Christian Singles Articles
This category is all about Christian singles. Here you will find all types singles articles and life tips on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. Here you will find articles on single men, single women, single Christian parents, single girls, teens, well, I think you get the point. :)
Christian Singles Resources
No matter if you are a Millennial, Baby Boomer or a Senior Single, hopefully you will find these singles articles useful. There are dozens of articles to choose from including “Learning How to Argue and Fight“, Christian Girls Who Date Bad Guys”, “Fears that Keep Men and Women Single“, “How to Mend a Broken Heart” and many others.
Need for Singles Ministries
Why yet another singles ministry? It’s a known fact that many singles feel slighted when it comes to having their needs and questions answered in a traditional church setting. This was the whole reason why we created this site in 2006, back when online Christian Dating was taboo, and married couples in the US outnumbered singles. However according to pew research, there has been a dramatic shift. Since 2015, single adults now outnumber married couples, and their needs have only increased.
So if you are looking for anything singles related, this category is for you. Oasis Singles is dedicated to single of all stripes, whether they be single parents, Millennials, teens, baby boomers or Generation Xers.
Here you will find all types articles and dating advice on every topic of interest to singles of all ages. The Christian singles articles are interactive, so feel free to comment.
Dating an Ex’s Friend: The Pros and Cons
Let’s get right to the point: Dating an ex’s friend can be a messy affair. Dating within a circle of friends can sometimes lead to unexpected romantic connections. This scenario poses unique challenges and opportunities, especially for Christian singles who aim to navigate these relationships with integrity and respect for all parties involved. Below, we explore the pros and cons of such relationships from both a Christian woman’s and man’s perspective. Dating an ex’s friend From a Christian Woman’s Viewpoint:…
How to Break Up a Christian Dating Relationship
Need advice on how to break up a Christian dating relationship? A famous 50s break-up song gives us this little bit of dating advice on how to break up: “Breaking up is hard to do.” No, ya think? Whether you are a Christian single couple in a courtship or an online dating relationship, how you break up a relationship will be emotionally painful for both of you. If you are contemplating a break up of your dating relationship, considering the…
10 Things Christian Guys Do That Girls Love
Wondering what things guys do that girls love? In the world of dating and relationships, compatibility plays a significant role in forming lasting connections. For Christian couples, shared values and beliefs are often the cornerstone of a strong and fulfilling relationship. Christian guys who embody certain qualities and actions can be particularly attractive to Christian girls. In this article, we will explore ten things that Christian guys do that girls love, while also highlighting the importance of faith and virtue…
Do Not Be Unequally Yoked Meaning in Christian Dating
The term ” do not be unequally yoked” might sound archaic to those not familiar with its origins, but it’s still relevant, particularly within the context of Christian dating. Stemming from the Bible, specifically 2 Corinthians 6:14, the phrase reads: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”. In contemporary language, this relates to forming partnerships with those who don’t share the same faith and values. We…
Love-Shy Singles: How to Overcome Shyness
Are you one of those love-shy singles who doesn’t date because you’re timid? Are you single, shy and looking for love? Wish you knew how to overcome shyness? If you do, don’t be bashful about it because you’re in good company. According to Dr. Phillip Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, nearly 40% of singles are shy about asking someone out on a date. Love-Shy Singles Description A single person who is shy is often anxious (some have even been diagnosed with…
Christian Single Girls Who Date Bad Guys
Most Christian single women and men we surveyed feel that many girls seem to prefer to date “bad guys”. Yup, hands down most single girls (Christians included) would rather date Jack Sparrow, the pirate, than Richie Cunningham, the Happy Days all-around good guy. One depressed single Christian guy (I’m assuming he’s a good one) lamented: “I just don’t get it. Here I am, a sensitive, passionate Christian with a caring heart and a good job, but I can’t find a…
How to Deal with a Christian Date Who Takes Advantage of You
I hate the feeling of being taken advantage of. This becomes especially so when dealing with situations where a date takes advantage. Using the teachings of 1 Thessalonians 4:6, this article will explore effective strategies to handle such challenging scenarios with grace and assertiveness. Understanding 1 Thessalonians 4:6 Before delving into solutions, it’s vital to understand the biblical perspective provided by 1 Thessalonians 4:6, which cautions believers not to “wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.” This scripture…
Pathological Liars: Are You Dating a Liar?
Are you dating a pathological liar? Pathological liars are so good at lying that I pity the poor soul who is dating one, whether through an online Christian service like eHarmony, or some other way. What makes a pathological liar so different from every other big fat liar in a dating relationship? Psychologists feel the answer is found in a paradox: Pathological liars may actually believe the twisted stories they tell their dates, but at the same time know that…
Top 20 Dealbreakers in Christian Dating Relationships
In the search for love, Christian singles often navigate complex waters, balancing faith and feelings. This article explores the top 20 dealbreakers in Christian dating relationships from a biblical perspective. Understanding these dealbreakers is crucial for those looking to build relationships rooted in faith and mutual respect. We’ll delve into scriptural insights and practical advice to guide Christian singles in their dating journey. 1. Unequally Yoked Relationships 2 Corinthians 6:14 cautions against being unequally yoked with non-believers. This misalignment in…
Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs
What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What are signs of a healthy relationship when dating? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. signs you are in the right Dating Relationship Your dating interest (we assume he or she is a Christian) is growing more…
Fears That Keep Women And Men Single
There are many fears that keep women and men single. Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from that very goal. Furthermore, instead of meeting the love of their lives, they end up battling feelings of loneliness and frustration. So just what are some of the top fears single women and men face? A survey of several hundred singles revealed the following: Top 3 Fears of Single Women…
Body Language Flirting: How to Know When a Guy Likes a Girl
How do you know when a guy is flirting with you? What’s his body language when flirting? Understanding body language flirting is essential for Christian singles. What exactly is alpha male body language flirting? It’s basically a collection of all the nonverbal clues a guy (whether he be a Christian or not) gives out when he’s interested in a woman. Just to be clear, not all body language flirting is a conscious decision on the part of the single guy,…
Dealing with a Friend’s Betrayal: A Christian Single’s Guide
Dealing with a friend’s betrayal is one of the most heartbreaking things to go through. I can only imagine how Jesus felt when Judas betrayed him. Let’s face it, finding out that a friend has betrayed you can feel like a punch to the gut, right? And when you’re navigating life as a Christian single, these hits can sometimes feel even harder. But don’t worry, we’re here to walk through this together, with a little faith, a lot of heart,…
How to Get a Guy to Ask You Out: A Christian Singles’ Guide
Wondering how to get a guy to ask you out? Navigating the world of dating can be a complex and often daunting task, especially for Christian singles who are looking to find love in a way that aligns with their faith. For many Christian women, the question of how to encourage a guy to ask them out, while staying true to their values, is a common dilemma. This article aims to provide practical, faith-based advice for Christian singles on how…
First Date Do’s and Don’t’s
Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online dating services like eHarmony can be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together. There are a number of first-date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider: What will we do on our…
Older Men Dating Younger Women: A Christian Single’s Perspective
Older men dating younger women have a lot of stigmas associated with it. If you’re an older Christian man dating a younger woman, people may look at you as a “cradle robber” or “dirty old man”. A younger Christian single girl dating an older guy may be thought of as “a gold digger. Are you a single Christian man or woman thinking about dating someone older or younger than yourself? Many Christian singles are confused over the issue of dating…