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Emotional Baggage and Singles(share views on this 10/4/08 article?)

Many single Christians walk around with emotional baggage from failed relationships and other expereinces that they have gone through in their lives. When people hear the term “emotional baggage” they also think of “damaged goods.” since very few singles that I know of want to be in a relationship with someone with emotional baggage, in important that singles in this situation learn to make peace with their past if they desire a serious, positive Christian dating relationship.

So what in the world are you packin’ today? Are you still carrying around junk or baggage in your life that you know is just worthless? Some singles I know of us are emotional pack rats, holding on to stuff they know they should have let go of long ago, but they we insist on dragging it along where ever they go.

I say let’s not be too hard on these folks with a lot of emotional baggage. Almost all of us wearily drag along excess baggage from our past into our present everyday lives that hinder and prevent us from winning in our present life situations.

So are any of you feeling like damaged goods today?

The great news is that our God is in the business of of taking people who are damaged goods with old baggage, and turning them into something wonderful.

Bible Verse for Emotional Baggage

~That is what some of you were! But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of our Lord Jesus the Messiah and by the Spirit of our God~ 1 Corinthians 6:11

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Compatibility Love Test-How Compatible Are You With Your Date?(share?)

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Many romance sites have compatibility love tests on them. For those of you who don’t know what a compatibillity love test is, it’s a set of quiz questions that’s suppose to determine if your love interest is compatible with you.

Quite frankly, most of these compatibility love tests are bogus, and should only be taken tongue in cheek. That being said, compatibility does play a huge role in how successful any dating relationship will be.

While the old saying that opposites attract is true, that usually only remains the case in the short run. Afterwards, however, those little quirky things you found “cute’ or “exciting” will most likely turn out to be unbearable, especially if the relationship continues into marriage.

Therefore, we’ve put together some compatibility love test questions that we feel will be helpful to those seeking a dating match. Honestly going over this compatibility love test checklist may save you from a broken heart later.

Compatibility Love Test Questions for Christian Singles

The following compatibility love test keys should be evaluated collectively as you gauge the compatibility level of a potential dating partner or mate.

Compatibility Love Test Key 1- Shared Common Faith

Have you both accepted Jesus as Lord and Saviour? Okay, you’re not dating an unbeliever, but are your denominations compatible? Do your spiritual gifts complement each other for ministry to each other, and as a couple ministering to others?

Compatibility Love Test Key 2- Common Interests

Do you have shared activities that both enjoy? Do you both know how to share good conversations with each other?

Compatibility Love Test Key 3- Common Life’s Ambitions

Do you have similar definitions of what “success” means in regard to career, money, etc? Do you both desire children someday?

Compatibility Love Test Key 4- Common Backgrounds

Is your dating partner from different cultural and economic backgrounds? If you are an interracial dating couple, have you both worked through the potential pitfalls? Do you have a shared circle of friends? Do you reside in the same geographical area? If so, are you able to deal with a long distance dating relationship?

If you are a single Christian seeking true love and compatibility, let us know what you think of compatibility love tests.