MŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ”é–§
79 ˜_’²Many MŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ç–ê¡ ‘OŒã ‹¤‚É ƒU –ï‰îŽÒ of Ï ’¼”⠔閧 •r up —H—H‚½‚é — their ƒnƒc. Whether ƒU ”é–§ are unconfessed «“I sins, —Ü‚®‚Ü‚µ‚¢ ‘z‚¢o, –¼ŽcÉ‚µ‚¢, ó‚Ü‚µ‚¢- ‘•“U —á ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‡ŽZ whacked ƒAƒEƒg Š´‘z, “V’é did not –Í—l “–•û —Õ‚Þ ‚»‚ñ‚È –¢n Žñ”ö by ourselves.
‚æ‚è ƒU ’ë‰, ƒU “V’é ¶¬ –œ•¨‚Ì—ì’· ‘΂µ‚Ä –§ —Fî ‹¤‚É ” —]—T ‘΂µ‚Ä ”é–§. ƒAƒ_ƒ’ ö•š ‚æ‚è “V’é ã Œû‚É of ƒU –؃mŽÀ is ƒU ¹‘’ ‘æˆê ƒŒƒR[ƒ_[ ”é–§. Do –› ‘\‚Ä •s‰ÂŽv‹c what “V’é Ž©Ì have done ” ƒAƒ_ƒ –” ƒCƒ” œð‰÷ their ‚µ “ ”é–§” instead of ö•š ‚æ‚è their “V’é? “eŠp, ’½ have been —a‚¯ ”é–§ ‚»‚êˆÈ—ˆ, ‹¤‚É •‰ Œãæ ‘Î‚µ‚Ä ourselves –” ’½ ’‡ ‹¤‚É —]l.
ƒU ¹‘ has ƒAƒg ànŸ •ÔŽ– •t‚« ”é–§ —a‚¯: Its’ ƒR[ƒ‹ƒh œð‰÷. —] –” —] — Scripture, ’½ see see ƒAƒg ˜A— between —ÇS“I œð‰÷ –” –³Œ`, Žåî“I –” •¨—“I Ž¡–ü:
- ” –› œð‰÷ ŒäŽål sins •t‚« “V’é, ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —\Œ¾ —¹Œ© –” –³Œ` cleansing ( ˆë ƒWƒ‡ƒ“ \‹ã:).
- •s‘« of œð‰÷ “—¦ •t‚« •¨—“I –” Žåî“I ™±; —ÇS“I ”F’m •t‚« “V’é ‰–… •‚’¤ of —Lß (Psalms 32- “ó‚Â- ŒÞ‚Â).
- While š`‚É “V’é ‹X‚µ‚¢ ’b˜B, ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —~ “–•û ‚³‚炯o‚· ’½ sins •t‚«–ÁX —]‚è ‚æ‚¤‚É ’½ ŒÜŒŽ pray ‘΂µ‚Ä –ÁX —]‚è –” —á Ž¡–ü (James 56:)
š`‚É æ“x has ¡“ú“I S—Šw caught up ‹¤‚É ƒU ¹‘ — ‘Ì—l of ƒRƒlƒ`ƒJƒbƒg ”ñŒöŠJ œð‰÷ ‹¤‚É •¨—“I, Žåî“I –” –³Œ` wellbeing. Dr. James Pennebaker, S—Šw ‹³Žö at “ì•û ƒƒ\ƒWƒXƒg ‘åŠw, ‘—Þ ƒAƒg •×Šw which found ™Î œð‰÷ ’½ ”é–§ ‹X‚µ‚¢ be —Ç‚¢ ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒU —ì°, lower ŒŒˆ³, ® ŸT•a –” –c’£ ŒäŽål —¤« —« of wellbeing.
”Þ•û is š~ ” ——R why ’½ ‚ׂ« not œð‰÷ ’½ ”é–§ •t‚« ’½ “V’é, who —ö’‡ ( ƒWƒ‡ƒ“ 316:) –” “¯î ‹¤‚É “–•û Ž¸–] Œä‘¶’m —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è –ñ “–•û ( ƒwƒuƒ‰ƒCƒYƒ 413:- \ŒÜ).
Ž¸–] ƒU —L‚è‚Ì‚Ü‚Ü ™Î œð‰÷ “—¦ •t‚« Ž¡–ü, ”Þ•û are many Ž–î why “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k ƒtƒFƒCƒ‹ ‚³‚炯o‚· ”é–§ •t‚« —]l, whether ”Þ“™ be ƒAƒg •s‘« of an “KØ ”̘H, —Jœô, ’p ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` unreal —¬Î ‚æ‚è ’½ own ¹“°.
‚ÉƂ炵‚Ä ‘O, –› are invited ‚³‚炯o‚· ŒäŽål ”é–§ •s–¾ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±-ƒvƒ‰ƒX. ’½ dont’ •K—p ”»‚é –F–¼ ˆ× have ’½ “Æg MŽÒ “ÇŽÒ pray ‘΂µ‚Ä –›. –› îˆÓ Œˆ‚µ‚Ä be unless –› ™F ƒtƒHƒ[prayer –” •ã•J. ’½ prayer is ™Î ’½ îˆÓ —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è be Š© by –ÁX —]l’ ‘䎌.
”Þ•û are ‹æ‹æ‚½‚é “¹’[ •t‚« –ðE ŒäŽål ”é–§ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` œð‰÷:
- š`‚ÉŠÕ ƒAƒg –n‹q •t’ right ‰—‚¢‚Ä –{ –ðE
- E- —X•Ö “–•û ŒäŽål –n‹q ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒŒƒR[ƒ_[ –ðE ”é–§ ’Ê‚¶‚Ä ƒAƒg mp3 èk.
- ” –› š`‚É have ƒAƒg ƒV[ƒfƒB[, ’½ îˆÓ ⼌¾ –› ‹¤‚É an “KØ ”Ô’n •t‚« —X•Ö ŒäŽål –ðE ”é–§.
Note: ”CˆÓ ƒI[ƒfƒBƒI ‘—¯ îˆÓ be aired —] ’½ –³ü‹@ Ž‚¿ê –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` podcasted ’Ê‚¶‚Ä ’½ —p’n.
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒvƒ‰ƒX- –{ê
™Ö䶗… “Æg MŽÒ ƒIƒt ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸
ŠÕ ƒAƒg •t’ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸ •½‚ç‚© ƒƒXƒg ™Ö䶗… •S, arguably ‘çŒí–¡ ‰ÌŽè ƒIƒ“ƒWƒGƒA ’—ñ. Why did •Ä‘ ”½“® ™Ö䶗… ƒAƒEƒg? Was ƒCƒbƒg Mandisas’ —šs æT, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‚µ –¢‚¾ •s‹g? ‰ä‚ª –^ —F’B ƒvƒbƒg ƒCƒbƒg Ÿ•û: “™Ö䶗… had ŽO‚ ˜J“‘ˆ‹c ‘Î her. ”Þ“z was •‚¢, –ûŽ‰ –” ƒAƒg “Æg MŽÒ who ƒN[ƒƒ“’ keep her “üŒû ƒVƒƒƒbƒg –ñ ƒCƒGƒX. ŽO‚ ˜J“‘ˆ‹c –” ŒäŽål’ ƒAƒEƒg. ƒU cumulative o—ˆ‹ï‡ of those ŽO‚ did ™Ö䶗… in.”
‘΂µ‚Ä ƒXƒ^[ƒ^[, –› ‘S‚ –Ü‚ê believe –¯‘° had ƒAƒg ˆöŽq — Mandisas’ ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸ ”i. ã, “ñ‚ of ––‚Ì–– ŽO‚ ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸ have been ƒAƒtƒŠƒJ- ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“: •—] Studdard –” ‘f“G ƒoƒŠƒP[ƒh. ‚悤‚É ŠÕ “–•û ‹¤‚É —¼ŽÒ —]‚è variables, Mandisas’ ‰°–Ê‚à‚È‚¢ ”O—Í — ƒCƒGƒX –” her – –â‘è.
‘´‚êŒÌ did •Ä‘ ”½“® ™Ö䶗… ƒIƒt ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸ ˜¹‚Á‚Ä her —ö’‡ ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒCƒGƒX? —¼—¼ •—] –” ‘f“G were –’ outward ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k. –ܘ_, ™Î’ not žH‚ –^ –¯ŠÔ were not ƒvƒbƒg ƒIƒt by ™Ö䶗… •ª”z her ”O—Í ƒIƒ“ƒXƒe[ƒW. ã, ƒCƒGƒX told “–•û •‚¢ Ž©Ì Œ™ˆ« “–•û ˜Ô ’½ are His ( ƒWƒ‡ƒ“ 1518:). –¢‚¾, ”Þ•û are •K‚¸‚â many ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k ( ”@‚ Ž©•ª) –鉾 ƒU ’—ñ too, ‘´‚êŒÌ –› ‚à‚µ ™Î —]è •¨Ž– ƒAƒEƒg.
—g‹å‚̉ʂÄ, ’½ ‚³‚ •t‚« Mandisaa’ –, which has been an Žñ”ö ‰—‚¢‚Ä ‘S‘ Žó‘œ –” ƒCƒ“ƒ^[ƒlƒbƒg. ‘‘ ‰—‚¢‚Ä — ƒU ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸ hR, ƒVƒ ˆØk –³—ç ’ñŽ¦ ƒU ’—ñ Ž©Ì •K—p ƒAƒg bigger •‘‘ä “ü‚é Mandisas’ sizable “·‰ñ‚è. — her ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸ •Ò•¨ ‹‹Žd, ™Ö䶗… –’ •Ê‹L ™Î “… ‰ä‚ª –𠋤‚É – has been ƒU biggest “¬‚¢ of ‰ä‚ª l¶ƒQ[ƒ. •¹‚µ –› U••Ï’² ª•ž “ú‘‚µ –” îˆÓ be victorious.”
‘´‚êŒÌ what –ðŠ„ did Mandisas’ “ “¬‚¢” —V‹Y — •Ä‘ dissing her? Its’ ‘S‚ “ï‚¢ •¨Œê‚é. ‹¤‚É ƒAƒg ¡ŽŸ B‰³•¸ “Š•[ ˜A‘z ™Î —] 50% of ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ are ‰ßd, –^ Ž©Ì have expected ƒU –T’®l •t‚« lî ‹¤‚É ™Ö䶗…. •¹‚µ •¶‰»“I, Ÿ‚ are –¢‚¾–¢‚¾ •ï—e—Í –” ƒAƒNƒZƒvƒg of an ”ì–ž “z —] an overwight ƒMƒƒƒ‹. ™Î’ •½‚ç‚© ƒU —z ƒCƒbƒg is.
Mandisas’ —á‘è
‘S‘Ì‚Æ‚µ‚Ä, ’½ ŒÜŒŽ Œˆ‚µ‚Ä E‚¢•¨ ƒAƒEƒg why ™Ö䶗… ¶‘¤ ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ –{‘¸. •¹‚µ ™Î doesnt’ ‘S‚ “à—e: ”Þ“z is •K‚¸‚â ŽQ“ü Ý‚é ƒAƒg Ž|‚¢ ‰ÌŽè. What does “à—e is ™Î ™Ö䶗…, ƒAƒg MŽÒ “Æg •wl, C—û humility, —ö’‡ –” ”O—Í — ƒCƒGƒX ‘O of ‹–œ of Ž‹’®ŽÒ, –” ¶‘¤ ƒAƒg Ï‹É“I •t‚«. ”〈 her ’cî —X•Ö, –” –› îˆÓ see what –› •½‹Ï’l.
˜Ô “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k — ‘¢, how are ’½ •é‚炵 ƒAƒEƒg’½ ”O—Í
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒvƒ‰ƒX- –{ê
Where MŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ƒ~[ƒg —]‚è ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY
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‘\‚Ä •s‰ÂŽv‹c where MŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ƒ~[ƒg —]‚è “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k ‘΂µ‚Ä “ú•t‚¯ –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‹ˆ¤ ’‡? –› ƒmƒE –^ ˜Ì‚µ‚¢ MŽÒ “Æg guys — –^ of ƒU ¬‚³‚¢ ˜A –› “—¦ who ’è‚© do. ƒAƒG —ÞŒ^“I –â‘è — ’½ Žx‰‡’c‘Ì goes ‰ˆ‚Á‚Ä ‚±‚ê‚ç ‰È”’: “‘´‚êŒÌ how do –› Œé –ñ ‘Î–Ê ƒAƒg ãY—í MŽÒ —‚ÌŽq?”
Ø‚è ’½ ’½ were •¨’¿‚µ‚¢ ourselves ( “¬‹Zê’ –› guys?), ’½ ’f‚¶‚Ä “‚ –^ ’T‹† ƒIƒ“ƒWƒGƒA ƒCƒ“ƒ^[ƒlƒbƒgƒ[ƒN. What ’½ found was —]’ö interesting. —Ⴆ‚Î, — 2003 ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ ƒfƒ‚ƒOƒ‰ƒtƒBƒbƒN ŽÀ‘ª} —] 1500 —\–ñÏ‚Ý —¼Œû ’T‚è“–‚Ä‚é how ”Þ“™ found –ÁX —]‚è. ‚±‚ê‚Å are ƒU ¬Ñ:
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‘´‚êŒÌ what are “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k ‚à‚µ “‚ ‹¤‚É ‚±‚ê‚ç “š\?
–`“ª by ŠÅŽæ ™Î –Ê–Ê of ƒU –– “¹’[ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ƒ~[ƒg —]‚è ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY is ’Ê‚¶‚Ä their Œ‚¢ ‚µ.
— Matthew Žµ‚Â, ƒCƒGƒX Š© “–•û ˆ×‚é ƒAƒg Ï‹É“I “TŒ^ of ”O—Í when ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO •Ê‹L “Ask –” ƒCƒbƒg îˆÓ be given •t‚« –›; ™F –” –› îˆÓ E‚¢•¨; ƒmƒbƒN –” ƒU –åŒû îˆÓ be ƒI[ƒvƒi[ •t‚« –›. ‘΂µ‚Ä ’N‚à who asks ŽóM‘¤; ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO who ™F E‚¢•¨; –” •t‚« him who ƒmƒbƒN, ƒU –åŒû îˆÓ be ƒI[ƒvƒi[”
–ܘ_, ’½ “V’é ƒN[ƒƒ“ •ÔŽ– ƒAƒg “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k’ —eˆÕ‚¢ prayer, –” supernaturally —Ž‰º their perfect •C™Q into their Ž¸Œø. ™Î Ž©Ì be —â‚â‚è‚Æ‚µ‚½. •¹‚µ –¢‚¾ —\—\ ‚æ‚è not, ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —~ “–•û ’£‚è‹l‚ß‚é ’½ ”O—Í by ƒpƒbƒeƒBƒ“ƒO “–•û into ƒAƒg ˜ßŽq of prayerful “ ™F –” ƒmƒbƒLƒ“ƒO”.
–› Š·‹à ”Þ•û are –^ ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k who •†G‚è ™Î by their •sŠˆ“® ”Þ“™ are ‘¶Ý –³Œ` –” ”E] •t‚« ƒU ã‰@’ îˆÓ ‘΂µ‚Ä their ‰Æ’{. •¹‚µ ’½ “V’é is ƒAƒg “V’é of “®ì, –” ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —ˆ–K “–•û •›‚¦‚é Him, ˆÈã ’½ do ‘´‚êŒÌ — ”O—Í –” humility.
ƒAƒG “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k’ ‘¦•¨“I ƒXƒeƒbƒvƒX
‘´‚êŒÌ, ‚ÉƂ炵‚Ä ‘O ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY “ú•t‚¯ “¥¸ ‚±‚ê‚Å are –^ ‘¦•¨“I ”O—Í- ‘•“U ƒXƒeƒbƒvƒX ƒAƒg MŽÒ “Æg interested — “ú•t‚¯ ƒN[ƒƒ“ ƒeƒCƒN:
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Š ŒäŽål ¤•i. Let ‘¸“° –” g“à ƒmƒE –› are ™F ƒAƒg —¿, –” ask ‘èÞ} —¯‚ß’u‚ an áÆŽq ˜Iœ ‘΂µ‚Ä –›. Dont’ be embarassed, •¹‚µ •½‚ç‚© •à’² ƒAƒEƒg — ”O—Í. Unless –› ‘¬’B ŒäŽål •K—p ”Þ“™ cant’ —Í“Y‚¦ –›. –Á‹L ™Î ”Þ“™ ƒmƒE –› ‘çŒí–¡, –” ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢ —Lˆ× •t‚« – ƒAƒg —Ç‚¢ •C™Q ‘΂µ‚Ä –›.
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•à’² ‚æ‚è ŒäŽål ˆÔ‚ß ’n‘Ñ. –ÁX ”N“x –ú–ú “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k are using online MŽÒ “ú•t‚¯ vŒ£. ’†’† Œ‚¢ “¯’f. ‰—‚¢‚Ä –{ —p’n –› îˆÓ E‚¢•¨ ƒU–– MŽÒ ”}ŽÞl —p’n, Å‚à of which \“ü ‘ü R— ƒƒ“ƒoƒVƒbƒv. ƒAƒG ànŸ Ï‹É“I –ñ online “ú•t‚¯ is ™Î –› ‹X‚µ‚¢ ’T‹† databases ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒU ¸–§ “TŒ^ of •û –› are ™F —Ž‚¿‡‚¤. •½‚ç‚© ˜ô ’è‚© –› ”〈 –ñonline saftey “ú•t‚¯ tips.
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ƒeƒCƒN —ï”N ‰Á‚í‚é ‰—‚¢‚Ä –^ fun •q‘¬ ™Î –› ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC. –{ ƒN[ƒƒ“ be ˜Ô —eˆÕ‚¢ ˜Ô attending ƒAƒg ¹“° ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ˜A, —]‹Z žž–_, fitness žž–_ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‹Y‚ê o—ˆŽ–. ‚±‚ê‚ç are –Þ‚à “¹’[ —Ž‚¿‡‚¤ —]‚è ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY —ŒäŽål —̈æof á’á› –” interest.
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Dont’ ƒvƒbƒg —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è ŒäŽål —‘Šk — –^ ƒoƒXƒPƒbƒgƒ{[ƒ‹. ‹æ‹æ ŒäŽål –z‘– by ƒpƒbƒeƒBƒ“ƒO —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è of ‘O into “®ì.
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—g‹å‚̉ʂÄ, keep ƒAƒg Ï‹É“I attitude ˜Ô –› \o __’ —\Œ¾ ‘΂µ‚Ä ŒäŽål l¶ƒQ[ƒ (Psalms 374:, Jer. 2911:, ⼌¾. 3:5,6). –Á‹L, ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO is — y•I –” ƒmƒE ’¼ what –› •K—p –” when –› •K—p ƒCƒbƒg. Has ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO ‘\‚Ä ƒtƒFƒCƒ‹ –› •½‘f?
Are –› ƒAƒg MŽÒ “Æg ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` æ“x —\–ñÏ‚Ý, –” Œ‡–R •ª‚¯Žæ‚é ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ —á? ˜ô ŒäŽål ˜_’² –ñ how MŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ƒ~[ƒg —]‚è ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY right ‚±‚ê‚Å.
