

The longest lasting interracial dating relationships and marriages are those which are able to weave the best of both cultures into unison with each other.

Finally, despite the increase in the number of interracial dating singles, many find it difficult to meet others in their everyday walk of life.This one of the several reasons why online interracial dating sites like eHarmony Dating Service have become popular.

Just in case you were wondering, all of the dating services reviewed on Christian Dating Service PLUS! have large search databases that makes finding an interracial date in your local area an easier task.

If have dated or are dating someone from a different ethnic or cultural background, please consider helping other singles by sharing your experiences with interracial dating.

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As single Christians, knowing marriage builder tips while dating will lay the foundation toward a healthy marriage relationship when you’re ready to make that commitment. Working in Family Court, I’ve seen lots of unhappy and unhealthy marriage relationships that sure could have used marriage builder tips.

Not surprisingly, a University of Wisconsin study revealed that over 90% of our future happiness is related to the kind of mate we choose to date or marry. Therefore, having a healthy marriage relationship means you have a greater chance at enhancing your happiness.

As Christian singles, we know our true joy, which is eternal, remains in the Lord. However, our happiness, based on transient circumstances, can definitely be affected by poor relationship choices. With divorce rates running between 40 to 50% in the USA, Australia, Europe and Asia, many are nodding their heads in agreement.

Most of us pray for healthy marriage relationships. The following marriage builder quick tips point toward that goal.

Marriage Builder Tips for a Healthy Marriage Relationship

Marriage Builder Tip #1: See Dating as a Means to an End

It all begins with dating, but it should not end there. For single Christians at least, the primary goal of dating should be a healthy relationship culminating in marriage. Otherwise, if you’re really serious about keeping yourself sexually pure before the Lord, why even enter a dating or courtship relationship?

Marriage Builder Tip #2: Know What Kind of Person Makes For A Healthy Relationship

Part of finding a person that makes for a healthy relationship, is knowing and avoiding the kind that doesn’t. For example, single Christians dating unbelievers, or good Christian girls who date bad guys would fall into this category.

Unfortunately, most churches don’t teach singles (teens to seniors) how to attract the right woman or man to date or court. In fact, several reasons we started Christian Dating Service PLUS! was not only to provide informative dating articles in this area, but also to show others how they can meet more single Christians online by expanding their search base.

Marriage Builder Tip #3: Know What it Takes to Have a Healthy Relationship

It sounds too simple, but it’s really true. The more one knows the signs of a healthy Christian dating or marriage relationship, the more likely the chance of creating one. Doesn’t that make sense?

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Low self-esteem in some Christian singles is keeping them from finding a serious dating relationship. It’s really simple: If you don’t feel real good about yourself, you’re not going to think anyone else will either.

Sadly, problems with low self-esteem can not only effect our dating relationships, but all other areas of our life, including our emotional health. Single men and women with low self-esteem suffer more depression and discouragement, loneliness and anxiety in their lives than other people. These negative emotions feed a vicious cycle of withdrawal that only worsens low self-esteem. This makes me depressed just writing about this stuff!

To make matters worse, it seems many Christians feel confused when talking about self-esteem, somehow thinking it is “unspiritual” or self-centered to feel good about yourself. Of course, nothing could be further from the truth, as long as you understand from whence your strength comes.

Breaking the Chain of Low Self-Esteem

If you are a single Christian suffering from a poor sense of self worth, and are looking for ways to build self-esteem, allowing the truth of the following points to sink into your soul will help put you on the path to recovery:

Know That God Accepts You As You Are

The beginning of healthy self-esteem and emotional well-being is self acceptance. Being able to accept yourself starts with accepting God’s view of your worth as a person, and then gladly receiving what He has to offer.

• Do you hate who you look like? You shouldn’t because God said you were fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalms 139)
• Do you feel worthless and unlovable? God the Father says He loves you, and finds you so worthwhile that He chose His son to die on your behalf, even while you were far from Him (John 3:16, Romans 5:8).
• Do you feel guilty and unclean because of how you have lived your life? God offers complete forgiveness and cleansing from all past wrong.(1John 1:19), and a new beginning in life (2Cor 5:17).

Know That You Belong

Self-esteem suffers when we feel like there is no place we belong. A sense of belonging gives us a feeling that we are needed and wanted. This makes us feel good about ourselves, and loved at the same time..

God made us to experience this feeling of belonging and love through the forming of intimate relationships. The most important relationship you can have is with the Lord. In fact, Jesus’ prayer for His followers was that the same kind of wonderful relationship He had with His Father may be experienced by them too: “That they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You; that they also may be one in Us…” (John 17)

If you are a child of God, you belong in His family, and are dearly beloved (Col. 3:12). You are not orphans or paupers, but princes and princesses who will rule as co-heirs with Jesus. If you really believe this stuff, nothing will make you feel better.

Know That You Can Conquer Your Past

Many singles who suffer from low self-esteem have had past experiences (often in childhood) that have given them a tremendous sense of failure. This sense of “being a loser” is so agonizing that they fear taking risks in life. It’s fears like these that can keep women and men single.

However, part of understanding who we are in Christ is realizing that past failures and experiences no longer have a hold on us. We now have the power to conquer our past failures and fears through Him (Romans 8:37, 2 Timothy 1:7). The question that remains is whether or not you choose to change your negative pattern of thinking and acting. That power is all yours through Christ (Phil. 4:13).

If you are a Christian single whose low self-esteem has caused your dating aspirations to suffer, covenant with yourself and the Lord to start seeing yourself through His eyes.

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How to mend a broken heart for singles who are broken hearted?

Almost everyone has had their own “broken heart confession” of a lost relationship. A broken heart is a broken heart, whether that relationship was in a dating context or a marriage. All I can say is it’s one of the most painful things I’ve ever suffered.
While mending a broken heart takes different amounts of time for each person, the following points on how to mend a broken heart will be helpful to all single Christians.

How to Mend a Broken Heart Guide

Talk About Your Broken Heart With Those Who Care

One of the best ways to begin mending a broken heart is to talk about it. Talking about our pain helps us accept the reality of the situation, and guides us along in the healing process and dealing with guilt, if any

As Christian singles, the first person we should go to is the Lord. A beautiful promise is found in Psalms 34:18: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Tell your heavenly Dad where it hurts, and exactly how you feel. Don’t hold back anything because He is there for you, and can take whatever you throw at Him.

Beyond pouring out your broken heart to the Lord, getting involved in a Christian singles group, church fellowship, or support group will give you a safe place to share your painful experiences and receive love and support. Don’t feel that you can heal or mend your broken heart on your own. That’s just stupid pride, and will cause you to take longer to heal. We all need somebody from time to time.

Forgiveness Equals Healing

There is an amazing amount of healing power in being forgiven, or in granting forgiveness to someone who has wronged you. The power of forgiveness began at the cross of Christ, where He forgave us our sins. If you don’t understand what it means to be forgiven by God, please read how you can find peace with Him before continuing.

Forgiveness brings closure and cleansing, which speeds the healing of the broken hearted person. So if you wronged someone in a previous dating or marriage relationship, ask forgiveness. Whatever the other party does with that offer is not yours to worry about.

On the other hand, if someone has wronged you, don’t seek revenge (that’s the Lord’s to handle), but forgive from the heart. It doesn’t mean that you have now become a doormat for further abuse. Granting forgiveness to someone who has broken your heart does mean that you have decided to let go of the past and start a new beginning in your life.

Take Care of Your Body

Having a broken heart puts tremendous stress on your physical and emotional wellbeing. That’s why it’s important to eat right, drink plenty of fluids, exercise and find time for relaxation. Force yourself to do these things, even if you don’t feel like it, and it will help you overcome depression and feelings of low self-esteem. You’ll thank me later if you do.

Be Willing To Take Another Risk

Okay, your relationship didn’t work out, and you’ve been left with a broken heart. So take this time to evaluate where you can improve yourself for the future.

As a broken hearted single trying to mend, you are in a vulnerable state. That’s why you definitely want to avoid the dangers of a rebound relationship. This is especially true if you are a single parent dating with kids.

However, please don’t close yourself off to the possibility of romance. In the right time and place it’s a wonderful thing. In this regard, you may want to consider using an online Christian dating service because it’s a great way to ease back into dating on your terms, and at your own pace.

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What exactly is a rebound relationship or dating on the rebound? It’s an intense dating relationship that begins very soon after a long-term relationship goes south. As one experienced single person described it: “A rebound relationship is kinda like jumping from one moving train to another. There’s no time for thinking about what you are about to do. Rebound dating is both exciting and dangerous at the same time.” Now that sounds intense!

The fact is, rebound relationships get bad marks from most single women and men who have tried them. The reason is that instead of being that perfect medicine for mending a broken heart, most rebound relationships fail, and consequently cause more pain for both dating partners.

If you are in a rebound dating relationship now, or just thinking about entering one, consider the following dating advice tips in order to protect yourself:

Rebound Relationship Advice for Those Dating on the Rebound

Rebound Relationships Tip 1: Only Fools Rush In

Ending one relationship and rebounding immediately into the next one, is not healthy for you, or fair to the other person. The reason for this is that you need time to grieve and heal before truly being emotionally ready for a new person.

While it’s natural to feel vulnerable and needy immediately after a breakup or divorce, fight the temptation to rebound so quickly into a new dating situation. It may dull your pain, but slow your healing.

Instead, take this time to evaluate what went wrong in the previous relationship, and think about how you can improve yourself for the next.

Rebound Relationships Tip 2: Get Counsel and Accountability

Before taking the plunge into a rebound relationship, get wise counsel from people who know and love you, and who can keep you accountable to making sound judgements.

Unfortunately, people involved in rebound relationships often seek a “quick fix” for their pain and damaged self-esteem. This leaves the rebound dater open for sexual and emotional manipulation by unsavory types who actually prey on the broken hearted.

Another problem with dating on the rebound is that people who do this tend to seek out the same type of person in the previous relationship, which predictably ends with the same results. That’s why it’s important to have several people who can help keep you centered during your healing process.

Rebound Relationship Advice for the Person Dating the Rebounder

Know the Odds

If you’re looking for a long-term commitment, dating in a rebound relationship is definitely not the thing to do. We counsel against entering a dating relationship with someone you know who:

• Has been out of their previous relationship less than a year

• Has shown by their words and behavior that they are not over their previous relationship

If you are dating a rebounder as decribed above, the chances are great that you a just a “transitory” person. Once the rebounder in the rebound relationship emotionally heals, they usually end up leaving the other person.

Don’t Let your Guard Down

This is usually not good advice, especially if you are attempting to build an emotionally intimate friendship. However, for your own protection, take it very slow with the rebounder, honestly explaining to him or her that you do not want to be a rebound relationship statistic.

This will take lots of self-control because rebound daters are very needy people who will attempt to fill the void, and blunt the pain in their lives by getting real close, real soon. Don’t take the bait, and save yourself much pain.

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40 something and 50 something Baby Boomers are currently using eHarmony Dating Service like almost as much as the average 20 something singles, who was the group that brought internet dating into the mainstream seven years ago.

More telling is that 40 something and 50 something daters also make up the fastest growing demographic of those seeking seeking a date online. Amazingly, with a dating service like PerfectMatch.com, nearly 65% of the singles who sign up are 30 somethings, 40 somethings or 50 somethings. All I can say is, go grandma!

Top Reason Why 40 somethings and 50 somethings Like Online Dating

There are several benefits of finding a date on the web. But the top reason Baby Boomers give for using web-based dating is that it saves them precious time. 40 something and 50 something singles are notoriously busy and impatient folk, and they want what they want, when they want it. Hey, it’s not their fault. They were the first ones to grow up with fast foods, microwaves and ATMs.

Even though 40 somethings and 50 somethings are dating more and more, Baby Boomers have unique barriers that could make being with another person quite challenging:

• 31% of 40 somethings and 50 something singles have never been married. That means they are set in their particular way of living, which makes it very difficult for them to change for another person.
• 56% percent of forty-something and fifty-something singles are divorced, which can add emotional baggage on a dating relationship.
• Single Parents Dating with kids still in the home are in a particularly difficult spot.
• Age itself, with all its attending symptoms: wrinkles, baldness, extra poundage, etc., can make singles feel undesireable.

Overall, if you are a 40 something or 50 something Christian single, this article on where and how to start meeting other singles online will cover it all.

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Too much stress can be a killer. Studies also show that because of stress, single guys live on average five years less than their married counterparts. Does stress stink, or what?

Truth be told, dealing with the responsibilities and pressures of life alone is stressful. While I truly believe that being a Christian single parent (whether you are a single mom or single dad) can be one of the most difficult and stress filled jobs in the world, all singles face stress in many different forms.

Stress is unavoidable, but there are some things we can do to counteract or reduce the stress that comes into our lives. While a previous article dealt with stress reducers for single parents, here are our favorite stress reducers that single Christians have suggested to help us in our busy, stress-filled single lives:

Top 10 Stress Reducers for Singles

1) Meditate daily on God’s promises. This is a quick stress reducer, and free of cost. Five minutes a day will change your life, and reduce your stress in subtle way. I promise. Some great verses in His word includes 1 Peter 5:7: “Cast all your anxiety upon Him, for He cares about you.”

2) Surround yourself with caring friends and family, which is a great stress reducer. If you don’t have friends in your area, or dealing with your family stresses you out, do a Google search for the nearest Christian singles or church fellowship. Just being able to “blow off steam” is a stress reducer in itself. In these groups you can share burdens, and build a support system.

3) Setting realistic expectations for your dating life, children, finances and job is a practical stress reducer. Don’t distract yourself with perfection because there’s only one God, and you’re not Him. Okay?

4) Make your daily responsibilities easier, and reduce stress by breaking them down into smaller, doable tasks. Note: This is actually my favorite stress reducer idea since I tend to be a disorganized mess!

5) Delegate your household responsibilities. Hey, even Moses did this with the people of Israel, and it’s a refreshing stress reducer. If you don’t have any family members up to the job, partner with friends or neighbors to share house cleaning, child care, cooking or any other thing you find stressful. It will definitely relieve some burdens from your life.

6) This was mentioned this earlier, but getting your finances in check is a stress reducer we can all use. In this regard, Crown.org is an international ministry that offers free advice on all types of financial topics. Check it out. You’ll be glad you did.

7) Exercising, eating well and getting enough rest is the triple crown of stress reducers. No matter how busy you are, schedule time for these, cause once you lose your health, you won’t be able to do anything else. Am I nagging you enough?

Learning to say no is an important step in getting rid of stress in your life. You accomplish this by prioritizing what’s really important in your life, and cutting out the rest. As single Christians, that may sometimes mean saying no to a worthwhile ministry in your local church body. Don’t allow yourself to feel guilty about this ( like I used to do), but thank the Lord that you will be able to make more efficient use of your time.

9) All work plus no play equals stress! Reduce your stress by scheduling some fun activities just for you! Are you a Christian interested in online dating, but don’t know how to start?.

10) Thinking the best and expecting the best are biblical principles, and powerful stress reducers. It also reveals a strong faith in the Lord. “As a man thinks in his heart, so he is.” (Proverbs 23:7)

Are you a single Christian with stress in your life? Help others by sharing your own favorite stress reducer.

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