– “ú•t‚¯ Online
ŠÕ ƒAƒg •t’
– “ú•t‚¯ vŒ£ are —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è ƒU œ|“{ ’†‚É‚Í ’†‚É‚Í ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY of —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è “TŒ^ –Ô—… – “ú•t‚¯ MŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY. –¢‚¾, ƒU ’mŠo of many – “ú•t‚¯ “Æg ’j— is ™Î š`‚É ”NŽá‚¢ ’š”NŽÒ Ž©Ì be –`Œ¯ ˆÊ —p“r an online “ú•t‚¯ ˜J–±. ¡“ú‚Í ‰ž‚¶‚Ä ƒAƒgPew ƒCƒ“ƒ^[ƒlƒbƒgƒ[ƒN –” ƒAƒƒŠƒJƒ“ l¶ƒQ[ƒ •×Šw, – “ú•t‚¯ online (– “ú•t‚¯ ˆê’è ˜Ô 40+ ”N”y ’†ŒÃ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY) •to‚µ ‘΂µ‚Ä —] 50% of —L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è ƒCƒ“ƒ^[ƒlƒbƒgƒ[ƒN “ú•t‚¯ between ‹ãŒŽ 2005 –” \“ñŒŽ 2005. ™Î’ ƒAƒg ŸÓ‘R‚½‚é âÜ of —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ – “ú•t‚¯ ŽQ“ü ‰—‚¢‚Ä! –” ƒU —\•ñ ’†‚É‚Í online – “ú•t‚¯ ˜J–± ê†•× —LŽ¯ŽÒ is ™Î ‚±‚ê‚ç – “ú•t‚¯ Œv” are •½‚ç‚© ŽQ“ü —¯‚ß’u‚ growing. Why is online – “ú•t‚¯ growing?
”Þ•û are ‹æ‹æ‚½‚é Ž–î why “Æg ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k ’¼ã ¢‘ã of 40 Ž©Ì —p“r ”N’·ŽÒ “ú•t‚¯ —p’n ”@‚MŽÒ ¬˜a
– “ú•t‚¯ Online
‘΂µ‚Ä ƒXƒ^[ƒ^[, ƒU ŽáŠ± —cŽ™ ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ “üê ƒU “ – “ú•t‚¯” ”N—î brackets grows ‹¤‚É –ÁX –” —á”N. •¹‚µ while –{ ˜A of Ÿ‚ is getting ”N“, ”Þ“™ are not “Š~ •t‚« ƒU ŠT”O of ˜VŒã. Ø‚è ƒu[ƒƒ‰ƒ“ have –ˆ–ˆ been avid Á”ïŽÒ of – –” ƒGƒLƒTƒCƒeƒBƒ“ƒO ¬“¹‹ï –” fads, ƒCƒbƒg ‚ׂ« ‚³‚ ˜Ô ” ‹Áœ± ™Î– “ú•t‚¯ online has become an ƒAƒNƒZƒvƒg ‘Å‚ÂŽè ƒ~[ƒg ƒAƒg —¿.
– “ú•t‚¯ –” —ï”N
Many – “ú•t‚¯ ’j— at –{ •‘‘ä — their ‰Æ’{ are ‘哶‚É‚È‚Á‚Ä Ÿ‚. –^ are at ƒU “V’¸“_ of their —ˆ—ð. —]l ‚©‚à‚µ‚ê‚È‚¢“Æg —¼e “ú•t‚¯ ‹¤‚É ˆê”c of ‡¬ •‰’S. “¯‘Ì‚É – •t‚¯ ƒvƒbƒg ƒCƒbƒg •t‚« ƒ}ƒCƒNƒƒGƒŒƒNƒgƒƒjƒNƒX: “ã ƒ[ƒLƒ“ƒO I“ú –” ŽŽQ ‹C•t ƒU ‰ì‹S –” –{ê, –› dont’ have —ï”N Á‚¦‚é– ‘΂µ‚Ä ”N’·ŽÒ “ú•t‚¯ ’‡. Its’ –¢‚¾–¢‚¾ •Ö—˜ –” ‘Ù“® •â‘« ‰ä‚ª ’T‹† ‹¤‚É online – “ú•t‚¯ vŒ£“
– “ú•t‚¯ “á Mid- l¶ƒQ[ƒ •ÏŠv
Many “Æg “a•û –” “Æg —l — their 40s –” 50s’ are —ˆ—Õ ‚æ‚è ’·Šú“I ’‡. Whether ”Þ“™ were æ“x ‚΂‚¢‚¿ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` widowed, –â‘è –” •sR –ñ – “ú•t‚¯ –ñ: “How do –› do –{ “ú•t‚¯ •¨Œ –”‚à‚â?” “Do –› –¢‚¾‚É have what ƒCƒbƒg ƒeƒCƒN?” Many ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY into online – “ú•t‚¯ •†G‚è —§ã‚è ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ˆ—‰ß’ö online is Ž––³‚µ ˜Ô ƒCƒbƒg is done — ƒU ˆÔ‚ß of their own –{ê, –” ”Þ“™ îˆÓ be ‘Î–Ê Ÿ‚ online who have “¯‚¶ — –” “ú•t‚¯ —·æ.
” –› are ƒAƒg “Æg MŽÒ interested — – “ú•t‚¯ online, ’½ Š© ˆÈ‰º – “ú•t‚¯ —p’n, which \“ü ƒAƒg ‘ü Žµ‚ “ú R— of ƒU – “ú•t‚¯ —p’n:
ƒTƒCƒ“ƒAƒbƒv At MŽÒ ¬˜a ‘΂µ‚Ä ‘ü —Ž‚¿‡‚¤ – ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY
—L‚ç‚ñŒÀ‚è of ƒU ŽŸ “ú•t‚¯ vŒ£ \“ü ‘ü R— ƒƒ“ƒoƒVƒbƒv –” ’T‹† databases ™Î ‹X‚µ‚¢ —Í“Y‚¦ –› —ë“x — ‰—‚¢‚Ä – “ú•t‚¯ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY — ŒäŽål —Ìˆæ ‹¤‚É “¯‚¶ interests –” values. ” –› —p“r an online – “ú•t‚¯ ˜J–±, —Ç‚¢ ’†’† ·‚è —]l by •ª”z ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ ˜_’² ‰—‚¢‚Ä – “ú•t‚¯.
MŽÒ ¬˜a ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY
MŽÒ ƒJƒtƒF
MŽÒ ŒŽ‰º•Xl
eHarmony ‘ü •—Ši ‰¡Šç
Perfectmatch
—× —p•i:
ƒT[ƒeƒB[- ‚µ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY –” Online “ú•t‚¯
40s –” 50s ‚µ “ú•t‚¯
”〈 ”á•] ofOther ‘ü R— “ú•t‚¯ —p’n Used by ƒLƒŠƒXƒg‹³“k:
AmericanSingles
MŽÒ ƒJƒtƒF
MŽÒ ¬˜a
PerfectMatch-PerferctMatch.com
“Æg- “Æg MŽÒ –Ô
BigChurch
MŽÒ Soulmates
EHarmony
–– •‚¢ “ú•t‚¯ —p’n
Hispanic –” f’š˜b “ú•t‚¯
“Æg ŽqŽ‚¿ “ú•t‚¯
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒvƒ‰ƒX- –{ê
‘n‘¢“I “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦
ˆë •t’
– –” ‘n‘¢“I “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦ are “‚¢ Ý‚è•t‚, •¹‚µ •s‰ÂŒ‡ ˆ× keep ŒäŽål“ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ‹¤‚É ŒäŽål ƒ|ƒeƒ“ƒVƒƒƒ‹MŽÒ —ì° —¿ ¶¶‚µ‚¢ –” ƒGƒLƒTƒCƒeƒBƒ“ƒO.
Å‚à ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY E‚¢•¨ ƒCƒbƒg ƒAƒg •— l‚¦•t‚ their ‘æˆê ˜º‚©“ú•t‚¯ l‚¦; •¹‚µ“á‚ç, its’ ƒU \Žl “ú•t‚¯ —¹Œ© –” æ‚É ™Î “ú•t‚¯ —¼Œû usually E‚¢•¨ “‚¢ –. ™Î’ why ’½ ƒvƒbƒg ˜ñ ˆÈ‰º “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦ Ï‚Ý — ‡Ž®:
‰³ “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦
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Œé ‰—‚¢‚Ä ƒAƒg sŠy — ƒU ’ë‰, at ƒU À ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •l•Ó
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Œé ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒAƒg ãY—í. —I’· ƒhƒ‰ƒCƒuƒCƒ“ ƒU –M
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ƒeƒCƒN ƒAƒg âh« ç–ê¡ Žè — Žè
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Œé •t‚« ƒU Boardwalk ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒJ[ƒjƒoƒ‹ — ŒäŽål —̈æ
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Œé •t‚« ‹Gß“I jÕ ( ä•, éÏ, etc)
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ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC ‹ZŒ –” àÂ’m ’—ñ ˜ñ
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‹Rs
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Œé •t‚« ƒAƒg ‹¦˜a ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` —V‹Y
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¯ ‹ÃŽ‹ ˜ñ. ‹Â–] when metor ’Ê‚è‰J are æëç», –” –]‚Ý ã –^ “ ”ŽË ¯” while ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC ƒU ŒO•—
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Prepare ƒAƒg —[H ˜ñ, –” ¢ by candlelight
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Œé •XŠŠ‚è ˜ñ
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Œé •t‚« ƒAƒg ƒe[ƒ}ƒp[ƒN
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Œé œ“Ÿ —Â
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Œé ”ƒ•¨ at ƒAƒg ƒ‚[ƒ‹ –› have Œˆ‚µ‚Ä been •t‚« ˜ñ
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ƒeƒCƒN ƒAƒg —·s •t‚« ƒU “sŽs –” ƒEƒCƒ“ƒh[ƒVƒ‡ƒbƒsƒ“ƒO
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Œé •t‚« ƒAƒg ‰f‰æ –” •Ê‚¯‘O ƒAƒg •U of popcorn
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Œé ballroom •‘—x, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒeƒCƒN ballroom •‘—x m ˜ñ.
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ƒeƒCƒN ƒAƒg bike ¢ ƒU –M, ŽRŠx ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ‰ˆ‚Á‚Ä ƒU •l•Ó
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Œé •t‚« ƒU “®•¨‰
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˜J–ð ‰—‚¢‚Ä ƒAƒg ”»‚¶•¨ toether while ƒGƒ“ƒWƒ‡ƒC —D‚ꂽ ˜b‚µ
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Œé ƒAƒEƒg ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒAƒCƒXƒNƒŠ[ƒ at ƒAƒg ‰³ •Ü
˜A “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦
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ƒXƒ[ ƒAƒg fun ‘èÞ} ( ‚ ƒnƒƒC) ˜A
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Have ƒAƒg Š
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’¸‘Õ ƒU ˜d‚¢ —V‹Y ƒAƒEƒg –” —V‹Y —¼Œû ‘Î —¼Œû ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` guys ‘Î —‚ÌŽq
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—V‹Y ƒAƒg ‹Y‚ê o—ˆŽ– ”@‚ bowling ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒoƒŒ[ƒ{[ƒ‹
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–d ƒAƒg Ï‹É —[H at •Ï‚í‚Á‚½ g“à’ ƒz[ƒ
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ƒ~ƒjƒ`ƒ…ƒA golf
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ƒXƒL[ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` tobaggoning
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–‹‰c
•†G‚è —Ç‚¢ “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦
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ŽQ“ü •t‚« ¹“° vŒ£ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ¹“° —× •q‘¬ ˜ñ
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—LŽu ˜ñ at ƒAƒg ’nŒ³ charitable •Ò¬ ”@‚ ƒU ‹~¢ŒR ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒoƒqƒ^ƒbƒg ‘΂µ‚Ä —ì’·
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—Õê ƒAƒg ‘ŠŒÝ —F’B ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ¹“° áÅ‘° ™Î •K—p FD‚¢, ˜d‚¢, etc.
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—Õê ƒAƒg —{Œìƒz[ƒ
ŒO“© “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦
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Do ƒAƒg ¹‘ –{ •×Šw ˜ñ
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Visist ƒAƒg ”Ž•¨ŠÙ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` —ðŽj“I –
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ƒeƒCƒN ƒAƒg – „‰ñ of ƒAƒg –T‚ç‚É “sŽs
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ƒeƒCƒN ˆê”Ô of m at ƒU ’nŒ³ Œö–¯ŠÙ ‰—‚¢‚Ä ‚µ ™Î interests —¼—¼ of –›
‘O “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦ are not Á–Õ“I, •¹‚µ š`‚É ƒAƒg ‘Å‚ÂŽè ’¸‘Õ –› Ž — “ ‚æ‚è ƒU “ú•t‚¯ box” “¹’[. —Ç‚¢ •†G‚è ‘ü •ª‚¯Žæ‚é ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ l‚¦ ‹¤‚É —]‚è ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY by ¬“ü ŒäŽål ˜_’².
—ˆ•œ •t‚« MŽÒ- “ú•t‚¯- ˜J–±- ƒVƒ‰ƒX –{ê
“ú•t‚¯ ’ˆÓ: When •t‚« ŽÌê ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ’‡
”ª‚ ˜_’²Å‚àMŽÒ ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY “ú•t‚¯ ’ˆÓ —LŽ¯ŽÒ ’ñŽ¦ ™Î ƒU —\‘I – of ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ is ’è‚ß‚é whether ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` not ƒU ’‡ is Žæ‘g ™Î îˆÓ “—¦ toward ¬¥. ƒU –â‘è is ™Î many ƒVƒ“ƒOƒ‹ƒY ™• — ƒ|ƒeƒ“ƒVƒƒƒ‹ •sˆ× “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ”Þ“™ ‚ׂ« have ended —y‚©‚É.
Ž–î ‘Î‚µ‚Ä ’·‹ ƒAƒg “ú•t‚¯ ’‡
Whether ƒU “Æg Ÿ‚ ˜AÀ ‘g‚Ýž‚Ý ƒAƒg– “ú•t‚¯ —¼Œû,“Æg —¼e ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒJƒŒƒbƒW ‘¶, ƒU –– ŽO‚ Ž–î •t‚¯ give ‘΂µ‚Ä ’·‹ ƒAƒg ‰³ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ‹Œ‘ԈˑR:
- —Jœô of ‘¶Ý “Æ‚è‚
- —Jœô –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` —Lß —] what ƒU—]‚è•û îˆÓ •†G‚è ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` do
- —Jœô of ™[ ƒU ƒU Žè‹ß ‘΂µ‚Ä ƒU –¼‚à–³‚¢
“ú•t‚¯ Tips: ’‡ ’OF Flags
ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ’ˆÓ ‚±‚ê‚Å is ™Î ” –› have –^ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` –¢‚¾ of ˆÈ‰º“ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ’OF flags, –› ‚ׂ« ç’k”²‚« reconsider whether ‚±‚¿‚ç is ŒäŽål ¶‘¶ŠúŠÔ—ì° —¿:
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Does ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ ”º—µ verbally –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •¨—“I —â”l –›? An Œû«–³‚¢ ’‡ ì‹Æê — ƒAƒg zŠÂ ‚±‚ñ‚È‚É: ƒU —â”l ˆÏ‘õ ƒU –@, –Þ‚à apologizes profusely. ”Þ•û “ú•t‚¯ “Æg’b˜B ƒU •Ï, –” ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ‘¶’u. ¶‘ž, ƒU —â”l zŠÂ ƒŠƒs[ƒg Ž©‘Ì —] –” ‰ü‚ß‚Ä.
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Is ŒäŽål “z ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` —‚ÌŽq —] ‰Â•Ï, —Ì“y ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ`“i‚Ü‚µ‚¢? An —á‘è of –{ “TŒ^ of ‘fU‚è: ”Þ“z —~ Á‚¦‚é ‹¤‚É her ˆÓ’†‚Ì—, •¹‚µ ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO “wont’ —]—T ƒCƒbƒg”, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ŒÆ‘§ her •†G‚è —Lß ‘΂µ‚Ä Œ‚¢ ‘´‚êŒÌ.
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Do Å‚à of ‘¸“° Žˆ‘Ì –” g“à ã¾ –› are ‘¢ì ƒAƒg L‘å ˜Ã? •sˆ× “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ are —eˆÕ‚¢ •t‚« spotunless– –› are ƒU –^ — ‘èÞ}! ™Î’ why its’ ‘債‚½ •·‚, •¹‚µ“á‚ç “ï‚µ‚¢, •t‚« what –¯l ’¼‚Æ “–•û are ˜.
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Does ŠeX “ú•t‚¯ ˜A •s‘« Mœß — ”Þ•û? ” “ú•t‚¯ ’‡, let “Æ‚è‚ ƒAƒg ¬¥, ‹X‚µ‚¢ Žc‘¶ –³‚µ Œ¾ŠO Mœß –” —¥‹V.
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Have –› caught ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ interest lying –ñ insignificant –¾×? –Á‹L, ” ŒäŽål •t‚¯ E‚¢•¨ ƒCƒbƒg —eˆÕ‚¢ ‹U‚é –ñ “ ‚µ •¨Ž–”, ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ”Þ“z îˆÓ š~ do ‘´‚êŒÌ –ñ ƒU biggies.
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Does ‘¼l Œˆ‚µ‚Ä ã•Ó —i‚·‚é —ï”N ‘΂µ‚Ä –›, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` •‰‚¯É‚µ‚Ý why –› cannot be ˜ñ? ‚±‚¤‚·‚ê‚Î –› ‹X‚µ‚¢ be ’è‚© ™Î ”Þ•û is ŠeX ‘Þ‹ü ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` –³—~ — ƒU “ú•t‚¯ ’‡.
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Is ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ”Þ“z ·‚è –› ’¸‘Õ –§ •t‚« ƒCƒGƒX, ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` causing –› •t‚« çƒ –” –v—Ž æ‚É? Have –› –v—Ž into «“I çƒ –”/ ƒIƒyƒŒ[ƒVƒ‡ƒ“ƒYƒŠƒT[ƒ` ƒƒXƒg ŒäŽål á’á› ‘΂µ‚Ä l‚ÌŽq –” His “`Œ¾?
‘S‘Ì‚Æ‚µ‚Ä, –Á‹L ƒU “V’é is ƒU –^ ‹†‹É ’S”C of ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ ’‡, –” ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO —\Œ¾ —Ž‚¿‡‚¤ ŒäŽål —L‚ç‚ä‚é •K—p (Phil. 4:19). ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO îˆÓ “—¦ –› •t‚« • •û ˜Ô –› “Š~ •t‚« Him, •¹‚µ ƒqƒ…[ƒ}ƒ“ƒGƒ“ƒWƒjƒAƒŠƒ“ƒO –’ —~ “–•û ˜M‚·‚é ’½ lî. ‘´‚êŒÌ —p“r ‘O “ú•t‚¯ tips ˜Ô lî ’ˆÓ •‚¯‚é – ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ ’‡.
Are –› ƒAƒg “Æg MŽÒ ‹¤‚É —]‚è “ú•t‚¯ ’‡ ’OF flags •ª‚¯Žæ‚é? —Ç‚¢ ’†’† ·‚è —]l by •ª”z ŒäŽål “ú•t‚¯ ’ˆÓ ‚±‚ê‚Å.
