信者 シングルズ 日付け 未信者
麿 are 某 of ザ many 信者シングルズ 日付け an 未信者, save yourself 副 波瀾万丈 by 起床 ザ日付け 仲 出来る限り早期.
At ザ 余程 最少, ザ 莫大 丁年 of キリスト教徒 who 付け 未信者 オペレーションズリサーチ unsaved シングルズ 例 亡失 of 性的 無垢, 亡失 of 友情 共に ザ 天帝 又 余り believers, 又 heartache.
付け加えると, 有らん限り 打っ通しに ザ 聖書 天帝 誡告 当方 対して 朕 own 擁護 not 付き 伴侶 (be 不平等 ヨーク) 共に 未信者 (ex.2Cor: 614:). 歴史家 is 輿 共に ザ 形無し 家畜 of those who have フェイル 靡く 本 用命. 平滑 独演, ザ 旨い 伊達男 曾て, 悲鳴 up 本 領域, why do キリスト教徒 羸 彼等 宜しい 恋仲 イエス又確乙 仲 (日付け, 成婚) 共に 未信者?
儘 朕 were 其れ故 interested 本 話題, 信者 日付け 労務 プラス! did 朕 own 踏査 探り当てる why アト 信者 力 中中 日付け an 未信者 オペレーションズリサーチ non- 信者.
事情 キリスト教徒 Give 対して 日付け 未信者
“ 麿 付け 題材} 彼等 五月 さ 付き 人の子”
本 中古 待機 is ノウ 儘 宣教師 日付け. ザ 論理 これで is 厥 ザ 有り得ない程 独身 女の子 オペレーションズリサーチ独身 奴 ザ 信者 is 日付け 五月 become saved 通じて their . What 燃料 本 民間 合理化 is 厥 余程 不世出 instances, 本 真に does 幽玄.
我が“ boyfriend ( 意中の女) is 未だ 無形 より 余り キリスト教徒 Ive’ 付け”
本 憂い 評 オンジエア 伝道 信者 聖堂 is 路線 共に 答申 of Josh McDowell 又 ジョージ 亀の手 厥 陳列 彼方 is 本格的 変わり ザ 性的 動作 of キリスト教徒 又 未信者. 例えば, 彼等 拾い物 厥 55% of 信者 十台 have 性交 by 世代 of 18. 朕 宜しい 啻に assume 厥 本 番号 亢進 儘 独身 キリスト教徒 頂戴 年嵩 又 have 未だ 便.
彼方“ are 使用可能 キリスト教徒 我が 聖堂 オペレーションズリサーチ 領域”
朕 got 此方 alot. 各々 有らん限り ザ 良い 信者 殿方 オペレーションズリサーチ 女人 are テイク, オペレーションズリサーチ ザ 啻に 使用可能 独身 身 are オタク オペレーションズリサーチ whackos. Im’ 定か youve’ met アト 仄か of これら, right?
キリスト教徒 闘い 共に 日付け 未信者
麿 are アト 独身 信者 闘い これで 首尾, テイク 勇烈! 朕 are 嘸 not 審査 誰も 儘 最も of 当方 have 予予 been 通じて イット. 聞き手, ザ 天帝 倩 恋仲 麿, 併し 欲 麿 拵える 了見 厥 情意 做 Him 傲然たる 又 殷富 麿 旁旁. 其れ故 羸 約 又 pray 余 以下 点数 疇 造作 任意 日付け 了見 本 領域.
天帝 忘れ形見 His 予言
厥 力 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 情意 ミート 有らん限り 御主人 必用 応じて His 爛漫たる 富裕. (Phil. 419:, Psalms 374:). 投降 付き Him 儘 麿 ウエイト 首を長くして 於いて Him. 麿 情意 not be 憮然, 併し 銘記 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 姑息 物事 有らん限り 佚 His 暦年, not 御主人. 宜しい 麿 柄 厥?
Why 沈降 対して 次善?
, 彼方 are 某 綺麗 氓 アウト 浮世 who are 未だ 無形 又 可憐 より 某 キリスト教徒 麿 ノウ. 其れ故 what? ザ 有りのまま is 彼方 are 複数 千千 of 信心深い, attractive 又 熱烈 信者 シングルズ ウエイト 於いて 天帝 対して 一つ事 麿 are. Got 念力?
銘記 What 天帝 Says
Dont’ 平均値 在る 説教, 併し 麿 偏向 付き 便利 回避 those 用品 of ザ 聖書 厥 碁 対 what 麿 振幅変調 首謀 働く. 其れ故 疇 参入 headfirst into 一盛り of crap, check アウト これら 詩句 綿密: 壱 Cor. 1533:, 弐つ Cor 614:- 十六.
Have 麿 くたくた 有らん限り 御主人 力?
Many シングルズ ザ 聖堂 who 膚触り 彼方 is 余り 二者選一 付き 日付け an 未信者, 五月 have not at 余り 取捨 of where 信者 シングルズ ミート 余り シングルズ.
麿 are アト 信者 独身 who has 尚 insights 於いて 日付け 未信者, 良い 中中 盛り 余り シングルズ by 分配 御主人 例.
隣 役職:
来復 付き 信者- 日付け- 労務- シラス 本場
隣 役職:
麿 振幅変調 アト 独身 信者 who 闘い 共に ザ 問題 of “ 有らん限り ザ 良い 身 are テイク” 又 命懸け not 知る 憮然 by 厥 想い. Not 打ん殴る those who are “ テイク” 併し, イット were 平らか 約 存在 “ 良い” none of 当方 クーロン be “ テイク” 余程 尚 saved. 麿 too have 闘い 共に 性的 首尾 我が 曰く 疇 麿 got saved. 麿 未だに 闘い 共に イット, 併し 我が 見通し has 変流器. イット is アト 侑 対して 吾妹 when not 麿 拾い物 her, オペレーションズリサーチ 彼奴 拾い物 マイクロエレクトロニクス, オペレーションズリサーチ 朕 拾い物 銘々 余り. 其れ故 dont’ let 其れ故- コールド 無形 卓 陸上 憮然 麿 各々. Were’ saved 儘 朕 were 有らん限り 罪人; ヒューマンエンジニアリング died オンジエア 折衷 while 朕 were 未だ 罪人 某 of 当方 “ 悪質化” より 余人, which 姑息 朕 涅槃 有らん限り それだけ 加糖. Dont’ let 余人 牽引 麿 羽毛 オペレーションズリサーチ 講評 麿 対して イット.
拝啓 マイク-
謝辞 対して 御主人 気が利く 論調 オンジエア 信者 独身 人生ゲー. Let マイクロエレクトロニクス 勧 麿 by 有らん限り ザ 良い 身 are 必ずや not テイク. 麿 ノウ 厥 儘 朕 頂戴 千千 of 信者 シングルズ 於いて 本 用地 毎週 praying 対して 一つ事 麿 are.
又 銘記..麿 啻に 必用 拾う“” 某 of those 良い 身, 又 共に ザ 天帝 於いて 御主人 脇, its’ 一介 内容 of 暦年, 我が 魔窟..
天帝 bless,
David
ホー, 真に 扨 麿 闘い これで 問題. ive’ 付け 共に アト non 信者 奴 対して 略 弐つ 年輩. 対して 定か, で ヒューマンエンジニアリング 宜しい become 信者 何時か. 併し 生憎, 上 弐つ 年輩 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 倣 マイクロエレクトロニクス 付き 聖堂, ヒューマンエンジニアリング told マイクロエレクトロニクス 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 漸く cant’ アクセプト 信者. 其れ故, 扨 麿 dont’ ノウ what 働く? 不可思議 劈く up 共に him 併し 麿 cant’ do 其れ故, 由 麿 未だに 余程 恋仲 him.And 其れ故 do him.
又 御主人 台詞 >>> Why 沈降 対して 次善? 本 備忘 マイクロエレクトロニクス of what 我が 聖堂 年少者 驍将 told マイクロエレクトロニクス 疇. why 卜 ザ 2nd 無上 併し not 醍醐味?
麿 未だに 余程 紛らわしい, 儘 im’ アト 優に 歔 女の子.. 略 万端 麿 歔 when 羸 of 本 問題.
想い 聞く より 麿 程なく.
成る丈, 想い 朕 宜しい 通じて 電子メイル. 謝辞
天帝 bless~
恋仲, yvonne より マレーシア
麿 振幅変調 31 又 have been praying unceasingly 対して 天帝 備え付ける アト 信者 万物の霊長 付き マイクロエレクトロニクス. 先度 麿 met アト イスラ 万物の霊長 who 上辺 在る 万端 麿 have 曾て prayed 対して 除いて of 由 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is イスラ. べき 麿 樹立 アト 仲 共に him オペレーションズリサーチ not. What 自称 be ザ 落とし穴 of 従事 そんな アト 仲 平らか cant 上辺 拾う 任意 信者 guys 前後, 麿 have 給仕, ファスナー prayed 又 共に 32 峰 前後 ザ 面 Im’ 平らか 初心者 落とす 念力 凡て ウエイト 対して ザ 天帝 遊戯.
re: カロライナ
倣 御主人 中部. its’ ザ 22nd 世紀; ザ 万物の霊長 恋仲 麿 儘 余程 儘 麿 恋仲 him, why not? グッドラック
対して 有らん限り yyou 氓 who are crying 余 where イット 我が 料. 銘記 天帝 is 天帝 又 厥 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 情意 さ 通じて 対して 麿 麿 have 待つ 於いて him 又 be 聞き分け. When 麿 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is 天帝 麿 振幅変調 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 宜しい do 幾らか ヒューマンエンジニアリング 宜しい 変革 アト 罪人. 併し 麿 べき pray, 信憑 又 do what ヒューマンエンジニアリング tell 当方 付き His 伝言. 停留 日付け ザ 罪人 又 冒頭 praying 対して 天帝 情意 又 ours 在る done. ザ 罪人 御主人 人生ゲー 決して さ 又 頂戴 saved 彼等 平らか were not ザ 某 対して 麿 又 天帝 has 少し 此れ程 優利 対して 麿. 麿 情意 be 嬉しい 麿 didnt’ up 共に 民人 麿 are ザ 仲 共に 扨. 信憑 天帝 又 テイク Him at His 伝言.
ホー, 麿 振幅変調 アト 逞しい believer 天帝 又 麿 クーロン 羸 of 外 付き be より ザ 戈 of 天帝!! 対して 日付け an 未信者 麿 平らか 先度 let 某 碁 に基づいて 我が belief. イット didnt’ 平滑 最終 アト 月. 麿 knew 元元 厥 日付け an 未信者 自称’ 労役 併し 麿 不屈 共に イット 兎角. 麿 let him ノウ 元元 how 切実に 麿 フェルト 約 天帝. ヒューマンエンジニアリング didnt’ 念頭 併し 麿 had アト 不可 念 毎回 朕 met up. Instead of 念 愉快 望む him 麿 フェルト 大変. 麿 嫌悪 念 然ういう 又 身内 前記 “give イット 三月”, “ 平らか see イット 情意 労役”. 麿 tried 付き 併し 彼等 werent’ ザ 身 having 臨む 日付け an 未信者. 麿 嫌悪 曰く イット 併し 麿 seen his flaws ヒューマンエンジニアリング オープナー his 入口. ヒューマンエンジニアリング tried 齎らす 我が バージニティー, 併し 麿 knew 優利 より 厥! 麿 had さ 本 遥かに 無し “ 御存知 アト 万物の霊長” 扨 麿 クーロン 碁 薄薄 もっと!! ヒューマンエンジニアリング got upset 併し 麿 予予 knew イット was 暦年 対して him 赴く 又 マイクロエレクトロニクス 置き換える 於いて. What アト 乗り of 我が 人生ゲー!! 朕 碁 通じて 用事 例 共 learn, 又 麿 先覚 彼方 is 驀進 切ない 拾う 某 when 天帝 is 切ない 形作る マイクロエレクトロニクス 又 マイクロエレクトロニクス into ザ 婦人 ヒューマンエンジニアリング 欲 マイクロエレクトロニクス 在る. 麿 振幅変調 未だに 清らか 又 渾然たる 又 ウエイト 於いて 伊井 万物の霊長 who 情意 塩水 喜悦 付き 我が 人生ゲー. 麿 振幅変調 存在 用意周到 約 ザ 殿方 厥 御覧 来る マイクロエレクトロニクス!!!! Beware 日付け an 未信者!!!
Rozetta:
謝辞 対して 御主人 論調. 朕 are praying 対して 麿. 日付け an 未信者 不世出 作業場 アウト 儘 “ 宣教師 日付け” 不世出 作業場. 有りのまま 九工大 厥’ 又 不可 注意 我が 本, 併し 麿 do 了知 カロライナ’ 立場. 謝辞 対して 御主人 論調.
お前さん guys,
麿 平らか すっからかん up 共に 我が 未信者 許婚, yup, 麿 was 約 片付く, 併し ザ 第一 日 at カウンセリング ザ 首尾 駱駝 up, 麿 フェルト 全く 不可 儘 麿 恋仲 her 此れ程,
併し 我が 恋仲 対して 天帝 is 最強, よしんば 麿 did 不可, 麿 up 暮らし 共に her 一頻り. got インボルブ 性的 朕 すっからかん up 両口 of 倍 又 今般 イット was 仍って 念力 麿 フェルト 麿 was 存在 付き 逞しい 共に her
願わくわ 対して 鞏固 態態 儘 朕 労役 偕
謝辞
Desejo manter 便り 聖書 o que devo fazer? agradeﾃｧo ajuda デ vossa 役割
対して 日付け 未信者: お前さん, 我が 無上 友達, who is アト 女の子, has been 日付け an 未信者 対して 略 アト 年度 扨. 麿 have 毎毎 フェルト 窮屈 約 イット 併し have 決して 全く 有声 イット. 約 参 オペレーションズリサーチ 四つ 月 上 彼等 スターター 日付け, 彼奴 颯と フェルト 厥 天帝 was telling her 立ち去る him 儘 ヒューマンエンジニアリング is not アト 信者, 又 本 was ばりばり her up, 尤も 彼奴 颯と had an “Its’ what 天帝 欲” attitude 又 承前 望む him. Do 麿 羸 天帝 自称 be 選択子 こんなに? 如く ヒューマンエンジニアリング 自称 “Its’ 宜しい 対して こちら, 併し not 対して 本 方” 典型 of 物件??? 麿 振幅変調 アト 奴 又 麿 used 擁する 余程 感慨 対して her 又 彼奴 ノウ イット, 其れ故 麿 have 毎毎 フェルト 厥 麿 挙げた イット up, 彼奴 自称 羸 麿 振幅変調 平らか 存在 利己的, 又 麿 平滑 問題 自分 麿 振幅変調 平らか 存在 利己的 又 未だに 欠乏 在る 共に her. Is イット 平滑 我が 余地 齎らす イット up? 麿 平らか 欠乏 醍醐味 対して her 又 憂懼 対して her 呉 into 辜, 又 dont’ 欠乏 her 恋しがる 神神’ 謀 対して her 人生ゲー.
任意 注意 自称 be 優れた.
メルシー 此れ程! 天帝 bless!
人の子
お前さん, 以上 人の子 より 末の末 役職 共に an 修正. 偖, 麿 had been praying 連中 約 我が 信者 無上 友達 日付け an 未信者, 又 イット 輪番 アウト, 彼奴 平らか すっからかん up 共に him! 彼奴 前記 彼奴 knew イット wasnt’ 神神’ 謀 対して her 在る unevenly ヨーク 付き an 未信者.
厥’ イット
気を付けて
-センチ
Im’ attracted 付き アト non 信者 奴, who 忘れ形見 於いて asking マイクロエレクトロニクス アウト. 朕 コネクト 其れ故 many 平平 知性的 又 主情的. で ヒューマンエンジニアリング 力 be ザ 某 我乍ら. Im’ 厥 天帝 is ワーキング 於いて his 中部 right 扨, 又 某 朕 情意 折衷 道筋 又もや. 対して 扨 麿 have 卜う 対して 存在 身内 ( 儘 ヒューマンエンジニアリング doesnt’ ノウ 天帝), 併し 曾て ザ タイミング is right, 又 天帝 gives マイクロエレクトロニクス ザ 碁 通信, 扨 余事 is 歴史家.
麿 have 厭う. When 氓 are 恋仲 オペレーションズリサーチ 欠乏 somebody 朕 宜しい 詭謀 ourselves 付き believing 彼等 are saved when 彼方 is 木ノ実. 併し 朕 説諭 ourselves 厥 ザ ボーフラ ridden アップル are 良い 木ノ実 彼等 are not. 勿れ 欺瞞.
朕 are 僥 アト 仲 オペレーションズリサーチ are アト 仲 共に an 未信者 彼等 予予 “ 頂戴 saved” 平らか 留まる 共に 当方. 彼方 了見 対して “ 来臨 付き 人の子” is not 清らか 又 is at its core 利己的. ザ 啻に 返事 is 脱する of 厥 仲 又 flee より イット.
予予 朕 佚 神神’ 情意 対して 朕 情意 儘 イット is 便利. 勿れ 欺瞞.
Pray 対して 併し 第一 麿 べき 朝飯 up 共に . 又は 麿 没落 付き 最悪 辜 of 有らん限り 偽善.
Its 難い 併し 天帝 情意 治癒 御主人 失恋.
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次善? who is 曰く だからと言って 彼等 are 信者 彼等 情意 尚 御主人 念力 オペレーションズリサーチ make you happy. you could be weary because its good to share common interests, but to leave somebody purely on the reason that they share different spirtial beliefs to you is absurd. Jesus spent most of his time being around sinners. God may have placed your bf in your life to strength your faith. or like so many stories ive heard, to witness to them and their friends. if you are in a happy loving relationship with a non christians, if it works, then stay with them.
Born again Christians John3:3 says we are are born of God, so how can a child of God even think about dating any body that is not born again. Not only that God said in His holy word, 2 Corinthians 6:14, “BE NOT UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS: 4 WHAT FELLOWSHIP DOES RIGHTEOUSNESS & INIQUITY? OR WHAT COMMUNION HATH LIGHT WITH DARKNESS” Don’t take this scripture out of context, it simply means “yoked with a DIFFERENT yoke” It not only is true spiritually, but even in regards to our future.
This is the first place that I have been to that does not make me feel worse than I already do…so I will pour out everything here. Six months ago, I met a guy who was not a christian. I fell for him the first day I met him. He didn’t have to do much to get me, Just ask me out on a couple of dates. Before you know it we were boyfriend and girlfriend and were sleeping together. Almost as bad as not being a christian, he treated me awful. Now it has been about six months. I was writing in my Journal all along about what a bad idea this was, but i kept ahead with it. Now I am in love with him, but at the same time, know that it can’t work. I just recently stopped talking to him about 80 hours ago. I broke up with a christian before this non-saved guy who was just not on the same page with me, and was really upset about it and depressed. I had been celibate 5.5 years and was doing good presumably. I lost everything so quickly. I was (am?) trying everything to make it work. I don’t know why. It is as if something has taken over me. I went from being this confident leader in so many aspects in my church to this lump of a person who can barely see what God has for her anymore. I am about to start school and was blessed to have a full ride, but I am so mad that I don’t have/can’t find a good mate for me. One who is a Christian, and who has it together. I am in my late twenties, and even though that is not old…I want to be married. I know that I can be alone, but I am so tired of being alone. I was not unhappy single, I just don’t want to be. I feel like God is playing some sort of trick on me. I am thankfully not too heart broken, but I am sad that I am craving this man, and not craving the Lord like I used to. I am so afraid of going to hell, that I am inching my way back…I just don’t want to fall again…it hurts badly and it is very scary. I don’t know what to do to stop the cycle. I am too afraid to talk to my friends from church, or even my pastor that I am close to and definitely not my mom or dad. I know it is a trick of the enemy but I am still scared. I am depressed, I cry all the time, I have thoughts about suicide a lot, and this was even before the sexual relationship– they have just intensified since then. Please help me. I don’t want to feel like this anymore…I want to be happy again. And I also want to get married soon, so that I can stop feeling like a big sinner. This is an area of pure defeat for me. I feel like I can control everything else, but not this. Every time I give it to the Lord, even after years, it comes back to haunt me. It is depressing me. I am not free. Please help.
Dear Wandering,
Wow, there is so much I want to say to you. First of all, I identify with so much that you have said. It appears that God is doing the same work in many of His children. I also feel honored that you would trust us where you would not trust others, so I want to be faithful with that and not disappoint you. I hope it makes you feel better to know that others have been there, and are going through the same thing. And I want to find a way to comunicate with you directly because I do have so much to say. As I’ve stated in a previous response, I will have an email address on here soon.
One thing I see that you’re doing that is incredibly right is you’re journalling. Make sure you give yourself a pat on the back for this! In this way (journalling) you are owning the situation, and processing through it, and also validating yourself. Whatever is happening in your life good or bad, you know that you are worth enough to put it all on paper. You’re also a good writer! Maybe all the journalling is the reason why. Like me, this could make you a professional writer one day! It will also get you through college a lot easier than others, so good for you!
The rest of what you wrote is difficult to address. Perhaps the answers for you are different than for me. We older single ladies wonder, why can’t we have the one thing we desire? That thing we were made for? Is God playing tricks, does He really love me? Then why won’t He give me a good man to love me? He said He would give us the desires of or heart, when! Why not now! Again Wandering, there are no easy answers. But I think you’re doing the right thing, you’re bringing it to God. You’re processing through your emotions. I know you will find peace and comfort here. Above everything else you will find your relationship with God is better than anything else in the world.
Let me make a suggestion that may really help you. Do you know any married people? Have you ever seen them fight? Worry about bills, or have concerns about their kids? Have you heard them say they were depressed or suicidal? I have seen all of the above. Are you aware of what God may be saving you from? Maybe you think like me, sometimes you would give everything you have just for a fight with your spouse. But I think you and I will have that soon enough. In the mean time, I believe the closer you get to God, the less important marriage will be to you, and you will be able to focus on all the important things in your life right now, like school, and Christian service, and other things which you may not have mentioned here.
We single ladies think marriage is really important, among other things, because our culture idolizes it. As believers we have more wisdom. Sex and marriage are not everything. We just have to make sure we are not acting like the world. (II Cor. 6:17). Remember Wandering, we have been redeemed from this. For the world sex may be the best thing they have. We have a greater hope! You have a greater future than to be united with a man who treats you bad. And because of your faith thankfully, you were able to get out of that painful relationship, where you were less (for just a moment) than God sees you as. Praise God!
There are a lot of ladies going through the same things that you are, including myself. Please stay in touch. I really appreciate you. And I affirm how valuable you are to God and His kingdom. And those suicide thoughts, that’s just the world being broken off of you. Let God come in and give you new life as it passes away. If the thoughts are serious PLEASE get help. But many of us in the kingdom, married and single have times that we feel life is too hard to live. You are not alone. I know you will come out of this victorious, if you have not already.
May I recommend you read through all of II Corinthians? I will read through it with you. I know you will be so blessed, and I will too. Anyone reading this post, please feel free to join us.
Again thank you so much for trusting us with your heart,
Much love in Christ,
CadyB
I know actually what you are going through. I’m so tried of crying and being depressed. I’m 29 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. It seems that every guy i meet is only interested in one thing ( mostly unbelievers). It’s really hard to meet saved men my age. They are mostly married by my age. It seems the closer I inch towards thirty , my desire to be a wife and a mother is getting glimpser by the moment. The last guy i was involved with ( who claimed to be saved) only wanted to use me for sex and unfortunently i gave in ,but to only get hurt AGAIN. His ex girlfriend moved in with him and he pretty much dumped me. The bad part is I found out I was pregnant when i had a miscarriage ( i didn’t even know i was pregnant). Of course , he didn’t believe me. Right now I’m on anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds . I ‘ve even been hospitalized for depression. Right now I am tried and I’m now starting to believe that their no one out their for me because I’m so messed up in the head . Most importantly, I don’t trust God in this area of my life anymore. I feel completely hopeless.
I’m wondering what is felt about two parents trying to make a relationship work. Unmarried, have a child and one parent recently became saved. They dated less than a year, got pregnant and have been on and off for several years now. They are discussing the possibility of reuniting but I fear that now that one is a believer and one is not that it would be extremely difficult. However, they feel they need to marry to ‘fix’ the problems they have had over the years. It’s difficult to know what to do when a child is involved.. should it be handled the same or different as a couple dating who have no children together?
Thank You.. Lou
Hello everyone. I just wanted to leave a word of encouragement to those who find it hard wainting for the right person from God. I am 34 and single, I have seen Him work mightily in other areas of my life and simply know that somehow, some day, he will provide.
I was once engaged to a girl who had some aspect of her character that were not compatible with a Christian lifestyle. I was aware of it but secretely wished that she would somehow change. I managed to convince myself that God has a plan for that, but I eventually came to face the truth and had to break up, leaving a lot of scars on both sides. I later realised that it is not honest to claim to love someone when you secretely wish them to change.
If we’re not comfortable with someone’s faith, then maybe we shouldn’t start dating them in the first place or see them as a possible recipient of our love. I know it is a tough decision to make because most of us want to have someone on our side to share things with.
If, as Kit is suggesting, we think it’s okay that they are not Christian, then maybe we seriously need to work on our own fruits of the Spirit. We don’t have to observe 2 Cor 6:14 because it will grant or maintain our salvation. We already received salvation by grace (Eph 2:8), but we must show ourselves worthy of it and demonstrate the fruit of salvation (James 2:17-18).
Waiting upon God is a fruit of the Spirit. They say “the choices we make determine the people we become”. Who do you want to become?
some christians have married unbelievers and they have gotten saved true some after a time of hardship and suffering but they got saved. I have a close friend who was a very committed christian she was looking for a partner inthe christian community although she is pretty and a nice person. the guys wouldnt even look her way becuse women are supposedly jezebel. but outside the church they are sleeping with unsaved girls. After pain and suffering in the church she met the nicest guy ever true they did sleep together but are now happily married and he comes to church as well. he takes care of her well. now if she had remained looking for a partner in church she would have still been single and alone. I know bcuz i’m in the same boat. I have had many opportunities to date non christians and have stayed committed this has got me nowwhere. I am 33 and if a meet a guy i like i will date him regardless of faith. Besides theres no difference in the behaviour of christians and non christians many beat their wives or have affairs.
My name is monica and 20 years old and engaged. I was in storm for a while with my partner. We were fighting and arguing. Beacuse I was putting him first and not god, which was wrong. Things were really bad and i was feeling unloved and not cared for. I was getting bads thoughts in my head, I thought he was cheating on me and getting supions. It was getting too much. One of my christains friends help me to get right with god again. Now I put god first and then him things are looking up. I feel I don’t get as much thoughts now. I’m stonger with god then i ever been now i know i’m loved by god, because other humans will let you down but god won’t. I’m helping him who is god, but it’s quite had sometime because his got a stubborn spirit, he wants to know god then his dosn’t. I don’t what to do, I don’t he really love or just lusting. I need some advice. Thank you.
P.S. Monica…as for knowing whether it’s love or lusting…how will you ever know unless you know that your man is willing to give his life to Christ? To live for him and not for self!
Hello all singles,
Well I am 31 years old and a believer who has been through the hurdles. I do ask myself the question why am I so desparate to get too intimate and sometimes I am eager to start or give unsave men a chance in my life. However the Devil doesn’t care who we are and endeavour to destroy us but I thank God for persons who encourage me along the way. It is always imperative to share these issues with someone who can provide spiritual guidance through Christ to help lead us back on track. God doesn’t want us to go back to the beggarly elements for we are bought with a price and our temple belong to the holy ghost. Therefore in all fairness may the Lord help us to wait because his best is yet to come. I remember when i stepped out of God’s will for the sake of having a boyfriend who was not a christian oh i feel like i didn’t want to loose him and sexual encounter was done but eventually I had to cut loose because it throw me offguard and I was totally devasted but to God be the glory who helped me to recover. Although I feel as if I am struggling with the flesh I know that God’s grace is sufficent to keep me. Singles let us save yourselves from unnecessary pain which come from impatience and desparation to get intimate. Stand firm. May God ever keep us holy until He is ready to disclose our mate or bless us otherwise.
Hey everyone.
I am 18 years of age and i have recieved the gift of salvation god has certainly worked wonders in my life. I have had to push so many bad influences out of my life. there was so many friends that i had to push away. a true friend was always hard to come by, for me. i didnt know how to part the ones i had and the ones i wanted. But i did so i gave that problem up to god and he helped me through it to me friendship is gods gift of having good faith for he has a gift for each person touched. giving and giving is a rare friendship. But i have recently became hurt in a situation and i dont know how to react that well to it. everyone i know now these days gets lonely well i do, i started talking to this guy and this guy was a saved guy that professed his faith, i really started to like this guy but he says he likes me as a friend “right now” that it could be possibe on down the road but for me not to focus on what could be and focus on what is in the moment. I was fine with it until he started to date and spend his time with a unbeliever its not forbidden but god says we give guidance to them but not date them. how could he do that?? i dont understand how he can do that, how he can tell me he is not ready for a relationship but yet do that? If he just started giving his life with the lord. how could he do that? How could he do that to me? I need guidance because i dont understand!!
RE: Rozetta
Not all nonbelievers will try to take your virginity away.
I am a virgin and girl i gotta say you seem like you ride your horse a little tooo high. YOu need to calm down there. You are no better than the unbeliever. God will look at you no different if you keep feeling as if you are better than them. If a man respects you it doesnt matter whether he believes or not.
Some of the account I’ve seen on here make me come to the conclusion that many singles will be single all their lives being alone, because those that they seek in the church have selfish desires like money, sex and that they want it ALL. there are too many of these fake people! No wonder there are more divorces and less marriages, cohabiting couples, singles parents and so on. This nation and the world will have more single people who will all die alone
This is a really random thing to do, but I am a non-christian girl in a relationship with a christian boy that is starting to struggle with my lack of faith. I came to this place looking for some insight, and am a little upset with the lack of tolerance for, and the way non-christian people are referred too. I dont want to corrupt anyone, I dont want to interfere with anyones commitment to God, im just in love. We are in love. I dont feel mature enough to commit to a belief system at this point in my life. But i dont want to lose him, he has inspired me to change, to look at my life differently, to be better. Im struggling for an answer.
Dear Jess,
I wouldn’t normally do this, but I find myself in a similar situation here. I wouldn’t necessarily call myself Non-Christian, but I sure know that’s how Christians see me. I believe in God but not in all the ceremonies and superficial traditions of any given church(of course I haven’t been to all churches, this is just a generalization).
I’m finding myself possibly in love with a Christian guy and I’ve been thinking a lot for the last two weeks or so. I ask myself should I give in and go along with his beliefs and turn to Christianity? Or maybe I should try and explain him my views and see if he likes me enough to try and make this work as it is. I have many Christian friends and so far we have had no disagreements when it comes to relationships, they all see my point and even though they disagree nobody’s tried to change my mind. I find it interesting that people online seem much less open to Non-Christians than in real life. And also the word “unbeliever” seems a bit insulting since I’m very sure I do believe. It’s just that I’m disappointed in religion, God still remains great, grand and wonderful for me. I might believe in my heart more than I believe in the average pastor/minister or whatever you want to call them.
I think you should just talk this through with your guy and see if you can reach a compromise. If you plan on staying with him you have to know there will be many more compromises and that’s what relationships are. Just ask yourself if you really love him, and then figure out how fare are you ready to go in a compromise. It doesn’t have to be difficult, all you two need is to talk this through and set boundaries, and maybe create a rule list. For you to respect his beliefs and for him to understand what you two have and what it means to him.
Hello Jess,
You’ve have a huge choice in front of you if you want to keep him. He will get more distant the longer you are together if you do not at. Yes, you’ll have to FIND your beliefs and ask him to help you find what YOU believe in. If they are compatible then you have a chance at a future. There is no such age where you need a “belief system”…You are always living what you believe even if you can’t verbalize it. If you want to keep him , you’d better find out what the heck you believe in and learn to communicate that to him.
If you don’t, you won’t keep him. That is a fact in the long run. Don’t be put off by people’s insensitive wording, take the chicken if you will…
These are not relative “belief systems” to anyone who lives in them…they are fact…as much as gravity is fact to the science-only types.
hi i’m at a point in my life where i believe that i am in love with an unbeliever. its almost nine months since i’ve been seeing him and i haven’t seriously commited to him just yet (well at least not officialy) because i would love to commit to him but i know that according to the bible which i totally believe in speaks against it.
i’ve tried on several occasions to end it but the only reason that i want to and have to is because of my beliefs. he respects me, i’m still pure and he respects that i am waiting until marriage. sad thing is we work together and its strenuous to stay separated when i call it off. i don’t function in church the way i used to because i feel guilty for breaking the unequally yoked rule. any advice or help is truely appreciated. if there is someone out there who has been in a similar situation please share!!!
hi lydi,
yes, i’ve been in the same experience when i fell in love w/a great man and he mutually was in love w/me as well. … but he wasn’t christian. in the beginning i made it clear to him that i would “casually date” non-christians but would never be exclusive w/a non-believer b/c that wouldn’t support my faith. i thought by stating that i’d be able to guard my heart, but i could not. basically we weren’t technically boyfriend & girlfriend, but in every way we were, waves of tension and anger about the situation would visit both of us. it caused us much anguish. i battled w/christian mentors about what that part of the bible really did mean- …”do not be yoked w/unbelievers”. my wise mentors knew that to leave it had to be MY choice and that i had to seek God myself and let the Holy Spirit guide my heart and mind. spiritually it was very clear to me and i felt to continue would not be in gods will for me. it was very very painful and still hurts when i think about it. but my choice, to choose god’s guiding, has really brought me closer to god and i do not doubt my choice b/c rather than taking someone elses answer i personally sought god out myself and have been given true counsel from Him. this is more concrete and was needed in order for me to face the pain of my heart. also, if you are a christian and have a relationship w/god, it is most likely that you would resent the unbeliever in the relationship b/c he is not your spiritual “leader” in the house and cannot share in the MOST critical relationship, the most satisfying and life-giving relationship. and there would be alot more tension accumulating with not honoring gods commandments- love the lord your god w/all your heart, mind, soul. i know it’s hard but the longer you wait, the harder it will be. seek god and ask him to speak to your heart and mind regarding the issue. that way it will be undeniable to you. god bless you and may his strength sustain you. your sister in Christ,
Jessie
As a non-Christian. I would like to say I am rather offended by some of presumptions written above.
I am attracted to a Christian girl I know and fully respect all her decisions and lifestyle options. I lead my life to be as morally pure as possible, as this is what I feel to be the most important thing in life.
Hey, I need help!!! I’m in a relationship with an Agnostic. We have been together for 4 months. Prior to that I just ended a 2 1/2 year relationship with someone in September. Because of that breakup, I found myself back on track with my faith and loving God more than ever. He has blessed me in so many ways with that breakup. Anyway, the guy I’m dating now, was a very close friend of mine, and we were on our college newspaper together in Fall 2007-Fall 2008 while I was still with my other ex. I made it clear many times that I would only date believers but he still persisted, like on Valentines Day, he left a teddy bear and a bag of Hot Cheetos (my fave. junk food) on my door, and I called and asked if it was him, and he told me to go outside and he was there playing a song for me on his guitar, and that’s how the relationship began. I went in that relationship thinking maybe he can come to Christ someday but he would tell me that he doesn’t think he could. Then a few weeks ago when the California Supreme Court rejected gay marriage, he was super-pissed and we were on the phone talking about it then started talking about religion, and he told me that he could never EVER believe in God or become a Christian, and that if he would ever go back to a religion, it would be Catholicism, which he grew up with. It really upset me and made me cry, because it tears me apart that he is not willing to have a relationship with JESUS, the BEST thing that happened to us humans, and God and Jesus are SOOOOO important to me, and I want to share that with someone, and it kills me inside that I can窶冲 share that with him. He grew up in a devoutly Catholic family, went to church and did all those traditions, but as a teen started experimenting with all these other religions. He was at one point a Christian and believed in God, but never really felt His presence so strayed away because he never really believed. Then he became a hardcore Atheist, and it was only recently he became Agnostic. He says that one of the biggest reasons he stopped believing is because of prejudice against homosexuals in the church and anyone who isn窶冲 a Christian (which is true a lot of times, but true followers of God will love and not prejudice). He also doesn窶冲 want to view the world in one way, and thinks Christianity will limit him to that. He is very respectful of different beliefs though, even more so than other Christians, which I love about him. However, he says that if faith makes you a better person, great, but it窶冱 not for him or everyone. And he thinks love is the only thing that matters in a romantic relationship (but God IS love!) Since then, I窶况e been so conflicted. The longer I stay, the more and harder the Holy Spirit pushes me to break up with him because I’m seriously falling away from God. I really want out because I was so much happier single and I was on fire for the Lord. Now I still go to church, college group, small group, but I窶冦 now always so hesitant because of the hints being dropped to me that I need to call it off. But I have so many fears in my head. I窶冦 afraid of deeply hurting him, especially because he is kinda emo with low self-esteem and has never had a girlfriend before, and he will hate God even more . We also have so much fun and good times together, and we talk and connect in so many ways, but the fact he doesn窶冲 have Jesus kills me and puts a thick wall between us. Also, he is actually more selfless and sacrificial than most Christians, and has done so much for me窶ｦ we drove all the way from Sacramento where we live to SF to see my best friend and we dropped her off 30 minutes away from SF, and he did ALL of the driving. He got us tickets to see All American Rejects, one of my fave. bands, when I found out they were coming to Sacramento and wanted to go. He treats me soooo well. He will do anything for me even if I don窶冲 expect or want him to. I窶冦 also afraid that my friends, his friends and family, will be angry at me, especially his best friend who is a Christian, but she tells me how I窶冦 sooo lucky to have a loving, caring guy like him, and that she would date him if she was straight. I don窶冲 know, I窶冦 just so confused, conflicted, depressed about it lately窶ｦI窶况e told 2 of my best friends and a few people at my small group but I feel like I窶冦 all alone, no one to turn to in this situation窶ｦand I feel super selfish and that I窶冦 treating him like shit and disposable because of it, but that is not the case窶ｦ I care about him but I don窶冲 know that this can go any longer窶ｦ I still wanna be friends but I worry that he won窶冲 want to窶ｦ
It’s such a hard decision whether to date a non christian or not. Everyone on this blog has different opinions, depending on how much they’re in love or heartbroken or lonely etc. Especially when you desire a loving relationship.
I resisted going out with a female friend of mine for 2 years (I’m christian, she’s not) but ended up dating and sleeping with her. We fell in love. It lasted 6 months then we broke up & it broke both our hearts. Thankfully, we are still friends.
I ended up sleeping with an old friend of mine to try and heal the heartbreak. Stupid. Meanwhile, she hooked up with another guy for the same reason. It lasted a month.
We didn’t have any contact for about 6 weeks until she asked me to look after her daughter for an hour or so. We had missed each other so much and ended up sleeping together again. Stupid again!
Anyway, the feelings of heartbreak came flooding back. We love each other but aren’t willing to commit to each other, for a variety of reasons.
She does drugs and drinks heavily, part of the reason I don’t want to commit fully to her. I wonder what I was doing dating her. Am I crazy? I feel like an idiot compromising my faith for the sake of falling in love with what I now believe was the wrong woman. I struggled with my faith/obedience to God while in this relationship and feel God has said to let her go to save my faith.
I’m 47 years old, she’s 37. I just wanted to let people know that love problems strike no matter how young/old people are.
Now I’m living day by day and letting the Lord heal my heart. I pray for her, her mum & her daughter that the Lord will call them to salvation. We will always be friends and I do hope that she will change one day. What a lesson, you’re never too old to learn something new.
I won’t give up on love, I’m trying to walk closer to the Lord. He knows the desires of our hearts. Amen to that.
i have just split with my fiance who i was with for coming up to a year. i first meet him when i got a new job and he was and still is on the same team, so we hooked up and i made it clear i cant be with a non~believer and that one day i wanted to marry and have kids (he has two sons from previous relationship). so anyway he came to church and it was all going brill, really thought i had found “the one”, he would join in at church etc and stop going out drinking and stuff and had never been so happy in the whole of his life (hes 30) he said that and his family and friend said the same. we did get intimate and i did start to fall away from God and alway have on my mind that i would go to hell but i knew we were getting married and it would all turn out ok, pushing everything to the back of my mind. we got engaged booked everything i even got my dress for next year, then all of a sudend he just got down finished it with me for a day we got back together. he also started crying when i was talking about jesus and what hhe did for us. he then still went to church but started going out again with his mate, which i have never stopped him doing. well he split again with me a month later for about a month this time.he stopped going church with me, at which point i was falling from God only had him on my mind all the time and that i needed to have sex with him to keep him, be more worldy. we got back together again and deep down i knew it was wrong then he split again yesterday as he dont love me, dont want kids and he dont believe. i now feel a fool to everyone. i love this person more then anyone, he was my best friend as well as my lover, but i feel God took him from me for a reason, and i need to put \god at the centre now and learn from what happened, one day he may come to know the lord. I feel so lonely now and all i want to do is to settle down and have a family to card for. with his kids i feel i lost a family as well as just him. i know it gonna be tough but i will find strength,
if any body can help me out
please post
blessing
sue
xxx
Wow…. well when you are “dating” you don’t know ANYTHING about the other person and 9 times out of 10 (if you are in FACT a christian) and you tell that person your beliefs…. THAT IS missionary dating and that is what GOD and Christ told you to do. Don’t deny the fact that you’re a christian. If they bolt, then great. If they want to know more, then great. If they want to keep seeing you and they want to learn more about your faith, then what the harm are you doing? NOTHING! My experience is…. and I have been single for a VERY long time is that almost EVERY date for me is a missionary date. I tell them off the bat my beliefs. I let the holy spirit GUIDE the evening and even if NOTHING comes of it. YOU planted the seed. Christ is VERY appealing I have found. Christ in you is more powerful than any of the “easy” girls or guys that your date will EVER encounter. You should enjoy being single. ENJOY the missionary dating scene. It’s fun. It’s encouraging. You’re sharing your faith. And heck, us girls can get a possibly free dinner out of it
wink Oh and by the way… nobody is perfect… not even christians. We all know that. Unbelievers like to point the finger and call us hypocrites if they know of any of our trespasses. You are just going to have to deal with that. But, God will use our mistakes to His advantage. Believe that. God makes a way. Let Him use you in your life. Every time you meet someone, say… God please use me. They’re expecting a date…. YOU are on a mission!!!
I have just recently experienced a similar situation with an unbeliever who I shared a mutual attraction with. Because of the strong EMOTIONS & FEELINGS we shared for each other almost instanteously and his willingess to attend church, even get baptized, I mistook the relationship to be from the Lord. After dating for several months even with his being consistent in church attendance I never saw a genuine interest in the Word of God or the things of God, just church attendance. The lesson I have learned in this situation is IF IT DOES NOT LINE UP WITH THE WORD OF GOD, it’s not God, no matter how strong the emotions. We may not always understand the tryings of our faith or the things that we feel or why we feel them, but we can be assured that God does not contradict his word. Feelings change, but the word of God does not. If he says “be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers”, you best believe it’s in your best interest to obey & not question. If we always have to have all our questions answered before we will trust & obey God, we can be certain that unnecessary heartache & pain will be our experience. Save yourself a broken heart & take God at his word; understanding he’s not trying to withhold anything from us. He really does know what’s best. In the end you will see that!
I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three months now. When I first met up with him, and we realised we liked each other, I was incredibly unsure about it and told him I’d sworn never to date a non-Christian. Disregarding these feelings however, I am now in a relationship. While he has high morals, more than some Christian guys I know, and says that he will never push me in anyway or tell me to give up my beliefs, I now feel like I’ve betrayed God. In the pat few days, I had been trying to determine what I was allowed to do physically according to the Lord in my relationship- he (my bf) said he didn’t mind what- it was all up to me. I found all this information on ‘being unevenly yoked’ and now feel like I’ve decieved myself. I’ve been talking to my bf for the past two days about it, and it is causing me such heart ache and pain. He doesn’t believe in God, and says that when God does show up he’ll pay 110% attention, but until then he has better things to do. The fact is, he and God are the most special things in my life at the moment and to think that they are both so seperate is causing many tears on my part, and little understanding on his. He keeps telling me to stop stressing, and how much he loves me, and how he wants a steady relationship with me but he can’t gurantee that until i ’sort the religious side out’. I want to be friends with him still and don’t want him to hate me, and I still have massive feelings for him. I can’t bring myself to admit to him that I’m thinking of ending it. I don’t know how to end it and still remain friends and that is causing me massive pain. I know what I’m meant to do. I just don’t know how to do it without making us both incredibly depressed.
I just got done dating a catholic. He believed in the Trinity, etc. but when I asked him if he was going to heaven, he said, “I’m a good person.” Over the course of the 4 months we dated, sarcasm came up. I started the relationship telling him I did not believe in sex before marriage or in dating an unbeliever, but he said he believed. We started to slip towards sex, and I told him we needed to slow down. And there were actually many times that he was the one who stopped things because he didn’t want me to feel guilty. But the sarcasm kept coming up. Three times, almost once a month. And each time I told him he was mocking me. And it hurt real bad, because Jesus is my life, he’s helped me so much. How do you explain that to an unbeliever, how can they share that joy with you? They can’t. He said he was sorry for being cynical, but he couldn’t mock if he believed. I would always wonder if he was just going to church for me, and how would he raise our kids. He wouldn’t look forward to going to Bible studies with me! But I was hoping he’d be saved. Well, we broke up. He ain’t going to church anymore. He ain’t changed. But it showed me WHY God doesn’t want us to date them. They are a curse to us, and we are a curse to them, straight up! Now that it’s over, I can see how I became more concerned about him getting saved and all the while I lost my joyful contact with God. Oh, I knew His will was NOT for me to be unequally yoked, but I was hoping God would change him for me, because God knew how much I wanted it. I didn’t break it off, because I felt foolish knowing the other person wouldn’t understand. But I had to go through this to understand why God says what He says. Hope this helps someone.
Hi,
Just want to share… My current bf used to be a non-believer. We were together for 6 mnths then we broke up because of our different beliefs. Somehow, God touched his heart and he now trusts the Lord and has become a christian. He converted because he truely believes God and God has been quite real in his life…
I guess my relationship is one of the “rare” success case? I just wish to encourage u guys to pray for ur other half..that God will touch his or her heart.
However, now, we are still facing some problems… He is struggling to curb his sexual needs because I don’t wish to do it before marriage. It’s so tiring, one problem after another.
I started liking this girl thats an athiest, she doesnt understand why i told her we couldnt be together. Ive tried to explain it to her but its just not working. She says that i should be with someone who makes me happy, which she does. Ah so much. I dont know how i can explain to her why i cant be with her. I need help and guidence..because i feel like im getting angry at God because its so unfair, and it hurts so much. I am extremely discouraged and frustrated. I know im not supposed to date an unbeliever, but i want to know why..because i dont fully understand why christians can not? I mean i know its not a good idea and there could be some major conflicts, but i am looking for a straight reason to why God doesnt want believers dating unbelievers?
Thanks
Dear Lana,
You are absolutely right. We can never give up or stop praying for our non beleiver family, friends, or signigicant others. Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice while we were still sinners. Prayer is one of the most powerful tools we have.
I can understand the difficulties you are having with your bf sexually. This is a major change in lifestyle to what he has always known. Encourage him that the reward will be great, in your relationship and more importantly in his personal relationship with God.
Pray that he keeps his eyes on Him, and his heart will remain pure.
God Bless,
Jodi
Every Christian woman I have dated has forced me to have sexual relations with her. I’m afraid I have turned my back on God. Also they have all cheated on me or have cheated on their boyfriends with me. What am I to do? I keep praying but I think I’m ready to call it quits on God. I’ve been much happier before I turned to God. I’m tired of being judged by fellow Christians because I’m not good enough for you! You look and judge all the time, I hate it! Christians have hurt me more than any other “NONBELIEVER”, they accept me and take me in. Christians want me to hate myself before God will accept me, I call BS on that! Thanks for ruining my life and I’m certain there is no hell or heaven! FU!
I thought unequally yoked was a king james version, which means god didnt write it or preach it, get a hold of yourself and stop lying to the people. God loves all, and he wants us all to be happy, whether we have the same beliefs or not. LOVE IS GOD, What gives you the right to judge. Lest not be hypocrites!
Dear Daniel,
You are clearly very angry. You have run into some people that were not a good representation of Christianity. Anyone who has judged you is going against a very basic Christian principal. The only question I have for you is, if you feel so betrayed by Christians than why did you decide to come to a Christian website? I am hoping that the answer is that in your heart God has touched you. You can feel this and you are yearning to be close to Him. But you are finding it hard to reconcile. He is speaking to you. You have been chosen, and yet the people that you think are supposed to be representing Him have fallen short. Daniel, please do not give up. God is so clearly trying to reach you. He is knocking on your door, louder than most. Find someone to talk to. Don’t leave it to chance. Look online, talk to people. He is call you home. Don’t miss His call.
Jodi
Christian singles Blog Moderator
Hi Daniel, it’s ok you don’t have to be angry anymore… some people who call themselves Christians are not really true Christians at all you don’t have to be affected by what they say to you… what’s important is you are right with GOD. And you will know in your spirit if you are because then you will have the peace that transcends all understanding. I’d like to be your friend and try to help you with your situation the best way I can. you can email me at stineyu@live.com GOD bless!
Irene, this is for you.. I feel bad that I came up to this website a little bit too late. I hope you can read me right now… God loves you much more than you can ever think.. It’s never too late for God. your time is not God’s time. Remember the promise God made to abraham? he had kids very late. Another thing Not everyone borns to have a family there is a reason for that too. Don’t forget what happened to Job. Job said the Lord gives the Lord takes may the name of the Lord be glorified.
He still praise God. No matter what happens You still not going to give up on your God. Please don’t think negative. This is exactly what the ennemy wants you to think. Repent on your thinking. Make a turn around with your faith. In your situation like that, if you keep up your faith by praising God Just like it is, there is a blessing in it. I will pray for you to keep your head up. NOTHING is impossible to God!!!!
Dear Daniel
Yes God wants us to be happy that is the reason you can NOT be with a person who is NOT a believer. This is for your own good. The unbeliever don’t see things the way you see them. Can’t talk the way you do, can’t think the way you do,therefore Can’t walk the way you walk. when there is a misunderstanding things can NOT work out.
there will be confusion and NO peace. would you like to have drama all your life? No God calls you to have PEACE more abundantly.
Reading thru all the blogs I have so much compassion for both sides of the relationship. I know I have to press on with Gods word, God says to not be yoked unevenly, hes trying to protect our hearts because hes our Father….